bukatyne:


This thread was a discussion and he brought a very beautiful angle.

Women are women's worst enemies
Men are men's worst enemies....

Going by coco's first post.

Why focus on the women only?

Just to point out that people are wicked and it is not a gender thing..

OK...

babyosisi:
^^^^^

Bukatyne the thread is a hit

See

Lols

Hit of bashing

I will repent after This thread till further notice

Una well done here o.

I'm just passing by.............dey look for fuel.

pickabeau1:


once again you ladies miss the point

this thread.. you're the Op was about women castigating women.

Frances brought men in it and it was duly obliged

So once someone turns the spotlight on men then it's a problem Yet on threads talking about a woman getting beaten by her husband , husband cheating or such Nl men always turn it around and talk about how the women are verbally abusive too and blah blah, yet you have no problem with that. Does that mean if one is discussing one of the sexes now one must never use the other sex as a point of reference is that across broad or only a problem when it's perceived not to favour men

VictoriaBee:

Not forgetting your ugly face on your d.p.

is that a hole on your forehead?

well I think you need an intimacy gadget.....like maybe buzz of toy story, maybe a miracle will let you give birth to Mario .....fucking man hater ..

yet she wishes science will provide a way to cut men d*cks and sell them as real intimacy gadget..

get mortar pestle it will be able to do the job and keep you a bit relax

lolababe331e:


So once someone turns the spotlight on men then it's a problem Yet on threads talking about a woman getting beaten by her husband , husband cheating or such Nl men always turn it around and talk about how the women are verbally abusive too and blah blah, yet you have no problem with that. Does that mean if one is discussing one of the sexes now one must never use the other sex as a point of reference is that across broad or only a problem when it's perceived not to favour men

still missing the point
you ladies should take achil pill and review the thread

the OP mentioned is there any reason why WHY WOMEN SAY THEY ARE EACH OTHER'S ENEMIES not men saying this

the traits of backstabbing etc are not female but human traits..

you know what.. you win

Dheartless:

[s]is that a hole on your forehead?

well I think you need a intimacy gadget.....like maybe buzz of toy story maybe a miracle will let you give birth to Mario .....fucking man hater ..

yet she wishes science will provide a way to cut men d*cks and sell them as real intimacy gadget..

get mortar pestle it will be able to do the job and keep you a bit relax [/s]

Are you not done quoting me?

I struck a nerve?

You are ugly. deal with it.

thorpido:
Una well done here o.

I'm just passing by.............dey look for fuel.

30Litres for 9k

Home delivery

pickabeau1:


still missing the point
you ladies should take achil pill and review the thread

the OP mentioned is there any reason why WHY WOMEN SAY THEY ARE EACH OTHER'S ENEMIES not men saying this

the traits of backstabbing etc are not female but human traits..

you know what.. you win

Then the he pointed out the fact that both sexes are actually that way just that women tend to be judged more harshly. In what way was that an attack on men

Is his crime the fact that he chose make the discussion boarder and fairer saying it's a human problem

lolababe331e:


Gbam, he was simply pointing out that both sexes are guilty yet only women get labelled . That's not bashing but rather an objective assessment

This is the second time youare saying this...

The first sentence on his post stated that " women saying women were their worst enemies" was a misogynistic and sexist remark invented by men... imagine the contradiction, the thoughtlessness and crude stoopidity...
A man is responsible for statements women make...
That is like blaming the igbos for the hutu rampage

VictoriaBee:

Are you not done quoting me?

I struck a nerve?

You are ugly. deal with it.

when I am done,
you won't be mad anymore

flat screen forehead with a hole in the middle that looks like remote sensor

bukatyne:


30Litres for 9k

Home delivery

Abasi Mbok.Too cost na

babyosisi:
Anyway,work is over
Wish me safe driving y'all

Tomorrow now someone will talk about nagging women who run their mouths
Many men here seem to have higher estrogen level than many of us.

When i say most Nl men are sissies and pvssies posing as alpha males, i aint joking about that. There is a very bad spirit roving on Nl that seun should be very concerned about. There is a lot of nagging coming from the males than the females which proves one thing i have always thought about. Nairaland is a site of succour for heartbroken and frustrated men who are not able to express themselves in public. Dnt be surprised if alot of them are sociopaths in real life. All the ramblings here will not be counted as nagging or verbal abuse except a woman does it all. It only takes a man with a very high level of estrogen to have so much time in all these drama of words.. Truly, in real life outside Nl, such men are looked upon as sissies. Everything is sooo different on Nl. Its just so amusing that some males here are so concerned about the husbands some ladies here are married to. Could it be they aint getting enough love in real life and just need to let out some steam?

njokusboy:


This is the second time youare saying this...

The first sentence on his post stated that " women saying women were their worst enemies" was a misogynistic and sexist remark invented by men... imagine the contradiction, the thoughtlessness and crude stoopidity...
A man is responsible for statements women make...
That is like blaming the igbos for the hutu rampage

I wonder why it is so difficult for them to see this..

njokusboy:


This is the second time youare saying this...

The first sentence on his post stated that " women saying women were their worst enemies" was a misogynistic and sexist remark invented by men... imagine the contradiction, the thoughtlessness and crude stoopidity...
A man is responsible for statements women make...
That is like blaming the igbos for the hutu rampage

That's like women coming here and saying it was an attack because the OP said women are their own worst enemies Instead most of the females came in and simply said if they agreed or not and gave reasons but they didn't act like it was an attack because it's simply a point of view just like his. the men should have simply explained why they think it wasn't men who started the saying. He said it was a sexist remark and explained why, then those who disagreed should have simply said why they didn't think so instead they started insulting him The problem is a lot of people here simply cannot have mature conversations devoid of insults. Any view contrary to theirs is seen as a attack

VictoriaBee:

She was supporting men.

She thinks licking men butt and getting validation fron NL guys would mean she has a happy home whereas, she's a frustrated housewife.

lol.vicky you are very stupid

@she was supporting men.you are also foolish with fish brain.

You see when i said you are a fustrated she-goat you think it was a joke.

Funny comment.so tony is asslicking 2?

thorpido:
Abasi Mbok.Too cost na

You be my brother in service?

Abaide?

OK na, let me add subsidy and pay N10 per liter for you.

Your bill is N6,700 only.

And don't tell me okuku ibaha (hope I yam right )

pickabeau1:


I wonder why it is so difficult for them to see this..

They do see it, the old ones atleast..

oloyede252:

lol.vicky your very stupid

@she was supporting men.your also foolish. With fish brain.

You see when i said your a fustrated she goat u think it a joke.

Funny comment.so tony is asslicking 2?

Your writeup is unreadable.

Get an education, ASAP.

Gracias!

njokusboy:


They do see it, the old ones atleast..

Ok oh...men have always been blamed for all women's woes anyway// so no be today

Goodnight people.

Word of advice to everyone who frequents this section, one can have civilized discussions even when you have opposing views without insults. The trend of making personal attacks to those with an opposing view is very childish

lolababe331e:
Goodnight people.
Word of advice to everyone who frequents this section, one can have civilized discussions even when you have opposing views without insults. The trend of making personal attacks to those with an opposing view is very childish

Really hmmm

bukatyne:


Don't be stupid old man

Your wife is beautiful and I acknowledge that. Her gown was also lovely... me likey her complexion also very nice.

I would compliment her as many times as you post.

Doesn't change the fact about you.

I can love your dog and hate you.

Go figure.

And I thought you were still lifting my posts from that thread.

You know one of the reasons I called you an hypocrite?

You quoted a portion to husbands to prove my husband is overworked yet you dis not post the portion to wives which says the same thing and would show I am also overworked.

If you want an apology, apologise first for calling my thread sickly and calling my husband beta... This is neither the first nor second time.

I am the shrew amongst us yet I would not call your wife names.

Nope, you clearly started it - I entered to offer my heartfelt congratulations on your anniversary, and merely teased you about the thread - the joke you yourself laughed at the last time I made it.

You then said I "lacked common sense", and followed that up by calling me dim-witted". Both of which I ignored 'cos I know how bristly you can be. You then jumped on another post of mine and had a dig at my wife/womenfolk.

Having said all that, I could have been more benign. I appreciate that you are rightly defensive of your spouse and don't appreciate him being ridiculed. I was also a little mean to you. But you you didn't do too badly in dealing with it.

You have been complimentary to my wife - and kids - and a kind word turns away anger. I unreservedly apologise for having a go at your hubby and being mean to you.


Have a good night


TV

^{...any pics ? It's been over a year na?}

Someone is viewing o! you know yourself.

I yam not like This...

Outside This thread.

lolababe331e:


That's like women coming here and saying it was an attack because the OP said women are their own worst enemies Instead most of the females came in and simply said if they agreed or not and gave reasons but they didn't act like it was an attack because it's simply a point of view just like his. the men should have simply explained why they think it wasn't men who started the saying. He said it was a sexist remark and explained why, then those who disagreed should have simply said why they didn't think so instead they started insulting him The problem is a lot of people here simply cannot have mature conversations devoid of insults. Any view contrary to theirs is seen as a attack

Accusing one of sexism and chauvinism is actually an attack... claiming it's not, is kinda patronising...
Anyway, back to the point....
A man does not even come into the picture at all.... what's the relationship between " women saying that they were their own enemies" and chaunvinism/sexism from males... Isn't it supposed to be a discourse centred around why women think so...
It's as foolish as saying the yorubas in Nigeria are responsible for the crises in the middle east...
Only one with an intent to ridicule the male gender would bbring them in...

If you don't understand by now, then no further explanation is necessary, by all means, let the mudslinging continue.....

ehen! the mad child has healed, guys please continue with your discussions, I am learning....honestly speaking. ..I am learning

lolababe331e:
Goodnight people.

Word of advice to everyone who frequents this section, one can have civilized discussions even when you have opposing views without insults. The trend of making personal attacks to those with an opposing view is very childish

you have spoken well....
i still don't understand all these personal attacks. why can't everyone just get along? why can't they be like you & i - law abiding citizens of this forum?

TV01:

Nope, you clearly started it - I entered to offer my heartfelt congratulations on your anniversary, and merely teased you about the thread - the joke you yourself laughed at the last time I made it.

You then said I "lacked common sense", and followed that up by calling me dim-witted". Both of which I ignored 'cos I know how bristly you can be. You then jumped on another post of mine and had a dig at my wife/womenfolk.

Having said all that, I could have been more benign. I appreciate that you are rightly defensive of your spouse and don't appreciate him being ridiculed. I was also a little mean to you. But you you didn't do too badly in dealing with it.

You have been complimentary to my wife - and kids - and a kind word turns away anger. I unreservedly apologise for having a go at your hubby and being mean to you.


Have a good night


TV

Anytime I see a Good thing, I always compliment whenever I can.

My apologies for my mean posts too.

Regards to your family.

Anyways, to add to the topic inspite of it being successfully derailed, humans (both males and females) have been their worst enemies from time immemorial. Several events in human history have proven that. The reason that phrase came up is because women have used their emotions and inadequacies to bring each other down In the most ridiculous and petty ways that shocks everyone and they tend to take matters way tooo far!! women love to compete for frivolous reasons that involve men , the same men who dnt really give a damn. and this is why it is shocking. When men knock their heads to start a fight amongst them, they play right along and cause a tsunami. SMH. Only women with extremely low self esteem bring down other women. It is that low self esteem that is the problem. If you notice very well, women who feel deficient in any way, be it beauty, character, social class, e.t.c are guilty of being enemies to their fellow women.

I am quite selective in making female friends. I love to associate with females with high self esteem because i learn a whole lot from them and they are drama free. Once i smell any sign of the opposite, i take off.

Lets just say that men become their own worst enemies once a group decides to deflate their fellow men Ego. Men compete for different reasons and go about it differently from women.

In conclusion...Some NL women don't like women be discussed in a 'bad light' , so why bring up the Topic atall?

If you're asked to write a paper to discuss same topic and you digressed into comparism... You know the consequences.

Are women their own worst enemies? : True or false , your take. Simple oh.

Sophyrocks:




When i say most Nl men are sissies and pvssies posing as alpha males, i aint joking about that. There is a very bad spirit roving on Nl that seun should be very concerned about. There is a lot of nagging coming from the males than the females which proves one thing i have always thought about. Nairaland is a site of succour for heartbroken and frustrated men who are not able to express themselves in public. Dnt be surprised if alot of them are sociopaths in real life. All the ramblings here will not be counted as nagging or verbal abuse except a woman does it all. It only takes a man with a very high level of estrogen to have so much time in all these drama of words.. Truly, in real life outside Nl, such men are looked upon as sissies. Everything is sooo different on Nl. Its just so amusing that some males here are so concerned about the husbands some ladies here are married to. Could it be they aint getting enough love in real life and just need to let out some steam?

I am telling thee
Imagine a man asking females,people's wives if they are pregnant yet
What nerve !!
And actually thinks it is appropriate to ask such a stoopid question
Isn't that what you expect to hear from illiterate wicked toothless mothers in law in the village
Anyway

VictoriaBee:

Your writeup is unreadable.

Get an education, ASAP.

Gracias!

lol. No vex,



about education.dont you think its a good idea to suspend your nl acc during this exam period.....