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Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 12:33am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: She must have feminist tendencies to agree to this, this is not a traditional setting |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 12:39am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: madam kimoni, she makes more money. he cannot afford to bear the cost. she's a boss - which means she's high maintenance. feminism doesn't come into play here at all. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 12:45am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar, my money is my money; his money is our money. That's the recipe for a good marriage. If you must marry the boss, you must be ready to maintain the boss |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 12:48am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: i like your honesty.
she married him. yes, he made the move. yes, he did the so called toasting but she encouraged him to make the move. 1 Like |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 12:55am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar:
She encouraged him cuz she liked him(no crime in that) but it doesn't absolve him of his responsibilities. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:03am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: of course, nothing wrong with that.... all i am saying is - she knows his finances before going ahead with him. his resources are limited. i am not saying he should freeload on her completely.....his share shouldn't be more than 33% until he gets promoted. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:08am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: I still don't agree with this part...or maybe I doubt understand you he should be responsible for the total upkeep, but of course as far as his salary can go. If the standard is not up to what she desires(most likely it won't), she is then free to make any adjustments from her personal pay. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:10am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: hehe! so if the expenses are about N500k, he should use up his monthly salary of N370k completely before going to ask the wife for the remainder? 2 Likes |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:11am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: Now you are talking. God bless you brother! |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:12am On Jun 10, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:17am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: . ....l know He won't go and ask for the reminder - that would be demeaning He would go as far as he can go with his 370k, if she is not satisfied with the standard of what his 370k can afford, she would then support in her personal capacity. Surely, there can't be a more supportive wife than this naa |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:22am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: i expect this guy to start losing weight once the novelty of the honeymoon wears off. his N370k per month would just disappear like that? are you aware he might have dependent relatives to care for?
however if we reverse the roles, the husband still has to pay up the entire expenses as the highest earner? i knew what i was saying when i said being a man in the 21st century is a criminal offence. it's lose-lose both ways. 3 Likes |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:25am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: Why does this sound familiar |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:32am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: It didn't disappear, he is taking care of his wife, other half, his family. And guess what, he won't lose weight, she will be doing all the cooking for him
Definitely! he is the head Coogar, always remember that. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:37am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: so what would this woman be doing with her own salary? peruvian hair & fixing acrylic nails? a man subjected to this kind of torture would lose his appetite permanently. it doesn't matter who cooks......even if it's gordon ramsay.
of course, he would have been the head if he's marrying a woman earning N180k per month. in this case, he is not the head, he's a tail.........a tadpole's tail if i may add. 1 Like |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:44am On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: What she earns or does with it is a non-issue and nobody's business but hers, as long as she is fulfilling her wifely duties at home
His wife's pay has nothing to do with his headship. His pay and ability to provide is what makes him the head. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 1:45am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Woged, sorry for derailing. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogar: 1:53am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni: and here lies the problem..... she would be hard pressed to fulfil her wifely duties. staff meetings, AGMs, seminars across the globe, training, etc. so it's lose-lose to the dude.
but in this case, he has reached beyond his station. there's no way he can afford the high maintenance wife. his level is honda accord, wife's level is porsche cayenne. 2 Likes |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by cococandy(f): 3:18am On Jun 10, 2015 |
@coogar why surprised? if you say the one that makes sense I'll agree na. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by coogaluta(f): 4:26am On Jun 10, 2015 |
Kimoni "My money is my money, HIS money is OUR money" Words of wisdom 2 Likes |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by damiso(f): 10:48am On Jun 10, 2015 |
at the exchanges between Kimoni and Coogar. coogar its true o his money is our money, my money is my money. But jokes apart it can work depending on both their mindsets going into the marriage. And if she is a cool girl, I think the guy needs more psyching up. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by funlord(m): 11:14am On Jun 10, 2015 |
All this salary and degree crap no matter abeg! Na from BEDROOM I go decide |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 6:02pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
coogar: The higher up you go, the more flexible your time is. Besides, you can afford to outsource some of your duties eg cooking, cleaning, washing
Once he gets to this stage, she supports. In your example, she will buy herself the Porsche cayenne, in addition to the Honda Accord he bought for her. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Kimoni: 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
damiso: I think this is the key factor. Both of them have to have that understanding that he is the key provider for the home. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by freecocoa(f): 6:12pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
One person's to be transferred, I don't see why this should be an issue. Work is work and home is home. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by dinachi(m): 6:23pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
That marriage is a disaster waiting to happen. |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
YES I CAN |
Re: Candid Respones Pls! Guys, Can You Marry Your Female Boss In The Office? by austine4real(m): 7:46pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Oh yes there's no big deal in it
I knw u'r d gal |
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