ndidibabe:
Just because you are in a haste to ride his Peniss, that is the reason you chose to marry his Photo? Even if the Man can not afford a flight ticket to Nigeria, incapacitated or not allowed to leave work, what stops you from fixing an appropriate day for the wedding? It's shameful to marry this way. I consider it a total disregard for your parents and our culture.

My friend ZIP THAT TRASH CAN OF A MOUTH. You don't even know the nature of the guys job or how everything went down una own Na just to dey fire person carelessly. SHE DID WHAT WAS BEST FOR HER!!!

cococandy:

that my marriage makes me happy doesn't mean I was an unhappy single person.
I was a very happy single lady by the way.

Saying that being married shouldn't be a key to judge who's happy or not is, is not the same as saying that married people are unhappy or that marriage is a guarantee for happiness. I don't know why you like to think in the extreme.

All these generalizations are unnecessary. Given that you're single yourself, I would be justified to assume you're unhappy if I follow your logic huh?

You have every reason to take me seriously.
Some people's marriages have turned their lives to living hell while some are lucky to find a balance in their previous levels of happiness and others have been blessed to be even happier based on how the marriage is working out for them.

The reality is not the same for everyone.

you are missing the point!
were you 34 when you were single? don't compare yourself to linda abeg. linda is almost 40.

INTROVERT:
Berra am single than perform this public show of shame.

mind ur words babe. Meanwhile, I'm happy for d portrait's girl. Her happiness is more important!!

She fought that her fight-back is making millions for. Linda... Keep on

Wait is this instagram, facebook, twitter or is it China made instagram lol. Its phoney. OP nice try

abeg why would one marry a portrait? is the Guy dead or alive? cos this is ridiculous... na must say you go marry?

Yea well not everyone who's above thirty and single is unhappy.

Stop assuming on her behalf.

coogar:


you are missing the point!
were you 34 when you were single? don't compare yourself to linda abeg. linda is almost 40.

cococandy:
Yea well not everyone who's above thirty and single is unhappy.

Stop assuming on her behalf.

they are all unhappy.....
they are just coping with the situation & pretending to be happy. suffering & smiling!!!

GoTV:


ARE YOU A VIRGIN IF NOT YOU HAVE NO MORAL JUSTIFICATION TO COUNSEL HER ON WHERE SHE CHOSE TO COMMENT ON RIDING DICK. IF YOU YOURSELF HAVE TASTED SEX IN PRIVATE OUT OF MARRIAGE, THEN YOU SHOULD SHUT UP YOUR SMELLY GUTTER YOU CALL MOUTH

M.E.A.N B.A.S.H.I.N.G M.A.C.H.I.N.E .

coogar:
hahaha!
shots fired.......she went ham on linda.

"I don't blame Linda though, she's in her 30s and still single."

this girl has punchlines for days.

It is only in Africa that a woman's life measured by the fact that she has a man to call a husband or not. I would rather prefer a woman to be Single and influential as Oprah than be married and be miserable like some women out there. Marriage is not a criteria to measure the success of a woman.
Shalom.

RaeMystix:


At first I thought I was responding to a mature and grown adult with some sense, but hey I was wrong. You aren't the type I intend on having conversations with online.
I can't stand fools such as yourself; people like you make my skin crawl...You are disgusting and a disgrace to your yourself and loved ones for making such a comment.

Goodbye

This is more proof that you are actually a virgin (no offence)

coogar:


they are all unhappy.....
they are just coping with the situation & pretending to be happy. suffering & smiling!!!

Says the single guy.

Why should I take you seriously?

Emmayur:

It is only in Africa that a woman's life measured by the fact that she has a man to call a husband or not. I would rather prefer a woman to be Single and influential as Oprah than be married and be miserable like some women out there. Marriage is not a criteria to measure the success of a woman.
Shalom.

every heterosexual woman desires to be loved by a man. oprah winfrey has a man that she's been sleeping with since 1986 & they are still together. technically, she's like a married woman but without a wedding ceremony! so your analogy has no legs to stand on!

cococandy:

Says the single guy.
Why should I take you seriously?

hahahaha
stop assuming!

She is right. Make u na mind u na bizness. Make una leave matter for Mathias and sabi for Sabinus.

I'm so amazed when I realized that you guys are seeing diz 4 the first time. #sowie_case. I'v seen diz bak in 2001.

Tola don become popular through her wedding. It's a win win for her

Re u sure dat d guy in d portrate is d same guy up dere?...well its her life let her live it.

[quote author=coogar post=35718163]

every heterosexual woman desires to be loved by a man. oprah winfrey has a man that she's been sleeping with since 1986 & they are still together. technically, she's like a married woman but without a wedding ceremony! so your analogy has no legs to stand on!

Having sexual intercourse with a person if the opposite sex is never the same thing as being married, same is been loved by someone of the opposite sex. Marriage is different from having a guy sleep with a woman for 100 years. Common man, we both know that I am right with this analogy. So Oprah Winfrey having a man in her life who pleasures her sexually does not mean she is married. She is rich and influential so she can have that kind of relationship without having to live her life under the control of any African man who will want to put His selfish desires ahead of her own. I love the concept of marriage but it must not be criteria to judge women who have done well for themselves.

The truth is most women will be better off without a husband!!

INTROVERT:
Berra am single than perform this public show of shame.

G
I see nothing shameful here afterall she didn't ask linda to post it on her Blog, Dude's overseas and They'll do the wedding proper there. What's wrong with that?

The very day humans, especially Nigerians would begin to mind their own business, that is the day things will get better.
If she gets married to a portrait, her stress man... it ain't got nothing to do with me. Besides she would be living and riding the portrait not you or i!!
PS: My 2 cent tho

No na

funmijoyb:

r u mocking me?

Emmayur:

Having sexual intercourse with a person if the opposite sex is never the same thing as being married, same is been loved by someone of the opposite sex. Marriage is different from having a guy sleep with a woman for 100 years. Common man, we both know that I am right with this analogy. So Oprah Winfrey having a man in her life who pleasures her sexually does not mean she is married. She is rich and influential so she can have that kind of relationship without having to live her life under the control of any African man who will want to put His selfish desires ahead of her own. I love the concept of marriage but it must not be criteria to judge women who have done well for themselves.

fact remains oprah has been sleeping with only one man for almost 30 years. if you remove the technicality of a signed document & a marriage ceremony, she's not different from a married woman. hell, some marriages don't even last 2 years yet we are talking about a 30-year romantic relationship. fact remains oprah has a man.....a constant man in her life!

The truth is most women will be better off without a husband!!

those "most women" must have definitely married the wrong partner. a marriage where mutual love reigns is the best place for every straight woman. don't use the "unhappiness" in failed marriages to compare.

Women should help men to start respecting them. This our d..k sha, na big problem for "womendom".

Marriage is not a do or die affair. My parents have been married for abt 35 years with a united, happy and succesful family. Few years back we learnt dey both were not present on their marriage day due to their job engagements and dat never had any thing to do with how long they've come. Love is the crux of every union. Dont take pills when there is no headache.

Naija girls fit marry ordinary plastic chair as long as e gi take them abroad. Dem no mind


Choi.

See as she dey cut the moi moi abi na cake come smile joïn.

nebukadnezzari:


My friend ZIP THAT TRASH CAN OF A MOUTH. You don't even know the nature of the guys job or how everything went down una own Na just to dey fire person carelessly. SHE DID WHAT WAS BEST FOR HER!!!

Look at your life. Nature of job indeed. Even he is a soldier at war, won't the war end for him to honour his wedding. I can't regard any lady that is married this way. That lady is a desperado . However, that's my opinion and it doesn't mean that the lady and her photograph are not happily married.

coogar:


fact remains oprah has been sleeping with only one man for almost 30 years. if you remove the technicality of a signed document & a marriage ceremony, she's not different from a married woman. hell, some marriages don't even last 2 years yet we are talking about a 30-year romantic relationship. fact remains oprah has a man.....a constant man in her life!



those "most women" must have definitely married the wrong partner. a marriage where mutual love reigns is the best place for every straight woman. don't use the "unhappiness" in failed marriages to compare.

Since Oprah is not married doe that mean she should be looked down on?? What if Linda Ikeji has a man in her life that we do not know of?
Mind you, being with a man or woman for a day or 100 years and sharing things with them does not make you married.

I still insist that being married is not yard stick to qualify or quantify successful women or the level of their success.

Emmayur:


It is only in Africa that a woman's life measured by the fact that she has a man to call a husband or not. I would rather prefer a woman to be Single and influential as Oprah than be married and be miserable like some women out there. Marriage is not a criteria to measure the success of a woman.
Shalom.

[size=14pt]Yes - its only in Africa - and yes thats because we are Africans and this is how things are done here. We have to realize that no matter how advanced we may have become, we still and will always carry our identify as Africans- and that must be respected. The west does not see anything wrong with being single at a certain stage- we do and we should not condemn the west neither should we be cos its their way and its our way ; they do not see annything wrong with a man calling another man "husband" or a woman calling another wife'- we do- Its their way- and its our way.

I absolutely agree with you that marriage is a not a measure of success but i will put it to you that neither are money and career alone. In my opinion, success is really intrinsic. Most women stay single and appear to be happy but have a feeling of emptiness deep inside (same for men). Marriage is also a test of one's ability to tolerate and compromise- which I believe is esesntial for human co-existence. Some women do not get married because of situations beyond their control- this is understandable- but a woman who has no such circumstances and chooses to be single, in my opinion, needs help[/size]

Setaje:



Don't mind this idi0ts that just talk anyhow. I went for a wedding like that and I still have the pictures. The guy is an American soldier and was serving somewhere in d middle east. They kept on postponing the wedding until it was getting to much. They had to do the wedding in absentia. Right now the girl is wiv him in yankee.

You are not making any sense. Let's even assume the lady's husband is the American soldier. The fact that he couldn't appear at their wedding and the lady has already rushed down to the middle east to ride his pennis is quite shameful.

coogar:

what makes you think linda is even happy at all?

lol,ur punchlines will mk smone think over her life again

InMyOpinion:


[size=14pt]Yes - its only in Africa - and yes thats because we are Africans and this is how things are done here. We have to realize that no matter how advanced we may have become, we still and will always carry our identify as Africans- and that must be respected. The west does not see anything wrong with being single at a certain stage- we do and we should not condemn the west neither should we be cos its their way and its our way ; they do not see annything wrong with a man calling another man "husband" or a woman calling another wife'- we do- Its their way- and its our way.

I absolutely agree with you that marriage is a not a measure of success but i will put it to you that neither are money and career alone. In my opinion, success is really intrinsic. Most women stay single and appear to be happy but have a feeling of emptiness deep inside (same for men). Marriage is also a test of one's ability to tolerate and compromise- which I believe is esesntial for human co-existence. Some women do not get married because of situations beyond their control- this is understandable- but a woman who has no such circumstances and chooses to be single, in my opinion, needs help[/size]

In as much as everyone has their own culture, I think people need to evolve especially when it comes to the issues bordering on marriage. True success is when any man is at peace with him or her self, when he or she had attained goals they had set.... not marriage or anything material / physical.