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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
DuchessLily: I dont cheat too... If I did I wouldn't be making such rules. And she won't be obeying those rules if she caught me cheating. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 4:55pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Whobedatte: u say this because u dont cheat on ur spouse. i have heard several people say here that wifes should not be snooping around their husbands phone. isnt it because there are so many incriminating things in here? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 5:16pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
abbey621: .. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by bigfly: 5:22pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
egobetatoday: Anybody that claims that wife/husband should not check phone must be a big cheat.... Many may avoid checking their partners phone out of respect while others avoid it to avoid seeing what may compromise their love for their pertners or to avoid headache. Sometime marriage is like a religion, you don't wanna hear, read or listen to what will shake ur faith therefore, u avoid anything that that can lead to that. It is only a person that has alot to hide that padlock his/her phone. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 5:29pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ibsgal:the reason why every sane man should marry a virgin,atleast all this Ex factors won't happen,any shameless lady that open her legs to a man who haven't paid her bride price is capable of anything in marriage...b!tches everywhere,I pity some men who settles for another mans crumbs in the name of marriage,nonsense! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by bigfly: 5:30pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
egobetatoday: Yes it is, but incase of cooking the husband has warned her weeks ago against the guy. I don't know why people will just hide under one excuse to cover-up bad did. The woman in question has even realised her mistake that was why she quickly covered it up not knowing her husband will find out. I will advice u to go and read their explanation severally b4 we take side, this is not a case of male vs female or ego thing my sister, it is a serious thing that many can learn from. The man has his fault big time, but the woman has passed the boundary that any reasonable guy can accept. Read both stories and and judge accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 5:40pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
F50: I don't beat, I kill!!! tho not married yet@35. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by jannies: 5:41pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
abbey621: Did u read this line at all - 'if she is cheating on you to do that, it is obviously wrong' ? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by misspicy(f): 5:49pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Daslim180 you are a replicate of freelance777... I pray your future wife does not suffer the same fate as treese. Wicked |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 5:53pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
pretydiva:what more proof does he need,the op should send the b!tch parking...nonsense lady,some men can tolerate sha. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by udysweet(f): 5:57pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Wish I had something to contribute here but I'm lost for words. Read a couple of very wonderful pieces of advise. I guess @ op needs to add dem up and mak his conclusions. So help you God |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by fexyrich(m): 5:59pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Something is definitely wrong with you and the person you supported..your brain needs real resetting..what a useles and senseless advice.. Tobiegal: 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 5:59pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
pls if u have to judge, judge rightly. did u see where she wrote that when she brings up an issue, the guy increases the volume of his music?.i dont know why several people here think its all her fault. what will u pple gain if this marriage breaks up? For Gods sake how is she supposed to understand her husband if he doesnt open up for her to understand. kai God oooo....Marriage!? why is it that no man pointed out to the guy that he removing his wedding ring was wrong no matter how bad the was? why is it that no one pointed out to the guy that tit for tat is wrong? pls any man considering marriage should know that your wife will only follow how u lead so lead aright. but i keep wondering how men think a leader should behave. christ said a leader is actually a servant. How on earth will love grow in this home if the man is not ready to communicate with his wife when yhere is an issue? how will they ever solve issues? if u want to be a leaders then be a leader in deed. a leader leads by example. also has any man reacted to the fact that this man has been communicating with his ex...who knows what happened too. i am not saying she is right but saying both of them have their part in this issue. i can only advocate that they settle this issue. the lady should stop everything the husband dislikes. i was really pissed off when i read her husband said she went to her ex house to cook. Ex?... Ex's House? thats a no no. A far as i know keeping communication with exes have only negative effects on a home but i know men will not agree with this. they think its only bad for a home when the wife is the one communicating with an ex. @ OP, sir i beg u with God kindly sort this issue out with ur wife. Divorce hurts both parties. pls for the children sake. if u both accept that u arent perfect u'll both solve this issue. May God give u the wisdom to lead your home. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:00pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
cococandy:instead of cheating or getting carried away to bed another fellow,it will be better divorce him and follow the one she loves,after all divorce is normal these days....and this is the reason most men don't stree themselves to get married. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:14pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Tobiegal:birds of the same feather |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:18pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
repogirl:smh |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by fexyrich(m): 6:18pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Something is definitely wrong with you and the person you supported..your brain needs real resetting..what a useles and senseless advice.. Tobiegal: |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by favourmic(m): 6:24pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
naijadeyhia: correct.. we go send her back sharply make she go join her papa we dont want her again |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:25pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
repogirl:maybe you comport yourself to avoid unnecessary suspicion from your husband that's why he trusts you, but the op s wife is a direct opposite of you that's why he is worried. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:34pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
sonofananimal1:you are always correct,you always hit the nail on the head,mind you I'm your big fan |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Youngpo413: 6:37pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
ahsekeena:the b!tch in wife disguise should be dumped. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Youngpo413: I don't know why u are quoting me and calling someone's wife a beetch,do u think u and I share the same idea? Please,u can make a comment without quoting me,thanx |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by favourmic(m): 7:00pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
all this nah stupid and useless story, this thing is simple kindly beg your husband you're sorry be honest with your self, if truly you love him to be honest you're very wrong, so fucking wrong how can you go ahead and cook for your ex? how can you be telling your ex the challenges you face in your husband house? who force you to get married? All this wedding ring self nah marriage stupidity so because your husband off his ring then you off yours? so nah because of the ring you get married right? i don't believe this story at all... |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by phreakabit(m): 7:11pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Her account of his indecent conversations and encounters with girls online was vague and banal. There wasn't any clear cut description or mention of a particular incident. I call BS, just one of the many emotional blackmail girls always use. 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by phreakabit(m): 7:15pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
misspicy: I pray he doesn't get a cheat like Treese for a wife. 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 7:20pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
abbey621: did u read the pwrt she said the guy doesnt want to participate in discursions? that he increases the volume of his music? 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 7:29pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Brother, this is a family issue, and I'd advice to treat it as such, with utmost maturity and respect. I bet you, how you're able to handle this situation, will go a long way in determining how your wife sees and respects you. Sir, i respect u for this intelligent comment. i will reiterrate that the way he handles it will determine how ur wife sees u. he needs not be harsh but firm. but also if he isnt faithful himself how will this work ? Finally, I'd like you to see this as a second chance to do something honourable. Take this chance, and save your marriage. @OP pls save ur marriage. u are a head to direct and lead not to break. Don't mind these guys advising you to do otherwise.. They've never been married, so they wouldn't know. There's no such thing as "Oh, I feel your pain" or "I understand". You can never really feel that pain of just throwing away your marriage, until you experience it yourself. Brother, show this lady why you're the man and why she should respect you forever. Go and make things right. Everybody deserves a second chance. In conclusion brother, I'd advice you guys round off this 'talk' with at least, a very hot round of sex. It's very important. Trust me. Good luck. Cc: Freelance777[/quote] |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by abbey621(m): 7:32pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
egobetatoday: It's no excuse! A guy that's willing to share his personal affairs on Nairaland shows that he's deeply concerned, he hasn't given up on his wife yet. Women are fond of making excuses such as he's not approachable, he won't listen and he doesn't have time; the reality is there were better options available to her than confiding in another man! Maybe I'm just old school but some things are just not done when married! 1 Like |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Goldenboy007(m): 7:58pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
ideykwum: What da heck are you talking about ? There are times I wish I will read and don't comment because of puerile responses like this. As much as I criticize the modern day feminism, I realize that some people are called men by virtue of reproductive organs. What do you know about marriage or how many years of marriage do you have? Your demunitive intelligence did not dictate decorum to you when expressing an opinion in a public forum? Lack of exposure has robbed you of objectivity which you have gladly replaced with egocentric tantrums! I do not blame you for the condescending reply...the rain has allowed the eagle and chicken to share a common abode. Nonsense !!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Youngpo413:ohh thank you. You just make my day. |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by egobetatoday: 8:47pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
Brytawon: Sir, i salute u for ur intelligent advice. pls how do pple get phlegmatics to talk self because I'm thinking that will really be a hard nut to crack. if a guy sees himself as perfect and doesnt have any fault, what should the lady do? |
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by bigfly: 8:52pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
abbey621: I v been asking d girl ds question, is it his unapproachable attitude that makes her to save ex number with code, makes her to roll with a neighbor despite her husband's warning, made her to cook for him and lied to her husband about it, made her to keep communication with her ex, made her to wear her wedding ring out in the morning only to keep it in d glove compartment. Ladies just like this usless solidarity thing even if it does not make sense. Even their own husband can't take half of this things. 1 Like |
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