you should be happy he wears condom .

Do you do the same thing also Otherwise he shouldn't have the guts to do that! Anyway it still depends on what the girls are coming for sha...hehehehhehee

See stupidity of the highest other

Saklekplus:
Am in my late 20's, I live in my sister's flat, I have my room, while this my younger brother, who is 22 years sleeps in sitting room, but he kept his clothes in my room, although he stayed in my room when he first arrived but I later sent him out of the room because he was too lazy to keep the room tidy, but I leave the key with him whenever I want to go out because of his clothes, but I have been suspecting that he has been bringing girls into my room(on my bed).

I caught him red handed today, I kept a pack of condom in my room, as am trying to find my second wallet tonight, I discovered that someone has torn the pack of condom and removed two. I immediately called him, but he didn't deny it, am confused, although, i have given him a serious warning not to let such repeat itself, but am also thinking of reporting him or I should just pack his bag out of the room, i don't know what to do..

Mature advice please

your looking for mature mind when ur brains are locked in a condom packet... your younger brothe is a man, let him do what he likes, he respects u enough not to bring them when ur around.. secondly i think nd i know u are making plans to move out just tolorate him till u do...

op u no even shame to dey write dis kind tin

Saklekplus:
Am in my late 20's, I live in my sister's flat.

And you are still thinking like this? Your case is spiritual. Leave that young man alone. It's obvious you schooled him by keeping condoms in the room for him to see. Back then if my bro came visiting I'd steal his condoms and he wouldn't ask. If my Arabian friends come to my house and gave me condoms and my bro saw it, he'd take all and no questions between us. Just get ur own house and let the young man be.

milychocs:



What the ef!!

SMH....@ this post, and other similar posts
This one has more whatever....is why I am quoting it

OP....biko continue living with your sister,,,there is NO shame in that....esp if you have no other place to go, cos of lack of money or a job,
It is a blessing you have a sister with a place for you to stay
Do not go and live under the bridge okay?
Pay no mind to posts that will not help you

About your brother? I am not a guy and so I dunno how sharing condoms and all work...
However the age difference should make your brother respect you ....he is
Anyway.....
Here is hoping that before long you would have gotten your own place

Meanwhile in my family we are late bloomers....live at home like babies, no pressure, all love...when/ whether making money or not
So it is fine
Wait for your time...it will come
Ignore some of the wise words here....they are just that, words

I wish I could slap your brother for you though....I itch, to do that
Cheers

Nice one dear.SECONDED

As long as you are staying at your sisters and not paying rent, both of you have equal rights to that room.

its not even ur house op dont be a hater

NairaMode:
Chief, to me it's not wrong.
Just draw lines... Etc Do not Bleep more than your gf in my room.
He is matured chief. Don't be a bad brother to the young man.
You expect him to do it on the couch.
He respects you enough to be sleeping in the sitting room so you just want to chase him completely out of the room.
My concern is not your age while living in your sisters house because apparently it cannot be your joy staying there up till now. That's even if you mind at all.
So to me, draw a line and tell him it must be his gf (one girl) and one girl only. To me, that is fair, reasonable, sensible and just.

To cap it all up, let's strive to stay away from sin. Hell is real.

I would have applauded your comment if the last statement was not preceded by what you wrote above it. So he's allowed to mess around with the girl on the brother's bed and the brother is also allowed to carry condoms around to use on gullible girls. What kind of example is he to his brother.

NairaMode:
Chief, to me it's not wrong.
Just draw lines... Etc Do not Bleep more than your gf in my room
He is matured chief. Don't be a bad brother to the young man.
You expect him to do it on the couch.
He respects you enough to be sleeping in the sitting room so you just want to chase him completely out of the room.
My concern is not your age while living
in your sisters house because apparently it cannot be your joy staying there up till now. That's even if you mind at all.
So to me, draw a line and tell him it must be his gf (one girl) and one girl only. To me, that is fair, reasonable, sensible and just.

To cap it all up, let's strive to stay away from sin. Hell is real.

Are the bolded not contradicting?

If you see nothing wrong with the 1st
bolded, why the 2nd bolded

Late 20s, living in a sisters house, and you have the right to send your 22 yrs old brother to sleep in a sitting room. I dont want to even hear that the house is a rented property, then the entire family needs deliverance. Listen, you have no right to caution your brother, cos no be your house, you are a squatter and a squatter should be ashamed to make laws against another squatter. To even imagine that you even take girls to your sister's house and your junior brother also takes a girl to your sister's house, means this is a case of family catastrophe. How can a squatter even have e=rection ? The Gods help you with some brain.

LordCenturion:
that's a rubbish,let his bags join him in sitting room and always lock ur room,and dont giv him your key again and if anybody ask u the reason why u take such action,let him explain by himself

....while living/squatting in a sister's
Bia, Op, that boy dey respect you oooo. You get mind to ''quarter'' yasef and tell anoda where to hang

Op u be Bleep up guy, why are u acting like u are 52 years old, besides he is ur brother not your son, you should understand that he has the right to have sex, he is 22, I belive even at age 18 one becomes an adult, so u have sex with girls and u expect ur broda till be a saint? You need to change ur mindset and realise ur broda is no longer a baby, send in ur broda to the sitting was a bad decision, comeon who's gonna hve sex in d parlour, wen its nt there house? Op na wa for u oo

mayorkyzo:
Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

I love this, pls Mr. Compainant I think mayor had said it all, mingle with ur broda, & see lifer sweeter.

funmijoyb:
It's okay as long you will not be intimidated by ur younger brother girlfriends. Ur broda must be alpha male getting all d chicks first ..lol so, he sud be d one having d room while u sud be at d palour.

Mind you, dont hate ur brother cuz you will do more than if u were in his possition.

shey u dey high on top craze man jT wen u rite dis RUBBISH.
NOTE: d op said matured advice onli

install a hidden security camera in the room.

NairaMode:
Chief, to me it's not wrong.
Just draw lines... Etc Do not Bleep more than your gf in my room.
He is matured chief. Don't be a bad brother to the young man.
You expect him to do it on the couch.
He respects you enough to be sleeping in the sitting room so you just want to chase him completely out of the room.
My concern is not your age while living in your sisters house because apparently it cannot be your joy staying there up till now. That's even if you mind at all.
So to me, draw a line and tell him it must be his gf (one girl) and one girl only. To me, that is fair, reasonable, sensible and just.

To cap it all up, let's strive to stay away from sin. Hell is real.

. You have presented the most sensible comment here.its good to treat issues holistically and not jst jumping to conclusions being judgmental. #NobodyHollyPass

Late 20s and still living with your sister and you have the mouth to ask? I left home at 19. The fact that he took your condom does not mean he slept with a babe in the room. He might have needed it while heading out. Even if he brought a girl to the room is it bad?

Saklekplus:
Am in my late 20's, I live in my sister's flat, I have my room, while this my younger brother, who is 22 years sleeps in sitting room, but he kept his clothes in my room, although he stayed in my room when he first arrived but I later sent him out of the room because he was too lazy to keep the room tidy, but I leave the key with him whenever I want to go out because of his clothes, but I have been suspecting that he has been bringing girls into my room(on my bed).

I caught him red handed today, I kept a pack of condom in my room, as am trying to find my second wallet tonight, I discovered that someone has torn the pack of condom and removed two. I immediately called him, but he didn't deny it, am confused, although, i have given him a serious warning not to let such repeat itself, but am also thinking of reporting him or I should just pack his bag out of the room, i don't know what to do..

Mature advice please

mayorkyzo:
Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

mayorkyzo:
Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

mayorkyzo:
Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

.

He said late 20's

MissSlimbody:


Are the bolded not contradicting?

If you see nothing wrong with the 1st
bolded, why the 2nd bolded

I think you are the one confusing yourself.
Do not create a web out of a thread.

Look at this acting big man,u no dey shame far?what are u doing wt condon in your sisters house,your lil bro is learning from you that bleeping is allowed and u are here flexing,go siddon jare

swezenberg:


I would have applauded your comment if the last statement was not preceded by what you wrote above it. So he's allowed to mess around with the girl on the brother's bed and the brother is also allowed to carry condoms around to use on gullible girls. What kind of example is he to his brother.

I appreciate your OPINION but do you appreciate mine?.

KingKuntaVart:
your looking for mature mind when ur brains are locked in a condom packet... your younger brothe is a man, let him do what he likes, he respects u enough not to bring them when ur around.. secondly i think nd i know u are making plans to move out just tolorate him till u do...

Saklekplus:
Am in my late 20's, I live in my sister's flat, I have my room, while this my younger brother, who is 22 years sleeps in sitting room, but he kept his clothes in my room, although he stayed in my room when he first arrived but I later sent him out of the room because he was too lazy to keep the room tidy, but I leave the key with him whenever I want to go out because of his clothes, but I have been suspecting that he has been bringing girls into my room(on my bed).

I caught him red handed today, I kept a pack of condom in my room, as am trying to find my second wallet tonight, I discovered that someone has torn the pack of condom and removed two. I immediately called him, but he didn't deny it, am confused, although, i have given him a serious warning not to let such repeat itself, but am also thinking of reporting him or I should just pack his bag out of the room, i don't know what to do..

Mature advice please

[b]In your late 20's, you should be creating businesses, sending your younger brother through school, living in your duplex probably married, but here we are dragging condom with a 22 year old, here we are taking about someone who rather than invest time strategizing on ways to become better than his peers at that age is keeping condoms around the house to sleep with girls who have no taste in men.

While you should be engaging in some productive, you are busy working on your loins and when something goes wrong, you bring in children who would feel disgraced about their father into this world. Like i have always said broke men shouldn't go near anything in skirt whether offered for free or chased after. This story is a very shameful one. Please OP get my free training on making money through fiverr here The Free Fiverr Training Thread on Nairaland complete with Screenshots and become useful cause at the moment i feel ashamed that a guy like me lives in such condition and feels it wise to air his soiled linens in public. Stop feeling living with your elder sister is your right. Stop feeling your younger brother shouldn't be bringing girls into the house. GO AND GET YOUR PLACE....make shame dey your eye[/b]

i dont know why you guys dont mind your business. Someone sought for your advice on something that has to do with his brother parole in his room not about his age or his level. I think u should have just given him the advice based on what he sought for. had he asked to be advised on why at late 20s he still living with his sister that will be when your lampoons will hold water.

NairaMode:


I think you are the one confusing yourself.
Do not create a web out of a thread.

Really

It seems immorality runs in your family.
Maybe your sis also keeps female condom herself.
Get your self a good xtian or muslim fellowship and your brother will emulate you.

chimkaire:

why that talk sweet u?

mayorkyzo:
Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

at that age ve gotten my apartment married n with 2 kids and ur there living with ur sister,so wht age do u wnt 2 start ur life,at 4o u be Biafra