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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by iamjane(f): 11:57pm On Jun 12, 2015
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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Toyatc: 8:29am On Jun 13, 2015
I have always contemplated it most part of my life. Even right now, it's so strong. I think the only reason I have not done it is because I'm scared.

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by ivyT(f): 11:34am On Jun 13, 2015
Toyatc:
I have always contemplated it most part of my life. Even right now, it's so strong. I think the only reason I have not done it is because I'm scared.

i have also thought about it too,but i realised others have gone thru far worse than my situation nd they were able to overcome..
But it is so hard.

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Abuklaw(m): 10:39pm On Jun 29, 2015
Toyatc:
I have always contemplated it most part of my life. Even right now, it's so strong. I think the only reason I have not done it is because I'm scared.
You don't need to deny the yourself the joy of trying again and again until you get it right. You will never realize how important the process of getting a goal accomplish is until you accomplish the goal. The major thing limiting your potential and obstructing your breakthrough is your mindset-it is guiding you toward destruction everyday.

To get rid of the thought, you have to combat and defeat your mindset, to realize that some people crave to have the opportunity you have but they are no more. It can't be alright if you refuse to make it right, you have to change your resolution and if need be, change your environment.

Let me try to motivate you. People who are dead want to come back to make things right because they are facing reality where they are now. Running away from your problems won't solve it but make it worse. what your see as problems are the real ingredient of happiness and success, only if you will see beyond the surface.

You can visit www.didealmotivation..com to read articles that lift the soul.
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by ToroJah: 10:02pm On Jul 19, 2015
yes have always feel like ending it once and for all, the only thing keeping me is the easiest and fastest way to go about it. I know of the sniper and rope approach but I feel it won't be easy and fast as I want. I overhead people talk about pumpkin leave roots as one of the fastest maybe will consider that.


of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Odunharry(m): 10:39pm On Jul 19, 2015
ToroJah:
yes have always feel like ending it once and for all, the only thing keeping me is the easiest and fastest way to go about it. I know of the sniper and rope approach but I feel it won't be easy and fast as I want. I overhead people talk about pumpkin leave roots as one of the fastest maybe will consider that.


of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

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All is well.. you need help
I know there are good people around you... talk with anyone about your plight..

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by onegig(m): 12:44am On Jul 20, 2015
ToroJah:



of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

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The bolded.... Anyone advising you to pray has only gone half way through things.

The main Job is getting out doing the hard work that it involves. You can't just keep praying and expect manna to fall from heaven.

You need to match prayers with actions. Both working together is what brings results. And don't expect instant results, look at things from the progress aspect. Have you made improvements? Even if it were little. It is still progress. Set little targets and so on.

You also need to start loving yourself. You don't need the validation of families or someone else to be happy. Although, it helps in a long way to help soothe things over, but in the absence of it. Improvise and make do with what you have. You may think people don't love you but love is a too way thing. You need to give to sometimes receive

Also family ain't people you are related to by blood. Family are those who care about you, people you share moments of your life with. That's the real family.

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by joywendy(f): 1:42am On Jul 20, 2015
ToroJah:
yes have always feel like ending it once and for all, the only thing keeping me is the easiest and fastest way to go about it. I know of the sniper and rope approach but I feel it won't be easy and fast as I want. I overhead people talk about pumpkin leave roots as one of the fastest maybe will consider that.


of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

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Hello dear,

I felt really sad reading this and I just couldn't leave this thread wihout saying something
I love your fighting spirit, continue to hang in their girl. The fct that you don't have anyone to live for is not enough reason to say you want to die.

We are one big family on this thread, you may not know us individually but we love you and we care about you smiley like onegig has said family isn't always about blood.

So relax yourself dear, you are not alone. Whatever it is there are people who have gone through worse and they are still standing. You alone have the key to break out of this stage you are in now. Take control of your life, don't let family wahala and people words put you down. I know it is easier said than done,but I have strong faith in you that you can rise above that situation and become someone greater than you can think.
Let go of that self hatred,free your mind and learn to love yourself. The more you learn to love yourself the harder it would be for you to think of killing yourself and the more your eyes would open to the people around you who care and cherish you. Find something doing,learn a skill,start reading motivational books there are free Ebook online. What do you love doing? Think of ways to develop that into something tangible.

Most importantly I would end with one of my fav. Quotes
Believe in yourself and all that you are and know that you are stronger than any obstacle.
Always remember you are the change you seek. smiley

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 1:17am On Jul 21, 2015
@ ToroJah...
Do you wanna be more specific?
How can we help you?
I hope we can....

I just wanna say to all of you, think life, think happy
Find things that are your happy things....and focus on them...always
Count any blessings you have...it sure beats focusing on the sad things
I am not trivialising what you feel so I cannot ask you to just snap out of it
I see how I contradict myself...but, just try
...people receive treatment for clinical depression.....and get cured too
So while going to church, prayer house. native doctor, etc....the hospital may also be it
Peace

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Bibitayo2: 9:13pm On Jul 21, 2015
It's now i understand drug addicts and what pushed most of them to drugs.
[/size][size=8pt][size=8pt][/size]sometimes I just feel like death is the easiest way out.
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by eipreel(f): 9:05pm On Jul 23, 2015
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by onegig(m): 9:16pm On Jul 23, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already
And why would you want to put someone through the misery of shooting you?
You wanna talk about this?

However, I have a water gun here. Care for some liquid spray?

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by beau49: 10:37pm On Jul 23, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already



Ewo! Is it that serious.....?
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 23, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already
We will fight o angry

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 2:07am On Jul 24, 2015
ivyT:


i have also thought about it too,but i realised others have gone thru far worse than my situation nd they were able to overcome..
But it is so hard.
smiley dnt anymore.you have got a glowing future dear.stay safe

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 2:14am On Jul 24, 2015
ToroJah:
yes have always feel like ending it once and for all, the only thing keeping me is the easiest and fastest way to go about it. I know of the sniper and rope approach but I feel it won't be easy and fast as I want. I overhead people talk about pumpkin leave roots as one of the fastest maybe will consider that.


of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
i av been thru this and it affected me greatly especially my dad wasntwasnt helping matters until my mum decided to send me out of d country and to be honest,it changed..i think your immediate enviroment and d people around you are causing you more pains than you realise.you should change your enviroment and see d changes.smtimes family gives you d most burden without you or them realizing it.pls dnt hurt yourself,life always has a great end but 1st it makes you think you dnt mean anytin to any1 but darling,its only a test.pass this test and bcome a star.I love you sweethrt,pls stay strong

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 7:49am On Jul 24, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already

I just bought a new gun. Where do we meet
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Chidoks(f): 12:03pm On Jul 24, 2015
ToroJah:
yes have always feel like ending it once and for all, the only thing keeping me is the easiest and fastest way to go about it. I know of the sniper and rope approach but I feel it won't be easy and fast as I want. I overhead people talk about pumpkin leave roots as one of the fastest maybe will consider that.
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of what use is life when even your immediate family desert you, no love nor care, no job, everyone ready to take advantage of your condition. people keep saying pray, for four years now have been praying no difference, then i'm force to conclude that He's a partial God, since I got no one I'm living for I better be dead than live in pain and mockery!

cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry

God is all you need to have all your needs met.the only way to access God is through prayers..sincere a genuine prayers.prayers of faith.when praying to God ,you must do it on his terms to see results.what are his terms:
1>you must be born again.you must consciously and genuinely eschew evil and all wrong doing.God loves us but hates sin thus he sacrificed his son to reconnect us to him.His hands are not shortened,his ears are not deafened to our cries,He is not partial but sin frustrates His efforts at helping us.genuine repentance,and death to sin clears the ways for his blessings to stream in.praying now to commit sins later weakens and renders the prayers ineffective.
*at repentance you find peace.Christ comes in,all mountains are levelled by his blood and every valley is filled.
2>At this point you have the right to pray.the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses the path.you can even worship God with songs a start pleading the blood of Christ.it works wonders.it has worked for me severally.plead the blood against all adversities of life.mix prayers with faith and see God work wonders
3>Marry your bible.search the scriptures.everything pertaining life is addressed in the bible.the word of God will comfort and give you solace.
4>Confront your issues.the word of God willl assist you here.what is that issue bugging you?speak to it.let it know that you are greater than it.is it rejection,unemployment,death of a loved one,poverty,sickness...whatever it is speak to it every day.tell it that you are more than it..then seek help.if unemployed; get up,go out there,package your CV.distribute with a smile and all confidence then find something doing no matter how meaner like labour.i once worked as a steward in a hotel.there is dignity in labour.you can serve at an eatry for the mean time.once God sees your committement He presents a bigger thing to you
*if you are mocked or rejected;face your front.you don't need any man's approval or discouragement to live.get busy with your hands and brain,make sure you are exhausted from work everyday and i bet you would not have the time to think of people...
May God bless,keep and see you through.amen!
**Make sure you stay strong a lot of destinies are tied to yours
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 12:01am On Jul 25, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already
Hi dear,
Believe me, you're bigger than whatever you may be passing through now... Life has many awesome opportunities and one must locate you. . Keep struggling, don't throw in the towel, you're just a step away cool
you'll read your comment here someday and just laugh grin wink. .

It's well dear, you have people who care about you smiley smiley

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by smallpeepee: 2:42am On Jul 25, 2015
Ferdybaba:

I just bought a new gun. Where do we meet
grin d title of d thread got mi loling
Bro is it revolver u got?
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by tolutweety(m): 3:44am On Jul 25, 2015
eipreel:
Sigh...somebody just shoot me already
MarvellousGod:

It's well dear, you have people who care about you smiley smiley

THIS LIST and many more cares...

onegig:

And why would you want to put someone through the misery of shooting you?
You wanna talk about this?
However, I have a water gun here. Care for some liquid spray?
beau49:

Ewo! Is it that serious.....?
SocialRecluse:

We will fight o angry
Ferdybaba:

I just bought a new gun. Where do we meet
smallpeepee:

grin d title of d thread got mi loling
Bro is it revolver u got?

cc: scrypt

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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by Nobody: 6:18am On Jul 25, 2015
smallpeepee:


grin d title of d thread got mi loling

Bro is it revolver u got?

Yea....I used it on myself once embarassed embarassed grin

Peepee it's been a while. How u been?
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by smallpeepee: 7:41am On Jul 25, 2015
shocked & u r stil alive? I'm gud boss & u? @eipreel we all gat ur bckkiss
Ferdybaba:

Yea....I used it on myself once embarassed embarassed grin
Peepee it's been a while. How u been?

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