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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Hawlahscho(m): 1:49pm On Sep 02, 2015
gboso1ne:
Bad guys tapping current
since 200BC grin
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by muazuk1(m): 1:50pm On Sep 02, 2015
hahaha!! chai... KONJI O..BOIZ EH!! HAA
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by okeyngene1: 1:50pm On Sep 02, 2015
Y most guys keep touching u any time u enter public bus, OP it was ur fault, though I don't kw hw u dress but am sure ur short skirt must ve caused d guy 2 behave dat way. I was on public bus d other day nd d lady close 2 me was just an agent of demon. She dressed hald naked, any time I look at her all I see was open boobs very tempting. Honestly. I was tempted 2 otherwise but tnk God I controlled myself. Ladies always dress properly expecially wen going out in public places

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by anonimi: 1:52pm On Sep 02, 2015
AmakaDNB:
ok
Poorly written.
Next time, send your story to DNB Stories. An editor will go through it and rework it before public consumption grin

Oga editor, you need to rework your post FOR public consumption.
Thank me later grin

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Rotimi47: 1:54pm On Sep 02, 2015
The guys are just being silly but sit upright next time you catch a bus and also watch what the type of cloths you put on as it might be what attracted them to you. Kongi na bad guy.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Mspread: 1:54pm On Sep 02, 2015
olumayowaakin:
I'm sorry, but don't you think you should check up on yourself? If it has happened once, twice, will you wait for the third time? You could be putting to much forward, exposure in dressing or something!
And when such happens, you found yourself with guys who don't have control over there emotions.
Check up on yourself!

Thank u friend for your comment. I dont expose my body parts. I used to be called "Onions" by my friends back in school because of the way i cover up. I am an advocate of 'You can be covered up and still be beautiful'.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by topas100(m): 1:55pm On Sep 02, 2015
Wonders shall never end
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Mspread: 1:56pm On Sep 02, 2015
ayo4dworld:


This is weird
Are you sure you were not putting on tempting or revealing dresses on these two occassions. This could be the likely cause, look into that also. We are addressed the way we are dressed.

God save us from all kinds of harrassments.

Thanks for your comment. I DO NOT put on clothes that expose me. I got a nickname 'Onions' back in school because of the way I cover up. I am an advocate of 'You can be covered up and still look dashing'
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Mekzmoney(m): 1:58pm On Sep 02, 2015
There are 2 tins involved...
Either ur exposing urself, especially ur boobs and thighs (d kinda cloth u always wear) or there's an attraction spirit that follow sum ladies around wich attract guys and makes dem loose control grin ......

because there are some beauty or dressing that attract d eyes and some attract d dick... cheesy

So check urself and always cover ur body then go 4 a deliverance.... No offence plz...

Jesus loves u... wink
Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe shocked. I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me cry. I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried cry cry. He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Missmossy(f): 1:58pm On Sep 02, 2015
This is really not nice. Commercial buses often pose a picture for such occurrences. I often wear a stern looking face whenever i enter one. Some guys are dredges to even themselves. Abuse seem to be the order of the day lately.
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by tunjilana: 2:00pm On Sep 02, 2015
While I understand the op and agree that there are many weirdly wired men out there especially with this very vivid example, my personal experience has also thought me that some women are very paranoid. Let me share my experience

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I got into a bus heading for a very important interview. All I had in mind was that I will have enough space to at least checkup things on my phone. Only for one annoyingly fat lady to come in right after me, cramping me into one corner that makes even breathing difficult.

I endured throughout the journey, couldn't even turn aside. I tried a couple of times to get out my phone from the pocket but observed she gave me a funny look the few times I tried.
Luckily for me someone dropped off from our row after a while, I was relieved and expected the lady to adjust immediately and get her ugly body off me so I can have my space but she didn’t move. After waiting for her to do the needful and she didn’t, I decided to use my shoulder to tap her so I can tell her to move.

Na so she bring down hell ooo in her words "Don't touch me Mr! You have been touching me all along and I didn't say anything".

If no be say my pastor don warn me to avoid conflicts and say I dey fast go the interview wey I wan do...Mehn I would have told her things that will make her cry. All I did was form gentleman and beg her to shift

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by princejones(m): 2:01pm On Sep 02, 2015
I can sense that you are a winner by using our ever dependable kingdom ,may God continue to protect and keep you and everyone of us in Jesus Name

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by IVORY2009(m): 2:03pm On Sep 02, 2015
INTROVERT:
Stop sleeping on public buses... next time they touch you, shout but don't lay your hand on him.






if I say I don't enter public buses, they will have my head grin
I DONT ENTER PUBLIC BUSES.

clap for yourself, "Chocolateme" grin
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by biochea(m): 2:04pm On Sep 02, 2015
@op n other ladies plz b vigilant, dn't hesitate to shout d moment u notice such. never u try slappin d person plz, just b a lady n raise ur voice above d roof.


guyz do xperience dt too....
it common for galz to hip deir b**bs all over u whn dey need attention but dere z dz particular one dt i can never forget bcuz d gal practically hugged me wit her hand round me. at a point i wz scared but just mind d little cash i had on me as i ENJOYED d romance frm d beginnin of d jrny to d end. it wz 1dafl!!! i can neve forget dt grin grin grin

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by IVORY2009(m): 2:04pm On Sep 02, 2015
ladyF:
Oh my.... shocked

Its good to have a pen knife tho, when you notice a strange hand on some parts of your body, you bring out your knife and just silently chook the hand with all your might. angry

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

Try dis recommendation, @ ur own risk. grin
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by aminae: 2:06pm On Sep 02, 2015
AmakaDNB:
ok
Poorly written.
Next time, send your story to DNB Stories. An editor will go through it and rework it before public consumption grin





BUT WE ALL UNDERSTOOD THE WRITE-UP, SO WHICH ONE IS UR PROBLEM? ALSO, WE ARE NOT IN AN ENGLISH CLASS!
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Aude(f): 2:07pm On Sep 02, 2015
olumayowaakin:
I'm sorry, but don't you think you should check up on yourself? If it has happened once, twice, will you wait for the third time? You could be putting to much forward, exposure in dressing or something!
And when such happens, you found yourself with guys who don't have control over there emotions.
Check up on yourself!

Don't be silly. So she's now to be blamed for the actions of men who can't control their sexual urges.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by guiddoti: 2:07pm On Sep 02, 2015
send off spirit of succumble attracting these strange men to you.
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by hoebamaa(m): 2:10pm On Sep 02, 2015
@ Op,na only you waka come On the oda note madam you re careless
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by severee(m): 2:13pm On Sep 02, 2015
@op grin get a car and stop being sexy
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by nnamdiosu(m): 2:14pm On Sep 02, 2015
INTROVERT:
Stop sleeping on public buses... next time they touch you, shout but don't lay your hand on him.






if I say I don't enter public buses, they will have my head grin
I DONT ENTER PUBLIC BUSES.

i just had your head... wink
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by guiddoti: 2:14pm On Sep 02, 2015
tunjilana:
While I understand the op and agree that there are many weirdly wired men out there especially with this very vivid example, my personal experience has also thought me that some women are very paranoid. Let me share my experience

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I got into a bus heading for a very important interview. All I had in mind was that I will have enough space to at least checkup things on my phone. Only for one annoyingly fat lady to come in right after me, cramping me into one corner that makes even breathing difficult.

I endured throughout the journey, couldn't even turn aside. I tried a couple of times to get out my phone from the pocket but observed she gave me a funny look the few times I tried.
Luckily for me someone dropped off from our row after a while, I was relieved and expected the lady to adjust immediately and get her ugly body off me so I can have my space but she didn’t move. After waiting for her to do the needful and she didn’t, I decided to use my shoulder to tap her so I can tell her to move.

Na so she bring down hell ooo in her words "Don't touch me Mr! You have been touching me all along and I didn't say anything".

If no be say my pastor don warn me to avoid conflicts and say I dey fast go the interview wey I wan do...Mehn I would have told her things that will make her cry. All I did was form gentleman and beg her to shift
wow those fat smell P I G.
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Starships4u(m): 2:15pm On Sep 02, 2015
Well.... I won't blame them when a cute girl seats beside u, u feel tempted to do some silly things....
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 2:15pm On Sep 02, 2015
Post your pic before i comment wetin dey my mind
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by chrisantus52(m): 2:16pm On Sep 02, 2015
Na only lagos u dy na, mostly na thief full 4 dt town if u lyk if u enta anoda bus u slip again....
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Phinagold(f): 2:16pm On Sep 02, 2015
I HAVE HAD SERIES OF EXPERIENCE LIKE THIS, ITS REAL
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 02, 2015
raayah:
Its very common in buses.

I was sitting down one day and it felt like somebody was touching my behind. It happened like 3 times and i though it was the motion of the bus.

The fourth time, the hand grab was too much, i turned back and the man just shouted " oga, stop touching my nyash abeg, which kain nonsense be dis". He came down at the next bus-stop.

There is not really anything we can do about perverted men. I think you handled the issue in a good way.
lol Hahaha ha, just trying to imagine the shouting scene
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by kunle75(m): 2:19pm On Sep 02, 2015
Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe shocked. I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me cry. I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried cry cry. He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala


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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by tartarus(m): 2:23pm On Sep 02, 2015
angry

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