Joy1706:

As a christian, the leader is meant to serve

Joy1706:

I hope you also noticed how Abraham respected and listened to his wife

Mutaino7:
washing ponmo nah ... if nah her papa come she fit tell am daddy serve urself my house is free to all... for the husby 2 reject her food go don tell u the kine woman sorry GAL she b.. am sure this aint d first time diz kind of issue will b coming up... so if nah booka she go dem go tell her say spoon dey bside u serve ursef.. u no even nid to talk b4 iya sikira don dey ask shey ponmo le fe abi ishon abi agemawor... pure water , napkin, water for rinsing don land 4 ur syd b4 u say Jesus come and eat.... how much less ur woman wey no nid introduction or placard b4 she dish am.. i trust if this same woman get fling lets say alhaji nah she go with am as d man dey eat dey use sweet word try cajole alhaji( blike.. Alhaji when am i going toget that money 4 my boutique..) no b when una wan favor naim u go come start to dey do humility shit.. My future wife God abeg make she no dey nairaland, and if by ojoro she dey make her comment dey make brain no b diz kine ideology wey full here....

CSTR2:
Bringing chistianity into this argument make its ridiculous.
Husband means Master.
Sarah called her husband master.
A christian woman should have no problem serving her husband.
That is her God given role as a wife.

SmartMugu:

Probably putting on make up.

Joy1706:

Christ said husbands love ur wives as Christ loved the church. A husband should be ready to give his life for his wife if need be. The relationship between God and us is not even a master/servant relationship, so what are we saying? A leader is to serve not to be served

edwife:


Exactly!

A happy marriage is not suppose to be a power struggle,if serving my husband makes him happy,by all means i will and if in any way i am sick or indispose,i doubt he will insist i do it.

Just like when there is a noise in the house or gun shot,the first word of any sensible man will be stay here don't move or go get the kids and hide,let me go and check what's going on.This is natural.

There are things as women that suppose to be natural because of our nurturing instinct.It doesn't have to be dramatic.

SonOfEl:


I know you are a spiritual illiterate. was Sarah ever a servant to Abraham? yet she called him lord, that is honour for you, if you truly love your husband, you will show him REVERENCE, that is, deep honour, just like Sarah did.

mugu.

Johnrake69:


Sorry my mother serves me. Is that a problem? In fact she craves for it. Am sorry for intruding, that part got my attention. . Peace

sonofananimal:
UNTILL ONE WOMAN TAKE YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOU.
YOUR STUPID HEAD GO COME BACK TO IT SENSES

CSTR2:
And yes a leader is called to serve.
But the followers must submit and follow his orders and instructions.
It is the quality of service the followers render to the leader that determines how well the leader serves.

Gaidenk:

So men shouldn't be traditional abi? We should mimic the white man in some things like kissing feminists ass then reject some like being gay yeah. If you aren't married pls shut the trap,if you are married pls tell him he's being childish when he tell you to dish his food,in his house,with his hard earned money. I'm waiting for your thread. All these indomie children

Timbuktou:


Yet, theses disciples called him master and they served him in the way Jesus expected of them, didn't they? now, that you're referring to Jesus and his disciples, shouldn't wives call their husbands Lord? Anyway, moving on.

Surely, you're not referencing the conventional bible we have all come to know. If not you'd have no issues with the head of the house and Lord demanding that his 'disciple" do as the master demands. Then, again, it's you. We don't know what bible you read.

There's cooler/tray in the bible? Or her expectations trump that of her master and Lord? In what biblical planet are these roles reversed Deaconess Bukky? Which means she can leave foods half-cooked or burn them because there are other chores to handle. Having chores is a good reason to leave other chores half-done or abandoned completely? That wife is a very special foolish breed.

We greet you, our 'Nigerian' wives.

Joy1706:
Come! Is there sand in your head? Do you have to comment? Rubbish

cococandy:

As in.

Nwoke madu food dey your front. carry am put for your plate like a normal person, he refused.

Ngwanu madam dish it for him to avoid wahala, she's on Facebook making a fuss.

I think it's unnecessary bringing such a trivial matter to the social media. For me she didn't try but I'm surprised some people don't think there's something wrong with the man's behavior.

Even rejecting food because it was in front of you and not put on your plate? That's abnormal.
Why can't we just call a spade a spade.
His behavior isn't normal.

Stillfire:
Who are the mothers that keep on raising bastard sons like this?

I am capable of killing my son for demanding such from his wife. Them never born am well...

What a selfish, devilish and demonic idi.ot.

The character flaw here is beyond sickening.

majekdom2:
Where is the submission the bibke talked about. Do you have a job ? If no , then gladly dish that meal

sparkleice:
;DSweetie m nt marrid yet oo bt if my hubby request I dish out hs food I won't only. Dish out I wl sit & watch him eat I wil evn spoon feed him,evn feed him 2ru my mouth.I wl sit watch him eat & do sme romantic touches. So my dear der s nothng bad u dishng out food for ur hubby excpt u want him to look outside.so save ur marriage & do d needfull

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?
*culled from facebook*

lastpage:


Women like this should be divorced ASAP.

You are either ready for marriage (and its responsibilities) or you are not.
What is the big deal in dishing food in a plate, if you could cook it and place it on the table?

Foolish women whining about nothing!
And u think ur ready for marriage? Mstchewwww! To a dog perhaps


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byvan03:



In the right words, marry that friend and lover for starters, if change comes, take it from there but start with the right foundation first. We tend to disturb God a lot, his grace is already sufficient for all of us.

You don't get married to a beast because the friend and lover you could have married might eventually become a beast. Take each beautiful day of your life as it comes and don't live in "what ifs", what if this hideous change you anticipated never came? What if you live happily ever after? Are there no happily ever after? Did every marriage end in tales of woe? Do the right thing first, it's not your duty to sort out tomorrow, why worry about tomorrow when no one is guaranteed tomorrow?

6fit:


do u have to post rubish? Or r u clueless?

lastpage:


Women like this should be divorced ASAP.

You are either ready for marriage (and its responsibilities) or you are not.
What is the big deal in dishing food in a plate, if you could cook it and place it on the table?

Foolish women whining about nothing!



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