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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Truckpusher(m): 8:39pm On Sep 20, 2015
joseph1832:
LMAO. If you see the way Mizmycoli round like cow eh, you go say no wonder men dey run from am. LMAO.

Atleast one look at her profile pic will prove to you that wht I said above is true.

I mean for the first time, for the very first time, I have to say I almost agree with you drugpusher. grin
It is not only silly but childish to be demeaning a woman in the public over your political disagreement. If she attacked you first that would have been understandable but attacking her simply tells stories of your woes and not hers - If only you will get this message.

NB: I do not want to be identified with you under any circumstances and even in death - The difference between you and I is as far as the earth is to the sun and you do not need to agree with me on anything.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by tayediggss: 8:41pm On Sep 20, 2015
ekemini606:


Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.
Moreover no one talks about career when they are 50
You simply just look at your friends kid and wish you had given it more go.

You are giving work/career more meaning and importance than they where originally intended to have


She didn't say anything about career, she said she would rather remain single than marry someone who thinks he is doing her a favor by marrying her. If you are marrying someone it should be out of love and genuine respect.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Forwetinnah: 8:42pm On Sep 20, 2015
...common sense isn't common, some people get carried away by anything under religion?
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by bossanmayor(m): 8:44pm On Sep 20, 2015
U all jst blabin,wen all dix fake pastors deceiving u.it jst amaze me aw Nl gals tins diz a welcom development to them.sha u ain't de first to fyl lik african goddess sayin desame tin.sha u re yung and view tins in lowperspective,.u gals re funni no wonda it is said u ve(fishBrain)u dnt reason bfor u type.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by rman: 8:44pm On Sep 20, 2015
raayah:


There is absolutely nothing wrong with an unmarried woman at 35. If she is happy with her life choices and decisions, what is your business?

Of course there is nothing wrong online. In real life, they are sad and lonely no matter other achievement. If you are indeed close to any in real life, they will tell you the truth. Dem plenty for my organization.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by priscaoge(f): 8:45pm On Sep 20, 2015
Jollyjoy:
education is not a yardstick to heaven butcomplete it.

Sis take a chill pill already. Don't have time for arguments! Do have a peaceful night rest!
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by raayah(f): 8:45pm On Sep 20, 2015
rman:


Of course there is nothing wrong online. In real life, they are sad and lonely no matter other achievement. If you are indeed close to any in real life, they will tell you the truth. Dem plenty for my organization.

What organization is that?

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Policewoman(f): 8:46pm On Sep 20, 2015
Sowing seed for a husband in my opinion depends on the condition.

It is neither here nor there. All my fellow ladies condeming then should wait till menopause starts knocking while you are unmarried.

Unless of course you made up your mind to be a spinster for lyf.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by raayah(f): 8:46pm On Sep 20, 2015
tayediggss:

She didn't say anything about career, she said she would rather remain single than marry someone who thinks he is doing her a favor by marrying her. If you are marrying someone it should be out of love and genuine respect.

This is very sweet!

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Kitme(f): 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2015
MizMyColi:


We live in a society that harps a lot on stereotypes.

Because everyone goes to church seeking for husbands, then that must be the situation of everyone.
What you have chosen to be oblivious of is that there are a few out there who have chosen to go against the stereotype...of course, Rome wasn't built in a day, but people are beginning to take their lives and destinies in their hands. They are learning to live in the now, they are no more susceptible to the whims and caprices of memories and anticipation.



I ask you....If I were someone close to you, would you advise me to get married to someone who thinks he's doing me a favour?

I think that when people everywhere begin to realize that come what may, everyone will always have their opinion, the better.

The onus lies on you and I as the subject of discussion to realize that people's affirmation of us is WELCOME, but NOT NEEDED.

I was on a thread where people were bashing Linda for being unmarried....agree or not, people who curse others based on their life sutuations are equally miserable people who are merely projecting their insecurities and perceived flaws on others.
When you realise this truth, you will become less and less bothered of what they say or do.

And just so you know....this is my default mindset. It's a truth and reality that has become deeply rooted in me and I am thankful.


People should stop feeding their pain and learn to walk away from negativity of every kind.
#Emancipation
Hey Miz
I couldn't have said it better.
For a while now,The society has prided herself as the yardstick for measuring one's self-worth.
Suffice to say, if you think you're living your life rightly, the way it pleases you, and the society think otherwise, THEIR OPINION shouldn't determine your worth.
The society had done more harm than good, we can't rule that out yet.
Many are in some kind of forced marriage, just to please the society, oblivious that their happiness is their life, they suffer both emotional and physical pain.
When desperation creeps it and it's so glaring even to the men,, Men see that as an edge, they expect such ladies to be their slaves that they can tossed around as they please.
Also, Many are with their abusive partner and can't just get out, Because of the damn society.
However, when the going gets tough, they won't proffer any solutions, instead the victim would be subjected to unending mockery. smiley

I love strong women like you.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by odehme: 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2015
Op your points are good and nicely pointed out but I have a question to ask. What if our/your parent(s) hold this types of opinions would u have come to this world. Let's not be blindly ruled by modernity and civilization and forget d real purposes of live. Pride has not taken anybody anywhere. Marriage is surely a safe place for women to gain their maximum respect and you mean women shouldn't work towards attaining it. just d way we pay tithe for God's blessings on our handwork so should we sow seeds for a good life partner. A word is enough for d wise
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2015
falconey:


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you dey advice person were don clamp mount Everest go pray for husband before. Come back see say hope no dey for her, come dey talk RUBBISH.


There are just pouring their MISERABLE.

If one man come PROPOSE to her now, she go jump ontop the man.

I know them!

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by raayah(f): 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2015
Policewoman:
Sowing seed for a husband in my opinion depends on the condition.

It is neither here nor there. All my fellow ladies condeming then should wait till menopause starts knocking while you are unmarried.

Unless of course you made up your mind to be a spinster for lyf.

Exactly, I don' see whats wrong with helping your husband financially.
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 20, 2015
sonofananimal:
fear catch me undecided

Nonsense set of WOMAN angry

That's why your species will always be foolish

Out of a fool's mouth proceeds all sorts of rubbish. you are not worth my precious time cos only the foolest of fools will call his own mother's specie foolish. oloshi. Taa, shi here puo! Vamoose!! Scram! Runn!!

I know your stupidity won't let you not copy me again sha. But my intelligence will soo ignore you. try it and see. I've got a great life to live. Peace out!

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by joseph1832(m): 8:50pm On Sep 20, 2015
sonofananimal:
I have seen that shapeless WOMAN picture before.

UGLY people always tend to talk RUBBISH. And think like there ugliness

Truckpusher:
It is not only silly but childish to be demeaning a woman in the public over your political disagreement. If she attacked you first that would have been understandable but attacking her simply tells stories of your woes and not hers - If only you will get this message.

NB: I do not want to be identified with you under any circumstances and even in death - The difference between you and I is as far as the earth is to the sun and you do not need to agree with me on anything.
Nigger f*#k you LOL Didn't you say you will never quote me again? Now here you are quoting me once again. Funny how I tend to make you do the things you say you won't do.

Now, I don't give a rats penis what you or anyone here think, your opinion(s) are just your opinions, and since your opinions doesn't add a penny to my pocket, permit me to tell you that you can shove it up your ass, shove it all up your ass! tongue

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:50pm On Sep 20, 2015
sonofananimal:
I have seen that shapeless WOMAN picture before.

UGLY people always tend to talk RUBBISH. And think like there ugliness
your moniker says it all.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by MizMyColi(f): 8:51pm On Sep 20, 2015
My spirit is particularly lifted tonightsmiley

It actually feels good to add positively to the romance section.
Truly, there's no place like home.

I will now attend to your mentions.

Hello Priscaoge!
Been a while ocheesy

@Demelza, I'm coming for youtongue
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by falconey(m): 8:51pm On Sep 20, 2015
sonofananimal:
you dey advice person were don clamp mount Everest go pray for husband before. Come back see say hope no dey for her, come dey talk RUBBISH.


There are just pouring their MISERABLE.

If one man come PROPOSE to her now, she go jump ontop the man.

I know them!

bros the thing tire me oooooo ............. Person wey never find husband tire no fit post that kind thing. I just dey read dey laugh.

Its just like they are consoling themselves

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Policewoman(f): 8:52pm On Sep 20, 2015
FlirtyKaren:


Out of a fool's mouth proceeds all sorts of rubbish. you are not worth my precious time cos only the foolest of fools will call his own mother foolish. oloshi. Taa, shi here puo! Vamoose!! Scram! Runn!!

I know your stupidity won't let you not copy me again sha. But my intelligence will soo ignore you. try it and see. I've got a great life to live. Peace out!
Lailablog so u get bad mouth like dis?
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by ekemini606: 8:53pm On Sep 20, 2015
MizMyColi:


We live in a society that harps a lot on stereotypes.

Because everyone goes to church seeking for husbands, then that must be the situation of everyone.
What you have chosen to be oblivious of is that there are a few out there who have chosen to go against the stereotype...of course, Rome wasn't built in a day, but people are beginning to take their lives and destinies in their hands. They are learning to live in the now, they are no more susceptible to the whims and caprices of memories and anticipation.



I ask you....If I were someone close to you, would you advise me to get married to someone who thinks he's doing me a favour?

I think that when people everywhere begin to realize that come what may, everyone will always have their opinion, the better.

The onus lies on you and I as the subject of discussion to realize that people's affirmation of us is WELCOME, but NOT NEEDED.

I was on a thread where people were bashing Linda for being unmarried....agree or not, people who curse others based on their life sutuations are equally miserable people who are merely projecting their insecurities and perceived flaws on others.
When you realise this truth, you will become less and less bothered of what they say or do.

And just so you know....this is my default mindset. It's a truth and reality that has become deeply rooted in me and I am thankful.


People should stop feeding their pain and learn to walk away from negativity of every kind.
#Emancipation

Emancipation my purple striped asss.
If i date u for two years, without proposing, you wuld start comparing me to your friends who have been married. Your women victimize yourself, that's why we give marriage to you as a favour already.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Whobedatte(m): 8:54pm On Sep 20, 2015
joseph1832:
LMAO. If you see the way Mizmycoli round like cow eh, you go say no wonder men dey run from am. LMAO.

Atleast one look at her profile pic will prove to you that wht I said above is true.

I mean for the first time, for the very first time, I have to say I almost agree with you drugpusher. grin
LOL. But she's super intellectually sound. That strikes more than anything grin

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by tayediggss: 8:55pm On Sep 20, 2015
rman:


Of course there is nothing wrong online. In real life, they are sad and lonely no matter other achievement. If you are indeed close to any in real life, they will tell you the truth. Dem plenty for my organization.

There are many sad, lonely and miserable married women in your Organisation as well. They just can't tell you.

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
FlirtyKaren:


Out of a fool's mouth proceeds all sorts of rubbish. you are not worth my precious time cos only the foolest of fools will call his own mother's specie foolish. oloshi. Taa, shi here puo! Vamoose!! Scram! Runn!!

I know your stupidity won't let you not copy me again sha. But my intelligence will soo ignore you. try it and see. I've got a great life to live. Peace out!
are you drunk undecided

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by MizMyColi(f): 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
priscaoge:
[size=14pt] All these grammar ↑ ↑ there shey na for husband abi? OK Kontinu undecided undecided

Make i ask sef, When did Marriage/Husband become a Ticket to Heaven? African mentality shaaaa lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed


Mizmycoli happy new year! It's been a long time I read Ur post! smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley [/size]

Lol
Na true o.
Good evening dear.
Like play like play. Politics don kolobi me pinish.
How body nagrin
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by chyket(m): 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
Whatever someone does spiritually is to me a personal decision.Every religion has its own tenets and beliefs.I believe its very wrong for you to decide how someone should conduct himself spiritually because everyone knows what works for them.
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
Policewoman:
Lailablog so u get bad mouth like dis?


lmaoo. am in the mood tonight grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by priscaoge(f): 8:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
MizMyColi:
My spirit is particularly lifted tonightsmiley

It actually feels good to add positively to the romance section.
Truly, there's no place like home.

I will now attend to your mentions.

Hello Priscaoge!
Been a while ocheesy



Lol....I have missed a lot of gists tho, just going through Ur previous posts! Trust u had a blissful day today
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 8:58pm On Sep 20, 2015
joseph1832:


Nigger f*#k you LOL Didn't you say you will never quote me again? Now here you are quoting me once again. Funny how I tend to make you do the things you say you won't do.

Now, I don't give a rats penis what you or anyone here think, your opinion(s) are just your opinions, and since your opinions doesn't add a penny to my pocket, permit me to tell you that you can shove it up your ass, shove it all up your ass! tongue
are you drunk!

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by maryhaam(f): 8:58pm On Sep 20, 2015
Hmmmmmmm,reading
Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by MizMyColi(f): 9:00pm On Sep 20, 2015
BiggyB242:
lol you still in your mid twenties probably younger when you're in your thirties body go tell you.

Bros.
It doesn't matter whether I am in my mid-thirties or not.

I know who I am.

I will not let myself be cajoled, blackmailed, oppressed, depressed or bluntly forced into marriage.

No sane person should!

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by Nobody: 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2015
FlirtyKaren:


Out of a fool's mouth proceeds all sorts of rubbish. you are not worth my precious time cos only the foolest of fools will call his own mother's specie foolish. oloshi. Taa, shi here puo! Vamoose!! Scram! Runn!!

I know my stupidity won't let you not copy me again sha. But my intelligence will soo ignore you. try it and see. I've got a great life to live. Peace out!
point of correction! Your stupidity

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Re: Memo To Desperate Single Nigerian Women: Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands! by stone07(m): 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2015
This page is full of frustrated ladies. Using of grammar to favour their disappointed situation. If I should guess, all of una over age single. You have not experienced joy of been married.

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