MizMyColi:


There is nothing new under Nairaland sun that they will tell me.

You know whether I need the koboko sef?

Truckpusher:
Playing a role that would set ideologies on a collision course in the nearest future is a sin against the laws of natural order and it would leave a scar that would linger on the very soul and existence of mankind for a very long time and probably usher in a society with no value system. And this is exactly what some people want to achieve - Then what happens next?

Natural order is a subjective topic swiss

What is unobtainable here is pretty much obtainable elsewhere.

A new age is advancing.
The fore-runners are already here.

No matter how resistant we are to it...it'll break out some day.
In that time and moment, the onus would be more on us to choose that which we would always hold dear, in terms of values and norms.

I for one have reached a state of formlessness and nothingness, and I'm gradually being re-molded.
The values which I now possess are tested and trusted.

And I will also like to point out that that scenario of complete moral decadence and valuelessness which you envision will not be.

Those who are aware of their being as the replica of the creator will always hold the forte.

As long as all our actions are rooted in love, no matter the change, we'll be just fine

cyprus000:

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Why you dey stress yourself for this matter. leave them make them continue to rant on being single.

If na only me be legislature. I go make am crime to marry, make we see how e go be. I ready dey 10,000,000 yrs without looking their side,not to talk of noticing say human being dey around.


Japan men gat my highest resps,cos I dey feel their way.
I wish say our naija men go adopt that kind system without perverts sabotaging us. [/size].

basille:
Just don't know what to type, so many things wrong with the way most Nigerians think.

Like someone above me said, it's the process not the end result that matters.

Truckpusher:
Yeah , You're right - There are some people you just ignore and not give them the attention they crave for.

But on a serious note sha if you need the koboko - no wahala , I fit help you buy one.

Edusouls:
shut up,rejected women, stop covering up ur woes and ur shameful inability to get a man.if u aint married,u re just nothing in the face of God and man,continue to deceive urself's in ur own deceitful lives, end time women..

sonofananimal:
BROS you just talk my mind.

I dey feel those JAPAN men. Now see as their WOMEN dey beg LIK beggars.

No worry! Naija dey go that direction. Me don. Port tar tar. Na me SWEAR say if I propose to any naija WOMEN, make my leg BEND

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You dun take time notice the rate of pervertion for romance section?. That is directly proportional to our naija men in reality.
Na reflection of the conduct of our men for real world

To achieve wetin men for japan do, go take many yrs to attain. Unless we sensitize like them do.

right from my mama belle na him I port.
Na divine decision from above. No time to lick ass of any babylon.
I am not gifted with patience to tolerate vapid bullshitt
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falconey:
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MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

cyprus000:

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The embolded.

You dun take time notice the rate of pervertion for romance section?. That is directly proportional to our naija men in reality.
Na reflection of the conduct of our men for real world

To achieve wetin men for japan do, go take many yrs to attain. Unless we sensitize like them do.

right from my mama belle na him I port.
Na divine decision from above. No time to lick ass of any babylon.
I am not gifted with patience to tolerate vapid bullshitt
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emperorchedda:
I admire your post but you lost it the moment you said 'It's the man that can't be alone' lol

Go to Japan and see the Men Going Their Own Way movement waxing stronger by each passing day

Even the scripture said a time will come when women will beg men just to bear their surnames and they will provide for themselves

I think that time is now

Not advising any brother to take advantage of any desperate lady but its only justice when those ladies who were forming unnecessary hard to get at their prime age are being feasted on by guys who have noticed how desperate they now are

Lastly, your happiness must not be tied to getting married, it isn't for everyone. Have an offspring and take good care of him/her.
It's more peaceful

predatorX:


but it isn't by design to stay married.

An2elect2:
Women sow seeds to get husbands? how? Tufia!!! chai women we haf suffered!

Policewoman:
Sowing seed for a husband in my opinion depends on the condition.

It is neither here nor there. All my fellow ladies condeming then should wait till menopause starts knocking while you are unmarried.

Unless of course you made up your mind to be a spinster for lyf.

obowunmi:
People get desperate because the Nigerian society says, there's something wrong with you if you're single.

MizMyColi:


Natural order is a subjective topic swiss

What is unobtainable here is pretty much obtainable elsewhere.

A new age is advancing.
The fore-runners are already here.

No matter how resistant we are to it...it'll break out some day.
In that time and moment, the onus would be more on us to choose that which we would always hold dear, in terms of values and norms.

I for one have reached a state of formlessness and nothingness, and I'm gradually being re-molded.
The values which I now possess are tested and trusted.

And I will also like to point out that that scenario of complete moral decadence and valuelessness which you envision will not be.

Those who are aware of their being as the replica of the creator will always hold the forte.

As long as all our actions are rooted in love, no matter the change, we'll be just fine

predatorX:


Abd'ru Shin'ist or a Sun Tzu'ist, which is it coz you are inspiring.

Only but a minuscule few in this realm understand what purpose truly is

I am clueless of the reddenned, to a large extent

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

EreluY:


WHAT A MORONIC CLAIM. UNMARRIED WOMEN ARE NOTHING BEFORE GOD? WHICH GOD? THESE PONTIFICATING 'PASTORS' NEVER CEASE TO AMAZE ME.

FlirtyKaren:




http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/09/memo-to-desperate-single-nigerian-women.html

vickydevoka:

this jst reminded me of my mothers best friend when she was still a maiden. de lady was so beautiful n industrious dat she also made de same statement that u made. Instead of him marrying a poor man she better remain single. at her 45 she got married to a low life man with her own moni, she feeds de man n cloth him n still appreciate him. bcuz to her the man has don her big favour. so my sister Africa is still African. #A leopard can not change its spots

MizMyColi:


I am clueless of the reddenned, to a large extent

sonofananimal:
the so called soceity you are talking about is only in your imagination.

Who is the society that is saying this and that?

We always tend to find were to put the blame on.

The fault is only on you and you alone. You fix your own problems, not the society. You work for your own money, not the society work for you.

We were brought to believe in the society, were by that imaginary society have done nothing for us, and so there fore, when something is not working at our plans, we find who to put the blame on and if we can't see WERe to put the blame on, the so called society will take all the blame

Pathetic

ekemini606:


Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.

MizMyColi:
@JollyJoy
Please understand that I am not claiming to have apprehended.
Please understand that I am not claiming to have achieved perfection on these things.

What I am simply doing is sharing with folks my perception on these matters.

Life is a journey.
And where there is a will, there is a way.

What matters isn't the end result, but the process.
Enjoy it.