My dear, u re not a bad person neither are u evil. It's jst a normal feeling cos my younger sis did feel d same during my own tym though she did not bear grudge against him. She was like how can I leave her and go, her gossip partner and all stuffs, even after my trad, she was so angry with everybody for letting me go wit my husband... But now she is so used to d fact dat am no longer there and there is nothing she can do abt it.
So Op with tym it will all wear off esp after d wedding. Gracias.

Yes you are developing jealousy and is leading you to wickedness,better advice yourself.

Kimoni:



Hahahahha..okay I get it now

Me I was happy to take charge abeg

I would have to be consulted now in all decision making

Asides that, my sisters can send you on errand for Africa...very annoying

Then I had the whole room to myself me I was happy o

Lucky you

Op.... I feel you. When the one you love wants to leave you, naturally it hurts. It's not jealousy! Try understand it's not all about the wedding but life after wedding day. Be financially conscious of your advice and no woman (who isn't a nun) will have a complete life without her own home. Celebrate her and consider roles you can fit in to cut cost.... Someday when it's your turn, you will understand the path of life called marriage.

ideyhere:
My elder sister is scheduled to get married in a couple of weeks. Initially I was quite ecstatic with the whole news and arrangements and all. One day she was to visit the husband in their family house and we packed her bags and all. The guy came and after staying and all, he now said (in his exact words) LET US GO TO OUR HOUSE. That was when it dawned on me that she now had another house. That realization really gave me the chills I must confess.
The other day she still had to go spend some time in their family house, even without the guy being around...and she was very happy about it. I began to wonder how she could be happy leaving us that she had always known as family to this newly found family of hers.
Wedding preparations are at its peak now...and seeing as I really don't have money to support them (just straight out of school), I felt the much I could offer are ideas. My sister keeps complaining that I only pitch in ideas that are worth so much naira...that do I want them to go broke after the wedding. I just want her to have the best...and with the way she's sounding, I started feeling like she's already seeing me as the outsider...choosing him over me. Unconsciously I developed a grudge against the guy, after all if he hadn't come into the picture, we wouldn't be planning any wedding, and things would still be as they were...perfect.
Am I an insanely wicked person for feeling this way? Or is this a perfectly normal feeling?? Something that will disappear with time

If u re in a nice relationship with ur date u wouldn't need to feel that way.

Maybe u should try a new date

Bennyzino:

Maybe u should try a new date

Okay...please would you be my lover?

ideyhere:

Okay...please would you be my lover?

Yeah

ideyhere:

Okay...please would you be my lover?

Pls inbox me your number..

ideyhere:

Okay...please would you be my lover?

Pls inbox me your number..

Bennyzino:

Pls inbox me your number..

Lolz...I na-agba speed ooh

ideyhere:

Lolz...I na-agba speed ooh

Hmm wch pls translate to english

Bennyzino:


Hmm wch pls translate to english

It doesn't really have a direct translation to English ooh. But it means something like..you're running too fast.

ideyhere:


It doesn't really have a direct translation to English ooh. But it means something like..you're running too fast.

Oh!

I don't want to loose u to someone else ..
I promise to slow down a bit as soon as I get ur number

Bennyzino:

Oh!
I don't want to loose u to someone else .. I promise to slow down a bit as soon as I get ur number

Loose me? That's a serious one... Do you loose what you don't have

ideyhere:

Loose me? That's a serious one... Do you loose what you don't have

But u know what I mean Let's not play game of words
if I get ur number then we could move on from here.

Bennyzino:


But u know what I mean
Let's not play game of words

if I get ur number then we could move on from here.

Yeah I know what you mean. But sorry NL to me is for fun...and the only thing that ensures that is the anonymity of members. So let's just keep it here...friends?

ideyhere:


Yeah I know what you mean. But sorry NL to me is for fun...and the only thing that ensures that is the anonymity of members. So let's just keep it here...friends?

Ok if u say so ..

Can u follow me pls so we could send mails at least.
I am fine with that

You are only being childish.
All you need to do is grow up.

ideyhere:


Yeah I know what you mean. But sorry NL to me is for fun...and the only thing that ensures that is the anonymity of members. So let's just keep it here...friends?

Hello ..how was ur day
I don't know what am feeling right now
It can't be love because how can I love someone I haven't seen?
Well it can't be crush either.
Maybe its a new type of feeling that is indespicable
The feeling of inner joy and certainty
The feeling of instinctive attraction
The feeling of optimism
This 'feeling' is what I have for you

Bennyzino:

Hello ..how was ur day I don't know what am feeling right now It can't be love because how can I love someone I haven't seen? Well it can't be crush either. Maybe its a new type of feeling that is indespicable The feeling of inner joy and certainty The feeling of instinctive attraction The feeling of optimism This 'feeling' is what I have for you

Hehehe...you learn the thing wella. Thank you

KanwuliaJara:
You are only being childish. All you need to do is grow up.

Okay...I have

ideyhere:

Hehehe...you learn the thing wella. Thank you

Lol.. You inspired me You don't respond to my mails

ideyhere:
My elder sister is scheduled to get married in a couple of weeks. Initially I was quite ecstatic with the whole news and arrangements and all. One day she was to visit the husband in their family house and we packed her bags and all. The guy came and after staying and all, he now said (in his exact words) LET US GO TO OUR HOUSE. That was when it dawned on me that she now had another house. That realization really gave me the chills I must confess.
The other day she still had to go spend some time in their family house, even without the guy being around...and she was very happy about it. I began to wonder how she could be happy leaving us that she had always known as family to this newly found family of hers.
Wedding preparations are at its peak now...and seeing as I really don't have money to support them (just straight out of school), I felt the much I could offer are ideas. My sister keeps complaining that I only pitch in ideas that are worth so much naira...that do I want them to go broke after the wedding. I just want her to have the best...and with the way she's sounding, I started feeling like she's already seeing me as the outsider...choosing him over me. Unconsciously I developed a grudge against the guy, after all if he hadn't come into the picture, we wouldn't be planning any wedding, and things would still be as they were...perfect.
Am I an insanely wicked person for feeling this way? Or is this a perfectly normal feeling?? Something that will disappear with time

Er no, you are just possessed. But with what, I don't know. Just messing with you.

4C2215131:


Er no, you are just possessed. But with what, I don't know. Just messing with you.

Damn! I think that was supposed to be funny











Then why am I not laughing

ideyhere:


Damn! I think that was supposed to be funny











Then why am I not laughing

Yeah, twas supposed to. So just laugh you'd definitely be the better for it.

ideyhere:

Damn! I think that was supposed to be funny










Then why am I not laughing

Babe u don't need anyone's opinion about you. You are sweet and beautiful inside Envy of all

Bennyzino:
Babe u don't need anyone's opinion about you. You are sweet and beautiful inside Envy of all

Okay...ayaf hear

ideyhere:

Okay...ayaf hear

hello babe am missing you o
Wish I could talk to u right now

ideyhere:
My elder sister is scheduled to get married in a couple of weeks. Initially I was quite ecstatic with the whole news and arrangements and all. One day she was to visit the husband in their family house and we packed her bags and all. The guy came and after staying and all, he now said (in his exact words) LET US GO TO OUR HOUSE. That was when it dawned on me that she now had another house. That realization really gave me the chills I must confess.
The other day she still had to go spend some time in their family house, even without the guy being around...and she was very happy about it. I began to wonder how she could be happy leaving us that she had always known as family to this newly found family of hers.
Wedding preparations are at its peak now...and seeing as I really don't have money to support them (just straight out of school), I felt the much I could offer are ideas. My sister keeps complaining that I only pitch in ideas that are worth so much naira...that do I want them to go broke after the wedding. I just want her to have the best...and with the way she's sounding, I started feeling like she's already seeing me as the outsider...choosing him over me. Unconsciously I developed a grudge against the guy, after all if he hadn't come into the picture, we wouldn't be planning any wedding, and things would still be as they were...perfect.
Am I an insanely wicked person for feeling this way? Or is this a perfectly normal feeling?? Something that will disappear with time

you are jealous and evil as well.

Youngpo413:
you are jealous and evil as well.

Thank you...next

ideyhere:

Thank you...next

bitter truth.

Youngpo413:
bitter truth.

That is why there was a thank you in that post...remember that word that starts with a T in that post? Or are you just plain disappointed that I didn't attack you