mbulela:

The OP is an utterly clueless clown. To believe I once mistook him for an Intelligent fellow. Men like this are a clear and present danger to our women and make me ashamed of manhood.

I agree. One thing easily discernable about Nigeria is that, most of the corrupt, innovative sadists walking about the country are in reality supposedly intelligent men with university education or influential position. Were this op an influential Nigerian now, he'd still share these sick ideas leaving younger ones with a distorted reality of what a sane society should be.

TonyeBarcanista:

This is Nigeria that 16years old dates 60years old men. We are all witnesses to this.

So that justifies it?
And if in the process of dating the 60 year old man, he forces her to do certain sexual acts, it is OK?
You sound like the folks who insist on having your way with a girl simply because you bought her two glasses of long island in the club and she went home with you after clubbling.

queenfav:
I love you!So people can still think?This has been my point all along,when the raving dogs on nairaland came at me because I decided to think with my brain.I pity Nigerians sha,let her defenders come out o.Una don close?

Some people believe in mob action without asking for facts. Like this poster...

femi4:


Guy! Forget that thing, she was ganged raped. The evidence released only show the mutual sexual relationship between the two when they were in good terms

Gang raped by who and who? Who were the gang rapist and at what point did that happen? Before, during or after the relationship? Who stalks her gang-rapists? Was her mum also aware of it?

This OP clearly thinks we're fools.
These facts and evidences are baseless and unrelated with the storyline you're telling us.
Sir, you need to Goan sleep!!!

DevilhimseIf:
[s][/s]

may rabid dog fork my mother's asss Insha'Allah amin.. And may the Rabid dog violently chew on her pusseee to the point of hemorrhage

Amen too..

nobeku:
my Thunder scatter my family there Insha'Allah amin too..

ok

No part of her mail exchange did she made mention of rape and torture. I still don't understand where you guys are saying. At what point did the rape occure?

Orikinla:
. OP, you will make a poor defense attorney. Again, you seemed to love porn as you selected only the parts where Lotana enjoyed her sexual escapades with Mustapha Audu. Now, you cannot use her first confessions of consensual sex with him to justify your dismissal of her later confessions of rape and torture? You might as well, dismiss her entire confessions and conclude that she never met and never had any relationship with him and she made up the whole story. A good analysis of her crisis clearly confirms all her confessions as facts. A man that could seduce a 17 year old naive teenage girl and have orgies with her can turn violent later.

nobeku:
am a product of dog's sperm and a Hopless harlot mother Amen too..

lol

IlekeHD:


Did Obatala make ojukwu run away like a coward in his wife's lingerie??

Nope obatala made Awolawo to drink rat poison to the gods

mbulela:

Even Hitler had a reputation.
I actually view the OP as an attention seeking clown.
I was tempted to take him serious in the past but this has proven that he is a joke. Unfortunately, he is dabbling into issues that ought not to be joked about.

Hitler stood for something fought for it and died for it unlike attention seeking element who stood for nothing rather than his personal gain which will send him to oblivion.

no be small clown oo he's now an object of riddicle and mockery

TonyeBarcanista:


This is what I don't get to understand from pro-sugabelly fans.


Which abuse are you talking? Did the abuse happen before or after they had affair? Did you read that she was foerced to have their first sex or second? Did you read her continuous stalking of the said abuser? It s irrelevant whether she's been relating her frustration of not getting him back for four or forty years. The fact is that she was never abused at any time. Beside, I have never seen a situation when relationship gone bad equates abuse.

Her only accusation while she was with him was that he sleeps with other girls to get back at her. Is that abuse? Abeg shift

Abi...did you see where she was chasing the guy and begging for his rekindled "friendship". Honestly, she sounds like a crazy psycho.

AShewo runz tinz.

So how are you so sure she was ganged raped?? You know, women can be so malicious and she may be only doing this out of anger and bitterness from a relationship turned sour. Me, I'd personally not believe her until she shows some concrete evidence. And to make matters worse, sugabelly is a pathological liar. So that makes the whole story even harder to believe.

femi4:
Guy! Forget that thing, she was ganged raped. The evidence released only show the mutual sexual relationship between the two when they were in good terms

DevilhimseIf:


Nope obatala made Awolawo to drink rat poison to the gods

Did Obatala make ojukwu run away like a coward in his wife's lingerie??

Y'all should remember this was a teenager writing this (at the time). An infatuated teenager....nonetheless


I see some form of 'Stockholm syndrome' where the victim feels almost on the side of the abuser/attacker. Prolonged Abuse victims are often able to be abused due to the love or supposed love the have for their abuser. They often remain attached to the abuser emotionally even after having gone through unthinkable horrors...why else would a woman battered blue and black keep going back to her abusive husband.

Think about it!

****
Besides. Even if she is lying about the rape (which I highly doubt), wasn't she 17years when they slept together (which he has admitted)...is that not illegal here...or at least in 2008? (Unless of course you are married to Sanusi or Senator Yerima!) ...It becomes rape by default for him regardless of whether she consented or not.

The emails are obviously selective. She made reference to him accusing her of lying and being unfaithful and flirting with his friends. He obviously hasn't posted those emails.

He behaviour in the emails he posted are also classic abuser bevaiour where he has clearly lost his physical 'control' over the girl (as she was in the US) and he resorted to psycohological control (by constantly refusing to respond to her or being 'cold')....and making her admit all faults. They both better get great lawyers sha.

BTW: Just because her mum was aware of the relationship doesn't mean she wasn't abused. Some of our sisters and mothers are in an abusive relationship currently, but how many do we actually know! Smiley faces on instagram and cute Facebook messages go a long way to disguise turmoil.

Cc TonyeBarcanista

TonyeBarcanista:


This is what I don't get to understand from pro-sugabelly fans.


Which abuse are you talking? Did the abuse happen before or after they had affair? Did you read that she was foerced to have their first sex or second? Did you read her continuous stalking of the said abuser? It s irrelevant whether she's been relating her frustration of not getting him back for four or forty years. The fact is that she was never abused at any time. Beside, I have never seen a situation when relationship gone bad equates abuse.

Her only accusation while she was with him was that he sleeps with other girls to get back at her. Is that abuse? Abeg shift

You are not the girl and you can't determine whether she was abused or not,
except you were part of the story from the beginning and if that is the case
you can ignore the rest of my comment.

You based your writeup on some of the "facts" and prematurely concluded that
the girl is trying to blackmail audu. Who does that ?

if inconsistency is the basis for guilt/innocence, then no one will ever be guilty of any
offense because a consistent full-proof story has never been told.

She was underage when the "relationship" started and their is nothing new
about victims getting attached to their abusers.


Now that she has regained her consciousness it is rather unfortunate that some
people are trying to shut her up.

Cases like these depends more on context than "facts".

seunmsg:
TonyeBarcanista,


What happened to the lady in question is very pathetic but reading a so called political analyst come to this kind of judgemental conclusion is more unfortunate.

There is a reason why the laws of most countries explicitly doesn't allow men from having sexual relationship with a lady below the age of 18. They are young, vulnerable, naive and innocently believe all rubbish and lies that men feeds them with.

It's unfortunate we all have to come here in judgement against the actions of a 17 years old girl. Under the law, Mustapha should be locked up for a very long time for having sexual affair with a teenager. Am not even talking about the rape allegation here, why should he have sexual affair with a young girl of 17?

To the rape allegation, it's unfortunate you have concluded that the lady is a liar based on a distorted email exchange released by the accused rapist who is desperately trying to get some public sympathy. Apart from releasing those emails and a disjointed statement from his lawyer, Mustapha has not really made any effort to publicly defend himself of the allegations. In fact, the emails he released goes a very long way in showing truly that sugarbelly's allegations are true. That they both had a relationship doesn't mean she can't be raped. It's even more possible when the victim is an under age teenager who is not old enough to make the right decisions. She had a massive teenage crush on him and he took advantage of her.


Finally OP, it is bad enough that you feel no empathy for the lady in quention, what is worse is the name calling and castigation of the people who have showed concern and support to the lady. You don't believe her story, fine. Why castigate Oby Ezekwesili and Abike Dabiri who have both expressed support to the lady based on her story and the humanity in them? Is this an attempt to politicise the issue the same way people like you politicised and condemn the agitation for the return of the chibok girls? Bro, what has happened to the humanity in you? Will you take this same position if what happened to sugarbelly happens to a 17 years old lady that is very close to you?

Firstly, her allegation against Mustapha Audu was that he raped her and repeatedly forced her to have sex with his friends. She then said Audu condoned it because he was the Governor.

But from the conversation, one can see that NO such incidents took place. She was a spoilt teenage girl that fell in love with a 25years old guy and did lots of crazy sex(not abusive) including street sex. She even flirted with his friends to his own displeasure. He allowed her be but she kept stalking him. She's only bitter that he broke up. That is no rape! You can quote me anywhere... Beside, her mom was aware of the relationship!


I don't condone rape. I am a strong advocate against rape...at the same time, I don't condone false accusation from people.

MathsChic:

I agree. One thing easily discernable about Nigeria is that, most of the corrupt, innovative sadists walking about the country are in reality supposedly intelligent men with university education or influential position. Were this op an influential Nigerian now, he'd still share these sick ideas leaving younger ones with a distorted reality of what a sane society should be.

There perverted view of sexuality and abuse is being accepted as the norm. We must resist it.
I am not surprised sha.
A society that sees nothing wrong with Olamide's STORY FOR THE GODS is a society that had normalized abuse and rationalizes rape and abuse.
Not all men are like that. We will not allow them stigmatize manhood with their perverted views.
That a girl willingly partook in an orgy today does not mean that you and your friends cannot gang rape her the next day.
I find it naive and daft of people to be using the fact that they were in a relationship as an alibi for the alleged abuses. Abuse and relationships are not mutually inexclusive.
I know a girl in her late teens whose boyfriend'idea of punishment was anal sex for every time she disobeyed him. The girl did not like anal sex but loved the boy. It took her opening up to her aunty who is a friend of mine (said aunty is in her late twenties) for the girl to find the courage to end the relationship and threaten the boy with a police case. Someone will come and tell me it was not abuse becuase the girl was still dating the boy.

This Tony you dey try. But the only problem is you are in PDP. Good people are not supposed to be in this party
The sugarbelly story did not add up. Probable, Mustapha promised marrige and failed after messing up with her. It is more like a jilted lover and she is fighting back.

agabusta:
Hmmmm I thought u re a political analyst.

Well from my own opinion, they had a relationship, a very steamy one that ended at the detriment of the girl.

And she is still very bitter and angry.

Sometimes some ladies especially those ones u took their virginity can be crazily in love with someone.

They can also be obsessively in love, which I think is what happened in this case.

The lady obviously was obsessively in love with the guy and threw everything at him.

TonyeBarcanista she may be right that she was gang banged, but I can validly assume that she must have willingly participated in at least one o*rgy before the guy will be forcing her to participate in others.

Youths having access to cool cash and liberty can be extremely wild.

The guy and the lady obviously had a wild intimate relationship, which resulted in the lady being in emotional bondage to the guy. The guy, as usual with most spoilt brats then took advantage of her and started treating her like dirt.

The lady being an obsessive lover, took the dirt thinking "if that pleases the man I love, then I can take it".

At the end of the day, the guy jilted her in a way that left her emotionally devastated. Jilting an obsessive lover can be traumatic, infact they may kill in anger sef or commit suicide.

She is angry and bitter and unable to get back at the Audus due to their influence in the society.

This must have made her even more bitter.

She now lives in the US, land of equity and justice. And her eyes are fully opened with realisations that she was abused!

This is with respect to her age then, but had the guy not jilted her, this would never had come up.

She wants her own pound of flesh and has fired the first shots.

But I must let her know that this is Nigeria, except she has all her facts intact, Nigerian guys cannot be easily intimidated.

When the Audus decide to fight back and open their own can of worms, I hope her family will not suffer greater embarrassments.

Of course the show has just began, she fired the first shots at the Audus using their real name while she used an alias that sounds even somehow. The Audus are now prepared to take on her back and has revealed her real name.

One thing is sure, the Audu guy may be guilty on some fronts, but this lady equally played along until the relationship was broken. Imagine a lady trying to describe sexual encounter with a guy to the public using a phrase like "he fvck.d me". [/b]Her usage of that word alone will make a lot of people in this our society to doubt the 'young innocent me personality' she is trying to sell to the public.

I'm not a lawyer. [b]Someone pls tell me if we have anything like 'statutory rape' in the Nigerian criminal laws. No bashing pls. Just want to know if for sure we also have it in our laws.

I don’t think she wrote any of those for public consumption. Yes, there is statutory rape essentially.

eleko1:
Gbosa for U on dis piece Tonyebarcanista.May ur wisdom never turn to foolishness.God bless U so much.Her allegation remained purely tissue of lies/blackmail to curry sympathy from her equally swine counterparts like mama Oby Ekesilly and gluttony Abike Dabiri who should knw beta but turned blind eyes to the truth/support stupidity.Thank 'Orisa oke',PMB didn't considered/nominated the noisemakers/confusionist oby as Minister. Fear woman.

If we all keep quiet or allow this injustice, some ladies may start using rape as a tool to get back at ex-BFs. We all are firmly against rape offence, but we can't crucify an innocent man just to play somebody's script.

DevilhimseIf:
lol

Welcome aboard TORCHECUL... Let's run.. Onye gbo` oso`, nne ya..

TonyeBarcanista:

You keep repeating her lies. She said...She said... Can't you see that it was a relationship gone bad? If indeed his cousin assaulted her, where was that stated in her mails and why woulld she be stalking the guy even when he chooses to let her be? I put it to you that she's a bloody LIAR! She was NOT a minor at 17(we aren't in the USA), the whole event happened in FCT and it was Consensual. You know of NO fact but only reteirating her lies.

Tonye you keep hinging all this on mails that do not clearly take rocket science to edit.

Those mails are not even admissible in court and last time i checked we don't have forensics that can help prove the legitimacy of the mails.

I agree that she might have been fixated on the guy but still doesnt take the fact that there is some iota of truth in it.

She might be grasping at straws no doubt but the fact that she has been talking about this incidence since the inception of her blog makes it difficult for one to think its all a sham.

#JustSaying

TonyeBarcanista:
No part of her mail exchange did she made mention of rape and torture. I still don't understand where you guys are saying. At what point did the rape occure?

You will not understand.

nobeku:
Welcome aboard I want to fork my harlot mother's asss TORCHECUL... Let's run.. Onye gbo` oso`, nne ya..

ok

TonyeBarcanista:

You are now shifting goal post from he forcefully raped me with his friends to having consensual sex with a 17years old is rape. Total bumkum! We are not in America. This way of reasoning is improper, it only shows that people like you are determined to rope a the proverbial dog in order to have it killed.

Well in the eyes of the Nigerian Constitution, he has broken the law. The law says legal age of consent is 18. So whether or not she walked there and begged for it a million times, it was ILLEGAL of him to accept.

But since that is not important, then there is no point in us complaining about any politician or any party's corruption. Since we all don't care about breaking the law, then anything goes. So if someone rapes your underage minor, he won't go to jail. And if you attack him because he does, you should go to jail. After all, the law doesn't matter, does it?

If your 15 year old daughter complains that your 40 year old landlord raped her, but gave her a recharge card afterwards to shut her up, we will certainly not defend her. She's making a false accusation against him because she took the recharge card, even though he knee she was too young. Agreed?

IlekeHD:

Did Obatala make ojukwu run away like a coward in his wife's lingerie??

Did Obatala make Awolawo drank rat poison like a bastard coward he is?

Leave these gullible and ignorant people. Right from when this bullshit story came out, I never believed it and when I expressed this, you should have seen the insults I received. Some even went as far as accusing me of being among the rapists! I really don't get why people would believe a story with no concrete evidence! It doesn't make any sense whatsoever, and I believe it's only irrational, illogical people that would do so. Anybody can come on a social media platform and just make up any story, and it would be foolhardy to believe any of it. Some people would just never get it, show them proof from today till tomorrow, they'll still believe sugabelly's lies, and to make matters worse, she's a known liar on twitter and instagram (more reason not to believe her story). Maybe it's because a governor is involved, that's why they believe this story.

TonyeBarcanista:

Firstly, her allegation against Mustapha Audu was that he raped her and repeatedly forced her to have sex with his friends. She then said Audu condoned it because he was the Governor.

But from the conversation, one can see that NO such incidents took place. She was a spoilt teenage girl that fell in love with a 25years old guy and did lots of crazy sex(not abusive) including street sex. She even flirted with his friends to his own displeasure. He allowed her be but she kept stalking him. She's only bitter that he broke up. That is no rape! You can quote me anywhere... Beside, her mom was aware of the relationship!


I don't condone rape. I am a strong advocate against rape...at the same time, I don't condone false accusation from people.

DevilhimseIf:

ok

Embrace creativity, you DUNDERHEAD... SHOCK ME... SAY SOMETHING INTELLIGENT...

TonyeBarcanista:

The published conversations were are OWN testimony not the Audus. She was the spoilt girl that even went as far as flirting with Audu's friends to the displeasure of the Audus. She was NEVER raped by anyone and at anytime.

How dare you sit behind your laptop without any shred of concrete evidence and make categorical statements.

In such situations the accuser and accused must be given the benefit of doubt.

But you just sound like a paid writer.

Her mother also will share in the blame. Why give a 17 year old girl uptill 12 midnight to come back home. Something is not right here. And no way she would have not noticed sudden changes in her girls behaviour if she is a good and an observant mother.

DevilhimseIf:
lol

GASBAG!!!!!

Jeloma:
Leave these gullible and ignorant people. Right from when this bullshit story came out, I never believed it and when I expressed this, you should have seen the insults I received. Some even went as far as accusing me of being among the rapists! I really don't get why people would believe a story with no concrete evidence! It doesn't make any sense whatsoever, and I believe it's only irrational, illogical people that would do so. Anybody can come on a social media platform and just make up any story, and it would be foolhardy to believe any of it. Some people would just never get it, show them proof from today till tomorrow, they'll still believe sugabelly's lies, and to make matters worse, she's a known liar on twitter and instagram (more reason not to believe her story). Maybe it's because a governor is involved, that's why they believe this story.

Do you realise that people who went to school with this Mustapha and know of him, are not defending him?

Yet here you are, passionately fighting for a man you have never set your eyes on. Good on you!

Seriously I do sincerely hope you get paid for your hard work.