nobeku:
I will Embrace creativity, because am DUNDERHEAD... SHOCK ME... SAY SOMETHING INTELLIGENT... because am a product of dog's sperm

nobeku:
GASBAG!!!!!

baby124:

Well for one, all you wrote are assumptions. How do you explain a very important fact that this girl has been consistent with this story since 2008. How do you also explain women who are raped, beaten and humiliated by their husbands but even praise him more than this till he beats them dead? Such men are sick animals and how they manipulate women is not something you can understand. She is talking from a place of pain. So many times as teenagers adults scammed us and its when we look back as adults we see the scam. Teenagers are young m, naive and willing to please. They want to grow up fast and will probably take anything given to them to be seen amongst the happening crowd. It happened with almost every teenager. Now, when an adult takes advantage of that to use and abuse the teenager then that adult has crossed the line. He raped, abused and used this girl. If this case was brought before a competent judge, all of these guys will be paying heavy compensation. It is already established through an email that they had a sexual relationship. Even her reluctance to do so has been registered in this email, but the sex happened anyway. Be careful. I hope when you have girl children, you are not quick to tell them they are lying. As for this Mustapha, it's been speculated that he has quite a track record. If other girls come up what then? It is a popular tactic by a lot of Nigerian boys to use video's or pictures for blackmail. That in and of itself is sick. I hope she comes up with more evidence to shut you up. Always remember that when a girl says NO, even if it's your wife, it means NO. If you go ahead and force yourself on her, you have raped her, even if both of you are naked on the bed.

Otherique:
Going by her account, she was 17 when it happened.

But from the one you posted, she was 19, because she talked about Mustapha bailing out on her in her 18th birthday last year.

We were meant to believe the relationship lasted for 6months.


She doesn't sound unintelligent to me, am sure she understands the importance of Chat history, Moreover, she's written about the incident even before Gov. Audu's death on her blog and she shared a link, that's for those who's had to question why the unveiling now.

a possible cloned account could do similar job OP posted.

By the way, ex-Govs are still referred to as Gov, perhaps, she must have had to mix it up somewhere.

She never hid the fact that she was genuinely in love with Mustapha and they did lots of crazy things.

I am yet to arrive at a conclusion and it will be very unfair of you OP to rush into this conclusion.

mbulela:

There perverted view of sexuality and abuse is being accepted as the norm. We must resist it.
I am not surprised sha.
A society that sees nothing wrong with Olamide's STORY FOR THE GODS is a society that had normalized abuse and rationalizes rape and abuse.
Not all men are like that. We will not allow them stigmatize manhood with their perverted views.
That a girl willingly partook in an orgy today does not mean that you and your friends cannot gang rape her the next day.
I find it naive and daft of people to be using the fact that they were in a relationship as an alibi for the alleged abuses. Abuse and relationships are not mutually inexclusive.
I know a girl in her late teens whose boyfriend'idea of punishment was anal sex for every time she disobeyed him. The girl did not like anal sex but loved the boy. It took her opening up to her aunty who is a friend of mine (said aunty is in her late twenties) for the girl to find the courage to end the relationship and threaten the boy with a police case. Someone will come and tell me it was not abuse becuase the girl was still dating the boy.

kinglekan:



Tonye the email exchange could have been doctored. I took time to go thru audu's profile on facebook and realised he got married on the 22nd of March 2008.

In one of the facebook snapshot, they had a chat on the 23rd of march as though things were still going on fine with them.

Jeloma:
I no talk am? And y'all even proved your gullibility by believing the silly made up stories without any proof. Rape is a very serious accusation, and why would I just start calling an alleged rape victim a liar for no reason?? Sugabelly has taken her lies too far this time(quote)



Wetin you talk before? Did the accused say he doesn't know her? Mind you, he is trying to defend himself through a lawyer, shouldn't that make you suspicious? If sugabelly is lying why didn't he face her himself why is he hiding behind a lawyer? Please shift to one side jor, you are clueless.

Laredojohn:
The whole story has some facts the sugarbelly gal was quite loose at a tender age, exposed to guys and her parent less concerned, nowadays u even find gals less than 20 who have had abortions series of times, those defending her need know that the most gals of nowadays are more wild and corrupt

TonyeBarcanista:

Some people believe in mob action without asking for facts. Like this poster...

Gang raped by who and who? Who were the gang rapist and at what point did that happen? Before, during or after the relationship? Who stalks her gang-rapists? Was her mum also aware of it?

Onegai:


Do you realise that people who went to school with this Mustapha and know of him, are not defending him?

Yet here you are, passionately fighting for a man you have never set your eyes on. Good on you!

Seriously I do sincerely hope you get paid for your hard work.

TonyeBarcanista:

You keep repeating her lies. She said...She said... Can't you see that it was a relationship gone bad? If indeed his cousin assaulted her, where was that stated in her mails and why woulld she be stalking the guy even when he chooses to let her be? I put it to you that she's a bloody LIAR! She was NOT a minor at 17(we aren't in the USA), the whole event happened in FCT and it was Consensual. You know of NO fact but only reteirating her lies.

queenfav:
guy,I tire o.The fact is that Nigerians are so hypocritical that they give in to pointless emotions void of logic and analytical thinking.There are a lot of questions to be asked,but most people just want to come off as sympathetic rather than realistic.Go on twitter and read @villageparrot's tweets on this issue.The guy has been called all sorts of names for asking the right questions and pointing out what many are too sentimental to consider.The matter don tire me sef,I am not related to both parties.Let the mud-slinging continue while I observe.

kinglekan:


Tonye you keep hinging all this on mails that do not clearly take rocket science to edit.

Those mails are not even admissible in court and last time i checked we don't have forensics that can help prove the legitimacy of the mails.

I agree that she might have been fixated on the guy but still doesnt take the fact that there is some iota of truth in it.

She might be grasping at straws no doubt but the fact that she has been talking about this incidence since the inception of her blog makes it difficult for one to think its all a sham.

#JustSaying

Jeloma:
SMH! Gullible African. Continue to believe a story with no concrete evidence. So being rational and logical makes me clueless? Oya now, no yawa.

Vanquay:

Laredojohn:
The whole story has some facts the sugarbelly gal was quite loose at a tender age, exposed to guys and her parent less concerned, nowadays u even find gals less than 20 who have had abortions series of times, those defending her need know that the most gals of nowadays are more wild and corrupt

TonyeBarcanista:

What abuse? Was she abused before, during or after the affair? Oh, please spare us with she was 17. This is Nigeria that 16years old dates 60years old men. We are all witnesses to this.

IlekeHD:


I said she sounds like a typical igbo girl nnamdi kanu warned us about.....ashewo runz things.

Look @ FFK's GF for starter....or the Ibo chick [Yobo's MIL] that was running after Fashanu before he divorced her.....

Your girls are known for throwing their dignity away for money.

Hope this aint the case.

TonyeBarcanista:
N/B: Read The Article Before Commenting.

I have been following the story between Miss aka Sugabelly and Mustapha Audu, the son of the late Chief Abubakar Audu. I have watched the reaction of people especially madam Oby Ezekwesili and Hon Abike Dabiri, and I must say that their position on this matter is illogical, embarrassing and unfair to Mustapha Audu and humanity. Let us look at the issue @ hand.

THE MAJOR LIES IN @Sugarbelly's ALLEGATION:
Lie Number One: Audu Abubakar Was Not The Governor As At 2007/8:
Firstly, the so called accuser @Sugabelly alleged that the late Audu Abubakar condoned the 'ficticious' rape just because he was the Governor of Kogi state. This is very far from the truth because Audu Abubakar was elected Governor in 1998, and served between 1999 and May 29, 2003 when he was defeated by Alhaji Ibrahim Idris, who served from 2003 to 2011. He couldn't have used the office of Governor to condone rape when he wasn't the Governor then. In fact, he never ascended to the office after 2003 till his unfortunate demise.

Lie Number 2: False Claim of Friends Gang rape:
I had to read the email exchange between miss Sugabelly and Mustapha, on this said FB message, she was the one apologising to Mustapha Audu for FLIRTING with Audu's friend. From the tone of the message, one will see that Mustapha was the jealous type that got angry because Sugabelly was flirting with his friend. (See paragraph two of the screenshot)


So where does the gang rape story come from? How can a jealous BF allow his friends to have canal knowledge of his GF?

Lie Number 3: False Claim of Rape:
In one of the mails @Sugabelly sent to Mustapha, she was recounting their "sweet memories" and when you look at one of their memories, you will see that both of them had consensual romp and sex. In fact, she was excited recalling some hot memories...


She even talked about their crazy street sex that they had everynight at different streets...


See what she said after their first sex...

www.nairaland.com/attachments/3127447_img20151127235321_jpege980f22b08777db1add197931442a60e


@Sugabelly's Mum Was Aware of The Relationship:
While many erroneously assumed that Mustapha Audu took advantage of the Sugabelly of a character, the truth is that her mother was very much aware of their relationship. In the mail sent to Mustapha by Sugabelly, she made reference of her mom not being happy with Mustapha. Pls see...


Pray tell, was this a relationship or rape?

Mustapha DUMPED Her Because He Didn't Trust Her:
From one of her plea email for a comeback to Mustapha, the so-called rape victim even admitted that Mustapha didn't trust her, and was trying to appeal to his emotion for his trust. Maybe he was right not trusting her with her baseless allegation


Please, does relationship turn sour equate rape? Why victimise an innocent man that is mourning his father?

Concluding...
I put it to @Sugabelly that she was never raped but only trying to blackmail a man that she once loved after all her plea for a comeback failed.

I put it to Madam Oby Ezekwesilli and Hon Abike Dabiri that they are embarrassing to the HIGHEST order for taking a position without a holistic probe of the event. I put it to Oby that she's an hypocrite raised to power ten for knowing the truth and concealing it in order to blackmail an innocent man that is mourning the death of his father just because she's a friend to @Sugabelly's mother.

I am proud and happy to take the time and pains to put this up for the cause of defending an innocent man.

For the record, I wasn't paid nor hired to do this. My love for justice motivated me.






May God Bless All Sincere Nigerians and Lovers of Humanity

Pidggin:


He took advantage of her and raped her severally in the process, if you are being rational or logical you will know that a 25 year old irresponsible man dating a 17 year old loose girl will end up like this. He was and is still an Azzwhole(deliberate mispell), now they want to impose these useless breeds on Kogi people.

JuanDeDios:


I don’t think she wrote any of those for public consumption. Yes, there is statutory rape essentially.

phabulux:


Seriously, some of you are just purely dumb!

It's possible for you to ra...pe someone you've had sex with. The difference between the two is 'concurrence'.

The only problem I have with her story is her coming out NOW.

PVL:
Tonyebarcanista

You claim to be a guy who craves justice but you're blind to the little details here.

He was 25 and she was 17, a minor. Did you miss that? How could you? I know how; because you had already concluded about the whole case from the start.

You're like every other Nigerian that assumes, in a rape case, that the lady is a LovePeddler and the successful Nigerian man, or man in whatever status, is the righteous victim. You say stuff like "she provoked him jo... Why did she carry her two legs to his house... She enjoyed it jo"... She was 17, in a relationship and supposedly in love or rather, obsessed with her abuser!

Secondly, the two stories from corroborate the fact that they indeed where in a consensual relationship from the beginning. It was a "normal" relationship but Sugabelly would later find out that the guy she was in love with had(has) more shades that makes Christian Grey in 50 shades of grey look like a toddler rocking a pacifier.

There are pictures of Mr Audu and the named "alleged co-rapists" shared by Sugabelly and its safe to assume that they were friends.

I suppose what you're finding it hard to understand is why she still stalked and kept in touch with him, even begging for audience, after the very sad incident. Well, I'll tell you. At the age that she was, she definitely had an emotional attachment to her abuser. In her head, at the time, the other guys raping her were just her perceived punishment for not being "woman" enough for Mr Audu. Its sad. It's psychological. It must have been hell being Sugabelly all these years. I do not wish the same for anybody.

I'm 27 and I know how vulnerable I was when I was 17. I understand Sugabelly and I stand with her.

I had heard about her on twitter and thought she had a pretty high opinion about herself. Thought she was a really proud person and never liked her until now; its true what they say..."You never know the battles others are fighting..."

For all the ppl going on and on talking about how "rotten" or spoilt she WAS for having sex and sending nudes and doing all sorts of sexual acts with this Mr. Audu. First and foremost, see how I emphasises "was"? Yes? Past tense, ppl. It's in the past. She was 17, vulnerable and inexperienced (ref: to where she said she hadn't seen a man's unclothedness in full detail until she saw his). Condemn the act and not the person. She made her mistakes, let nobody bury her for that. The only evil going on right now is the truth that everybody is refusing to see, choosing rather to kill and mutate into something they expect the society to overlook.

Its sad Sugabelly had to go through all these and I pray she finds true clossure. Hopefully she already has.

mbulela:

I know a girl in her late teens whose boyfriend'idea of punishment was anal sex for every time she disobeyed him. The girl did not like anal sex but loved the boy. It took her opening up to her aunty who is a friend of mine (said aunty is in her late twenties) for the girl to find the courage to end the relationship and threaten the boy with a police case. Someone will come and tell me it was not abuse becuase the girl was still dating the boy.

erekoshe:


I agree a bitter lover is a terrible thing.. But again, ranting for nearly a decade for a lady her age is way out of the ordinary, something definitely went wrong. Chats and Emails proved things aren't right.. Exchanging mails a day after the guy got married and everything was like normal, that's abnormal..

I know those guys well enough, inasmuch as I don't want to judge, they're capable of such. But again, the pieces of evidence are sketchy, so only a judge or jury can unveil the truth.