Everybody just want to dey relevant for social media

Omotayor123:

I agree with you Doctor... But OP is post is of the position that whatever good a lady achieve is always from a man. And that isn't true!

I know. At face value, that is exactly what it is saying. But, you have to put on another mindset, to read more into it.

I choose to see OP post far more than just material provision. I think in a way it is in effect saying "if mama aint happy, no one is happy".

You look like a queen because he makes you "feel" like a queen OR tells you that you are a queen--NOT necessarily by way of material provision but Immaterially.

As in: he tells you you are beautiful every day Vs. he buys you stuff to make you look beautiful. Now if you does both, that's ideal. But, I rather go with the former.

Does that make sense?

Xiadnat:


I know. At face value, that is exactly what it is saying. But, you have to put on another mindset, to read more into it.

I choose to see OP post far more than just material provision. I think in a way it is in effect saying "if mama aint happy, no one is happy".

You look like a queen because he makes you "feel" like a queen OR tells you that you are a queen--NOT necessarily by way of material provision but Immaterially.

As in: he tells you you are beautiful every day Vs. he buys you stuff to make you look beautiful. Now if you does both, that's ideal. But, I rather go with the former.

Does that make sense?

I get your point... Do have a nice day!

Omotayor123:

Of course! And I won't settle with a man that can't take care of me.... 'But you thinking whatever good a lady achieve must be from a man is totally out of place'!

Hell no! Babe please "don't put words in my mouth" I never said or insinuated the above listed, I was only agreeing with the op and if you read well, you will see that am right..

agarawu23:
why is it a MUST?
I b her papa ?

Is that how u spend foolishly on ladies

You give her whenever u think she is in need and u have the power to gv. It isn't your FULL responsibility and it doesn't guarantee her love for u.

Hahahhahahahahah! Guy no tear my belle abeg! I no tell you say I spend any dime on any lady! I only know that its right for a guy to spend on his to be wife if he truly cherish her.. And I believe you also know that..

ChappyChase:

Hell no! Babe please "don't put words in my mouth" I never said or insinuated the above listed, I was only agreeing with the op and if you read well, you will see that am right..

'I'm not am" This issue was addressed on NL FP two days ago!.
But well, I'm of the opinion that your analysis is wrong!
Good day to you.

Omotayor123:

I agree with you Doctor... But OP is post is of the position that whatever good a lady achieve is always from a man. And that isn't true!

madam, which part of the pic inspired this your assertion? Quote the part.

ChappyChase:

Hahahhahahahahah! Guy no tear my belle abeg! I no tell you say I spend any dime on any lady! I only know that its right for a guy to spend on his to be wife if he truly cherish her.. And I believe you also know that..

okay na

Quote me later in future when you start spending for ladies. You don't have experience yet

Oahray:
madam, which part of the pic inspired this your assertion? Quote the part.

Those ladies obviously have comprehenshion problems

Besides, women have been known to jump into conclusion

Omotayor123:
'I'm not am" This issue was addressed on NL FP two days ago!. But well, I'm of the opinion that your analysis is wrong! Good day to you.

Thanks for the correction.. You too have a nice day...

true talk ooo

agarawu23:
okay na

Quote me later in future when you start spending for ladies. You don't have experience yet

E no go reach that level.

ChappyChase:

E no go reach that level.

hmmmm...

hahn:


Those ladies obviously have comprehenshion problems

Besides, women have been known to jump into conclusion

lol. This bros sef. I think we all jump to conclusions at times sha. Just that some are grasshoppers while others are kangaroos.

I just want to understand her viewpoint. Let's say I'm curious to know how I missed the point she saw. I do not think she has a comprehension problem. Even if I'm wrong, it wouldn't be because she's a woman.

YourMain:
Oh right. Cause we can't buy anything for ourselves.

dames sont aujourd'hui toujours
très exigeant, qui est pourquoi
la plupart des gars sont d'avoir
ce genre de mentalité.

Maxi112:
them won show there self make we call them beta girls

lol but we know better,feignant dames partout.

emmanuel596:



I. Wish we have more reasonable peeps like you on NL that sees things in 2 Diffrent ways


Btw. Most of dem ar guilty that's y dey ar quick to comment.....its guilt I knnw

no wonder.

Youngpo413:
dames sont aujourd'hui toujours
très exigeant, qui est pourquoi
la plupart des gars sont d'avoir
ce genre de mentalité.

Don't speak French sorry.

If men weren't such egoistic beings they'd be okay with women rising above them. Then they wouldn't worry about women's demands.

YourMain:


Don't speak French sorry.

If men weren't such egoistic beings they'd be okay with women rising above them. Then they wouldn't worry about women's demands.

Vous êtes un peu correcte.

Youngpo413:
Vous êtes un peu correcte.

Maybe so.

YourMain:

Maybe so.

you understand french perfectly,mais je me demande encore pourquoi vous niez, par la manière, vous êtes mignon et je suis en amour avec vos lèvres!

Youngpo413:
lol but we know better,feignant dames partout.

must u show ur self?

one of them spotted.......

Maxi112:
must u show ur self?

one of them spotted.......

you misunderstood me,I'm in support of what you said.

Omotayor123:

Of course! And I won't settle with a man that can't take care of me.... 'But you thinking whatever good a lady achieve must be from a man is totally out of place'!

hmmm

I dunno why the girls above are forming so that the broke guys here will clap for them, the OP has already said that this is not meant for the working class and all, but by the way, be it working class or not, I mean as a girl ur guy ain't doing u no shiiiit for appreciation, really? I hate girls who pretend, as a girl its not bad to get things for urself, and its not also bad to expect at least a little gift from ur man, so from month start to month end, ur man cant even give u a damn gift and ur claiming working class abi?! Iranu!
A man is supposed to give u his dick, give u loving and soothing words and also spend on u, that's to show that u are his queen, but if he gives u just the dick n "I love u" what are u to him?
Some girls here be forming like what I don't know.
As for u guys who think u are super smart, u date a girl n don't think that at least even if it's just once, even if na 100 naira card, u no fit give ur girl, u think if she sees someone who will do that for her she will still be wit u, be it if she's working class or not? Girls like surprises generally, if u only seem to surprise her with ur dick and " I love u" I am sorry for u.

Hmmm

Youngpo413:
you understand french perfectly,mais je me demande encore
pourquoi vous niez, par la
manière, vous êtes mignon et je
suis en amour avec vos lèvres!

Did you learn french at AF?

Youngpo413:
you understand french perfectly,mais je me demande encore
pourquoi vous niez, par la
manière, vous êtes mignon et je
suis en amour avec vos lèvres!

Lol no I don't I've a friend here translating. And he's getting really annoyed

And thank you

blessedfavoured:

Did you learn french at AF?

I learnt when I was at Ars-en-Ré.

YourMain:


Lol no I don't I've a friend here translating. And he's getting really annoyed

And thank you

you are welcome.

emmanuel596:
True or false.....ladies tell us. the truth how many guys escorts u guys how many girls do you escort....pls this dos nt have to do with working class ladies and other female hustlers am talking abt those who do packaging,the lazy Ones and the KIM K wanna be freaks and those who. Ssee it as a right for a man to provide for them

That's an African mentality.

Oahray:
Lol. This is amusing, especially the comments by the ladies here.

I don't like that he's focusing on the material as the sole way to contribute to your girls development, but you can't brush off the entire post as rubbish. He's being realistic.

A lady likes to feel cared for by her partner, no matter how well-to-do she already is. Infact the majority of girls would accept gifts and attention from other guys, while pretending not to know the motive behind it (I dare you ladies to deny this, but you have to quote with a phone you bought yourself).

The point is, if a guy doesn't do some stuff for his girl, there is a likelihood other guys would.

Even if you do all that, gifts, cash etc; some other dude will still do same or even more. Ladies have insatiable needs, which require collective efforts from everyone . Get a gal a KIA Seranto, she will envy her friend who probably got a Range from her bf, and wish for same.