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Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:17pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
sunmarouk:No mind the man (your papa) jare. Him no try at all. RIP Your Momma... |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
summerflame: Cmon respect yourself. Silly goat. |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by delishpot: 4:23pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
grandlexuz: Will you do wifey duties after the dowry has been paid? She goes out to hussle while you handle home front? If yes then I believe many women will gladly pay that dowry |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by ivili(m): 4:27pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista:The funny thing is i am an Ishan and i have never heard of any of this laws .well they say what you believe in is what you live by. |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by justmenoni: 4:28pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
In as much as I respect other people's culture values and ethics.. I see alot of the 9 taboos as bullshit..So husband and wife can't bath together from the same bucket..married men shoukd start commiting adultery(3 months abstinence no be play play...no one should touch a married woman's wrapper(ask those ppl living in face me I slap you if this is possible,don't sit on married people's bed(even if they are ur parent's or people very close to you(basketmouth was seen on lindas bed and there are actually lot's of people this close. The koko of the matter here is Ethics(do the right thing) and that is fornication is not a good thing. |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by prettymina(f): 4:29pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Ur wahala too much o no be u dey find esan woman? Akkord4gov: |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by prettymina(f): 4:30pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Lol abeg go first make I carry dangote or dansuli come beg u KINGinVAHALA: |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by nefertitiram: 4:30pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
These taboos only relate to you when you marry an Ishan man! As an Ishan woman when you marry another tribe, you are free from this bondage! Yes, the taboos are real. I heard em all from my Ishan parents when growing up, and as a matter of fact, my cousins died one after the other because their mum committed adultery. My uncle is still alive because he chased her away, but the children continued visiting their mother and died strange deaths. I knew I was never gonna marry ishan man sha! Their wahala sef too plenty. Arrogant bunch! They believe that a woman was created to serve them. 2 Likes |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by whytfaz(m): 4:31pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Lol just finished having sex between and I am Esan |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Slimzjoe(m): 4:33pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Onegai: Hubby and wifey na Clown Joor |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by afroxyz: 4:33pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
What do they do to men that cheat on their wives? |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
nefertitiram: You probably don't want to marry an Esan man because they aren't weak simps who'll let you run them over. 1 Like |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Omon605(m): 4:38pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
1. Is a pure lie because i stays in abuja and my friends do come to visit most times and stay with us for few days. They used my wife wrapper to cover at night. Is fully accepted unless you have and interior motive. Is not forbidden in Ishian culture as you portrait 2. In Ishian once you are married nobody cares when you sleep with your wife. Anytime is allowed. No time is restricted and you are even encourage by both families to do it quick so that you can start having children, because that's the only problem I can't find in Ishian marriage. It is expected once you are married children should follow 3. Here to a large extent you are correct but no barbing of any hair and if the woman didn't confess on time she might loose her own life but for that of the children that had been revised and if the man or his suspecting the woman at all without telling his elders the man may also loose his own life. But if the man didn't know or suspect the wife in anyway he had know problem 4. If the woman confess to the husband alone without the husband family, the husband may loose his life. Once the woman confess to the husband or the husband suspected the woman at all he had to quickly alert his people and explain to them. If the woman didn't really do anything contrary she will be set free instantly and given some advice not to indulge herself in such unholy behaviour and sometimes the man will be punish for suspecting the wife. But once a woman indulge in the act and she confess and the husband still agreed to take her as his wife that's why they performed that ritual, naked the woman and takes her round the village by the women. Note : this is not a must but depending on the circumstances 5. Hmmmmmm, I understand why you missed this. Once the word cross a woman is mentioned in Ishian what everybody believe is you have slept with the woman. That's doesn't mean mere walking across a woman's legs is a taboo. You can walked across a woman's legs but you can't cross a woman (sleep) 6. That's is arm robber lie. This is just lie, if you steals your husband's money is between you and your God. Nobody cares, is not a taboo 7. Not truth at all. Anybody can sleep on your bed. Is not forbidden at all. Sometimes if the heat is too much I bring my foam outside and share with my friends. Is not forbidden if you wish to share with anybody. Fully accepted 8. Yes is forbidden if only you say it out. Is not a taboo, is just that some men used it as a means to punish their wives. No sting attached so long the man didn't announce the woman 9. I only had of this but never witness it. Even strangers bath with the same buckets th couples bath with 10. Sorry I just help you to number this. Is a lie my friend. Nobody tells you when to sleep with your during and after birth. I had a cousin whom first child is barely 11 months old and the have given birth to another baby. Am seeing some Ishian marriage attires on this your post and I believe if really you knew that couple very well it will help to provide an answer to this 1 Like |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by tottinova: 4:41pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
erunz: Na only die die die I just dey see. The people person wet establish this rules abi law never die When him/she or them die, e fit be sey na their law kill dem |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:55pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
suwalee:Na wa o. Na just ginger jare.. |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:02pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
ivili:No mind them jare. All these format wey dem de use to cage people sef... |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by KINGinVAHALA: 5:06pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
prettymina:Who re these names u mentioned? i was xpecting to read names like obama, bill gate, warrent buffet, vladimir putin, and their type nd nt those local champions u mentioned. hehehhe You arent looking bad! |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Carlson001(m): 5:11pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
I would have believed everything if not that I'm an Ishan guy ... Only number 8 is acceptable there. "Proudly Ishan." |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by esan1(m): 5:24pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Sunnycliff:The best tribe to marry, that is where my wife from |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by suwalee(f): 5:27pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista:it's not nd it's so real |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by nefertitiram: 5:35pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
aim5: At all! They are actually proud and overbearing, and the last thing they will do is let a woman run over them. They want to lord over you and be worshipped! Arrrgh! |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by egbelejerry(m): 5:48pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
I rep Uromi.... Dis ar not true |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Nobody: 5:59pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
davide470: Lmao!! |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Nobody: 6:10pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
The curse of adultery has been modified. Before, the household falls ill and her 1st son dies. Now the household falls sick until she confesses or is forced to. If the husband out of shame or love conceals it not allowing her perform cleansing, he dies. Happened to my elder brother 2 years ago and he died. I'm still baffled till today if it's the curse, a coincidence, or opportunistic strike from strong men for our village to put the death on his wife's adultery. 1 Like |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by habsydiamond(m): 6:15pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Ah ah, why abomination come plenty like jollof rice like this. Thou I like some of them. Like if wife steal her husband money own. And that of fornication but the rest I no overstand am not to say understand |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Damtha(f): 6:17pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
erunz:Na lie jare |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by just2endowed: 6:21pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Hmmmm that means there ladies will be faithful |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by gaddafe(m): 6:39pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
bilulu: The OP is right, what you just stated is the belief of the Benin and not Esan. |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by pet4ril(f): 6:44pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Young03:because if you do any how, you see anyhow. Ishan girl no dey take last, and benins are afraid of ishans as a whole especially the uromians |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by litetias(m): 6:50pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
raayah:Feminism is rubbish. You want same standards and equal treatment but still want men to open doors for you and to do all the hard work. Thats called double standards 1 Like |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by pharoah7(m): 6:51pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Proudly Ishan!!!...Oyeee |
Re: 9 Marriage Taboo Ishan People Have That Will Amaze You by Malawian(m): 6:57pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
when an ishan girl tells you "ku udu re", know you are doing a good job |
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