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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 25, 2016
My culture doesnt permit adultery by a wife.The husband either divorce her or be preparing for his funeral.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 10:28pm On Mar 25, 2016
Love Machine:
My culture doesnt permit adultery by a wife.The husband either divorce her or be preparing for his funeral.
Woow!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 10:29pm On Mar 25, 2016
Cutehector:
I pray never to b put in such temptation
Lol..
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by abimic(m): 10:34pm On Mar 25, 2016
I would never cheat on my wife in marriage and when she takes what I eat at home outside voluntarily, that's the end of the marriage with no recourse to any further negotiations. A cheating wife can kill her husband, better we call it quit before person go kpain.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 10:42pm On Mar 25, 2016
abimic:
I would never cheat on my wife in marriage and when she takes what I eat at home outside voluntarily, that's the end of the marriage with no recourse to any further negotiations. A cheating wife can kill her husband, better we call it quit before person go kpain.
Hahaha.. Seems you are very sure you won't cheat.. Nice one.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tosyne2much(m): 10:43pm On Mar 25, 2016
abimic:
I would never cheat on my wife in marriage and when she takes what I eat at home outside voluntarily, that's the end of the marriage with no recourse to any further negotiations. A cheating wife can kill her husband, better we call it quit before person go kpain.
lmao cheesy

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by abimic(m): 11:01pm On Mar 25, 2016
PureWays:
Hahaha.. Seems you are very sure you won't cheat.. Nice one.
Yes bro, I would never o, never ever at any cost! I go love my wife wella ehn,so I can only marry a lady that's up to date.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Abbeyunique2(m): 11:04pm On Mar 25, 2016
My mum, she sabi my mumu button
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 11:07pm On Mar 25, 2016
abimic:

Yes bro, I would never o, never ever at any cost! I go love my wife wella ehn,so I can only marry a lady that's up to date.
Good luck Bro.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Tonydeeb(m): 11:36pm On Mar 25, 2016
If it's a lady I so love and still love at the advent of the occurence, then I might forgive her...the marriage could never remain thesame though...as everytime I remember what had transpired, I sure will review my stance on letting her remain with me.
On the other hand, if it happens to be a lady I married out of pity or desperation or the love btw us is vaporized, then no story...it's straight divorce(with no issue btw us ofcourse).
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 11:41pm On Mar 25, 2016
Tonydeeb:
If it's a lady I so love and still love at the advent of the occurence, then I might forgive her...the marriage could never remain thesame though...as everytime I remember what had transpired, I sure will review my stance on letting her remain with me.
On the other hand, if it happens to be a lady I married out of pity or desperation or the love btw us is vaporized, then no story...it's straight divorce(with no issue btw us ofcourse).
Ooh.. Can't you forgive and forget? After all you love her..
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Tonydeeb(m): 11:57pm On Mar 25, 2016
PureWays:
Ooh.. Can't you forgive and forget? After all you love her..

Oh, that's gonna be extra hard man...it'll take the intervention of God to make me forgive her!.

Seriously, I've had these thoughts for some while now, and I discovered that I just cannot bring myself to forgiving her if I wanted to.

Can't act upon rumors though, but if I were to catch her in the act?...no no no!.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 12:18am On Mar 26, 2016
Tonydeeb:


Oh, that's gonna be extra hard man...it'll take the intervention of God to make me forgive her!.

Seriously, I've had these thoughts for some while now, and I discovered that I just cannot bring myself to forgiving her if I wanted to.

Can't act upon rumors though, but if I were to catch her in the act?...no no no!.
Hmm.. Anyway, going by your write up, it shows how willing you want to have a good family, you are ready to sacrifice it all (I mean all the wild fun) if I'm not mistaken..
I hope you find the right woman bro, it will be a shame after all you have sacrificed and still catch your wife cheating (God forbid)..
Enjoy Bro.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Tonydeeb(m): 12:28am On Mar 26, 2016
PureWays:
Hmm.. Anyway, going by your write up, it shows how willing you want to have a good family, you are ready to sacrifice it all (I mean all the wild fun) if I'm not mistaken..
I hope you find the right woman bro, it will be a shame after all you have sacrificed and still catch your wife cheating (God forbid)..
Enjoy Bro.

You sure you ain't a mind reader?!.
Hope we all find the right partners for ourselves!.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 12:30am On Mar 26, 2016
Tonydeeb:


You sure you ain't a mind reader?!.
Hope we all find the right partners for ourselves!.
Amen to that bro.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by apparentlylaw(m): 1:40am On Mar 26, 2016
cause she's ma wife
ask her why she did it
definitely its gonna be ma fault trust me guys always drive dier women to cheat
& I kip on looking 4 ways to kip her to ma self even if it z jazz ....lol

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 1:45am On Mar 26, 2016
apparentlylaw:
cause she's ma wife

ask her why she did it

definitely its gonna be ma fault
trust me guys always drive dier women to cheat

& I kip on looking 4 ways to kip her to ma self
even if it z jazz ....lol
Ooh.. That's nice to acknowledge that it must have been your fault..
But what's with the Jazz stuff? That's way out of line chief.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by apparentlylaw(m): 7:47am On Mar 26, 2016
PureWays:
Ooh.. That's nice to acknowledge that it must have been your fault..
But what's with the Jazz stuff? That's way out of line chief.
jez joking

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by ettaetta(m): 7:53am On Mar 26, 2016
I may forgive her if i have cheated on her before, but if not i cant forgive no matter what https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 10:25am On Mar 26, 2016
ettaetta:
I may forgive her if i have cheated on her before, but if not i cant forgive no matter what https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8
Ooh! Alright..
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by torqque7(m): 11:22am On Mar 26, 2016
Forgive kini?nahh everything else is forgivable except that..if she wants forgiveness she should get religion, I'll forgive her but kick her to the curb,depends on the cheating sha,if s.ex isn't involved then I can live with it but once she opens her legs for another man that settles it..
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by saintkel(m): 10:44pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.
hello dear
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by ReducBloodSugar: 10:58pm On Apr 04, 2016
Christ is peace
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by huntax(m): 10:59pm On Apr 04, 2016
I'd forgive her wholeheartedly.....


















....only if she's the one paying the bills.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by oluwasegun007(m): 10:59pm On Apr 04, 2016
only if she tells me the number of times she did it and wit wu.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by sheftyxz(m): 11:00pm On Apr 04, 2016
To send her back to her parent
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lekjons(m): 11:01pm On Apr 04, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
God bless you!

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by guywitzerogal(m): 11:02pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

sacrifice for marriage by sleeping wit anoda man, wat kind of sacrifice s dat i swear if my wife to b does dat i will personally deal wit her.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by huntax(m): 11:02pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.


I'll forgive her, but she won't be my wife anymore. Can't stand the thought of her wrapping her legs around another man and moaning desperately.
Seeing her everyday would crush me.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Adedayo97(m): 11:02pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

na story o i can neva 4get even if i try 2....d memory will still b there

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.

Leave god out of this. Even jesus says u can divorce at d imstance of adultery.
Cheating is something no man on earth would let slide, except he is a man with no self esteem or worth....

Even if she is forgiven he wont forget, ever. Unfortunately. Its just d way men are...... Only a memory loss or a new woman can heal such a guy....

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by REALDEAL01: 11:03pm On Apr 04, 2016
PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?
LOVE

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