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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by shollyboy2: 11:04pm On Apr 04, 2016
Will only forgive her, if she can accept to bring one of her beautiful lady friend to come join us do """tree-some""""...
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by huntax(m): 11:05pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.
How convenient... No surprise... I can see the "f"
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Adedayo97(m): 11:05pm On Apr 04, 2016
She can neva b my wife again ni....d memory will still b there
lekjons:
God bless you!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by guywitzerogal(m): 11:06pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
For the fact a wife is human and not God, then, she is likely to fall into temptation and sin against her husband.

It can happen to husband too.
pls stop using dat word fall into temptation and sin by Sleepin wit anoda man for God sake we should nt b deceiving oursef

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by GANJAFARMER: 11:06pm On Apr 04, 2016
PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?
If she can help me lure the men she's been cheating with to a location where I can sodomize them under her watch after then I'll shut her up forever. cool

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by REALDEAL01: 11:07pm On Apr 04, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
LOVE RULES
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by opineflu(m): 11:07pm On Apr 04, 2016
i will 4give as jah did 4 us ,,,of wich He emplore us to emulate....

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by huntax(m): 11:07pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?
God won't put any woman in such a situation. Those kind of situations are mostly in your favourite home videos.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by OAFMods: 11:08pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.


By his grace your brain should be fully functional come next year.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by igwegeorgiano(m): 11:09pm On Apr 04, 2016
omo dat one na jambito question o. all d same if na me, i will quietly let her off so she can go have her fun to d fullest. reason is, its totally against the customs and tradition of my village that a woman will cheat on her husband and still remain with him in d same huz
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by opineflu(m): 11:09pm On Apr 04, 2016
Adedayo97:
She can neva b my wife again ni....d memory will still b there
if u have neva sin then u shuld go ahead and cast d 1st stone

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by bettercreature(m): 11:10pm On Apr 04, 2016
It depends on the level of the cheating anyway i don't forgive
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by AntiWailer: 11:10pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.


Even bible allow divorce on ground of adultery
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by opineflu(m): 11:12pm On Apr 04, 2016
OAFMods:


By his grace your brain sould be fully functional come next year.
he said the TRUTH bruh

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Firstlieutenant(m): 11:12pm On Apr 04, 2016
Why would she cheat in the first place, when I'm a great screw!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by huntax(m): 11:12pm On Apr 04, 2016
apparentlylaw:
cause she's ma wife

ask her why she did it

definitely its gonna be ma fault
trust me guys always drive dier women to cheat

& I kip on looking 4 ways to kip her to ma self
even if it z jazz ....lol
You remind me of Mr Ibu... That man was an MUMU in that movie... Just saying.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?
dis is d kind of scenario u give when u re addicted to nollywood movies... U re just narrating d movie u watched recently.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Apr 04, 2016
bettercreature:
It depends on the level of the cheating anyway i don't forgive

Brutally honest... Lol
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Marley01(m): 11:13pm On Apr 04, 2016
A copy of the sex tape + the guy's detached joystick
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Baylam(m): 11:14pm On Apr 04, 2016
Cheat and Leave!!! God forgive i don't! !!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by tellwisdom: 11:17pm On Apr 04, 2016
I cannot forgive her.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lekjons(m): 11:22pm On Apr 04, 2016
Adedayo97:
She can neva b my wife again ni....d memory will still b there
lol.. we kinda share the same belief, the only reason she may remain my wife is if she has sacrificed a lot for the relationship or she was that girl that was with me when things're hard.. but still, she won't enjoy the marriage, from that day on, the marrige will be boring and she may have no other option than to divorce me by herself..

but if it's woman that hadn't sacrifice anything for the relationship or not with me when things're hard, the moment i caught her cheating on me, she should just pack her loads and get out of my house peaceful, she musn't even beg me if she'll like to go unhurt!..

i don't know your own reason for that kind of mindset but mine is because i don't play with emotions.. i tend to be careful about my loved-ones emotions and i expect them to be likewise..

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by fflamingo(m): 11:24pm On Apr 04, 2016
I can't never ever forgive her. I have chastised myself during my youthful day and if I get married, I will stick to my one wife which only death can do us apart, but cheating will do us apart.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by skyflydocy: 11:24pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

I will forgive her..but the best for us both is to seperate..even the bible specifies adultery as the only excuse for divorce... Trust lost can never be found...fact//
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Sanchez01: 11:25pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

Don't make it look like Gomar cheated while being married to Hosea. She was a full time prostitute before meeting Hosea. As a matter of fact, it was God who instructed Hosea to take her as wife. God was still the one who asked Hosea to find her again after she had left him into her previous way of life. All that transpired was because God was showing Israel how unfaithful they had been but yet, still, He had stood by then through it all. My sister, don't ever use that scenario to preach forgiveness on human part anywhere in the world. Even a man of God today would brandish a machete if he catches his wife.

For me, that's the end. Even Christ made it clear that adultery is the only ground for divorce. I can't stand a cheat.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 04, 2016
Kind of thread women just observe thinking.....

"Hmm these men are wicked o"

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
If he as a human can sin against God and ask him for forgiveness, and, he forgives.


Then, he should forgive his wife. Esp, if she is remorseful, Kids or no Kids.



A hoe should never be forgiven. She cheats,she leaves.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 04, 2016
missbronze:
I don't really agree with your last statement.

Situations can make people do something drastic.

Let's look at this scenario for eg,

A wife and her husband have a kid who is critically ill and hospital wouldn't commence treatment unless a deposit is made.

husband and wife runs around for money, yet. no help.
( let's say husband have no job and poor)

Wife now runs to a rich neighbor for assistance, and he asks to sleep with her before rendering assistance.

Believe me, it will take a strong woman not to give in to save her child.

But, if she gives in for her child, will you say she has been planning it?
in this case she'll have to come up with a clean plan for us to eliminate the rich neighbour.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lekjons(m): 11:28pm On Apr 04, 2016
huntax:

God won't put any woman in such a situation. Those kind of situations are mostly in your favourite home videos.
may God bless you for this!



if unfortunately it happens, she must ask for my approval before she does..

i prefer to steal than to see my beloved wife do such for money..

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by measideyhere(m): 11:28pm On Apr 04, 2016
NOTHING.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by LyfeJennings(m): 11:30pm On Apr 04, 2016
E go hard o
God forgive me
E go overhardddddd
Even if I forgive
I will never forget
& everytime I remember
I would HATE her..
I once slept with a married woman knowingly and it hurts me everything I remember.
I feel like stabbing myself.
Seriously, I can't forgive her

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by habsydiamond(m): 11:30pm On Apr 04, 2016
If only she will allow me to film the action, make sextape out of it and get rich. Why won't I forgive. But after she go carry EX in front of the Wife oooo

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