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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by 19naia(m): 2:03am On Apr 05, 2016
Of course, things can be negotiated if a real relationship is to be maintained. Maybe we can agree on a suitable house girl or even several house girls for me shocked while she is away doing her thing. She can rest assured the house will be kept in very good order as long as she is the one paying their salaries. grin
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lekjons(m): 2:03am On Apr 05, 2016
REALDEAL01:
Which passage of the bible says so?
Mattew chapter 5, verse 31-32..

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by CertifiedSamuel: 2:07am On Apr 05, 2016
Do not give what you cannot take...
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:14am On Apr 05, 2016
Lenny5k:


I will forgive her if she asked for it... And we will also discuss what led to it to see how it can be forgiven..... Men do it a lot of times and expects to be forgiven if caught so why cant I do same? It's no sign of weakness, but actually a sign of Strength to do what others cant do
I feel you chief.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:15am On Apr 05, 2016
19naia:
Of course, things can be negotiated if a real relationship is to be maintained. Maybe we can agree on a suitable house girl or even several house girls for me shocked while she is away doing her thing. She can rest assured the house will be kept in very good order as long as she is the one paying their salaries. grin
Hahaha.. You bad no be small... Lol

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:17am On Apr 05, 2016
Toks2008:


If i deeply love her and that is the very first time.
Woow, coming from you?! How will you control the thought whenever it springs up? You know, it's not easy to forget that kind of thing.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by paparazzi1987(m): 2:18am On Apr 05, 2016
Nothing
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 2:18am On Apr 05, 2016
If she give me better knacking in return!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:18am On Apr 05, 2016
GANJAFARMER:
If she can help me lure the men she's been cheating with to a location where I can sodomize them under her watch after then I'll shut her up forever. cool
Haba!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:19am On Apr 05, 2016
Silkmoth33:
If she give me better knacking in return!
Lol.. That won't help, trust me.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 2:22am On Apr 05, 2016
No! I meant better knacking wey she sef know say go really prove to me that their is no one else like me then ill know that she is truely sorry.
PureWays:
Lol.. That won't help, trust me.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by santafe(m): 2:26am On Apr 05, 2016
I will forgive her if she is remorseful and begs for forgiveness. It's no big deal, she's human
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 2:31am On Apr 05, 2016
foyeks2001:
Men on this thread are not smilling at all...u guys are wicked ...as a married woman, can't even stand d thought of undressing myself in front of another man...well, mayb because I'm a possessive lover...I must confess any woman dat cheats, doesn't fear God& does not love d man

No, its because you respect yourself (your body) and your marriage vows.
It is out of this "self-respect", that Love for your husband comes in.

Pause and reflect on this for a minute. undecided

People like you give hope to the marriage institution.
Respects!



Lastpage!

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:34am On Apr 05, 2016
Silkmoth33:
No! I meant better knacking wey she sef know say go really prove to me that their is no one else like me then ill know that she is truely sorry.
There is a fault in that.. You don't prove how loyal you are ready to be with sex (any kind of sex)..
What if she acts? She may be doing exactly same for the other man, you know..
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:37am On Apr 05, 2016
Taryur3:
My brain can never be at rest until I seek for divorce and do DNA test to all our children.I will just be thinking about different styles the corcubine give her.may God not give me such woman with this my status...I might do some ungodly things to end the corcubine life.it's annoying walahi to know a man bleeping your wife.one of my friend is in current situation now
Lmao.. I understand you bro.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:38am On Apr 05, 2016
boyestic:
i can forgive her if i confirm they did missionary style only but if na DOGGY den dey do.............its over.
Lmao... grin grin
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:45am On Apr 05, 2016
youmour:
I cant just imagine another man getting freaky with my woman ubanu blood must flow,on a good day when i be werey for bedmatics you still go yansh outside?it cant happun sef
Lol
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PureWays(m): 2:48am On Apr 05, 2016
foyeks2001:
Men on this thread are not smilling at all...u guys are wicked ...as a married woman, can't even stand d thought of undressing myself in front of another man...well, mayb because I'm a possessive lover...I must confess any woman dat cheats, doesn't fear God& does not love d man
Hmm.. You are a woman, I believe you should know better..
If what you said is true about women, that means a woman that cheats shouldn't be forgiven..
It's nice to know that there are still women with moral standards..

Respect ma'am..

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by korexdodo(m): 2:58am On Apr 05, 2016
“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.”
Isaiah1:18

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by PURITYMYPRIDE(m): 3:12am On Apr 05, 2016
I will forgive her but she cant be my wife again.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by charmingeyes(m): 3:18am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.


You have a good point about the need to forgive, yet reference should not be made to Hosea and Gomer as what happened btw them wasn't natural, just a supernatural symbol of God's relationship with Israel.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by DrHighchief(m): 3:21am On Apr 05, 2016
Cheating is a taboo/abomination from where I came from. For a woman to cheat on d husband, d next thing to do is to do the needful by packing out o the house. What made her to cheat the first time will make her to cheat again. There will never b trust in the marriage again. There is no excuse for a woman/man to cheat. Both of them should remain faithful to each other.
God Bless Nigeria.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lodscott(m): 3:44am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?

there's something men have that is called an ego and his pride, which is usually his wife's faithfullness, once you destroy that, there is no going back.even if he is Jesus christ and manages to forgive you.you would hv killed something that goes as deep as his soul, he'd never be the same trust me, neither wld the marriage
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Nobody: 3:59am On Apr 05, 2016
Forgive a cheat?...DREAM ON!
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Princedapace(m): 4:01am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?

I don't know for all these people talking about Bible: as for me, once my wife cheats, it is over...like over...like anyone who begs for her will also get out of my life for good. I don't joke with cheating. If she can cheat for any reason, she can kill me too. I am not a devine being. I don't forgive cheating. I'm happy Bible gave me a room to chase away a cheating wife. For any reason, I don't see why a married lady should open her legs, scream for another man and still begs for hubby's forgiveness.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by henryhemon(m): 4:01am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine.



And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.


Ain't forgiving anything.
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by foyeks2001(f): 4:03am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
Hmm.. You are a woman, I believe you should know better..
If what you said is true about women, that means a woman that cheats shouldn't be forgiven..
It's nice to know that there are still women with moral standards..

Respect ma'am..

A sin that a man refuses to forgive his wife or sin a woman refuses to forgive her husband will hinder one from making heaven... Pastor W.F. Kumuyi....choose wisely

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by foyeks2001(f): 4:07am On Apr 05, 2016
lastpage:


No, its because you respect yourself (your body) and your marriage vows.
It is out of this "self-respect", that Love for your husband comes in.

Pause and reflect on this for a minute. undecided

People like you give hope to the marriage institution.
Respects!



Lastpage!
Thanks for d compliments Sir...Lol
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by foyeks2001(f): 4:16am On Apr 05, 2016
Princedapace:


I don't know for all these people talking about Bible: as for me, once my wife cheats, it is over...like over...like anyone who begs for her will also get out of my life for good. I don't joke with cheating. If she can cheat for any reason, she can kill me too. I am not a devine being. I don't forgive cheating. I'm happy Bible gave me a room to chase away a cheating wife. For any reason, I don't see why a married lady should open her legs, scream for another man and still begs for hubby's forgiveness.
The Holy Bible doesn't give room for divorce my brother... If u send her away, ur creator will ask u of that sin, u refused to let go on judgement day...pls kindly forgive when someone seeks for your forgiveness, its 4 ur own good

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by Toks2008(m): 4:42am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
Woow, coming from you?! How will you control the thought whenever it springs up? You know, it's not easy to forget that kind of thing.

Its a thing of the mind dude. I have come to believe that most ladies are cheats and leaving a wife that cheats hastily is no guaranty that the next lady you marry does not have a more terrible sexual history or wont do worse.

What i can't condole is an unrepentant cheat.Once is a mistake but twice is a habit.

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Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by agarawu23(m): 4:54am On Apr 05, 2016
firstEVA:
Men hardly forgive a cheating spouse, if for any reason she remains in his house as wife, she will not enjoy the marriage.
fact
Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by rellawyt(f): 4:58am On Apr 05, 2016
missbronze:
If Hosea can forgive Gomar for unfaithfulness in the bible.


Why then, will a man not forgive his wife if she cheats.


You can forgive for children, the sacrifices she made in the marriage, etc.


All I am saying is to forgive is Divine. As long as she doesn't go back to doing it..

And as long as we are mere mortals, to sin or err is a must. it may be from husband or wife. Therefore, we should always be ready to forgive one another.

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