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Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 8:14pm On Apr 05, 2016
Too early? Well, I had to write it asaply because I wept when I saw the one FP about men and their double standard.

I wept because it was written by the gender that want to eat their cake as many times as they want and still have it.

Let's get down to business cause I really have a lot to typegrin.

Their Double Standards


1. Any man who hits a woman is a coward and woman beater but women arrested for domestic violence must have acted in self-defense

2. Men are expected to treat women like helpless, delicate flowers one day and then the next, we are supposed to forget that they were helpless and see them as competent enough to make half of the decisions in relationships or the workplace.

3. When women are asked what they want in a relationship a sizeable portion of them will say that they want a man who will provide them with some measure of chivalry but one who also “isn’t afraid of an independent woman”. If we note the hypocrisy, we are called misogynists.

4. Women want equality and still want men to pay for dates. At least the first one. They still want men to hold open the door, Walk on the side of traffic and to automatically turn on "mechanic mode" whenever their car breaks down on the road. In other words they want to be given both equality and chivalry.

5. They want to hit and never get hit. If she hits you, well she's a woman but you can't hit back because no responsible man hits a woman.

6. A drunk woman consenting to sex was raped by the man. A drunk man consenting to sex had poor control over himself and raped the woman.

7. All women should have the right to believe what they want" . Whoever thinks differently is labeled as stupid with internalized misogyny.

8. Male-dominated fields are proof of sexism against women but female-dominated fields are okay.

9. Women should be allowed to wear whatever they want, even if it's really sexy and revealing however a Guy wearing a t-shirt with a picture of a sexy women is sexist and mysoginist.

10. Nobody complains when they are verbally abusive towards a man(he shouldn't complain too because she needs help) but if he dares fire back, then they claim he is a mysogynist, a bully or a sexist

11. A male that mistakenly walks into ladies room is a pervert but a lady that does the same obviously missed her way.

12. My husband's money is our money but my money is my money.

Women want equality but will cry "victim" when that equal treatment hurts their little feelings and yet one of them had the balls to complain about men and their double standard.

Lemme stop here before I provoke true true.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by krak101(m): 8:26pm On Apr 05, 2016
My brother... Just allow them. They want all these concessions yet they say we're equal. What's the justification then?
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Mutuwa(m): 8:30pm On Apr 05, 2016
I reiterate, their intelligence will always be our common sense.
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by edwife(f): 8:32pm On Apr 05, 2016
I detest double standards in all ramification.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by fredoooooo: 8:38pm On Apr 05, 2016
Women and wahala Sha grin grin
Edwife tongue
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Slimzjoe(m): 8:41pm On Apr 05, 2016
Preach it Bro...Preach it!!

When they Insult you, they Expect you to take it In Like that cos they're Letting out there Emotions but when you Fight Back, you're Mean and Abusive undecided undecided

Women are Confused beings angry

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 8:43pm On Apr 05, 2016
krak101:
My brother... Just allow them. They want all these concessions yet they say we're equal. What's the justification then?
Being a woman.
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 8:46pm On Apr 05, 2016
edwife:
I detest double standards in all ramification.
It is Frustratingly Annoyinggringringrin




Oga Lalasticlala comman finish what you started.gringrin
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by edwife(f): 8:48pm On Apr 05, 2016
fredoooooo:
Women and wahala Sha grin grin
Edwife tongue

Lol I don't buy the 'equality' thing because everyone has his own interpretation.For me i will rather talk about flexibility or rather flexible fairness.

Partners should contribute to their shared life in different ways and in different degrees and over time the balance fluctuates.

There are two things involve here; trusting that your partner is doing all he or she can, and making sure that you are doing all that you can.It is as simple as that.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 8:48pm On Apr 05, 2016
Slimzjoe:
Preach it Bro...Preach it!!

When they Insult you, they Expect you to take it In Like that cos they're Letting out there Emotions but when you Fight Back, you're Mean and Abusive undecided undecided

Women are Confused beings angry
hahahahahahahaha









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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by kingstylo01(m): 8:49pm On Apr 05, 2016
you make advances, they say you are a pervert; you don't, they say you aren't man enough!
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by krak101(m): 8:50pm On Apr 05, 2016
Tallesty1:
Being a woman.
when God created Eve, she was put under the man's authority. Don't know where these feminists get their doctrines from #endtimedesires

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 8:53pm On Apr 05, 2016
krak101:
when God created Eve, she was put under the man's authority. Don't know where these feminists get their doctrines from #endtimedesires
Some of them do not believe there's God.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by lilmax(m): 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2016
Wetin man go do? Point 1 is the most annoying... And btw you are a mysogynist for opening this thread grin



Your money is our money but my money is my money grin
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Ezedon(m): 8:59pm On Apr 05, 2016
Very very true
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Slimzjoe(m): 9:00pm On Apr 05, 2016

Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Cutehector(m): 9:12pm On Apr 05, 2016
Look this thing is very simple


Women should be women and men should be men... simple.


I see no reason why women begin to start complaining why men are men and men be complaining why women are women...


If nobody likes both behavioral pattern, they should drink sniper and go and die for goodness sake!






What I have written, I have written

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by donephi(m): 9:37pm On Apr 05, 2016
Counter thread
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 9:47pm On Apr 05, 2016
lilmax:
Wetin man go do? Point 1 is the most annoying... And btw you are a mysogynist for opening this thread grin
@emboldened is exactly what Rayaah would say when she sees this thread.

She will call it internalized mysoginy



lilmax:
Your money is our money but my money is my money grin
Evilsangry
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 05, 2016
Mimzy be viewing this thread like

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Tallesty1(m): 9:50pm On Apr 05, 2016
Cutehector:
Look this thing is very simple


Women should be women and men should be men... simple.


I see no reason why women begin to start complaining why men are men and men be complaining why women are women...


If nobody likes both behavioral pattern, they should drink sniper and go and die for goodness sake!






What I have written, I have written
Gbam!!

But some women don't like being women. They hate being women and that's why they're trying to be like men and they hate us for being comfortable with who we are.

Ever wondered why women close their eyes while kissing?

They just can't stand seeing us have a good time.


They hate us reach like thatgringringrin.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by onstelly(f): 10:32pm On Apr 05, 2016
I was expecting this
Op for some reasons I won't agree with 9 & 12
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Apr 05, 2016
Tallesty1:
Gbam!!

But some women don't like being women. They hate being women and that's why they're trying to be like men and they hate us for being comfortable with who we are.

Ever wondered why women close their eyes while kissing?

They just can't stand seeing us have a good time.


They hate us reach like thatgringringrin.
what are you saying

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by onstelly(f): 10:39pm On Apr 05, 2016
krak101:
when God created Eve, she was put under the man's authority. Don't know where these feminists get their doctrines from #endtimedesires
Yes accepted but not to be trampled upon
Not fighting for equality but just respect us and take our opinion sometimes
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by lilmax(m): 10:52pm On Apr 05, 2016
Tallesty1:
@emboldened is exactly what Rayaah would say when she sees this thread.

She will call it internalized mysoginy



Wetin U want bah?
lets wait for rayaah.....internalized misogyny cheesy

second post is a mistake,modified
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by bukatyne(f): 11:05pm On Apr 05, 2016
Ridiculous OP;

A lot I cannot connect with.

Like I told mimzy,

Your world, your rules.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Emrich(m): 11:21pm On Apr 05, 2016
edwife:


Lol I don't buy the 'equality' thing because everyone has his own interpretation.For me i will rather talk about flexibility or rather flexible fairness.

Partners should contribute to their shared life in different ways and in different degrees and over time the balance fluctuates.

There are two things involve here; trusting that your partner is doing all he or she can, and making sure that you are doing all that you can.It is as simple as that.

Your home will know only happiness. This is the attitude that wins the race.
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Apr 05, 2016
I done tire, men should be men _ women should be women. If you no wan be human being, you can as well be a shower curtain.

Goodnight.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 05, 2016
Kachisbarbie:
I done tire, men should be men _ women should be women. If you no wan be human being, you can as well be a shower curtain.

Goodnight.
Just go and sleep, it's late already and you obviously need to sleep. grin
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Neverquit(f): 12:46am On Apr 06, 2016
I agree.

I'm also not about equality but fairness. Treat each other with respect. Treat me the way you want to be treated. Don't expect submission when you're not ready to go the extra mile.

Some women and men need to understand that concept...BALANCE

Side note: that #6 really angers me. A friend went to jail because of it (they were not drunk though). Few days after having consenting séx, she reported to the cops that she was raped. Unfortunately, he spent few months in jail before the case was resolved. He was eventually cleared of all charges.

Mehn, the guy came out vexing. He's in the process of suing the girl. Just imagine the girl's wickedness.

@ Tallesty1, yes, some women want to eat their cake and have it, the same can be said about some men. My point is couples should treat each other with mutual respect and fairness

Ladies, men are not stùpid, if you're with them because of money, don't scream blue murder when they treat you like a doormat

C'est fini.



edwife:


Lol I don't buy the 'equality' thing because everyone has his own interpretation.For me i will rather talk about flexibility or rather flexible fairness.

Partners should contribute to their shared life in different ways and in different degrees and over time the balance fluctuates.

There are two things involve here; trusting that your partner is doing all he or she can, and making sure that you are doing all that you can.It is as simple as that.
Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Sard(m): 5:22am On Apr 06, 2016
This made me remember the story of Adam Johnson, a footballer who was recently sentenced to 6-years jail term for having sex with a 15 year old girl; however, just last year, a female teacher in the same country was sentenced to 100 hours of community service for raping a student more than 50 times.
The world is not fair to men, but we rarely complain.

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Re: Women And Their Double Standards. by Trueyarn(m): 5:53am On Apr 06, 2016
May you live long!!!

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