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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Apr 10, 2016
cry cry it is well my brother.. pls don't take your life

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by firstking01(m): 5:44pm On Apr 10, 2016
dharay99:
sorry, ionne read long
posts, summary plz
is this post long?

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by firstking01(m): 5:45pm On Apr 10, 2016
My brother, turn to God asap.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Apr 10, 2016
and dis wont make fp
my advice to u is just to take life easy and also seek medical attention, on a final note if u dont get any solution til when u are 40, there iz a viable option go to any orphanage adopt a child and become a single parent

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by dharay99: 5:57pm On Apr 10, 2016
firstking01:
is this post long?
datz hw lazy i can b wen
it cums to reading posts online.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 10, 2016
Ginaz:
So sorry dear,cant imagine how you will be feeling. Please don't get depressed. I which I was there to hold you, must have been shocking for you.

Don't forget I care, o.p please don't be depressed. When there is will, there is life.

"Hugs him" cry
thanks alot, I try really hard to avoid being alone in doors. Am not the alcohol type but socializing really helps me this days.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by just2okworld(f): 6:10pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

WHO IS HE THAT SPEAKETH WHEN THE LORD GOD HAS NPT SPOKEN?

KEY INTO GODS WORD AND EXPECT YOUR.MIRACLE BRO
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD!!!!

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Joyce28(f): 6:12pm On Apr 10, 2016
Sorry about dt op all u need now is d word of God & emotional support. Please don't be depress because dt can lead to something else.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Jacko1(m): 6:12pm On Apr 10, 2016
Many things you can do with ur life.
You can be a minister for God
Adopt kids
Y do u wanna take ur life
Not worth it comon
Leav all dese carnal ladies
God wil send u a wife dat wil be ur own
You can marry a blind.... Or deaf lady jus som1 u can live for

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by CircleOfWilis: 6:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
How did u get the sperm for the analysis... How did u achieve the erection that led to the sperm eruption

Oligospermia and impotency are not the same but they can occur togeda and u can have one without the other

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Ginaz(f): 6:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
thanks alot, I try really hard to avoid being alone in doors. Am not the alcohol type but socializing really helps me this days.

God is your strength dear cry

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Apr 10, 2016
CircleOfWilis:
How did u get the sperm for the analysis... How did u achieve the erection that led to the sperm eruption
sperm analysis was collected from masturbation. Somehow am able to attain a little eirection via masturbation only. But it's usually very weak and won't last a second without my hands.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
Go to Dunamis church if you stay within Abuja.
There is nothing God cannot do.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by brendachizzy(f): 6:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
op. Your search is over. I'll marry you!
cheers!!!

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by creamylicious(f): 6:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
Can you marry me already

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by CircleOfWilis: 6:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
sperm analysis was collected from masturbation. Somehow am able to attain a little erection via masturbation only. But it's usually very weak and won't last a second without my hands.
Oligospermia and impotency are not the same but they can occur togeda and u can have one without the other
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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by creamylicious(f): 6:20pm On Apr 10, 2016
Can you marry me already I am older than you though

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by adesewa4uyahoo(f): 6:20pm On Apr 10, 2016
My brother God is beyond medicals.... Go to him in prayers and he will heal you
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by donfemo(m): 6:22pm On Apr 10, 2016
dharay99:
sorry, ionne read long
posts, summary plz


If you tag this as a long post how will you read a book?

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by tosyne2much(m): 6:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
piicity:
How far tosyn ?
Egbon I dey oooo.. Wetin dey happen bro?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Achorise: 6:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
The Man that created it ,has the spare parts, if you are ready for marriage he will give you.But if it's for free sex and pleasur, you may not get it right now.
Pray and believe God and visit genuine men of God, it's a small thing.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by jarkbauer: 6:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
Can you answer the following questions:

Do you have early morning erections or random erections
Do you have erection while playing with a girl or watching porn?
Do you have normal size flaccid penis size?
Do you have normal size testicles?
Do you have beards or receding hair line?
Is your voice thin or normal male baritone?
Do you have the urge to have sex?
Does Viagra/Cialis have effect on your erections?

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 10, 2016
eleyi gidi gaan o
Impotency + Oligospermia... that's a tough one.

Medicine has long advanced, with ARTs (Assisted Reproductive Techniques, IVF/ICSI, IUI etc), you have a good shot at conception, though the procedure is expensive, it turns out helpful in cases of male infertility.

The main problem here is the impotency, you would have difficulties satisfying your spouse, except you are with a spouse that doesn't wanna be satisfied. What's the probability of finding such a woman?
I really don't know how this case is handled but I believe there is a solution to this if you meet the right medical practitioner.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 10, 2016
tosyne2much:
Eeeeyah I feel for you bro...I just hope you will find lasting solution to ur problem


Even we wey get functioning joystick gan no see babe wey we go use am on. May God help you bro


*nobody should quote me#
heheheheheh.
How I wish *thinking**

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by mimikoko: 6:25pm On Apr 10, 2016
So sorry Op. I think the issue is psychological too. The reproductive organs react to our thoughts most of the time.
You have to be positive no matter how hard it seems. You have to have faith in God that He is more than able to perfect your health. You also need to pray and tell your heavenly Father how exactly it's making you feel.
In Him there is no impossibility. Please remember that you cannot face a challenge with a mindset of defeat.
We await your testimony. God bless you.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Tonycart: 6:26pm On Apr 10, 2016
Bro out problems comes with different packages. Just few months to my eighteen yrs i hard a terrible accident that left me paralysed from waist down and by nest week it will be my fifteen yrs living as a paraplegia, why dis story is just to tell you to hang on cos greater things will happen. For now i can't stand not to talk of erection

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Lexusgs430: 6:26pm On Apr 10, 2016
If the 3rd leg is weak, there is always the finger and the tongue!!!!
Find a lady of similar medical condition or an understanding one.
Adoption, is also an option!!!!
Take heart............

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
bro dats not the end of the world.if i were in ur shoes ,i wud not contemplate suicide,i wud rather dedicate d rest of my life into research about d condition starting by entering d field of medicine,who knows wat u wud achieve.this is a more noble thing 2 do than thinking suicide.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by twinskenny(m): 6:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
Well, I think attitude is everything, I had expected you to ask me for the solution to your Erectile Dysfunction, which I took time to pen down, then what I got was you asking me to re-read your post slowly. Sorry bro, carry your cross until you get humble enough or be humbled by nature. It took me many decades to figure it out what I wanted to share for free.
Pls share it and God will bless you

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Andiebest(m): 6:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
Refuse to see the doctors report or your physical shortcomings, choose to see God instead. The Word of God commanded us to multiply, fill the earth and dominate it and the Word of God is final. It doesn't matter what u see. Have ever wondered why it took so long for Abraham to bear children? Whatsapp me - 07034278376.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
your case is 90% psychological. You will have to work on erections first before sperm

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