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Re: My House Help Again by Nobody: 8:53am On Apr 26, 2016 |
She is a teenager and doing what teenagers do Sending her back is not the answer What if she was your daughter? You wouldn't throw your teen daughter away if she misbehaved Continue to talk to her and continue to keep an eye on her Ensure that there are minimal opportunities for her to misbehave keep her busy and occupied At that age she is old enough to learn a vocation as well as her education. It will keep her busy and also come in handy one day If she fails, you failed too because you are the guardian. if she does well, its your pride too |
Re: My House Help Again by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 26, 2016 |
lacapine: This woman is so sweet... May God help you |
Re: My House Help Again by treasuredkids(f): 3:40pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
Madam its actually not easy handling a teenager who is yet to get out of this state of confusion of hormones, personality and peer pressure. It appears she's yet to be properly and rightly educated about sex and the responsibility that comes with it. Take ur time to talk to her, show/tell her real life experiences and if possible give her birth delivery gists and pix. When she sees its actually beyond kissing and having sex, her brain and hormones will kept in check by conscious decisions to stay from the foolish path. All the best on this journey but no matter what dnt throw her out, cos she's there for u to prepare itself adequately for ur own kids when they get to be adolescents |
Re: My House Help Again by Gloriagee(f): 5:39pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
Whatever u decide, please protect ur kids May God grant u wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: My House Help Again by Emary(f): 10:01am On Apr 27, 2016 |
joychioma19: Please, I never implied she do anything without her mother's consent so don't misquote me. I'm being practical because the girl is already at risk of pregnancies and STIs so counselling her for FP is a good option. Sending her away will not better her fate. |
Re: My House Help Again by focus7: 10:20am On Apr 27, 2016 |
Madam it is well, kindly tolerate the more as long as her arts is not posing any danger to your married and home and consider that is your little contribution to the less privilege. |
Re: My House Help Again by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Emary:And which mother will consent birth control for her 15years old? |
Re: My House Help Again by Emary(f): 4:17pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
joychioma19: An enlightened one who knows that birth control is safer than the risks associated with abortion. |
Re: My House Help Again by lacapine: 6:37pm On May 03, 2016 |
favoured234:Thanks dear. Amen. |
Re: My House Help Again by lacapine: 6:39pm On May 03, 2016 |
treasuredkids:Thank you dear. We have decided not to throw her out and hopefully make the best of her stay with us. she herself doesn't even want to go back. I would keep talking like you said. I dey talk ooo, would talk more now. Thank you. |
Re: My House Help Again by lacapine: 6:41pm On May 03, 2016 |
Gloriagee:Waoh! I get your point. Thanks. |
Re: My House Help Again by lacapine: 6:43pm On May 03, 2016 |
focus7:okay dear. I would tolerate more. Loool @ the less priveledge. Thanks. |
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