She is a teenager and doing what teenagers do
Sending her back is not the answer
What if she was your daughter? You wouldn't throw your teen daughter away if she misbehaved
Continue to talk to her and continue to keep an eye on her
Ensure that there are minimal opportunities for her to misbehave
keep her busy and occupied
At that age she is old enough to learn a vocation as well as her education. It will keep her busy and also come in handy one day
If she fails, you failed too because you are the guardian.
if she does well, its your pride too

lacapine:
No need. She is just a child and she has apologized and feels remorseful, we have forgiven. Thanks.

This woman is so sweet...
May God help you

Madam its actually not easy handling a teenager who is yet to get out of this state of confusion of hormones, personality and peer pressure. It appears she's yet to be properly and rightly educated about sex and the responsibility that comes with it. Take ur time to talk to her, show/tell her real life experiences and if possible give her birth delivery gists and pix. When she sees its actually beyond kissing and having sex, her brain and hormones will kept in check by conscious decisions to stay from the foolish path. All the best on this journey but no matter what dnt throw her out, cos she's there for u to prepare itself adequately for ur own kids when they get to be adolescents

Whatever u decide, please protect ur kids


May God grant u wisdom.

joychioma19:
implant birth control on another person's child? that's illegal, it's better to send her home than do that.

Please, I never implied she do anything without her mother's consent so don't misquote me. I'm being practical because the girl is already at risk of pregnancies and STIs so counselling her for FP is a good option. Sending her away will not better her fate.

Madam it is well, kindly tolerate the more as long as her arts is not posing any danger to your married and home and consider that is your little contribution to the less privilege.

Emary:


Please, I never implied she do anything without her mother's consent so don't misquote me. I'm being practical because the girl is already at risk of pregnancies and STIs so counselling her for FP is a good option. Sending her away will not better her fate.

And which mother will consent birth control for her 15years old?

joychioma19:
And which mother will consent birth control for her 15years old?

An enlightened one who knows that birth control is safer than the risks associated with abortion.

favoured234:

This woman is so sweet... May God help you

Thanks dear. Amen.

treasuredkids:
Madam its actually not easy handling a teenager who is yet to get out of this state of confusion of hormones, personality and peer pressure. It appears she's yet to be properly and rightly educated about sex and the responsibility that comes with it. Take ur time to talk to her, show/tell her real life experiences and if possible give her birth delivery gists and pix. When she sees its actually beyond kissing and having sex, her brain and hormones will kept in check by conscious decisions to stay from the foolish path. All the best on this journey but no matter what dnt throw her out, cos she's there for u to prepare itself adequately for ur own kids when they get to be adolescents

Thank you dear. We have decided not to throw her out and hopefully make the best of her stay with us. she herself doesn't even want to go back. I would keep talking like you said. I dey talk ooo, would talk more now. Thank you.

Gloriagee:
Whatever u decide, please protect ur kids. I know for sure that a particular housemaid when we were growing up touched my sis n I inappropriately and also made us share the shower with her n guess wat? she was bout dat age. Finally told my mum last year over 20 years later

May God grant u wisdom.

Waoh! I get your point. Thanks.

focus7:
Madam it is well, kindly tolerate the more as long as her arts is not posing any danger to your married and home and consider that is your little contribution to the less privilege.

okay dear. I would tolerate more. Loool @ the less priveledge. Thanks.