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My Husband Can't Have Sex by Summer15: 5:00pm On Apr 27, 2016
Please I want sincere opinion:
Since my husband and I have been living together for two months now, our sexual lifestyle has been nothing to write home about. He doesn't have erection sometimes and if he does the sex is not always good.
I need an advice on what I can do. I am thinking of leaving the marriage and getting another man or just go out and have sex with another man or just stay with my fate.

Please or what other thing can you suggest. If you have a sincere advice please share with me. Just the sex.. Tho you can't have a 100% guy.. he loves me and always afraid I can leave him... I am confuse. .. I would have love that we have Atleast good sexual life.
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by spill(m): 5:02pm On Apr 27, 2016
I don't know if you dated him before getting married to him, if yes, did you not notice the signs before saying YES to his proposal?

What God has joined together let no man put asunder, you are married for better or worse, just try to know what turns him on like; naughty talks, pre-intimacy, diet, movies(bf) and so on.

Google out the numerous benefits of making love and always discuss it with him, look sexy and tempting for him, just try naughty new things but remember no perfect human on earth. Help him out to help yourself.

Happy Married Life

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Eddygourdo(m): 5:02pm On Apr 27, 2016
He is a lesbian. Show him gay porn and if he gets aroused, he is a homile. Plus if you love him and thaats ur only issue. Vibrators nko ?

On a serious note.

Was he alwayss like this or is it a recent observation. Could there be issues he is dealing with that is affecting his libido. Could be health wise, financial or mental

If all is fine, before you buy a new car or go shopping for one, pls try and repair the old one. Talk to him about how I said he is a disgrace to manhood. Tell him to change lest we come and service his wife for him.

This is a warning. If he doesn't change. Tell me so we start sending PM's. Hope you are beautiful

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by falconey(m): 5:03pm On Apr 27, 2016
Eddygourdo:
He is a lesbian. Show him gay porn and if he gets aroused, he is a homile. Plus if you love him and thaats ur only issue. Vibrators nko ?

Lwkm
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Summer15: 5:05pm On Apr 27, 2016
When we ask for sincere opinion that what we need. Atleast this one is not that it is my friend.. true confession na me o

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Obamina(m): 5:05pm On Apr 27, 2016
Sit him down and discuss it with him
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Summer15: 5:08pm On Apr 27, 2016
Obamina:
Sit him down and discuss it with him

We always talk about it. And he said devil is a liar. If I leave the marriage, am I a bad person
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Cbeatz(m): 5:13pm On Apr 27, 2016
Eleyi gidi gan...nd did u knw about this before u got married....i mean didnt u guys have sex?
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Cholls(m): 5:16pm On Apr 27, 2016
my sister...... Here's some more points I have for you to improve your husbands sex drive:

1. Make sure you get enough healthy fats in your diet. Stuff like avocado, olive oil.

2. Are you taking supplements or are you on some kind of drug's that are having a negative effect on your testosterone/sex drive.

3. Are you taking in enough meat protein, like red meat, that naturally boosts testosterone.

4. I have also heard that brazil nuts improve virility, though I don't have personal experience about this one.

5. Stop jerking off completely.

6. And most importantly I'll emphasize if you are gym freak, stop overtraining? Are you getting enough rest? Are you taking in enough healthy protein and fat?
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Cbeatz(m): 5:19pm On Apr 27, 2016
Cholls:
my sister...... Here's some more points I have for you to improve your husbands sex drive:

1. Make sure you get enough healthy fats in your diet. Stuff like avocado, olive oil.

2. Are you taking supplements or are you on some kind of drug's that are having a negative effect on your testosterone/sex drive.

3. Are you taking in enough meat protein, like red meat, that naturally boosts testosterone.

4. I have also heard that brazil nuts improve virility, though I don't have personal experience about this one.

5. Stop jerking off completely.

6. And most importantly I'll emphasize if you are gym freak, stop overtraining? Are you getting enough rest? Are you taking in enough healthy protein and fat?
DR.CHOLLS in the house
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 27, 2016
He's heavily indebted... the last time I was owing someone few millions, my manhood couldn't stand for complete nine months until when I finished paying the debt.. help him sort the debt out and come thank me later..

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 27, 2016
Summer15:
When we ask for sincere opinion that what we need. Atleast this one is not that it is my friend.. true confession na me o
R u on whatsapp?
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by sanyaboy: 5:36pm On Apr 27, 2016
dude above me is a clown .....whatsapp nko gudu gudu meje ni
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by sanyaboy: 5:38pm On Apr 27, 2016
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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Zambux(f): 5:41pm On Apr 27, 2016
Do whatsoever u wanna do, ah guess ur mind is made up already
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Park01: 6:10pm On Apr 27, 2016
go get ur self a vibrator op
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 6:45pm On Apr 27, 2016
sanyaboy:



you won commit sin abi ...... husband friend dey here
Yeah, i'm a sinner. Wots a saint like u doing in romance section
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Qualer: 7:18pm On Apr 27, 2016
Summer15:
When we ask for sincere opinion that what we need. Atleast this one is not that it is my friend.. true confession na me o

in 2016?

Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Qualer: 7:18pm On Apr 27, 2016
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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by vicstar(m): 7:30pm On Apr 27, 2016
Geee!! U guys need to have a serious talk about his issue. undecided and. Look for a solution 2geda


What u seek u aint gunna. Find it here

Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by amiskurie(m): 7:35pm On Apr 27, 2016
Summer15:
Please I want sincere opinion:
Since my husband and I have been living together for two months now, our sexual lifestyle has been nothing to write home about. He doesn't have erection sometimes and if he does the sex is not always good.
I need an advice on what I can do. I am thinking of leaving the marriage and getting another man or just go out and have sex with another man or just stay with my fate.

Please or what other thing can you suggest. If you have a sincere advice please share with me. Just the sex.. Tho you can't have a 100% guy.. he loves me and always afraid I can leave him... I am confuse. .. I would have love that we have Atleast good sexual life.

DO YOU HAVE GATEMAN AT HOME?
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 8:01pm On Apr 27, 2016
Contact MrCork grin
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 27, 2016
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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Obas101(m): 9:04pm On Apr 27, 2016
Summer15:
Please I want sincere opinion:
Since my husband and I have been living together for two months now, our sexual lifestyle has been nothing to write home about. He doesn't have erection sometimes and if he does the sex is not always good.
I need an advice on what I can do. I am thinking of leaving the marriage and getting another man or just go out and have sex with another man or just stay with my fate.

Please or what other thing can you suggest. If you have a sincere advice please share with me. Just the sex.. Tho you can't have a 100% guy.. he loves me and always afraid I can leave him... I am confuse. .. I would have love that we have Atleast good sexual life.

Maybe you are not hot enough... Advice ; don't cheat.. Try nd take control wen having sex
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 27, 2016
This is for u grin

Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by promisechild(m): 11:07pm On Apr 27, 2016
scam....

you are a big liar. I just gone through your posts in your profile and I found out that you are a male.
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According to the law of non contradiction one can not both be A and B at the same time. So how can u be a lady and at the same be a male. That his impossible

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Blesssed(f): 11:12pm On Apr 27, 2016
Eddygourdo:
He is a lesbian. Show him gay porn and if he gets aroused, he is a homile. Plus if you love him and thaats ur only issue. Vibrators nko ?

On a serious note.

Was he alwayss like this or is it a recent observation. Could there be issues he is dealing with that is affecting his libido. Could be health wise, financial or mental

If all is fine, before you buy a new car or go shopping for one, pls try and repair the old one. Talk to him about how I said he is a disgrace to manhood. Tell him to change lest we come and service his wife for him.

This is a warning. If he doesn't change. Tell me so we start sending PM's. Hope you are beautiful


Nawaoo how can a man be a lesbian ? ?? undecided

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Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by Nobody: 12:52am On Apr 28, 2016
this is why its good to test drive any good before buying it..
am a proponent of sex before marriage.
now the deed is done,live with it,or get a divorce..
i wont tell you to pray like most people..
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by matrix199(m): 3:59am On Apr 28, 2016
Eddygourdo:
He is a lesbian. Show him gay porn and if he gets aroused, he is a homile. Plus if you love him and thaats ur only issue. Vibrators nko ?

On a serious note.

Was he alwayss like this or is it a recent observation. Could there be issues he is dealing with that is affecting his libido. Could be health wise, financial or mental

If all is fine, before you buy a new car or go shopping for one, pls try and repair the old one. Talk to him about how I said he is a disgrace to manhood. Tell him to change lest we come and service his wife for him.

This is a warning. If he doesn't change. Tell me so we start sending PM's. Hope you are beautiful


Boy, will you respect the lady?! She asked for a matured advice, not a childish advice. When you eventually outgrow your childishness, you'd realise men's virility diminishes as they grow older. Your parents need to increase your iodized salt intake so your mental health can improve.
Re: My Husband Can't Have Sex by matrix199(m): 4:21am On Apr 28, 2016
Summer15:
Please I want sincere opinion:
Since my husband and I have been living together for two months now, our sexual lifestyle has been nothing to write home about. He doesn't have erection sometimes and if he does the sex is not always good.
I need an advice on what I can do. I am thinking of leaving the marriage and getting another man or just go out and have sex with another man or just stay with my fate.

Please or what other thing can you suggest. If you have a sincere advice please share with me. Just the sex.. Tho you can't have a 100% guy.. he loves me and always afraid I can leave him... I am confuse. .. I would have love that we have Atleast good sexual life.

Stress is a known factor that affects the libido of men. Talk to him about it, maybe on the need to cut down stress. Get him a good antioxidant. Then you can consider getting intimacy gadgets you two can explore during intimacy.

Quitting the relationship isn't a good option, afterall, whoever you quit him for, or cheat on him with, would or may one day have the same problem.

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