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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Tunagee(m): 5:29pm On May 15, 2016
HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

Na dat day she go pack go meet the ex. she dey mad? if the ex was that gud, why did she leave him. she dey craze.she will pack all her things that day. bastard! women are just bastards. sex na food? marriage is not do or die na
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by firstolalekan(m): 5:29pm On May 15, 2016
Zoharariel:
This is a quick slap in the face to everyone who doesn't know what respect is. A woman who compares you with her Ex not only belittles you, but also tears you down psychologically instead of building you up.

This is also a clear-cut indication that she will always cheat on you, and as such, dissolution of our marital union would be my utmost priority if I were in your shoes.
Best comment cool

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by STARGREEN(m): 5:29pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.
Weldon oh
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 15, 2016
Zoharariel:
This is a quick slap in the face to everyone who doesn't know what respect is. A woman who compares you with her Ex not only belittles you, but also tears you down psychologically instead of building you up.

This is also a clear-cut indication that she will always cheat on you, and as such, dissolution of our marital union would be my utmost priority if I were in your shoes.

This is very true.

I totally with the second part of the part too. Even if she won't cheat, you will always feel insecure when she isn't around.

Moreover why didn't she just marry the ex

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Lucasbalo(m): 5:33pm On May 15, 2016
Zoharariel:
This is a quick slap in the face to everyone who doesn't know what respect is. A woman who compares you with her Ex not only belittles you, but also tears you down psychologically instead of building you up.

This is also a clear-cut indication that she will always cheat on you, and as such, dissolution of our marital union would be my utmost priority if I were in your shoes.
Crown Prince, you are absolutely right. Who takes that from a woman .

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by misscall247: 5:36pm On May 15, 2016
HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?
I will tell dat d reason why she tinks so is becos,then d p.ssuy was title BT now I Don turn to ocean.datz why
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by misscall247: 5:37pm On May 15, 2016
HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?
I will tell her dat d reason why she tinks so is becos,then d p.ssuy was title BT now I Don turn to ocean.datz it
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by firstolalekan(m): 5:37pm On May 15, 2016
HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?
Just go down on your knee, cry, look her in the eyes and say the following.


I blame myself for marrying a leftover
Your ex boyfriend's dick is abnormally too big and he has used it to widening your loosed pussý. I can't even feel anything. It just felt like I was SWIMMING angry
That is why my average big dick can not satisfy you.
Oh! cry I missed my ex, THERE WAS NO TIME I FÚCKED HER WITHOUT A LUBRICANT. Her pussý was just okay and tight cool



Thank me later op cool cool

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by vicben27(m): 5:38pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.
bros use grammer take kill us finish 4 here lol buhari as played his own part by removin subsidy. I wish dis grammer go mak tomatos reappear 4 market again.

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Niyeal(m): 5:40pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.

Patrick Obiaghgbhor sited.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 15, 2016
Mindfulness:

They were not available in the exams. grin undecided wink

Eyahhh. So you didn't smuggle contraband into exam hall. grin You're such a clean potato! Unlike some of us. cheesy

Mindfulness:

I will check it out.
If I feel enthusiastic about doing a particular job, I have fun while doing it and so it doesn't feel like hard work whereas in the absence of enthusiasm a lighter task becomes rather cumbersome

Okey-dokey. But what happens when you have to do something you don't enjoy; something that has you deracinated and yet you're expected to provide vintage results? How would you biff through the deur mekaar?

It's better to innure the body and mind to do things that they naturally wouldn't want to so that it becomes a second nature and you wouldn't have to be enthusiastic or need to rely on incentives before getting to grips with whatever it is that you want to learn. Ivan Pavlor calls it conditioned reflex.

Mindfulness:

It has been peachy keen so far. wink
I hope yours too? smiley

Yeah it is. Thanks.
You keep having a whale of a time here - I'll just get back to saving the world. Gotham beckons. tongue
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by firstolalekan(m): 5:43pm On May 15, 2016
Tunagee:


Na dat day she go pack go meet the ex. she dey mad? if the ex was that gud, why did she leave him. she dey craze.she will pack all her things that day. bastard! women are just bastards. sex na food? marriage is not do or die na

What if na she get the house undecided
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by teemy(m): 5:44pm On May 15, 2016
it is an art learnt and if an honest person who does not want you to live a lie but wants an improvement that pays you both then you take the high path of learning the skill. a trainee pilot is not as good as the chief pilot. take the lessons.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by HaneefahRN(f): 5:45pm On May 15, 2016
She should go and marry the ex nau
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Nnemuka(f): 5:46pm On May 15, 2016
honestly most men nowadays perform poorly nowadays as i keep reading bout men not able to satisfy their partners....

guys abeg forget the size and work on your skills haba.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by jojothaiv(m): 5:48pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Slap-bang!
Intelligence is not ascertained by the mass repository of knowledge one has managed to build but rather, is measured by the politic application of such knowledge.

•Being aware of the fact that the President's mouth stinks and telling him to his face is not intelligence - it's misusage of knowledge.

•Having prior knowledge that the President's mouth stinks and keeping mum about it when you eventually get to meet him is intelligence.


The woman's remarks were just a taco short of a combo platter!.
Respect.....
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by KENNSAMMY(m): 5:49pm On May 15, 2016
thats why it is not a good thing to pitch tent with a SECOND HAND/ USED idiot in the firstv
place. ...



Mama so fun - kogba....na she i go marry.!
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by abbey621(m): 5:50pm On May 15, 2016
I've always said this, it's a completely useless woman that would not know how to bring out the best in her man,the same goes for men! There are ways to encourage or motivate a man without completely destroying his self worth. I've seen a woman literally buy her boyfriend local herbs in order to get him to improve, she was the more experienced one but as time went on the guy quickly became a pro, this is the true art of two becoming one......

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by menxer: 5:51pm On May 15, 2016
Some women talk impulsively and later reason the words used, by then the damage is already done, most times over trivial issues that could have been better handled with a better choice of words.

I had such experiences that I feel ashame just remembering it.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by vicben27(m): 5:51pm On May 15, 2016
Sex or intimacy is all abt communication i try as much as i can to explain hw i get down wit any lady am in a relationship wit dat gives to d forsight of wat she wants n i maké sure i beat her imagination wen we get down. Any woman who try's dat shit wit me after all hav explain above is goin back to her papa house or where ever. N ladies pls dont test too many dic'ks of different shape n sizes dat wil leav u sexually confused n unsatisfied wen ur finally married

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by timilehin007(m): 5:56pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.
.

Blood of Muhammad shocked
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by Nobody: 5:56pm On May 15, 2016
Divorce straight,theres no talking things over or working on your preek just throw in the towel and look for smallie to vent your anger..this is one of the reasons sex before marriage is important.












One ode will soon quote me.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by KENNSAMMY(m): 5:59pm On May 15, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Slap-bang!
Intelligence is not ascertained by the mass repository of knowledge one has managed to build but rather, is measured by the politic application of such knowledge.

•Being aware of the fact that the President's mouth stinks and telling him to his face is not intelligence - it's misusage of knowledge.

•Having prior knowledge that the President's mouth stinks and keeping mum about it when you eventually get to meet him is intelligence.


The woman's remarks were just a taco short of a combo platter!.



is this honorable patrik obiagbhorn
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by deavicky(m): 6:00pm On May 15, 2016
This is what untested can result to. It is well
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by YourFatherYansh: 6:02pm On May 15, 2016
greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.



My 1kobo.
Improve indeed....ur type go kill person wit harder harder harder....
.
Nonsense, after you don allow person wey get gigantic cancerous growth in d name of d.ick turn ur default narrow pipe 2 borehole....Na me u Want put problem 4 my head wit TRY AND IMPROVE....
.
Na so I dey smooch one idiot...d next tin na inside my trouser her hand go to see weda am havin such cancerous growth....Idio.t

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Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by menxer: 6:02pm On May 15, 2016
HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

The reason he became her ex was her mouth.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by abeniagbon(m): 6:10pm On May 15, 2016
greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.



My 1kobo.

Wetin be improvement. Na gbese reoo. She no dey tire.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by sodje4life(m): 6:14pm On May 15, 2016
MizMyColi:
That's harsh.
She should not speak that way to you.

What is the point of having sex with her when you are not confident that you will please her?

What is the point of engaging in an act that will make you feel less of yourself and sad?

I hope you have not married a mini Jezebel into your home.
Unbridled words from loved ones kill faster than knives and bullet.

My take is this....
Seek her opinion on how you can do things better with her.
Get to study her more.
Try to get around acceptable ways of improving your performance.
More importantly, let her know that the more she keeps comparing you to her ex, instead of seeking ways to explore your sexual preferences and give the best to each other; the more she's giving room for the inevitable.

If all these above fail, even when you know you have done your best to satisfy her. As unethical as it sounds, use reverse psychology on her.
She's not perfect either....if you know what I mean.

Give her a dose of her own medicine.
you are definitely right...kudos to you for this.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by iHustle(m): 6:16pm On May 15, 2016
This is one of the risks associated with marrying a non-virgin.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by AreaFada2: 6:17pm On May 15, 2016
greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.
My 1kobo.
Those ladies that lay in bed like a log, with all their sexual taboos longer than the book of Moses, you wonder about their effrontery to even compare. If not because konji na bastard, they are nothing to write home about.grin cheesy
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by iHustle(m): 6:18pm On May 15, 2016
greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.



My 1kobo.

No.2 is easier said than done.
Re: When Your Wife Compares You With Her Ex In Bed. by blueeyes1: 6:19pm On May 15, 2016
It's only a st:upid woman that will open that her stinking gutter and vomit such nonsense.

Wht rubbish! How can u compare ur ex to your husband? If the ex is so great in bed,how come she isn't married to him? Abi hubby get money pass ex or fine pass ex or get correct character? If that is the case she should shut her dirty maggot infested mouth.

A reasonable woman will talk to her hubby abt not being satisfied in bed (and they would work it out) instead of doing such silly comparison that could earn her a quit notice or even worse.

And Op,that wife is still fvcking her ex or longs to fvck him.

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