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Please MATURE Advice by zezebabyxoxo: 2:44pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by MrCork: 2:50pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo: we dont under stand your thread.....ok..so you are eatin break fast wit 6year old man durin break fast eating bread an breakfast wit nylon....sweeeery are you ok? (No ofeense) 2 Likes |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by xendra: 2:54pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sweery ignore the poster above me, he hardly understands anything. |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Masonic(m): 2:57pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
MrCork:
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Re: Please MATURE Advice by Masonic(m): 2:59pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Dude is insensitive and proud. Cut it. |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Florblu(f): 3:02pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
We have different men with different behaviour and belief.The fact that he's domineering doesn't make him a bad guy. it depends on you.It depends on if you can cope with his domineering attitude. |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
He isn't a gentleman, his superiority complex is a red flag you should take note of. Don't take such men seriously. 2 Likes |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:04pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
He isn't sensitive which is so bad. U are evn nice enof to tell him jokingly I would av bluntly told him I don't have the strength to carry it 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Emescot(m): 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Lol dont let that bother you dear, he was lost in your love. Dont end it or u will regret it. Actually its not an advise, its a threat!!! |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Emescot(m): 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj:You will tell that to the guy u love Girls like you dont last in a relationship. No offence 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Splinz(m): 3:13pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj: I've always known you to be a very lazy girl...
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Re: Please MATURE Advice by Splinz(m): 3:22pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo: Nope, you're not overreacting. The thing is, the nigga isn't a gentleman. I mean, he doesn't seems to understand the courtesy of carrying the loads as a man. Anyways, he may not even think of it as anything that's weird to you. So, just hang on for a while, he may change when next you guys go shopping. Or you simply tell him bluntly that you don't like it... Lazy girls... |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:24pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Emescot:I see you Oshe relationship expert! If you the type that pretend a lot to please someone, sorry am not. Whenever am not comfortable with anybody's behaviour I tell the person right away and if it's a guy I love, will mock him stylishly or tease him. And yes girls like us last in relationships coz we don't keep pent up feelings. 2 Likes |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by CplusJason: 3:26pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Say something now before it gets too late. 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:30pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Splinz:m not lazy jore *rolls eyes* Who knows if the next one is to tell me to carry a bag of rice for him when we go to shop for rice 2 Likes |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by omega25red(m): 3:30pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo:why not share your feelings with the man in question? A man you just met who you owe nothing sends you to bring bread and carry heavy bag and you are here asking us questions. Communication is key to most successful relationships. so my question is you were having breakfast which means he spent the night? 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by olagbemi118(m): 3:37pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
omega25red:no mind her... |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by zezebabyxoxo: 3:37pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Splinz(m): 3:40pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj: If I were him, I'd give you that bag of rice to carry as a proof of your love for me... 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by omega25red(m): 3:43pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo:i was joking about the spending the night thing. Seriously you need to speak up early so a man knows what you will tolerate because some people need to be told of their behavior that way you can really learn if he is the one for you by his reaction. The heavy bag is not so much the issue for me because ladies want equality so don't complain but of course a gentle man should always offer. What gets me is probably the commanding tone in which he told you to get bread. |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Emescot(m): 3:44pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj:Understand me sinaj dear, 1st u said you would have BLUNTLY told him you dont have the strenght to carry it, but now u have made perfect sense by saying if its a guy u love, you will MOCK HIM STYLISHLY or TEASE him, you see the difference? One is a bad way of expressing your self and the other is a loving way to do it, and the lateris the best... Say K if you get my point |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:45pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Splinz:lol Lazy hubby Our relationship will end in that mall 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Sexxkillz: 3:45pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Smh. . . Some of you girls think a relationship is about a guy serving you. Analyze the situation critically: - He drove on the road for two fucking hours. Took the risks just to be with you. You didn't give a Bleep if he was tired, and you didn't ask. All you were interested in was him "serving" you. - He asked you to go bring bread for you both, probably because he was tired. Not for "me" but for "us". Bread you'll also partake in the eating. Bread he also paid for. Therefore, your only contribution to the breakfast was getting off your small ass, and go bring the damn bread. Just a short distance - you complain. - You two went to a grocery. To buy stuff you'll need, cos obviously, he didn't drive for 2 hours to come buy groceries for himself. All he asked, was that you take a few steps to were the baskets were, and bring a fucking basket. You complain. Groceries that are meant for you. Groceries he would be paying for. So at this stage, he has driven down to see you, you also wanted him to go get the bread, pay for the bread, probably feed you the bread as well, and now at the store you wanted him to go get the basket. . . Do you see a pattern developing? Read on. - Now, he is picking the groceries. Groceries for you, groceries he would pay for. He didn't ask you to go get the basket and pick your own groceries, he asked you to go get the basket, hold it, while he puts in the groceries. Your own fucking groceries, and what do you do? You complain. Just to hold a fucking basket for a few mins. . . - He was putting in the groceries, the basket started getting heavy. Commonsense should tell you to set that damn basket on the ground, but no. You were "watching" him to see if he realizes that you are carry the world on your shoulders and if you'll need help. Then he paid for your groceries. . . If he wasn't there and you bought that amount of groceries for yourself, who would have carried them, whether they were heavy or not? But no, you were watching. With your all seeing eye of Horus, to see if he'll carry your stuff, to impress you that he's a "gentleman'. . . Nonsense. So far, you wanted him to drive all the way to see you, pick your bread for your breakfast, feed you, pay for breakfast, get the basket for groceries, put the groceries in the basket, pay for the groceries, and carry the groceries. . . your own groceries. All because you have boobs and ass, and all because you wanted to be vainly impressed by his gentlemanliness, and in the process, fail to see the underlying love and care he is trying to show you. Can you now see that you're being unnecessarily petty? Selfish nagging girls like you should be avoided like a damn plague. And you say you are watching him to see if to proceed? LOL! He should be the one running from a selfish thing like you. . . Wait a minute. So when you eventually get married, either to this guy or some other guy, you'll expect them to do every fucking thing for you because you are pretty and have curves? Bomb dey your head. . . GTFOH. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Emescot:read her post again, u will understand she barely knows this guy. Dunno of other girls but what the guy did is a big turn off to me nd doesn't portray him as a gentleman. Remember they are still getting to know their selves. 2 Likes |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Emescot(m): 3:56pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj:I read it again tho, i thought the guy went to her hometown to introduce himself as the fiance... So to prove ur own point instead of ending the debate with me u refused to write K, You go like wahala gan o 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by sinaj(f): 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Emescot:Worefa *rolls eyes* 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Emescot(m): 4:03pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
sinaj:Lol *owa lara e* |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by zezebabyxoxo: 4:05pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Sexxkillz: 4:18pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo:What was he buying groceries for? So he drove down for two hours to come buy groceries for himself? Tell me another one. 1 Like |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by Akanbibabatunde(m): 4:46pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo:[b]damn what a lie?? Just stfu! you can aswell sit on him and let him carry you everywhere to show he loves you... Ass[/b] |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by zezebabyxoxo: 4:51pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Please MATURE Advice by firstking01(m): 4:56pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
zezebabyxoxo:Smh, he was equally testing your patience and your character but you failed woefully. 1 Like |
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