chizzy4love:

She never knew he was a chronic cheat.she only have about 1.5m which she saved from her previous job before relocating to meet her husband.

Toks2008:


That moment when a woman starts to understand how genetically,morally,sexually and physically different she is from a man is the moment she starts to experience peace and happiness in her relationship with a man ...I will stop here.

Fourwinds:
Is d woman dat is foolish if u view d matter it from higher intelligence because she knew d man was cheating while they were dating yet she went ahead to marry him..... dat type of foolishness is described in d Bible...

Gaggi:
A woman that can't manage 1.5m or even 3.5m can't manage 15m even if we donate for her. Let her go back to daddy's house, that's the only hope she has of surviving outside her matrimonial home. She's a liability.

chizzy4love:

T[b][/b]hanks. Please is the online biz you are talking about forex?.

techgirlng:
Your mom is right. She needs to save up and then start thinking about her exit strategery.

Toks2008:


Lol! I'm happy you are a Muslim so be ready for polygamy or remain single...Good day

chizzy4love:

She has some savings from her previous job just not enough,she said about 1.5m.thats why she needed her husband to open a business for her but he indirectly dosnt want her to work.

chizzy4love:

1.5 million can't start a proper boutique.it can't even cover her upkeep alone for 6 months.we are from a middle class background.Even I, as a single working class girl right now have way more than that in my account now and it's no money to me.after renting won't she furnish,feed herself and the baby.she already has a high standard of living.we are from middle class family .we live a comfortable life.so to me,1.5m is really nothing.trust me.
besides,she was earning about 150k every month before she resigned her job and lived in a 2 bedroom flat as a single girl.hope you understand now.

BoboYekini:
Una just dey start. You and your 'middle-class' sister. Now I see why my mama nor gree me marry igbo gals. Buncha hypergamous wannabes. High standard of living with 150k/month? What a laugh.

kaboninc:


Pray?

Well to those who believe in prayers.

For people like me, I'll walk!

logica:
LOL. Imagine that you earn 150k/month and it all stays in your bank account: you don't have to spend it on upkeep, rent, or other bills. That would be high standard, not so?

chronique:

It's unfortunate she married a dog who can't keep his sick in one place. My younger sister was almost married to her fiance last year and the moment she started talking about his cheating tendency, I lost interest in the relationship and when she broke up with the dude(after introduction) and my parents were trying to talk me into making efforts to get them back, I vehemently refused. If a full grown adult cannot use his head in a relationship, the person should better stay single. It's one thing to make a mistake, and it's another thing to continually be irresponsible. I take the issue of infidelity in marriage/relationship, very personal.

MarieSucre:



So the man with the bad character is not foolish se. When do stop blaming women for marrying horrible men with horrible character and start actually blaming the men with the horrible character.

Fourwinds:
there is nothing she can do about it...from time immemorial d man has been a cheat even before marriage...so shall he continue...

and d bleeping....she will only carry HIV or STD from d man because d man think with his dick

bukiboy:


Bros, be true to yourself and you don't need to answer me ooooo. are you a virgin and if you don married, hope na your wedding night you get disvirgined and you never see another woman unclothedness

[s]Solomon get 300 wives and 700 concubines now, bro are you call him a dog too? i think we need to get married for the right reasons, all this love love sef don tire me. [/s]

IdeyVex1:
I did not find time to read all the comments, but I will advise a few:

1. Your sister should run. That girls are getting pregnant for this guy everywhere means he does it without protection. She is risking her life living with him except she decides to insist he always uses protection with her.

2. Your sister needs to leave him and move on. 1.5m is good enough money to start a biz with. Let her start with the 1.5m while you keep the 2m you can give her so she can use as sustenance. The growth of a biz does not always depend on the start up capital. It depends more on the management of the biz.

3. She needs to scale down her lifestyle. Forget this crap about being from a rich family.

4. Finally and most importantly. She should table the proofs she has before her husband and demand compensation. She will then use the compensation to activate No. 1. Simple.

MarieSucre:

Is this peace gotten before or after she contracts an incurable std?
And you said women are morally different from men.
Are you saying that men are lasciviously, demented immoral beings?
Is that what your signature as a christian says. Woooow if you're a christian then I'd gladly be in islam or an atheist.

chronique:



I'm not a virgin and this has nothing to do with that. It has everything to do with trying your best to be faithful and loyal and responsible in a committed relationship or marriage.

UIA04:



You guys should stop these nonsense about a woman turning 40 with out being married

There are many men to that age unmarried

Toks2008:


Which kain wahala be this...I say believe anything you want...

MarieSucre:


Is this peace gotten before or after she contracts an incurable std?

And you said women are morally different from men.

Are you saying that men are lasciviously, demented immoral beings?

Is that what your signature as a christian says.
Woooow if you're a christian then I'd gladly be in islam or an atheist.

derato:
Tell ur sister to check herself,she must ve slept with other peoples husbands while she was single.just a law of Carma. dats all. all she needs is God's forgiveness n help..

UIA04:
You guys should stop these nonsense about a woman turning 40 with out being married

There are many men to that age unmarried

mikolo80:
and they can have chudren easily while y'all chances are GREATLY reduced.
That and all your assets begin to sag

bukiboy:




madam UIA04, you be 40?

mikolo some women can have children at 40. [quote ]
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Agreed
Even 60 year old fit born
But you fit risk am?

mikolo80:
Wey d light to freeze the eggs
Meanwhile we never bring dis tech come naija

mikolo80:
How many of them can face society to explain their immaculate conception.
Koko be say they are not attractive to men

mikolo80:
how do you teach a man to be a man.
We are trained to be violent or do you want puppies fighting your wars for you?
Trust me when the sheet hits the fan you want the Mad Men on your side

bukiboy:


Bros, i fit give you about 5 hospital wey dey do that for naija
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Atoh
We learn everyday
But how many can afford it or even know it exists as an option

mikolo80:
Atoh
We learn everyday
But how many can afford it or even know it exists as an option

mikolo80:
1.they are not happy about it.
2.the ones that are are not many

mikolo80:
even for Yankee na situation make women de claim loneliness not by choice. Don't be deceived.

Toks2008:


Which kain wahala be this...I say believe anything you want...

youalreadyknow:
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Are these the kind of advice moms are giving to their daughters now? The for better for worse in marital vows y'all think the worse is senseless NL comments? You stick with your husband no matter what. You choose him, agreed in front of a priest and your parents, elders of your family to stick with him till death do you part.