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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:06pm On May 11, 2017
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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by cardoctor(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2017
I could have happily made her my first wife. All those billions wey her papa get.

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 11, 2017
NwamaziNwaAro:
grin
Come to think of it, these Hausa guys are living the fantasies/dreams of some of we Southerners.


Imagine having threesomes and foursomes every other day

Just like that..

God bless Mohammed abeg.


you wish... u think party is an awsome feat shey!
well Hausa girls don't mind sharing u can adpot Mohammed and enjoy even fivesome.


#blue waves
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 11, 2017
NwamaziNwaAro:
grin
Come to think of it, these Hausa guys are living the fantasies/dreams of some of we Southerners.


Imagine having threesomes and foursomes every other day

Just like that..

God bless Mohammed abeg.

You never hear - marriage only serves the woman. Benefits the man in no way.

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:23pm On May 11, 2017
Good for them

Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by iyaaliyah: 4:28pm On May 11, 2017
Sorry ma, I will choose Mariam, (even in death) as my role model over her.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by iamrealdeji(m): 4:29pm On May 11, 2017
delishpot:
Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting? grin grin
that's why all boys families are scarce,I've only seen 2 but all girls or mostly girls family is very common
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:31pm On May 11, 2017
Lilimax:

Na lie!
BTW, it is not a must to marry. They no dey use am go heaven.
Wait on God to bring your husband your way.
Anybody woman marrying a married man is committing adultery (my opinion) embarassed

It's no lie seriously. First it's widely known that the mortality rate of men is higher than that of women due to men lifestyle which gives you women a greater number than us, not to mention the fact that more females are born compared to male(I'm not 100% sure abt this last fact tho). You can always Google this fact.

Nway thank God you said the adultery part is your opinion. Although I prefer to have one wife cos I'm one of those hopeless romantics that believe in 'The one'.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by juman(m): 4:34pm On May 11, 2017
I think because her mother is no more alive.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:34pm On May 11, 2017
NwamaziNwaAro:
grin
Come to think of it, these Hausa guys are living the fantasies/dreams of some of we Southerners.


Imagine having threesomes and foursomes every other day

Just like that..

God bless Mohammed abeg.
grin
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by tensazangetsu20(m): 4:43pm On May 11, 2017
delishpot:
Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting? grin grin
There is actually a shortage of women and wives. There are way more men than women. Nigerias last census recorded a ratio of 105 men for every 100 women and when you put polygamy into play it becomes like 40 women for 105 men.

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:48pm On May 11, 2017
sbashir10:
It's her life, and she decides what she wants.
so, you don't have to be subjected to abuse for not choosing to marry into a polygamous family, it's a thing of the choice,.
I'm a Muslim but i don't think i can cope with polygamy, as I'm speaking from experience, i know what my mum faced being the first out of the four wives of my dad.
Thanks a lot for being truthful.I really appreciate it.

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Tokziby: 4:49pm On May 11, 2017
Why is that when someone marries into a polygamous home una begin dey make noise. its their choice and they accepted it. If not this world that has turned on its head, what is the meaning of baby mama? Unmarrried women giving birth to a child out of wedlock which is traditionally wrong and the child are called bastards. its okay for the likes of Davido, wizkid, tuface, flavor, zamani, etc to impregnate baby mamas as many as possible with no marriage but u find it absurd for an upright man to marry 2 to 4 women. or blame the lady for venturing into polygamous home.

This generation's bigotry is off the hinges and needs thorough head examination. There are many ladies in their forties still looking for Mr right with no kids, people like Rita Dominic, Bimbo Akintola etc still dey find people wey go put ring for their hands and una dey here dey abuse girl of twenties going for a polygamous man with rightful marriage and not like baby mama Genevieve. mtcheeeewww

Wetin concern Una there? Is she ur sister or is it ur marriage

Happy married life my sister... May God Bless the Union

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 11, 2017
fortifiedng:
Lady shades Nigerian women who are anti-polygamists as IBB's daughter is set to become a 3rd wife
Apparently, former military leader, Ibrahim Babangida's daughter, Halima is set to become the third wife of Auwal Lawal, a governorship aspirant in Gombe state and son of the Sarkin Sudan of Gombe. Halima will be getting married to Auwal tomorrow May 12th.

Facebook user/social commentator, Aisha Alubankudi, threw shade at single Nigerian ladies who have refused to become 3rd and 4th wives. According to Aisha, women who are anti-polygamists would wait endlessly.

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I WONDER WHO THIS DOTISH AISHA IS REFERRING TO IS IT WOMEN OR CHRISTIANS,IS MARRIAGE BY FORCE? IS SHE SAYING YOU SHOULD GO FOR WHAT YOU HATE JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO MARRY EARLY? DOESN'T EVERYONE HAS HIS OR HER OWN VALUES AND CHOICE? NA WAH O THIS GIRL HEAD NO CORRECT IGNORANCE GO SOON DEY KILL PEOPLE LIKE EBOLA FOR NIGERIA.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 5:06pm On May 11, 2017
bukatyne:


Don't be too sure

Some women want the 'freedom' 'modern' and what's up polygamy brings.
i was begining to think everyone here is ignorant until i saw your post. thanks for this post. that person you quoted saw that the thread is about a lady saying those other women who are opposed to polygamy are missing it. that means she doesnt have a problem with it, and yet some people still think no woman wants to married to another man who also has another wife.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by delishpot: 5:07pm On May 11, 2017
SirMichael1:


Haven't you heard of polyandry before??

Will Nigerian men agree to it?
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 5:08pm On May 11, 2017
Tokziby:
Why is that when someone marries into a polygamous home una begin dey make noise. its their choice and they accepted it. If not this world that has turned on its head, what is the meaning of baby mama? Unmarrried women giving birth to a child out of wedlock which is traditionally wrong and the child are called bastards. its okay for the likes of Davido, wizkid, tuface, flavor, zamani, etc to impregnate baby mamas as many as possible with no marriage but u find it absurd for an upright man to marry 2 to 4 women. or blame the lady for venturing into polygamous home.



This generation's bigotry is off the hinges and needs thorough head examination. There are many ladies in their forties still looking for Mr right with no kids, people like Rita Dominic, Bimbo Akintola etc still dey find people wey go put ring for their hands and una dey here dey abuse girl of twenties going for a polygamous man with rightful marriage and not like baby mama Genevieve. mtcheeeewww

Wetin concern Una there? Is she ur sister or is it ur marriage



Happy married life my sister... May God Bless the Union

you just gave me hope about the nigerian youth, seeing your post. thanks again!
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by sagaxity(m): 5:26pm On May 11, 2017
Wetin dis one dey talk? Mtcheeew




Y d waiting to be 3rd or 2nd wife, u for advice make ladies dey propose.....
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by sagaxity(m): 5:26pm On May 11, 2017
Wetin dis one dey talk? Mtcheeew




Y d waiting to be 3rd or 2nd wife, u for advice make ladies dey propose.....
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by LydayBobo(m): 5:29pm On May 11, 2017
delishpot:
Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting? grin grin
I will go India, their ladies are more than men
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Tyche(m): 5:50pm On May 11, 2017
NwamaziNwaAro:
grin
Come to think of it, these Hausa guys are living the fantasies/dreams of some of we Southerners.


Imagine having threesomes and foursomes every other day

Just like that..

God bless Mohammed abeg.
grin grin
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 5:51pm On May 11, 2017
Lilimax:

Na lie!
BTW, it is not a must to marry. They no dey use am go heaven.
Wait on God to bring your husband your way.
Anybody woman marrying a married man is committing adultery (my opinion) embarassed

good you said your opinion. tell me where in the bible they said any woman marrying a married man commits adultery?
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by delishpot: 5:53pm On May 11, 2017
LydayBobo:
I will go India, their ladies are more than men

Short cut ba? grin
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by bolinjkezzy(m): 5:54pm On May 11, 2017
sbashir10:
It's her life, and she decides what she wants.
so, you don't have to be subjected to abuse for not choosing to marry into a polygamous family, it's a thing of the choice,.
I'm a Muslim but i don't think i can cope with polygamy, as I'm speaking from experience, i know what my mum faced being the first out of the four wives of my dad.
U just took d word outta my mouth....My child would not suffer an inch of what I go through. No father's love whatsoever

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 5:57pm On May 11, 2017
sbashir10:
It's her life, and she decides what she wants.
so, you don't have to be subjected to abuse for not choosing to marry into a polygamous family, it's a thing of the choice,.
I'm a Muslim but i don't think i can cope with polygamy, as I'm speaking from experience, i know what my mum faced being the first out of the four wives of my dad.

while you condemn polygamy because of your one experience, know that the likes of me is from one where i have a beautiful experience.

i wonder why people condemn polygamy because of some of the bad examples we have seen, and not condemn monogamy because of the more bad ecamples of it we have seen.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by babooshka: 5:59pm On May 11, 2017
She must be mad, na she go wait tire. Every1 is entitled to what they want in marital life, and we all know Islam permits polygamy. Besides, Since when is Babangida's daughter a role model in relationship matters, who sabi her?!? Mtchweeew, stupid ppl just seeking attention.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 6:02pm On May 11, 2017
bolinjkezzy:

U just took d word outta my mouth....My child would not suffer an inch of what I go through. No father's love whatsoever

if you have,no father's love, then that has GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH POLYGAMY AS THERE ARE COUNTLESS NUMBER OF MONOGAMIES WHERE THERE IS ZERO FATHER'S LOVE.

I WAS BORN INTO POLYGAMOUS HOME AND MY FATHER IS THE BEST SINGLE INFLUENCE IN MY LIFE AND ALL OF MY SIBLINS. EVEN NEIGHBOURS AND FRIENDS HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES AND BEAUTIFUL THINGS TO SAY ABOUT HIM.

anytime i speak of fathers, my friend always get very angry. it turns out that he has grudges towards his own father for not being there for him. guess what? he is from a monogamous home.
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by somegirl1: 6:04pm On May 11, 2017
MiddleDimension:
i was begining to think everyone here is ignorant until i saw your post. thanks for this post. that person you quoted saw that the thread is about a lady saying those other women who are opposed to polygamy are missing it. that means she doesnt have a problem with it, and yet some people still think no woman wants to married to another man who also has another wife.

No woman who genuinely loves, or even likes, a man would be happy to share him with another.
Heck, even a woman who just wants a man's attention and nothing more would be reluctant to share him with another.
Women are territorial.
If a woman has no issues with sharing her man, it's a sure sign that she is not emotionally invested.

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by bencarson007(m): 6:05pm On May 11, 2017
sbashir10:
It's her life, and she decides what she wants.
so, you don't have to be subjected to abuse for not choosing to marry into a polygamous family, it's a thing of the choice,.
I'm a Muslim but i don't think i can cope with polygamy, as I'm speaking from experience, i know what my mum faced being the first out of the four wives of my dad.

@sbashir10, this is the second time I am reading ur comments on NL. Your parents ought to have named you as Maturity Bashir. Your head too correct. In as much as its allowed to have more than one wife in Islam, you are among the few that reasoned there may be some drama involved in doing so. You are a true follower of Islam...giving right interpretaions from insightful thinking on the teachings in Islam. May you always prosper and grow in wisdom...
Kindly help teach others the truth

#BlessedBe@sbashir10
May you never miss ur way

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Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by MiddleDimension: 6:06pm On May 11, 2017
flyca:
No woman on earth wants to share her man with another woman - not even his mum. No woman wants to be second or third wife. No woman wants to be babymama.

Na condition they make crayfish bend - these days they try to bend with pride grin

you just saw it that a lady has kust agreed to be a third wife yet you think no woman would like polygamy?

your bigotry is off the hook!
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by Asidiq23(m): 6:08pm On May 11, 2017
delishpot:
Women and their wahala sha. She no see better things women dey achieve world wide to brag about na the 3rd wife role she want promote.
But i have one kwestion sha.......If there was shortage of wives/marriageable age women, would men agree to become second husbands to avoid waiting? grin grin
As If women that are 2nd,3rd ,or 4th wife don't have any achievement in the world...didirin
Re: Halima Babangida To Be The 3rd Wife Of Auwal Lawa: Lady Shades Anti-Polygamists by LydayBobo(m): 6:12pm On May 11, 2017
delishpot:


Short cut ba? grin
yes oooo

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