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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 2:16pm On May 16, 2017
Are there people married with children and money and unhappy? YES
So you can b as single as you wish for forever and be happy

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by rose54321: 2:20pm On May 16, 2017
There's no direct answer to this -
Humans are social beings so companionship is vital. Hence why some people adopt children or still date (if single) when old.

My opinion is that while having kids and or getting married doesn't guarantee happiness, it enhances your chances.

Was listening to a Ted talks video on YouTube months back, it had a similar topic - "The secret to a Fulfilled life"
The clearest message from the Harvard University 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period."

You can watch the video here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KkKuTCFvzI

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by eternalcity(m): 2:21pm On May 16, 2017
The quality of life you live is what is important. Husband,wife, children are for Earth only. Once you leave the Earth, that's it.

Begin to look for ways to affetc lives positively for God. That's where the real joy and fulfilment is. Not in wife, children, possession or position.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by obowunmi(m): 2:24pm On May 16, 2017
Not in Nigeria. People will mock you .

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 2:26pm On May 16, 2017
See nairaland advisers, perverts everywhere. If you are about 50 years above, single, childless and happy please come and advice this op. Not when when you are with your wife,gf ,bf ,husband and be typing Nonsense on nland. See them

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 16, 2017
Whatever you decide to do make sure you are making someone else or something else live longer smiley

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by kkboy(m): 2:34pm On May 16, 2017
Yes you can still be happy provided you die young or at a tender age. But if you grow old you will understand the true meaning of companionship
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by laivwire(m): 2:43pm On May 16, 2017
We'll I know a lady who tied up her Fallopian tubes cos she didn't want children. Her husband actually had to agree before they got married.
I believe they're still happy today
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by kuchikau: 2:48pm On May 16, 2017
kelvinrhs:

Back to u, I quoted u once on dis post.
You have a problem!
What are they saying? And what are u saying. My friend #GETOUTTAHERE
u will learn d hardway.
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 2:51pm On May 16, 2017
Read the articles below and then ask yourself that question again. wink

Man Kills his Mother by Stabbing her to Death in Ogun State (Photos / Video)
https://hypenigeria.com/2017/03/11/man-kills-his-mother-by-stabbing-her-to-death-in-ogun-state-photos-video/

Nigerian Girl Kills Mother With Sledge Hammer &acid
https://www.nairaland.com/615362/nigerian-girl-kills-mother-sledge

Horror: Nigerian men on rampage in US, kill wives over divorce, alimony
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/horror-nigerian-men-go-rampage-us-kill-wives-divorce-alimony/

How woman killed her husband on Christmas day
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/woman-killed-husband-christmas-day/

I know many people in the US who are single and childless pass the age of 50. They are content with life. The problem is Nigeria does not make it easy to grow old. Make your money and make sure you have enough to take care of you in old age. Make good friends and continue to treat people well. You will never be completely alone if make meaningful connections to other people.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by kuchikau: 2:51pm On May 16, 2017
oluking:

emm you are gay undecided
attackt d message not d messenger.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by italo: 2:56pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley

Are you happier than all the priests and sisters?

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by franksam2009: 3:04pm On May 16, 2017
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Note: I don't need any money or material things from you, I am ok
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 3:06pm On May 16, 2017
Akinwale14:
I knw but i can manage without having wife and children
Lol. You want to eat ur cake nd have it? No way!
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Lexusgs430: 3:07pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley

Been in a relationship or having a child, does not necessarily make you happy.
Infact, a combination of both could make you sad & a combination of both, could make you happier....
Its entirely an individualistic perspective......
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 3:17pm On May 16, 2017
Emmacj19:




Hmm ur own turn don reach oo. After chasing all ur suitors away ur eyes have cleared. Go back to your village and appease the gods. Is better even If you will be 5th wife just manage it and put your self to the society of married women than fucking around with men. Money is not even happiness, it's only poor people that believe that. Sis just try and marry. There's happiness, joy and life in marriage. Don't be deceived and blame people for your life tomorrow

wtf z dis one sayin?... is my life nd I decide how I live it..ur opinion z so dead

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Coldfeets: 3:21pm On May 16, 2017
kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

Nnaaa mehn, to God, the thing taya me no be small. lipsrsealed
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by gabe: 3:22pm On May 16, 2017
Jesus, Yes! That myth was perpetuated to make sure we propagate. Children are hell...
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by 3kay945(m): 3:27pm On May 16, 2017
Akinwale14:
I knw but i can manage without having wife and children

If you love yourself or get good partner, your mind would change. Cos kids allow you see yourself when you're young.
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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 3:32pm On May 16, 2017
single yes, childless, NO

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by shumuel(m): 3:45pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley


Well it all depends,, yes you can but no matter what you will always worry over not getting married and having kids.

I am also thinking of this possibility at the moment, all this divorce and marriage saga is very discouraging; no one is loyal any more, well i have nieces and nephews i guess thats enough, planing to shower my love and time on them, i really don't see myself getting married or having kids 'I no get time for wahala jare '

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by judgedredd22(m): 4:02pm On May 16, 2017
Lionessza:







Nothing and no one can make you really happy but yourself , the rest are accessories . They can either enhance your happiness or add to your misery.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by gwama: 4:08pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley

Ask the Catholic sisters and the priests grin grin

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by kuchikau: 4:09pm On May 16, 2017
Coldfeets:


Nnaaa mehn, to God, the thing taya me no be small. lipsrsealed
no be only u. These boys are so stupid.

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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by Nobody: 4:10pm On May 16, 2017
RB007:
Can you be single, childless & happy? smiley


Yea be good and close to God .. Help less privilege lead a healthy life and avoided d negative people
Why dp u want to remain childless and single? For a man that is odd but not for a woman .. As many women and few men
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by holyfather(m): 4:18pm On May 16, 2017
Maybe you should try it first, then come back and gist us how it feels.
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by oiki: 4:22pm On May 16, 2017
No, absolutely not! Humans always crave for companionship, at least most do eventually. That's why most childless and single people abroad get cats and dogs to keep them company. Loliness is more conspicuous when one's strength fails (old age)
Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by tydi(m): 4:22pm On May 16, 2017
Geraldyne:
yeah.. by all means you can.. dahs what I wanna do...but I'll adopt...I don't care wah ppl gonn say..my lyf..my fuckin choice




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Re: Can Someone Who Decides To Live A Single And Childless Life Be Happy? by DarkHenrie(m): 4:33pm On May 16, 2017
Absolutely. You can be the happiest person in the world even. The challenge however is that we live in a society where people will actively make you feel unhappy and then blame you for that unhappiness. If we all could accept and love ourselves in our differences and preferences, happiness will be the tip of what we can experience. But when people are going to keep badgering and pestering you about the choices you've made, it's going to be a struggle. Yet, happiness is in you!!

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