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Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by GuntersChain(m): 1:54pm On May 18, 2017
A 55 year-old man popularly called Baba Ojo has ar­ranged for men to sleep with his wife for survival in Gabodon, Suleja.

His wife identified as Aduni, 45, said that her hus­band who is her second husband, with whom she had been living together for five years suddenly asked her to be sleeping with men he has chosen for her so that they can survive.

“My husband whom we’ve been living together for five years suddenly dis­cussed with me one morn­ing that he would chose some men who I will be going to sleep with for us to survive since I can’t afford to take care of him and my home.

“He is always telling me that his friends are not do­ing anything and their wives have been solely responsible of their bills.

“For years now, my hus­band is not doing anything, I’ve been the one providing for the house. Now that my business has collapsed, he has chosen some men to sleep with me and they pay him the money; the least amount is N300 and the highest is N500.”

When asked if she is le­gally married, she disclosed that they are cohabitating, but people assume she’s le­gally married to him.

Contacted, Baba Ojo said, the issue is his personal business and if the wife does not feel comfortable with it, she has the right to leave to anywhere but assured her that no one would look at her direction.


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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by JideAmuGiaka: 1:57pm On May 18, 2017
We don hear.
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by dingbang(m): 2:03pm On May 18, 2017
And the wife was doing it. That means she agreed

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:04pm On May 18, 2017
That's what happen when you are living with a demon/wh0re..... But I blame the wifey more, as she could have left this demon but didn't (the reason why is irrelevant).
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by titosantana(m): 2:11pm On May 18, 2017
Poverty - the deadliest disease on earth. It would make one to think abnormally. I reject it!

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by iammrjaai(m): 2:18pm On May 18, 2017
Hmm...naija we hail ooh... grin grin

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by newyorks(m): 2:34pm On May 18, 2017
this one weak me. warristhis?
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 18, 2017
Talk about a p.i.m.p. They're not even legally married, but cohabiting. No wonder; no (good) husband would tell his wife to be doing this. I blame her for allowing herself to be used by him.

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:04pm On May 18, 2017
NotOfThis:
Talk about a p.i.m.p. They're not even married, but cohabiting. No wonder; no (good) husband would tell his wife to be doing this. I blame her for allowing herself to be used by him.

The saddest part here is the value.... 300-500Nairas (and she didnt even get the money)!!!! Any lazy person can get more than that by just begging at any street corners, and they will have more respect for themselves.

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by Nobody: 3:42pm On May 18, 2017
Both husband and wife are insane.

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by limamintruth: 3:55pm On May 18, 2017
Ladies, marry afonja man at your own peril! Shikenan!!

If its not domestic violence, it will be Infidelity or Immorality. Smh. sad
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by Nobody: 7:26pm On May 18, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


The saddest part here is the value.... 300-500Nairas (and she didnt even get the money)!!!! Any lazy person can get more than that by just begging at any street corners, and they will have more respect for themselves.
Yes, and that lil' money goes to him, which's even more sad. She herself says he hasn't been doing anything for years and she has been fending for him, so she knows he's just using her for money yet refuses to leave him. Considering what he said about how no man would look her way, he might've brainwashed her into thinking she won't find another man. Many women stay in abusive r/ships and tolerate nonsense b/c they think or have been made to believe they won't find anyone else, smh.

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Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by titosantana(m): 8:18pm On May 19, 2017
limamintruth:
Ladies, marry afonja man at your own peril! Shikenan!!

If its not domestic violence, it will be Infidelity or Immorality. Smh. sad
Na wa for you ooo

You still have to brought your primitive way of thinking here? Haba.
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by sunnysunny69(m): 9:37pm On May 19, 2017
Maybe he's Gay
Re: Husband Arranges Men To Sleep With ‘wife’ As A Means Of Survival by limamintruth: 5:41pm On May 20, 2017
titosantana:

Na wa for you ooo

You still have to brought your primitive way of thinking here? Haba.

But seriously, why mostly you southerners and domestic violence ehn? undecided

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