Pls people help me!I so much love my husband.We know eachother only 1 year and he is d best man i ever had!He doesnt smoke.he doesnt drink.He is footbal player.He doesnt havr job but i dont care.I want be supportive for him.to be succesfful.He only.goes to training ..He doesnt go to club without me.He leaves his phone.open and without any passwords.He helps me about domestic work and he is very gentle type of.guy.But there is one thing that is destroying me!He has been with his EX girlfriend for 11 years in the relationship.They broke up because their nigerian parents didnt support their relationship.Also my husband told me that she was bad to him.That she changed.I know they are still chating and in contact.Many times he will make up some.excuse just to go out and chats with her..Pls what should i do??I dont want divorce this man..!Should i see this as big issue?

I said it before that he has a girlfriend here. That's not an ex sha.

True love does not die

ikp120:
I said it before that he has a girlfriend here. That's not an ex sha.

She knows about me and also she has boyfriend.

ikbnice:
True love does not die

so what i should divorce him?

Europija:
She knows about me and also she has boyfriend.

If you say so.

Ma'am you are just being paranoid!!

Have you told him you do not appreciate this?

ikp120:
If you say so.

yes is confirmed..so what should I do?

11 years, you say?

It's going to be hard to be totally disconnected from such an ex. This might sound harsh, but I think this story is made up or embellished.

Whatever the case, I wish you da best ma'am.

Lewaluv:
Have you told him you do not appreciate this?

yes but he stil.chats with her

Europija:
yes is confirmed..so what should I do?

Nothing. Just enjoy for as long as you can.

Europija:
so what i should divorce him?

I guessed the feelings they have then was very strong. You need to sit him down and talk about it and let him know you ain't comfortable with him contacting his ex. Let him open up on why he still feels like contacting her. The more they contact, the greater the chance of them rekindling their love. True love doesn't die.

Arsenalholic1:
11 years, you say?

It's going to be hard to be totally disconnected from such an ex. This might sound harsh, but I think this story is made up or embellished.

Whatever the case, I wish you da best ma'am.

so what should.i do now pls tell me??wil he ever stoped loving her?

ikbnice:
I guessed the feelings they have then was very strong. You need to sit him down and talk about it and let him know you ain't comfortable with him contacting his ex. Let him open up on why he still feels like contacting her. The more they contact, the greater the chance of them rekindling their love. True love doesn't die.

yes this is why i am sad and dont know what to do ( i sit him many times n told him about this that bothers me bt he stil chat with her

Old friend are better than new one.

Europija:
yes this is why i am sad and dont know what to do ( i sit him many times n told him about this that bothers me bt he stil chat with her

Ma'am, it's not that easy to get over an ex. I'm speaking from experience. You have to make him tell you why he still maintain contact with his ex. You have to know the reason and that would determine the next line of action.

Europija:
Pls people help me!I so much love my husband.We know eachother only 1 year and he is d best man i ever had!He doesnt smoke.he doesnt drink.He is footbal player.He doesnt havr job but i dont care.I want be supportive for him.to be succesfful.He only.goes to training ..He doesnt go to club without me.He leaves his phone.open and without any passwords.He helps me about domestic work and he is very gentle type of.guy.But there is one thing that is destroying me!He has been with his EX girlfriend for 11 years in the relationship.They broke up because their nigerian parents didnt support their relationship.Also my husband told me that she was bad to him.That she changed.I know they are still chating and in contact.Many times he will make up some.excuse just to go out and chats with her..Pls what should i do??I dont want divorce this man..!Should i see this as big issue?

Hmm... I am worried for you. Your story sounds suspicious. Op are you white or from another country? Your husband dated a woman for 11 years and never married. He does not work and does all these household chores. This is not typical. I hope he did not enter into a fraud marriage and plans to relocate his "ex" later.

Easy ma'am.

You created a mirrored thread on something like this before where you were the one contacting your ex, now it's your husband contacting his ex. I think you need a lobotomy
https://www.nairaland.com/3783606/engaged-still-love-ex

I dont understand d he doesn't drink or smoke part.


I know smokers dt are loyal till death. ...n non smokers dt lie all day everyday.

Do not feed the TROLL!

yomi007k:


I dont understand d he doesn't drink or smoke part.


I know smokers dt are loyal till death. ...n non smokers dt lie all day everyday.

I know right

ikbnice:
You created a mirrored thread on something like this before where you were the one contacting your ex, now it's your husband contacting his ex. I think you need a lobotomy
https://www.nairaland.com/3783606/engaged-still-love-ex

op I will not insult u oo but explain this post.. Or shuuuut the fuvking hell up. Bloody hypocrite

I understand how you feel but first, you have to calm down. I advise you respond by having a chat with your hubby on the matter and if he continues, get the Ex number and discuss the harm it is causing to your marriage and also tell her to put herself in your shoes. But please, do not react but only respond else you end up nagging and heating up the issue.

"inlove with my ex", my husband is chatting with his ex"

Op

whenever i see topics like this... i look at the prev topics of the op... my dear, what do u gain from the attention u get... only u have had 4 miscarriages and 4 abortions... d same u love ya ex and u are engaged.... in one month u were engaged and marrried... bros... fear God na.. liars go hell

lashorrt:
"inlove with my ex", my husband is chatting with his ex"

Op

bae u tall... meanwhile, ya moniker looks familiar.. was ya otther moniker banned

op go watch this series "Players"

FortuneTeller:


Hmm... I am worried for you. Your story sounds suspicious. Op are you white or from another country? Your husband dated a woman for 11 years and never married. He does not work and does all these household chores. This is not typical. I hope he did not enter into a fraud marriage and plans to relocate his "ex" later.

is a true story...why sounds suspicious?

boiz2men:


bae u tall... meanwhile, ya moniker looks familiar.. was ya otther moniker banned

I'm very tall bro! Which moniker was it ?

lashorrt:


I'm very tall bro! Which moniker was it ?

la.short

i think we have had a fight before..

why did u emphasize on the tall .... i agreed with u na


and also u called me bro... are u a guy?