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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 17, 2017
HARDDON:


I knew you wud gasp for breath while u strive to construe dat portrait of urs i just painted.

Lets Joggle you mind



Response from a handler:



I'd luv to take u to the clearners but wud rather give u d mic to explain exactly what you meant by d above.

While @ it, stop shinning those massive teeth of yours angry
You sound pained. I don't owe you an explanation, neither do I take orders in regards to my dos and don'ts from you...so I'll keep shining my 32, and if you have issues with that, hug a transformer. grin cheesy grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:47pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:

No...
It's his loss.

Are we missing something? undecided
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Funjosh(m): 2:49pm On Jun 17, 2017
I confronted her when I sensed she was double dating, she said I never believed her that she can't date someone that doesn't trust her. The same guy I confronted her got her pregnant the following year. undecided

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by kumulus(m): 2:54pm On Jun 17, 2017
Aderola15:


Hian! angry

I don't like French kiss tongue grin



Huh...see u, me I don't even kiss at all but come to think of it, wetin carry your mind go there...u didn't stop at ordinary kiss na French kiss ur mind go shocked ur mind is already running wild, keep imagining ok...yeti girl.. cheesy grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Jssamuel33(m): 2:54pm On Jun 17, 2017
whitebeard:
She is in love with someone that doesn't love her (just a player), so I decided to let her go.

But she would come running back, just then she would realise that I don't open doors for hoés
SECONDED
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by kumulus(m): 2:56pm On Jun 17, 2017
CHESTER48:
ex or exes Mehn I have dated more than 20 girls can't recall the ex to talk about

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2017
I can't even remember my ex. Moved in long ago
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
You sound pained. I don't owe you an explanation, neither do I take orders in regards to my dos and don'ts from you...so I'll keep shining my 32, and if you have issues with that, hug a transformer. grin cheesy grin grin grin grin grin

Pained? Common BINTA. Was just looking out for u.
D thing is "close UP " pay huge sums to ppl to just shine their teeth for few secs in adverts n here u are sampling em freely at sexy will. tongue

About your post, you mos def knew what im about to do, hence u shelf your sword. Lillylivered?
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2017
kumulus:




Huh...see u, me I don't even kiss at all but come to think of it, wetin carry your mind go there...u didn't stop at ordinary kiss na French kiss ur mind go shocked ur mind is already running wild, keep imagining ok...yeti girl.. cheesy grin

Hehehehe grin cheesy

How do you plan on biting my tongue if we ain't French kissing embarassed

Lol. Really wild, don't know what I'm high on sef. grin cheesy grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by ifewise(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
zubydave:
Well, for me, I was a virgin(if I can say that) when I met her but she wasn't; no issue there because I truely loved her. The problem really started when her so called "ex" started showing up at her house again after dumping her ass when she was sick. When I noticed, as I would call her around 10pm after studying and the dude would pick up, I confronted her and she would be claiming; "I did not sleep at his place o, he's just trying to get back into my life and I will ne'er let that happen" . Baba, I never knew at the time that they were already sleeping with each other and I was already history in her life. After a while I noticed I was the only one calling and no thought of returning my calls from my supposed girlfriend. Guys to be honest I tried so hard to be the best I can be for her- especially in times of need. In summary, I discovered i was in a relationship with myself for some time thinking I was with her. I called her with courage to ask her if she was tired of it and to my surprise she said yes. Bottom line is; I was dumped.
grin
zubydave:
Well, for me, I was a virgin(if I can say that) when I met her but she wasn't; no issue there because I truely loved her. The problem really started when her so called "ex" started showing up at her house again after dumping her ass when she was sick. When I noticed, as I would call her around 10pm after studying and the dude would pick up, I confronted her and she would be claiming; "I did not sleep at his place o, he's just trying to get back into my life and I will ne'er let that happen" . Baba, I never knew at the time that they were already sleeping with each other and I was already history in her life. After a while I noticed I was the only one calling and no thought of returning my calls from my supposed girlfriend. Guys to be honest I tried so hard to be the best I can be for her- especially in times of need. In summary, I discovered i was in a relationship with myself for some time thinking I was with her. I called her with courage to ask her if she was tired of it and to my surprise she said yes. Bottom line is; I was dumped.
Bro u should hv read in btw d line
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2017
[quote author=kumulus post=57604054][/quote]

Gay! Gay!! Gay!!!

Ya kissing a man angry embarassed

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Zakkyoz: 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2017
She jilted me because a 'pastor' told her mom that we are not compatible

I virtually committed suicide but later happy she jilted me.
I thank God I will tie the nuptial knot with my queen in December.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Bowwow11(m): 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2017
she cheat so I had to. quit the relationship

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by joenor(m): 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2017
Mine! she n her mom dupe me... I call off the relationship lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Fraih(f): 3:14pm On Jun 17, 2017
HARDDON:


Are we missing something? undecided
Worry less grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 17, 2017
HARDDON:


Pained? Common BINTA. Was just looking out for u.
D thing is "close UP " pay huge sums to ppl to just shine their teeth for few secs in adverts n here u are sampling em freely at sexy will. tongue

About your post, you mos def knew what im about to do, hence u shelf your sword. Lillylivered?

Now that you don't seem to be "Commanding" me, I could explain what I meant.

"Being a good girl doesn't pay, men would disrespect you"...here, I was making reference to doormat girlfriends. What do I mean?. A guy would cheat on you, you'll be the one begging him and trying to get his attention even after being put in such emotional stress, no one's life revolve around the other. He wrongs you, you apologise even when he knows he was wrong but holding back the 'Sorry' word which seem too heavy to come out of his lips. He thinks too highly of himself, and less of you but you're there showing him love and hoping he'd change. Whenever he calls, you're at his service, never saying 'No' just to satisfy him. These are things "Good girls" do to keep their man/relationship but it usually backfires 'cause men want strong-willed women. Women who would say 'No' to certain things and stand by it.

Let me shine my teeth again 'cause I'm having a good day. grin

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by SexyCeline(f): 3:15pm On Jun 17, 2017
Left him coz he was so obsessed with me and also coz he cheated with a close friend.....

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Martin0(m): 3:23pm On Jun 17, 2017
SexyCeline:
Left him coz he was so obsessed with me and also coz he cheated with a close friend.....
chai sorry eh pkele
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:25pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Not at all. Speaking from my first experience.

Lol, I dated this guy years back. I was naive, too kind, always doing the calls, buying gifts to show I cared, as a matter of fact; I would do whatever he says, even to the point of picking my choice of University 'cause he asked me to which my parents weren't aware of. He was my first bf. Broke up with me without a concrete reason for the breakup. All he was blabbing was that some people want him dead 'cause of me. Lol, I felt he joined a cult in school, and he didn't say 'Yes' nor 'No' to my assumptions. On the same day he was breaking up with me I realized he was too attached to his phone. He dropped it and went to use the toilet. I checked the phone and found out all we were discussing was being sent to a particular girl while she replied that if she comes and sees me she's pour acid on me. No be person tell me to find my square root. grin I have always felt it was my fault or the problem was from me but still I moved on 'cause he was an ass to me. 5yrs later, last month to be precise he contacted me and told me he left me 'cause the relationship was redundant, and he didn't want to lead me on. My questions where; why didn't he tell me before cheating on me. He denied cheating but when I mentioned the acid threat text the girl sent him, he said she didn't mean it, and he was sorry he cheated. So now what can I do for him?, he wants us to be friends...like I care about that.

In a nutshell, I can't be that good to any guy. I learn from my mistakes. Lol, that's the only relationship have felt disrespected and played. Now, once I notice any fowl play, I end it before they say jack.

Lol @finding your square root.

Your last paragraph though. "I can't be that good to a guy"; you are still heart broken and there is this fear you don't want it to happen again. I have this feeling that you still good to your current bf.

"Once I noticed any fowl play"..... you be baba ijebu? Lol

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:27pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:

Worry less grin

Aha, i knew you wudnt be lady enough to talk about it. embarassed

Even though u almost made me bliv he stupidly broke up with his ONE true angel
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by JhimmyThall(m): 3:28pm On Jun 17, 2017
DumaEmpire:
because she was crazy as hell remember dis one time she asked me to seduce n sleep wit her bestfrnd or we r done..asif dat wasnt enuf one time like dat caught her smoking she in my bathroom smoking..i shock like madt cos me dnt smoke n i neva knew she did n she loved getting d head n denied me Mouth Gig n even sex sometimes only me suckin her..i mean common,buh cant deny i didnt miss her cooking..n lest i forget she was older dan me wit 4yrs at d time i come b like her pet or dog
pet+dog=petdog
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Fraih(f): 3:29pm On Jun 17, 2017
HARDDON:


Aha, i knew you wudnt be lady enough to talk about it. embarassed

Even though u almost made me bliv he stupidly broke up with his ONE true angel
grin All rights reserved....
The summaries I gave is enough info for now wink
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by McBrooklyn(m): 3:30pm On Jun 17, 2017
tosyne2much:
I broke up with my ex because I made her understand that I want to remind a virgin till marriage yet she wouldn't just stop coercing me into sex, to the extent that she added something in my food and when I slept off, she started removing my boxers.. Today, I'm happy I'm out of that relationship

Now, I am happy I'm now dating a lady that respects my decision. We have been dating for more than three years now and no form of kissing or hugging let alone sex.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:31pm On Jun 17, 2017
Dicedpineapple:
Distance...lack of communication i guess..Done and dusted tho


this is a sign... we are both in lagos, yes?


i WANT dicedpineapple! cheesy
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jun 17, 2017
RuggedArab:


Lol @finding your square root.

Your last paragraph though. "I can't be that good to a guy"; you are still heart broken and there is this fear you don't want it to happen again. I have this feeling that you still good to your current bf.

"Once I noticed any fowl play"..... you be baba ijebu? Lol
I'm not hurting. Moved on long ago, there's a limit to what I would do in any bf/gf relationship. That was the lesson I learnt from that one and have lived up to it.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:31pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Now that you don't seem to be "Commanding" me, I could explain what I meant.

"Being a good girl doesn't pay, men would disrespect you"...here, I was making reference to doormat girlfriends. What do I mean?. A guy would cheat on you, you'll be the one begging him and trying to get his attention even after being put in such emotional stress, no one's life revolve around the other. He wrongs you, you apologise even when he knows he was wrong but holding back the 'Sorry' word which seem too heavy to come out of his lips. He thinks too highly of himself, and less of you but you're there showing him love and hoping he'd change. Whenever he calls, you're at his service, never saying 'No' just to satisfy him. These are things "Good girls" do to keep their man/relationship but it usually backfires 'cause men want strong-willed women. Women who would say 'No' to certain things and stand by it.

Let me shine my teeth again 'cause I'm having a good day. grin

I want to come and eat rice at your place.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:32pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:

grin All rights reserved....
The summaries I gave is enough info for now wink

Pained . wink


Lil rights reserved tongue

Angel aint shy u know shocked
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:34pm On Jun 17, 2017
BadBlaize:
I accused her of fucking with one nigga wen she wasnt, she reacted by going to Bleep d nigga d next day nd ended d rship


you were played, she was already bleeping the dude! you don't just go and Bleep a nigga! re-learn!

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jun 17, 2017
RuggedArab:


I want to come and eat rice at your place.
I'm at work. No fried rice here. grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:37pm On Jun 17, 2017
Geraldyne:
Lol.. d guy wan use sex kill me..mehn I had to run 4 my pussi biko

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:38pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
I'm not hurting. Moved on long ago, there's a limit to what I would do in any bf/gf relationship. That was the lesson I learnt from that one and have lived up to it.

Relationships these days are tiring. People are taking cautions and precautions everyday. People don't give it their all again. How can it work?

We want good relationships yet we can't put extra efforts.
We have too many reservations to keep yet we want it close to perfect.

Which way abeg!

Meself tire pass.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by CaptainNipples: 3:39pm On Jun 17, 2017
i was tired of eating rice always

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