Evablizin:
yeah is very bad,he did it for greencard lols no vex ooh

Bad belle, e concy u?

Evablizin:
yeah is very bad,he did it for greencard lols no vex ooh

lol
I got the joke

mamato:
Bad belle, e concy u?

lols no vex too

The groom was too calm, he should have knocked the stupid pastor down for such embarrassment..... The pastor has no right to ruin his day. Only black people can try such crude behaviour, I bet the Pastor was once an illegal himself. Silly man!

Shebi dem no go for marriage classes go clarify themselves b4 the d-day?

Chai!!! this pastor sef. Today is not the day to ask questions na. That is why you have all the counselling and all that stuff

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

how come he didn't walk away when he was counseling them? he should not have waited till the wedding day

mamato:
Evil spirit or..............?

All spirit na spirit.

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

Your pastor was obviously more concerned about his impeccable record than the marital success of the couples he has wedded.
Is he God that he will always be able to spot a couple whose marriage would fail??
Hubris!
A pastor has no right to walk out on a couple like that based on a few questions on compatibility moments before exchange of vows.
This is exactly what marriage courses/counselling should have addressed before the couple even make it to the altar.
That means the so called pastor didn't do his homework.
Some conceited fellows who think they are God.

Marriage is not a joking affair, as such the man of God is very well in order to walk not being part of the scam marriage plans in the first place. He is right not to wed them. This kind marriage nai naija guys dey like, if anyone talks against the pastor it's like supporting fraudulent people.

this one weak me like jamaica weed

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

U just talk my mind guy!!

2buffagain:


It's necessary because it helps their case when doing the immigration interview.

Seriously?!
I thought the requirements for that would be Registry stuff?
Abeg tell me more

adadike281:
is d pastor in love with d woman? why didn't he refused to preside over d marriage in d first place? must he walk out in d middle of d solemnization? Man of God indeed!

Omo diz ur breast long o

Bellfun:


Seriously?!
I thought the requirements for that would be Registry stuff?
Abeg tell me more

Can't remember if it's so in Canada (that's where this vid was recorded), but in the US for sure you have to do an interview.
They question you both seperately to be sure you both actually know each other. Sometimes, the kinds of questions they ask each person about the other are things that legit married couples can't even answer.

And ofcourse, the focus of the hard questions will be on the immigrant.
Dem wan fawk you up ni

E.g Does your spouse like to sleep on their back, their side, or their belly?
Does your spouse prefer coke to pepsi?
What are the names of all your spouse's uncles?
What does your spouse like to eat in the morning?
What does your wife weigh? (As if any woman will reveal something like that to anyone )

Same Pastor will collect Tithes and offerings from illegal immigrants. Black man sha chai!

That's unfair. Waste of time and resources. The Pastor should have known before the wedding day

Bull crap. So what if both have papers but not seriously in love. How do you determine that? You sure would have gone ahead to bless the marriage... I dont even know why they went there to waste their time. They simply should have registered their marriage at a marriage registry and that alone is authentic. Going to the church is only ceremonial and not official these days. The bottom line is... Sham marriage is a crime in many countries. If you have to do that, then better don't be caught because even at the registry, you can still be caught. It''s not a free way

God can work in several ways, may be the pastor must have sense somting in the spirit...

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

I respect your opinion but VEHEMENTLY DISAGREES with it.

Walking out of a marriage ceremony is not the best way to go about this even if the pastor or reverend felt the marriage won't work.

Did the couple just show up on the wedding day Didn't the pastor or reve re nd have a time to talk to the couple before this day

What the hec concerns the pastor or reverend with their married life any ways The F'ing job they have is to preach the gospel, if people choose to listen or not to listen you can't force them.

Remember Jesus said to His disciple, wherever you go to preach, if they don't listen to you, knock the sands out of your sandals and leave them alone. At the end those sands would bear you witness.

A lot of times what we see is pastors and reverends stuffing people's mouth with those sands so they must believe... Haba!!!.. Do not force anything on any body.. Just preach the gospel, if they listen fine if not fine.

What is the justification anyways to see and or determine someone's marriage wont last based on the few information you know about them

My dad always tell me, stay away from people's marital yada yada because you will never find out the real truth.

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

I agree with most of your submission, but why didn't he assess all that during counseling?

adadike281:
is d pastor in love with d woman? why didn't he refused to preside over d marriage in d first place? must he walk out in d middle of d solemnization? Man of God indeed!

Why do you people talk so carelessly? Do you even realize that everything you say, you'll defend it?k

If the Pastor finds out any error in the middle of the event, he has every right to walk away rather than share in that error.

This man seems to me like one of the few God fearing Pastors left around. What is even wrong with you kids talking anyhow?

Okay, let me ask you, Why did Pontius Pilate wash his hand off the Crucifixion of Christ? Was he in love with Christ?

What Pilate did is exactly what this man did. He won't be part of a fraud.

If that Lady were your sister who is being lied to, will you be here saying 'She had made her choice?".

What if she didn't know she was being used?

God go demand accountability for our actions o, whether you believe it not.
Let your unruly nature consume you, wen u are done here. you'd stand to answer.

So the pastor don successful deport the guy now.

Because immigration go find am come

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

You're very correct.

eyeview:
I strongly support the pastor. They are not rubber stamps. They have a duty before God to counsel the couple before marriage and where they are not satisfied, can refuse wedding them even on the wedding day.
I remember during my marriage counseling many years ago, the reverend told us that how he had wedded couples for over 15years and not one has he heard divorced and won't hesitate to walk out any couple that will ruin that record.
If pastors will start assuming this responsibility they have towards the holiness of matrimony, many people today who have no business being even friends, talkless of being married which end up in divorce will be saved from it.
I have a friend today who cries in regrets anytime he laments his marriage. An almost 40 year old man shedding tears like a baby. He still confesses that if he ever saw his current experience then, he would have walked away at the altar. Won't such a guy be happy if it was his wedding this pastor walked out on.

Please,any pastor out there who sees clear signs that the union won't work and thus lead to more divorce, should call it off or walk away and absolve himself of any punishment from God whom He is representing.

I expect nothing less from you and your like who can never see something wrong in their heroes (pastors). Same way Trump said he would not lose any supporter if he shoots someone in the centre of New York, Nigerians would defend their pastors or Imams even if the shoot someone in broad day light.

Nobody is questioning the pastors right to refuse to perform the wedding even on the wedding day, the problem is coming up to the alter where hundreds if not thousands are seated and then walk away, that is an insult not only to the couple but to all the guests as well. If he did not see reasons not to refuse wedding the couple before the wedding day, then he is a charlatan, he was only performing a publicity stunt. Maybe he was blackmailing the couple and they refused to bulge.

The pastor came to the conclusion that the man is getting married to the woman because of papers, based on few questions he asked at the alter? that is a new low in senselessness. If the man was marrying the lady because of papers, he would not need to go to a church, a simple registry wedding would suffice. There are numerous wedding ceremonies in Ikoyi registry every Friday that is obviously for embassy papers only, and they never go near a church. For the fact that the wedding is taking place in the pastors church means one of the couple (presumably the bride) attends the church and is well known pastor and members of the congregation.

Nigerian pastors are fond of elevating themselves to the status of God.

I don't understand this. Why did the pastor hug the woman What if the woman was also aware of the sham marriage and had collected her share of the man's money?

Defcon1:

Your pastor was obviously more concerned about his impeccable record than the marital success of the couples he has wedded.
Is he God that he will always be able to spot a couple whose marriage would fail??
Hubris!
A pastor has no right to walk out on a couple like that based on a few questions on compatibility moments before exchange of vows.
This is exactly what marriage courses/counselling should have addressed before the couple even make it to the altar.
That means the so called pastor didn't do his homework.
Some conceited fellows who think they are God.

The Pastor said the groom has no papers meaning
1. He can be deported anytime
2. He is likely to be in Illegal stuffs since he has no Legal presence
3. The pastor cherishes the bride as a daughter and knows with all these red lights the groom might just want to use the bribe to get papers no genuine love and commitment.

akanbiaa:
The Pastor said the groom has no papers meaning
1. He can be deported anytime
2. He is likely to be in Illegal stuffs since he has no Legal presence
3. The pastor cherishes the bride as a daughter and knows with all these red lights the groom might just want to use the bribe to get papers no genuine love and commitment.

Lame. The couple can walk into the nearest registry and get married, no need of any pastor, only two witnesses are required. A married certificate would be issued.

Oyaa change pastor sharp sharp now.

Pidgin2:


Be responsible, there's nothing funny about that meme.

Hey, you could preach "responsible" to whoever marry you!

wirinet:


Lame. The couple can walk into the nearest registry and get married, no need of any pastor, only two witnesses are required. A married certificate would be issued.

What if the lady was your sister and the pastor was right?