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4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Opetech(m): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
How often have you spent weeks, or even months talking to that particular girl you like, then working up the courage to finally ask her out, only to hear those dreadful words: "Oh, you're so sweet, but I don't really see you in that way. I only like you as a friend... " When you hear that, it's as if she has reached deep inside of your chest and ripped out your heart! Hurts, doesn't it? Here are the biggest mistakes that men make and that you should avoid doing: 1. They never tell the girls their true intentions! This is the most common reason why guys eventually get friend zoned. They like the girl; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, and eventually start a relationship. But they're so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the issue, never clearly stating what they want and letting the girl know that they actually like her romantically! You must understand that rejection is a part of life and that no matter what you do - not everyone's going to like you. That's why it's always best to let the girl know that you're interested in her romantically, and that you'd like to go on a date with her. If she says yes - great! If she says no - at least you know where you stand with her, and you can move on, saving yourself a lot of time! 2. They treat her like a princess! If you never disagree with the girl, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics that she brings up, even if they don't interest you - the girl will notice this and won't respect you. If you're constantly afraid of offending the girl or making her angry, always "walking on eggshells" so to speak - she'll see that you are a spineless guy and lose all attraction towards you. That's exactly why "Bad Boys" get to have all the fun, while "Nice Guys" are left behind in the dust. Bad Boys don't fear rejection, aren't afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They don't give a rat's behind about what anyone thinks of them and they don't filter their thoughts when they speak - they tell it like it is. That is incredibly attractive to the vast majority of women, and exactly the reason why most girls fall for these so-called "rebels". 3. They constantly doubt themselves! Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a man can possess. If you can't make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when talking to the girl, touching her, leading her, and other similar things - you're not going to get anywhere! Women don't like guys who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem issues. It's best that you learn how to get those things handled! 4. They bore women half to death! This is another huge mistake that most men make. When talking to girls, they start asking all the boring, and uninspired questions like "Where are you from?", "What do you do?", "Where did you study?", and so on and so forth. Every girl has heard these questions a hundred times! You're there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her - and not to conduct an interview! Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other guys have asked her - and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a conversation. Skills like storytelling, joke telling, teasing, flirting, spiking emotions, etc. Give her a reason to want to go on a date with you! Don't bore her to death and show that you're both going to have a fun time if she accepts your invitation! If you follow this advice and always make your intentions clear, you'll never land in the friend zone! At worst, you'll get rejected and know where you stand with her. Then you can quickly move on and stop wasting time! http://relationshipgoals.com.ng/4-huge-mistakes-made-guys-land-friend-zone/ 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ikp120(m): 5:31pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
I love friend zone o. So long as she is sexually available for me, no wahala. 6 Likes |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
I no be your friend oh I no be your brother oh Malo friend zone mi (malo friend zone mi oh) Omo wa je ka rocky oh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by edoboy33(m): 5:32pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
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Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Lalas247(f): 5:34pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Number 1 and 2 nah the main reason The rest hmmmm depends on the individual How is treating her like a princess = friendzone that is ( potential Zone ) Take note 1 Like |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Lalas247(f): 5:35pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
ikp120: You have been swimming in friendzone it's becoming a norm .. so u no wan marry |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by pocohantas(f): 5:36pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Friendzone is the best zone. Guys don't like that zone...they all wanna be in that zone where they'll be knacking the girl from every angle. I like the friendzone. Na me dey use my hand put myself there... All my male friends are always coming through for me. They give prickk to their gfs, and give me true friendship Relationships in Nigeria are overrated. Give me a true friend and I will be a happy soul. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ikp120(m): 5:48pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Lalas247: I actually prefer girls to guys any day and anywhere. I easily get along with girls. All my direct family members are females. I no wan marry until I find quality wife material wey dey in love with me 1 Like |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Lalas247(f): 5:48pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
ikp120: Cool nice one .. better to wait than marry one winch It is well |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ikp120(m): 5:50pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
pocohantas:What about me? Lemme be your true friend with benefits na. |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ikp120(m): 5:51pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Lalas247:Hehehehehe
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Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ibkayee(f): 6:04pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
There's a difference between being in the friend zone and being a friend by the way. If you're in the friend zone she/he likely doesn't see you as even a prospective/isn't attracted to you in any shape or form, it's essentially a euphemism for 'never ever'. When you're a friend there's potential 1 Like |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Post how to leave the friendzone next, so we can do the needful |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by johnbuck81(m): 6:27pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Lalas247:1beer 4u. |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by johnbuck81(m): 6:28pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
ikp120:guy u dry fuxk up. |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by pocohantas(f): 6:30pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
ibkayee: Na that 'never never' I like... I don't even want him to be attracted, he should look at me as a sister ni. 1 Like |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by ibkayee(f): 6:33pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
pocohantas: |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
At times it's best you're just friends with a guy/girl.
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Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
johnbuck81: What is wrong with friends with benefit? Isn't that what most guys want but are to chicken shiit to admit |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by EmyLeo(m): 7:21pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
@op, thanks for this..short but precise....you passed the message in a nice way.. #number2 nd 3 really pisses me off.. .....#womanwrapper, #buttlickers... dtz wht you get when you have a deflated low self-esteem.. #nice1 op. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by johnbuck81(m): 7:53pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Dudeweedlmao:friends with benefits is different from being in the friends zone. |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by oviejnr(m): 8:55pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
Before any lady try to friendzone me, I already moved to the next Bus Stop. There's no time for friendship without benefits, if I'm ready to give up my time to listen to you, be ready to pay in kind. I don't need your shoulder to cry on, all I want is your waist |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by PROWESX(m): 10:50pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
oviejnr:i duff my hat for ur sincerity
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Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by Nobody: 12:51am On Jul 13, 2017 |
OlayinkaAB:let am hustle wich one be ur own shaking of head? |
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes Made By Guys That Land Them In The Friend Zone by vladhillz(m): 6:49am On Jul 13, 2017 |
Opetech:chill bro..some of us prefer d friendzone.damn..can still get d emotional,sexual,and great talk buddy sh*t from her without d whole commitment bullcrap |
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