MTKbudapest:
this is my first time of hearing something like this.

I think churches that wants a man to tell (propose to) them first before proposing to the lady are in error. Are they the one getting married to the lady?
You call them my papa, my daddy, my father some even go to the extend of calling them my spiritual father.
The bible say call no one ur father for one is ur father in heaven which is God. Run from such church for hell awaits u.
Take it or leave it

emmanajayi:
In Deeper Life They Don't Inform D Pastor But They Are Group Of People Called Marriage Committee, That Where A Brother Go To, To Inform Them He See The Will Of God To Dis Sister, D Sis May Nt Be In D Church, It Mayb Frm Anoder Church, So The Marriage Committee Will Now See The Lady That A Brother Have Seen D Will Of God To Marry You, So They Will Tel D Sister To Pray Nd Come Back Nd Tel Dem Who God Show Her To Marry Nd If It Is D Brother, They Wil Bring Both Together Nd Other Step Will Follow....... So The Reason Of This Is That D Marriage Will Nt Crash , WILL OF GOD MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, Couples Live A Happy Life, Although They Are Marriages That Are Nt Will Of God But They Are Happy Couples But Dey Are Few

sammykess:
Dear Landers, is it morally right first to inform your pastor as regards your intention to marry a sister in the church before you approach the lady for marriage, am saying this because Most churches see it as offensive, I want sample opinion nairalanders

emmanajayi:
In Deeper Life They Don't Inform D Pastor But They Are Group Of People Called Marriage Committee, That Where A Brother Go To, To Inform Them THE Will Of God To A Sister TO MARRY, D Sis May Nt Be In D Church, It Mayb Frm Anoder Church, So The Marriage Committee Will Now See The Lady That A Brother Have Seen D Will Of God To Marry You, So They Will Tel D Sister To Pray Nd Come Back Nd Tel Dem Who God Show Her To Marry Nd If It Is D Brother, They Wil Bring Both Together Nd Other Step Will Follow....... So The Reason Of This Is That D Marriage SHD Nt Crash , WILL OF GOD MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, Couples Live A Happy Life, Although They Are Marriages That Are Nt Will Of God But They Are Happy Couples But Dey Are Few

PrinceElias:
I don't see any big deal in informing your Pastor about your intention before taking the step of telling her. it put you on the saver side, unless you have any shady thing to hide. if not, the pastor can take you through what you need to know about her in case thats the church of the sister too and if not, the pastor knows how best to reach the necessary personnels to make sure your pre-marriage dealings go smoothly.

sammykess:
Nice One, I don't know if it's biblical, because they will tel you that you must follow biblical standards. It's like this, the pastor will confront the sister with a mask identify of the brother and see if God has reveal the name of the brother to the sister

ExpensiveG:


Haba guy reason dis thing na....


for dis generation, person no get FREEDOM to friend church gal wey him like, until him tell em Pastor...


Wetin dey Pastor go do, if dey guy tell em say him wan friend dis gal

thickminaj:
all this confronting... Anyway... I belive most of this doctrines are man-made.. And if the pastor notice you don't attend church regularly, ur not part of the workforce he'll keep asking the lady ... Making her have second thoughts

PDPGuy:

cococandy:

Na lie?

PDPGuy:

You no lie
Although some pastors like to be in the know about every single thing in your life

tosyne2much:
All this "I need my Pastor's validation before I propose a woman" is bullcrap. And I see that only people with insecurity issues are usually fond of involving their pastors in things that can practically be solved with common sense

Some will even tell you according to their doctrine, your pastor is responsible for wooing a lady on your behalf. Soro niyen?

Baba Adeboye said, shine your eyes when picking a wife and never let any pastor recommend a wife for you. He said the highest a pastor can do is to counsel you. Finish!!!

tosyne2much:
All this "I need my Pastor's validation before I propose a woman" is bullcrap. And I see that only people with insecurity issues are usually fond of involving their pastors in things that can practically be solved with common sense

Some will even tell you according to their doctrine, your pastor is responsible for wooing a lady on your behalf. Soro niyen?

Baba Adeboye said, shine your eyes when picking a wife and never let any pastor recommend a wife for you. He said the highest a pastor can do is to counsel you. Finish!!!

sammykess:
Dear Landers, is it morally right first to inform your pastor as regards your intention to marry a sister in the church before you approach the lady for marriage, am saying this because Most churches see it as offensive, I want sample opinion nairalanders

sammykess:
^^^^some churches go as far as suspending the person

Threebear:

My sister, the things I read here. I tell you, religion have dislocated some people's brain.

hisMrs:

U cannot just friend a church girl for friending sake. Pastors getting involved is to give both parties a sense of commitment. When u know d entire church knows about it, to misbehave go hard u