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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by GoodMuyis(m): 11:53pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
MTKbudapest: And Elisha saw it , and he cried, My father, my father, the chariot of Israel, and the horsemen thereof. And he saw him no more: and he took hold of his own clothes, and rent them in two pieces. And the king of Israel said unto Elisha, when he saw them, My father, shall I smite them ? shall I smite them ? Now Elisha was fallen sick of his sickness whereof he died. And Joash the king of Israel came down unto him, and wept over his face, and said, O my father, my father, the chariot of Israel, and the horsemen thereof. Mr. Next remember you bible before commenting and IF you tell me its Old testament I will....
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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by emmanajayi: 12:05am On Jul 20, 2017 |
In Deeper Life They Don't Inform D Pastor But They Are Group Of People Called Marriage Committee, That Where A Brother Go To, To Inform Them THE Will Of God To A Sister TO MARRY, D Sis May Nt Be In D Church, It Mayb Frm Anoder Church, So The Marriage Committee Will Now See The Lady That A Brother Have Seen D Will Of God To Marry You, So They Will Tel D Sister To Pray Nd Come Back Nd Tel Dem Who God Show Her To Marry Nd If It Is D Brother, They Wil Bring Both Together Nd Other Step Will Follow....... So The Reason Of This Is That D Marriage SHD Nt Crash , WILL OF GOD MARRIAGE IS THE BEST, Couples Live A Happy Life, Although They Are Marriages That Are Nt Will Of God But They Are Happy Couples But Dey Are Few 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by CarterKim(m): 12:08am On Jul 20, 2017 |
emmanajayi: 6 Likes
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Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by PrinceElias: 12:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
I don't see any big deal in informing your Pastor about your intention before taking the step of telling her. it put you on the saver side, unless you have any shady thing to hide. if not, the pastor can take you through what you need to know about her in case thats the church of the sister too and if not, the pastor knows how best to reach the necessary personnels to make sure your pre-marriage dealings go smoothly. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by fireprince14(m): 12:31am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by biz2get(m): 12:58am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Capital NO!!! 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by babiskinado(m): 1:25am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Use your brain. Pls 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Hustlerlomo(m): 2:47am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Na d whole congregation u for tell before u tell her. 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tommiesyn: 3:03am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sammykess: I do not agree with MOST as you described. Believers should know the difference and when to draw the line between tradition and doctrine. There is no moral, ethical, spiritual or Scriptural wrong in that, except of course, we want to dwell on men's opinion. BTW, I'll like to contact you privately. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tommiesyn: 3:16am On Jul 20, 2017 |
emmanajayi: You mean? Sir, can you defend your postulations with Scriptures? Colossians 1:9 For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; I don't know what you understand the will of God to be but it is not what you wrote up there sir, that should be an opinion statement/guess. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by tommiesyn: 3:29am On Jul 20, 2017 |
PrinceElias: and no big deal too in not informing him. If you want to tell her first, tell her. You have done no wrong. You'll live with your spouse, no one else will! If you feel like telling your Pastor first, do so, especially when you know you cannot manage some matters yourself. (You see sometimes, 3rd party involvement at the stage of proposing/asking out may spark some issues like dissuasion, delay, etc) There are no strict rules guiding this, do whatever you're convenient with and let no one judge you. But SIN NOT, Flee from Immorality! 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by hisMrs(f): 3:40am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sammykess:Brother, all this thing na formality, its just so that sexual immorality will b minimized and so as not to get d pastor and ministers unawares when u both are set to wed. Your pastor getting involved doesn't guarantee the success of the marriage. The 3rd person in matrimonial relationships should b God alone. 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by hisMrs(f): 3:43am On Jul 20, 2017 |
ExpensiveG:U cannot just friend a church girl for friending sake. Pastors getting involved is to give both parties a sense of commitment. When u know d entire church knows about it, to misbehave go hard u 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by hisMrs(f): 3:46am On Jul 20, 2017 |
thickminaj:Exactly |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Zedoo(m): 4:31am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Iranu. Pastors are damn near penetrating every area of people's lives instead of God. 2 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by iluvpomo(m): 4:38am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Some Nigerian pastors operate with a completely different version of the bible 3 Likes |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by awoluyi(m): 4:40am On Jul 20, 2017 |
I can tell the Pastor provided his own marriage is successful just to know his tricks for such a success. If he/she (Pastor) is a divorcee I will keep my plans to myself. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by cococandy(f): 4:41am On Jul 20, 2017 |
PDPGuy:Na lie? |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by PDPGuy: 4:51am On Jul 20, 2017 |
cococandy:You no lie Although some pastors like to be in the know about every single thing in your life |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by cococandy(f): 5:07am On Jul 20, 2017 |
PDPGuy:95% of them have sinister motives |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Nobody: 5:15am On Jul 20, 2017 |
the pastor should be the last person unless u re marryn his child. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Odegbami1(m): 5:17am On Jul 20, 2017 |
tosyne2much: You are all mad and annoying. You people have turn man of God to God themselves. I feel like slapping you all 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Collyno82(m): 5:39am On Jul 20, 2017 |
tosyne2much:who are the pastors self? is it all those failures in their home front?. No regard for them. 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Nobody: 5:45am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sammykess: pastor worshipper. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by kherlly(m): 5:50am On Jul 20, 2017 |
you better wake up cos things aint as before. Some sister go don even get belle before marriage Like d one i experience in my church... After their wedding e no reach 4 months she don born that means dem do dey have sex and she don get belle before dey marry. Go talk to the girl first mayb when wedding is set u tell pastor 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by sheunpompey1: 5:55am On Jul 20, 2017 |
OP, Though nice question but I will suggest u follow your BELIEF. I worship with Deeper Life and I am married. The essence of informing your pastors or leaders is for guidance. You may finds it very absurd and obsolete telling someone u want to marry a lady. But let me tell u, the pastor is just a third party whose duty is to guide. The Marriage committee are meant to put you through marital doctrine and germain issues in marriage once the two of you have been certified fit to marry each other. I never regret ever getting married in Deeper Life and I wish you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by drnoel: 6:04am On Jul 20, 2017 |
sammykess: Then so be it. Some churches are lucky I no dey attend them 1 Like |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Vince77(m): 6:14am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Threebear: Dislocate is a small word. Religion has made their brain to decay. |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by idu1(m): 6:16am On Jul 20, 2017 |
There's no common sense in modern christianity. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by haconjy(m): 6:20am On Jul 20, 2017 |
I think that is best...that depicts you are Christian... Its best and that's what I did |
Re: Informing Your Pastor Before Your Fiancee Is It Ok? by Collyno82(m): 6:22am On Jul 20, 2017 |
hisMrs:for ur mind ni. if na the one wey pastor they bleep, u sure say him go approvam |
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