tommiesyn:



You mean?

Sir, can you defend your postulations with Scriptures?

Colossians 1:9 For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;

I don't know what you understand the will of God to be but it is not what you wrote up there sir, that should be an opinion statement/guess.

Will Of God Means Choosing Your Partner In Godly Way By Asking God Who To Marry because God Knows All, You Hear About Wife Killing Their Husband, Husband Killing Wife, But A Man That Ask From God Who To Marry , The Partners Cant Kill Theirselves and The Marriage Cannot Collaspe. Thanks

Livefreeordieha:
terrible.. But Bro I wish all the best ooo... The day my wife will try it.. May God save the queen..

. It is belittling from all spheres to put your pastor before your hubby. Very Very humiliating. These are things husbands need to sort out satisfactorily to prevent evitable calamities. I can't even imagine catching a pastor on my wife, Jesu

ImaIma1:


I feel it's guys that are close to the pastor that decide to tell him first. Because i don't see any reason telling the pastor that you are interested in a sister.
In my church, after you propose, u register for marriage counselling. That is where they get to know the couple and counsel them.
The only reason the pastor can kick against it at that point is if the man does not have a job or he feels they do not know each other well enough. In that case, they can postpone.

That's very true

mapist:



. It is belittling from all spheres to put your pastor before your hubby. Very Very humiliating. These are things husbands need to sort out satisfactorily to prevent evitable calamities. I can't even imagine catching a pastor on my wife, Jesu

u know in medicine we have mercy killing..?me if I catch the pastor na righteous murder/homicide é go be.. Gbagbe oshi..

Livefreeordieha:
u know in medicine we have mercy killing..?me if I catch the pastor na righteous murder/homicide é go be.. Gbagbe oshi..

Lmao..abeg o ..Make God spare us from nonsense..smh

emmanajayi:

Will Of God Means Choosing Your Partner In Godly Way By Asking God Who To Marry because God Knows All, You Hear About Wife Killing Their Husband, Husband Killing Wife, But A Man That Ask From God Who To Marry , The Partners Cant Kill Theirselves and The Marriage Cannot Collaspe. Thanks

I said you should defend your postulations with Scriptures Sir.

Does God over ride the choices of men?
God gave guidelines already, men choose partners.

Proverbs 18
[22]The man who finds a wife finds a treasure,     and he receives favor from the lord.

1 Corinthians 7:39b " . . .she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord."

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Slai1:


I forgive you, for you know not, neither do you understand.
Your speech reflects your level of knowledge.

May God bring you to the point of an encounter.

You think it's by beauty, brain, money or sensual wisdom that a home is built. Except the Lord build a house, they labour in vain that build it. Except the Lord watches over a city, the watchmen stay awake in vain. Beauty is vain, money without direction leads to penury.

Bible says, follow those whom through faith and patience, obtained the promise.

My Broda, thank you for your civility and matured reply. I apologise for the mumu word i use. Infact based on your reply, i take the mumu back. Yes i felt some shame cos i saw that your reply is actually based on your belief. Well, i tell you this, you are wrong bros, Please follow the teachings of the bible and follow the examples of Jesus and Moses and other prophets and not that of any pastor. Did anyone take a girl to Jesus and ask for advice weather to propose or not during his lifetime? Christianity today has turned to "what my pastor says" and that is why the only business selling in Nigeria today is Church business with Pastors owning Churches, ministries, private jets, limousines, schools etc, and they say its God blessing them, yet look at our lives in Nigeria? pathetic. So bros, pls know that the best person that can advice you right, protect your interest and wants the best for you and prays for you sincerely are most likely your parents period. Ask your father or mother, then your family, e.g brother or sister or a very close TRUSTED Friend like a brother then maybe your pastor depending on the relationship not because he is a pastor or in your definition "a man of god" Only God knows that not me not you not anyone, and in my faith, Islam, God says in the Quran, the best amongst you is he who is more God fearing, and that, nobody knows but God alone because i don't see your heart neither do you see mine. Conclusively, Bros for the proposal, ask the Girl after making up your mind.

SirGoldEjike:
I also worship with Deeper Life, Bro inasmuch as their marriage Procedures are Good they are too religious and not spiritual, we call it ''holiness'' but the truth its dosnt dispict holiness,

Am a Youth and a Youth leader in my district, it would shock you to know that 90% of the youth in the church are not ok with the way and manner marriages are carried out in the church and this over the years have led to mass exodus of highly gifted youths from the church! Its more like a Bondage, Yes and i forsee more coming if the church dosnt look into it! I see inconsistency in these Rules and Regulations,

The idea of proposing to the sister after seeing the MC is become a stumbling block to many even leaders, since its not entirely Biblical when not adjust it for the sake of the Future of the church

I agree with you in a way.

Must of us just follow rules not because we are convinced but because we have no choice.

SirGoldEjike:
I also worship with Deeper Life, Bro inasmuch as their marriage Procedures are Good they are too religious and not spiritual, we call it ''holiness'' but the truth its dosnt dispict holiness,

Am a Youth and a Youth leader in my district, it would shock you to know that 90% of the youth in the church are not ok with the way and manner marriages are carried out in the church and this over the years have led to mass exodus of highly gifted youths from the church! Its more like a Bondage, Yes and i forsee more coming if the church dosnt look into it! I see inconsistency in these Rules and Regulations,

The idea of proposing to the sister after seeing the MC is become a stumbling block to many even leaders, since its not entirely Biblical when not adjust it for the sake of the Future of the church

I agree with you in a way.

Most of us just dey follow rules that we don't buy into because we have no choice

Rapture4real:


If you are a genuine christian who wants to remain in God's will,it is necessary.Younmust also be of the pastor.If marriage is like a car that you can abandon and buy another one,then no necessary but as a life time commitment, very important.

Genuine christian indeed.

To tell the pastor is a qualification to be a genuine christian.

Some will leave weightier matter of the law and focus on less important issue.

Since the pastor is just to guide you, once you can live with the outcome of your decision, tell me the sin?

These laws are everywhere, pastors flag it as if it's heavenly doctrine

FA13:



Genuine christian indeed.

To tell the pastor is a qualification to be a genuine christian.

Some will leave weightier matter of the law and focus on less important issue.

Since the pastor is just to guide you, once you can live with the outcome of your decision, tell me the sin?

God's will is always concerning us is thought of good and not evil, Satan is always there to put asunder in marriages, it's only God that binds home,different folks with different level of grace

emmanajayi:

Will Of God Means Choosing Your Partner In Godly Way By Asking God Who To Marry because God Knows All, You Hear About Wife Killing Their Husband, Husband Killing Wife, But A Man That Ask From God Who To Marry , The Partners Cant Kill Theirselves and The Marriage Cannot Collaspe. Thanks

Validate your opinion

Caustics:
no

Livefreeordieha:
I see u have overdosed ursef with religion again as many Africans.. As u sleep tonight please think about ur life.. Read ur Bible very well.. Xtians now worship pastors even pay pastors to pray for them.. Where in the Bible did you read about this? God said believe in me and me alone but nowadays u lots worship and pray to men instead.. I know some opium overdosed ones will not agree but in the end wat is my bizness .. Ur doom ur life.. Livefree or diehard..

LMAO

tosyne2much:
LMAO

tosyno.. Why u dey laughing naaa hope u never inhale sulphur

sammykess:
God's will is always concerning us is thought of good and not evil, Satan is always there to put asunder in marriages, it's only God that binds home,different folks with different level of grace

YEA THAT TRUE BUT WILL OF GOD MAKE THE GRACE COME EARLIE BFOR DESTRUCTION OR CRASH

SirGoldEjike:
I also worship with Deeper Life, Bro inasmuch as their marriage Procedures are Good they are too religious and not spiritual, we call it ''holiness'' but the truth its dosnt dispict holiness,

Am a Youth and a Youth leader in my district, it would shock you to know that 90% of the youth in the church are not ok with the way and manner marriages are carried out in the church and this over the years have led to mass exodus of highly gifted youths from the church! Its more like a Bondage, Yes and i forsee more coming if the church dosnt look into it! I see inconsistency in these Rules and Regulations,

The idea of proposing to the sister after seeing the MC is become a stumbling block to many even leaders, since its not entirely Biblical when not adjust it for the sake of the Future of the church

You're very right my brother. Deep Life doctrines seem to put members in bondage. I'm fact, most of them are socially restrained at the expense of making heaving

tosyne2much:
You're very right my brother. Deep Life doctrines seem to put members in bondage. I'm fact, most of them are socially restrained as the expense of making heaving

More than right. My rommie who is a deeper life member said he doesn't barb his hair bcus he doesn't want to be fine and when he was "in the world" was when he last kissed. The thing just weak me.

EbukaHades10:
More than right. My rommie who is a deeper life member said he doesn't barb his hair bcus he doesn't want to be fine and when he was "in the world" was when he last kissed. The thing just weak me.

I tell you bro, Christianity in Nigeria is becoming more of nuisance than comfort

tosyne2much:
I tell you bro, Christianity in Nigeria is becoming more of nuisance than comfort

I prefer nt to be tied down to any church or religion. As far as i know dat there's gud,evil or a Supreme being

SirGoldEjike:
in my district here i know of not less than 5 Brothers and a sister that was rejected by their supposedly ''will of God'' and the embarrasment no be here oooo! Its true that we must submit to Authorities because they are ordained by God, but for this crucial matter i wont submit totally,


I rather inform the Sister 1st, get her consent whether positive or negative then Face the consequences!

#AmNotaSlavetoChurchDoctrines

sharp brother. A brother I know is also going ahead to inform her and she has accepted. to me its better to get a yes from her than to be sending series of names and hearing no no no every time. God help us