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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by daryoor(m): 6:51am On Jul 28, 2017
until u see someone that will add to your life (monetarily) dont marry o. except you want to use slow down your destiny t

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by NothingDoMe: 6:52am On Jul 28, 2017
Nma27:
Economic crisis? Chameleonic character in some ladies?
Bad character in some men
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by emmaak2(m): 6:54am On Jul 28, 2017
Chascop:



na your type der poison your husband..
what a nasty comment (especially the first line).

you need orientation ma'am


y u even quote the stupid girl self

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by ashawopikin(m): 6:54am On Jul 28, 2017
grin grin
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Stdaviding(m): 6:55am On Jul 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.


Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.


Don't pressurize him babe

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 6:56am On Jul 28, 2017
Piiko:
I am scared of marriage simply coz I haven't got emotional and financial stability just yet and I am sure it's same for a lot of us upcoming young men
lemme sha believe even though I know what am saying is true.
When you finally have dat money, u will now get confused on who to marry. Shebi u na my inlaw nah but ur diary don show say we still get another babe grin cheesy
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by tensazangetsu20(m): 6:57am On Jul 28, 2017
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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 6:58am On Jul 28, 2017
bayocanny:

You assertion above is wrong
Okay o.
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Equal2DeTask(m): 7:00am On Jul 28, 2017
Reasons not enough undecided
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by CzarChris(m): 7:11am On Jul 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.
Excuse me lady, but you just spoke from two sides of the mouth. 1st you called an unmarried man a coward who is afraid of the responsibilities marriage brings then you turned around asking people not to marry because of pressure, undecided make-up your mind already. You are already sounding like someone under pressure to marry or someone with a bad attitude. Either way, change or its going to be a tey.(i no talk o)

Personally, marriage is overrated. Some of us, me especially love my alone time. I don't easily trust people, and please marriage is not for everyone, so why the pressure?

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by ussy09(m): 7:11am On Jul 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.
Hmm this babe go don dey 35 soo. Dear future hubby u wan kee her ni haba � � �

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:15am On Jul 28, 2017
Benignasweety:
lemme sha believe even though I know what am saying is true.
When you finally have dat money, u will now get confused on who to marry. Shebi u na my inlaw nah but ur diary don show say we still get another babe grin cheesy
yes o I have babe but u never can tell if you are dating a chic and she's dating you or someone else in return, I have sisters so I know how females behave. Na God hand we dey we watch and pray I am single to stupor cheesy

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Pdazzle01(m): 7:16am On Jul 28, 2017
eberetos:
Ladies have sex around & we are scared that they can't stay with one man.....The cheating rate is getting high... In this world where a woman will be on phone having sex with another guy & maybe speaking to fiancee same time.... ...in this world where ladies will have sex with ex few days to wedding......in this world where DNA fails.....In this world where if you don't have much money, love becomes an issue.......In this world where ladies have opened legs for many guys & cant stay with just one joystick.....Fear!!!! Its not just a fear of committment, but fear of cheating....

Cheating.................... a very big issue.............but are they not cheating with men as well? both men and women need "restructuring". maybe after then, cheating will stop
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by EmekaBlue(m): 7:17am On Jul 28, 2017
I've even forgotten I'm suppose to marry o...Chai
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:19am On Jul 28, 2017
they're scaredy cats
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Kokaine(m): 7:20am On Jul 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.
you are saying both the one you know and the ones you are not too sure of. who told you only cowards avoid marriage. trust! trust my dear friend is the issue! if you have experienced cheating, you will know what im talking about.

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by muller101(m): 7:21am On Jul 28, 2017
I will have a baby mama. If u think I will spend a dime for marriage well I pity the unfortunate lady

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Originalsly: 7:24am On Jul 28, 2017
Not scared of marriage.... just can't afford to marry.He may have enough to start a family... provide food, shelter and clothing for his family.... but to marry?..... bride price.... that alone will make him broke... so let's not even move on to supporting his in laws and the other pocket burners that come with marriage. I was going to mention about what the wife would demand...like a car... and not common Toyota.... and brand name clothing.... but I changed my mind ...I don't like trouble.

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by iambijo(m): 7:27am On Jul 28, 2017
Huh !
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Kokaine(m): 7:28am On Jul 28, 2017
Benignasweety:
They are scared because they don't know between Simi, Amina, Chioma who they really want to settle with and finally they would even involve innocent Bisola
you are so pretty. but what i dont like is that ring on your finger. could we replace it?
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Kokaine(m): 7:30am On Jul 28, 2017
Originalsly:
Not scared of marriage.... just can't afford to marry.He may have enough to start a family... provide food, shelter and clothing for his family.... but to marry?..... bride price.... that alone will make him broke... so let's not even move on to supporting his in laws and the other pocket burners that come with marriage. I was going to mention about what the wife would demand...like a car... and not common Toyota.... and brand name clothing.... but I changed my mind ...I don't like trouble.
my brother. if i marry, no inlaw can come to me for anything that i cannot normally give a stranger. my sister is married to a bank manager, i have never collected a penny from him. God forbid!
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:31am On Jul 28, 2017
Kokaine:
you are so pretty. but what i dont like is that ring on your finger. could we replace it?
You don come with man brainwashing tactics. Thanks for the compliment.

I cover my brain with dah blood of mah Zizi.
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by guru03(m): 7:32am On Jul 28, 2017
I never regretted getting married even when i left my job three months to the wedding out of frustration, i forged ahead, my wife remain resolute ever with the harassment from her uncles that he no longer has job, but today its a different case today. all the money in this world cannot buy you the best celebrated wedding rather the contentment, the understanding, and the love that dew ells between you.

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:35am On Jul 28, 2017
Ladies have sex around & we are scared that they can't stay with one man.....The cheating rate is getting high... In this world where a woman will be on phone having sex with another guy & maybe speaking to fiancee same time.... ...in this world where ladies will have sex with ex few days to wedding......in this world where DNA fails.....In this world where if you don't have much money, love becomes an issue.......In this world where ladies have opened legs for many guys & cant stay with just one joystick.....Fear!!!! Its not just a fear of committment, but fear of cheating....





Your post shows the kind of ladies you date... mumu

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Kokaine(m): 7:36am On Jul 28, 2017
Benignasweety:
You don come with man brainwashing tactics. Thanks for the compliment.

I cover my brain with dah blood of mah Zizi.
no no no its not brainwashing anything. if you think im lying when i say youre very pretty, please change your mirror today. buy mirror from shoprite. original one.

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by eph12(m): 7:40am On Jul 28, 2017
IMO many of us grew up in struggling homes, our parents couldn't get us many of the things we wanted. We don't want our kids to experience that, so we put that on hold till we feel we can provide regularly and adequately for our wife and kids. Personally I don't think there's any point having a family and raising kids when you cannot guarantee financial security. So it all boils down to money.

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:41am On Jul 28, 2017
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.

Abegi....the reason men are scared of marriage is bad experiences with women. Every man dreams of having a family....a normal man will give his life for his family....but modern women have decided to make life miserable for men, so we avoid you people. From experiences with karashikas ( God literally pulled me out of a pit) , hopeless cheats, female cultists(innocent face on top o), to women whose loyalty is just as reliable as lai Mohammed. I dont even trust my psyche wih women again sef. Before person like me go marry, I have to hear from God explicitly clear as possible. Cuz all the above experiences i know i was being sincere, i did my best, im way above average in looks, intelligence, and income even as a student, with bright prospects. If these ladirs dont believe in my vision, why not just leave, why must you destroy the young innocent man?
Not to hate women but if not for my faith, I will have just gotten one girl pregnant and pay her off or better yet get a surrogate. Very few women have added value to my life, most have nearly destroyed it.
And the worst part, they will never accept their own flaws or evil deeds...unless it directly begins to affect them..
Why do you think we have baby Mamas now? Cuz men fear being miserable in marriage.
But then I still believe in Love sha and a wife from God. But if I tell u I'm not scared of commitment with ladies...its a blatant lie. Funny enough its easier these days to just have random sex with women. Contrary to popular opinion, if you are attractive a bit, they just want to f*** u, but to have a serious relationship na wahala..(ladies from 18-24, something about a how phase).
So whose fault is it now?

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by hardon1(m): 7:50am On Jul 28, 2017
Benignasweety:
They are scared because they don't know between Simi, Amina, Chioma who they really want to settle with and finally they would even involve innocent Bisola
go back to sleep jor... The basic reason is lack of finance. Not finance to organise wedding or pay bride price o (those are just events). Raising a family is not an event, its a lifetime thing, and the thought of doing that with an ant income scares men like fowl poo. Noting emasculates a man as when he cant provide for his family

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Originalsly: 7:51am On Jul 28, 2017
Kokaine:
my brother. if i marry, no inlaw can come to me for anything that i cannot normally give a stranger. my sister is married to a bank manager, i have never collected a penny from him. God forbid!
Just make sure your wife's family values are the same as yours... if not... you can't stop them from asking....and when you don't give.... hmmmm......Mr Stingy Man will be your name and they'll try to finish you!

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 28, 2017
Chascop:
The only Reason why Men fear marriage is because they think they're Man enough yet but not knowing that the case is vers-versa. but come to think of it, Marriage comes from God. It's a blessing and not just ordinary.

It's a Divine call
so marriages like the one of okotie and oyakilome are from god?. Or the once husband or wife was beaten or poisoned too is from god too?. Gerahere

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Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by phyla(m): 7:52am On Jul 28, 2017
I hope you aren't hurting?
Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.
Re: Why Men Scared Of Getting Married by Nobody: 7:54am On Jul 28, 2017
hardon1:

go back to sleep jor... The basic reason is lack of finance. Not finance to organise wedding or pay bride price o (those are just events). Raising a family is not an event, its a lifetime thing, and the thought of doing that with an ant income scares men like fowl poo. Noting emasculates a man as when he cant provide for his family
Okay sir

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