***ASTERIX.  WHY THE ***ASTERIX***? Well it is meant to draw the attention of too many small minded females on this platform who are unwilling to GROW. That they should not get EMOTIONAL IN THEIR USUAL IRRATIONAL WAY as to the TRUTH that is about to be told. If it HURTS you please dont feel vexed because of the TRUTH such as .

hkidola00:

Sometimes it is not d fault of these women cos dey have grandmas,school fees,rent and stuffs to sort out....

Now, hkidola00. Did you not just create a reason for JUSTIFYING an act you have come here to COMPLAIN that it is WRONG?

hkidola00:
Sexual harrassment is at it peak at institute of international tropical agriculture,ibadan.......a female cant come in search of employment without sleeping wit up to 1 to 4 bosses......female constitute of up to 55 percent of the population,and one of my friend once told me dat if a three year old baby should come dere for work,she will be penetrated.Sometimes it not d fault of these women cos dey have grandmas,school fees,rent and stuffs to sort out....But coming from a big institution like i.i.t.a.....it just too bad,let try to raise dis awareness cos any of our sisters and aunt ,even mum can search for work there,it is happening at large even to d extent of some married woman,it just so bad some men cant allow dere wives and girlfriend work ther...WHAT CAN BE DONE?

So, "it is not their fault". HELL NO!!! That is the same SELF DECEPTION these ladies also hide behind as a reason for COMPROMISING when in REALITY there are other options on the table. But 'SHE' in question choose to trade her BODY for "school fees, grandmas, rent, and stuff.....".   WHICH IS A BARGAIN AS TO WHAT IS OF WORTH OR OF NO VALUE TO BE RESERVED OR GIVEN AWAY IN A TRADE.A TRADE WHICH AS LONG AS IF SHE AGREES TO THE BARGAIN THERE SHOULD BE NO MORE COMPLAIN.  
   
Is it any news that those 'MARRIED WOMEN' in question when they were girls and through secondary school and then big girls in the universities, WILLINGLY OPENED THEIR LEGS LIKE PAIR OF COMPASSES WHICH SCREW IS SO LOSE for teachers and lecturers to have their way into them so that they can as well have their own way out, a SHORT CUT TO PRESTIGE?!

Prestige? Yes that certificate so as to be called a graduate. That is not SUCCESS, that is PRESTIGE.  Those who sincerely seek after SUCCESS do not compromise to such an act because they were well schooled right from  HOME BY WOMEN OF SUBSTANCE who gave birth to them. Who didnt trade their body for vanity, are willing to go the miles to be successful, not by being Fvcked by men as a short cut to an end.

Imagine a daughter being told by her Mama this words:

"Remember this: When you cross my doorstep, you have already been raised. With what you have learned. You know the difference between rigth and wrong. DO RIGHT. Don't let anybody raise you from the way you have been raised. Know you will have adaptations, in love, in relationship, in friends, in society, in work, BUT DON'T LET ANYBODY CHANGE YOUR MIND". (Maya Angelou, Mom & Me & Mum)

And this,

"I want you to learn that you cannot have anything without working for it. The only way you can be taken advantage of is if you think you can get something for nothing." (Maya Angelou, Mom & Me & Mum)

A FRAME OF MIND AND UNLESS SHE THE MOTHER TOO DEMONSTRATES THE SAME, IF NOT IT IS BUT HOT AIR.

Too many ladies want SHORT-CUT. They don't want the long narrow route which leads to SUCCESS.

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty." (Maya Angelou).

A WOMAN WHO HAS WORKED ON HERSELF, KNOWS HER WORTH WILL NEVER TRADE HER VALUES JUST TO BE TASTED BY MEN SO THAT SHE HERSELF GET TO HAVE THE EXPENSIVE TASTE OF LIFE.

A woman of worth can NEVER. I repeat can NEVER be taken advantage of by any man. Infact only her body language will make the perverts prick to shrink and his sense to re-configure to "THAT ONE NA NO GO AREA".

But when it is you who present yourself like a SLUT in those revealing cloths that says "COME AND FVCK" . Why will you not be patronized to be fvcked showing those sweet laps to a PERVERT.

And, once a lady starts showing insecurity as if she is going to die if she doesn't get what she is looking for. Men will trade on such weakness. Is I.I.T.A the only option?

I FOR ONE AND IN MAYA ANGELOU'S WORDS.

"Love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the LAPELS. Life is a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass". (Maya Angelou)

LAPEL means the part of the front of a coat that is joined to the collar and folded on each side.

Imagine a lady go out there looking for a job and the man in charge tells you, "If you allow me to fvck you I will give you a job". And you do not tell the pervert to "SHOVE HIS JOB UP HIS ASS ................... ASSHOLE!!!" and then slam the door on his face.

IT IS A BARGAIN AND THAT IS WHAT DIFFERENCIATE A SLUT FROM A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE. WORST IS THAT PROSTITUTES IN THE NAME OF GRADUATES IS WHAT MOST OF THESE SCHOOL SYSTEMS ARE PRODUCING OUT THERE. WHO FVCKED THEIR WAY THROUGH TO GRADUATION. RUNS GIRL OR LECTURER GIRL. Infact some universities have branded themselves as the hub of oloshes.

It is a man's world but made by women. The day women start to understand that the only way out and as to they way they will want there fellow women to be treated out side depends upon the kind of up bringing the give a male child right from little to LOVE, PROTECT, RESPECT women. That day the become free. At the moment let they UNWISE ONES continue hating on men.

EVERY SOCIETY THAT YOU SEE MISBEHAVING TODAY STARTED FROM THE HOME. WHO IS THE MANAGER OF THE HOME? WHERE EVEN IS THE HOME TODAY?

As for I.I.T.A its a spill over of what happens in the Universities. Those men will never ever cross the part of a woman of substance.

Did you not as well make an example of a friend who must have spread her legs like a bed sheet all over I.I.T.A and got a job?

Well that is the reality. Except OLOSHI, women of substance don't go around raising their butts up like in yoga for men who ask for a share. Why? Because their hearts were well raised by their mothers, the QUEEN OF SUBSTANCE that such is a SLAP ON THE FACE OF THE DIGNITY OF WOMANHOOD.   

Go," she whispered. "Go. Show
them you spell your name W-O-M-A-N". (Maya Angelou. Mom & Me & Mom)

*** I opened this thread to inspire substance in women who are willing to go all the way through substance not compromise but go all the way and become beautiful butterflies as to flowers and not flies masked as butterfly feeding on feaces in prentence that its flower.

That awkward moment when you spend hours compiling a writeup to vent your frustrations and no one even bothers to read past a line.

Just passing

Let me book space,still reading.

anybody understand what the op's saying....

Too long

This one strong o

What is going on here

Eyah, pele

Dlordsamurai:
wait lemme ask ifa.

ask fast am waiting

Shurrup

Jacksparr0w1207:
This one strong o

Eyaaaa!

Just go make money and the lines will fall in pleasant places.

Didn't read your epistles tho'.

Dlordsamurai:
lol hahahaha baba you self tire?

The guy dey para no be small

Fabulocity:
Shurrup

Make me

Inasmuch as you made sense at some point. Are you at the same time exonerating those men who act like animals?. You said women should understand that how they'd want their fellow women to be treated depends on the upbringing given to the male child from birth; to love, protect and respect women. You're right but it doesn't take only the woman to train a child. The father and society are also involved in a child's upbringing.

DouglasH92:
That awkward moment when you spend hours compiling a writeup to vent your frustrations and no one even bothers to read past a line.

hahahahah

kimbra:
Inasmuch as you made sense at some point. Are you at the same time exonerating those men who act like animals?. You said women should understand that how they'd want their fellow women to be treated depends on the upbringing given to the male child from birth; to love, protect and respect women. You're right but it doesn't take only the woman to train a child. The father and society are also involved in a child's upbringing.

you read the whole shiiiii

Jacksparr0w1207:
The guy dey para no be small


Make me

hope u know this bae digs you big time

too bad shes a lesbian

Fabulocity:
You talk too much

Get the steppin. Goat

thepussyhunter:


hope u know this bae digs you big time

too bad shes a lesbian

Which one? Na my small sister o

thepussyhunter:


you read the whole shiiiii

I Skimmed through.

kimbra:
I Skimmed through.

oh okay

i be don fear o............

So what was op ranting about btw?

thepussyhunter:


oh okay

i be don fear o............

So what was op ranting about btw?

Why are you guys scared of reading long post?.

He was blaming women who let themselves get used by men for whatever reasons.

You had to write a book for this

WORDWORLD and his long post again

kimbra:
Inasmuch as you made sense at some point. Are you at the same time exonerating those men who act like animals?. You said women should understand that how they'd want their fellow women to be treated depends on the upbringing given to the male child from birth; to love, protect and respect women. You're right but it doesn't take only the woman to train a child. The father and society are also involved in a child's upbringing.

Sure the father too. We cant rule out the reality that as children, they spend MOST of their time with their mothers. And that is the best time to sow those wonderful seed on fertile innocent hearts.

"One might equate growing up with a mistrust of words. A mature person trust his eyes than his ears. Irrationality often manifest itself in upholding the word againt the evidence of eyes. CHILDREN REMEMBER FAR LESS WHAT THEY HAVE SEEN THAN WHAT THEY HAVE HEARD". (Eric Hoffer, Reflection on the Human Condition)

You are very correct and the father too. My emphasis is on the Mother as she is closest to a child. Society is made up of HOMES . If we have good homes and more good more and much more good homes then the society itself becomes a good home for all of us kimbra. It all starts from the home, mothers are natural nurturers and natural managers of the home kimbra. Infact the first right of any child is a GOOD MOTHER.

kimbra:
Why are you guys scared of reading long post?.

He was blaming women who let themselves get used by men for whatever reasons.

oh i see................well thats his shiiii to worry about

and we (rather i) aiint scared of long posts................thing is they usually end up being either crazy, boring, too stiff, senseless etc and its more like a waste of time reading through

i personally usually give up after the first 3 sentences

you dont happen to read all long posts do you?

vicfuntop:
You had to write a book for this

Writing is so easy for me to do, so spontaneous. Flows like a stream from a heart so deep and with so much treasures unselfish to share with those who care.

kimbra:
Why are you guys scared of reading long post?.

He was blaming women who let themselves get used by men for whatever reasons.

They are not scared of reading long post its just that its not an EROTICA. The erotic threads i have seen on NL are so long and with people beging for more. We are in an age of DECEDANCE where what is appealing to too many is SENSUALITY mainly because SENSIBILITY is lost.

Well i for one write mainly because its a global world which the internet has made it so possible to reach the ends on the worlds. Hence my writing are only for the WISE. WISDOM IS FOUND IN READING AND SHARED BY WRITING. Thank you for taking your time to read. There is really no difference between one who cant read at all and one who can but doesnt. They are on the same level..........................................even worse is the one who can but doesnt.