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She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 12:00am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Before u crucify me hear me out. I met her from a friend and she started working for me. After a while she left but she has already won my heart but didn't say anything cos I hate having affairs with my workers. After she left I approached her but she didn't say anything after like months I met her again but she still refuse and told me she was dating a guy I know very well to be a play boy. I tried to convince her that her relationship with him won't lead to anywhere at a point I decided that I have to let her go. Fast forward to last few week, I noticed she has been liking my post a lot and always try to initiate a conversation. I ignored her still until she started asking why I don't call her again. I told say me don try nah for close to 8 months now. She told me that she will like to come to my office and would like us to talk. I was like is everything alright and she said yes that she just want to see me. I chatted her up earlier this night for her to start telling me about some of her family problem. Mind the fact that if she is a gold digger she would have said yes long before now. She has still not said yes but she asked if she can come and work for me on weekends which I refused. She said she needed to help her mum and some personal stuff. I asked her to follow me to a wedding ceremony which she agreed but said she doesn't have Cloth for an occasion. She still a young girl if u ask me. Not more than 19 or 20 I asked her to come around tomorrow so I can buy some clothes for her for the occasion. She has not said yes nor any much interest but I don't know how to fix the puzzle Is she coming around because things is a little rough for her? Is she having issues with her bf and want to use me to get over him? Is she for real? OR she wants to play me since I have refuse to let go?? Mature reply is highly appreciated |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by iamJ(m): 12:01am On Aug 25, 2017 |
viewing thru hmmm 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by indodon(m): 12:06am On Aug 25, 2017 |
lemme wait for the elders o |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 12:06am On Aug 25, 2017 |
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Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by iamJ(m): 12:12am On Aug 25, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:baby i missed you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 12:13am On Aug 25, 2017 |
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Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by drajjay: 12:17am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas:why would you forecast someone's relationship. Are you the author? 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by profhezekiah: 12:23am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Please where can I get a girlfriend on naira land DAT doesn't demand for money? 2 Likes |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by SmellingAnus(m): 12:27am On Aug 25, 2017 |
She is in need of help and she knows you can help her if you want to....financial help to be precised... 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 12:37am On Aug 25, 2017 |
SmellingAnus:Thanks for the observation. Now what is the right decision to take considering the fact that I love her and she know?? What will u Don't?? |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 12:39am On Aug 25, 2017 |
drajjay:l don't get ur point |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by SmellingAnus(m): 12:40am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas:Make her feel comfortable, assist her... Don't try to bring up anything related to asking her out, I mean don't try to make her feel you are taking advantage of the situation, ... After two weeks you can still mention and update me about the latest development then I will tell you what next to do 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by drajjay: 12:42am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas:you told her her relationship wouldn't go well in the long run |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 12:51am On Aug 25, 2017 |
drajjay:was that the only part u read?? Didn't u see where I said the dude is a known play boy I bow for u ooo 2 Likes |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 12:52am On Aug 25, 2017 |
profhezekiah: Bros, go to StingyLand, you will get one 6 Likes |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 12:54am On Aug 25, 2017 |
SmellingAnus: Thanks Exactly what was in my mind cos I was afraid to assist so she won't feel indebted to me or that I am taking advantage of her. Will do exactly what u said. |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 12:55am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Op. If u get money to help her, just help her. Cancel that wedding invitation with her. Just fvcking help her and don't date her, love her or show further interest in her.(If you want to marry her, that's fine, but she's still a teen). Conclusion, look elsewhere. You would gain her love and friendship. "Maybe". 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by SmellingAnus(m): 12:56am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas:good... |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by profhezekiah: 12:58am On Aug 25, 2017 |
OfficialDad:please give me address |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Do u have genuine intentions for her? If yes, then re-mphasis ur intention to her. Is obvious she is having financial problem. Don't capitalize on that to do anything funny to her. Tell her what u want from her and if she can't say yes, then she should not remember you when she's in need. This was how a gal friendzoned me years and using the money I give her to cook for her cultist boyfriend in school. She remembers me each time she's broke and even when d guy fought with someone nd got wounded, d gal came to me pretending that her mother is seriously sick, not knowing is the idiot. Well, she regretted it cos I was long gone when d iidot dumped her sorry asx. |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 1:01am On Aug 25, 2017 |
OfficialDad:thank you but since I have made a mistake of inviting her already which she said yes but don't have anything to wear. I asked her to come tomorrow so that I can take her to my friend for new clothes. What do u suggest that I do |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by stacyadams: 1:02am On Aug 25, 2017 |
gbam..God bless u OfficialDad: |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 1:05am On Aug 25, 2017 |
profhezekiah: I don lost the address bros. |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 1:06am On Aug 25, 2017 |
chyy5:U made a valid point Thanks a lot |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 1:10am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas: Tell her you changed your mind. You need to attend to something else, and you won't be going again. Just cancel that invitation. Then, you need to realize that, she's 18-19yrs according to you, her brain is still lacking life experiences. Get to find out if her mom is truely having issues, and help with the token u v. I suggest u visit the mom and present the token(5k, 10k , etc) to her, you would gain the moms love, trust and respect. In fact the whole family go dey call you MVP 3 Likes |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 1:23am On Aug 25, 2017 |
OfficialDad: Yea but don't u think that will be breaking trust?? I mean u and I know that women have a way of reasoning. Maybe I should just pay for the clothes and still cancel the invitation but even at that, if she wants to find out if I later went she will find out. And that also is not good |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Nobody: 1:34am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas: Its time you stop caring about what she thinks. You should be discharging orders and respect. When she realizes that, things would fall in place. Don't pay for anything. You re not going again, period!. 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by dewhaley: 2:20am On Aug 25, 2017 |
OP...just forget about the Invitation and try to avoid helping her...if you eventually feel like helping her,then know that she might keep coming back for more help from you and we both know you will want something later from her #justSaying 1 Like |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by JaffyJoe(m): 2:40am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Man one of the best ways to permanently endear yourself to a woman is to come to her aid financially at a strategic time of need (talk & do). There is nothing wrong with caring for someone you claim to love with gifts and lil cash sometimes. Same person you took your time to study when she worked for you and you feel can compliment you forever. Bros even if you buy 10k apparel for her and she later still say no, SO WHAT? No biggie, taking her shopping to a modest store is even a way to check her long throat meter. Bottom line, don't biitch out now. That chic is your wife on some futuristic shxt. Don't lose a gem because you don't wanna appear like a mumu. If you find a good beautiful woman with awesome temperament & character, baba being her mumu is allowed. 2 Likes |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by Donjazzy12(m): 6:46am On Aug 25, 2017 |
sirdouglas:You are not a man but a tetitteller! You are discouraging her from dating another man like you. You think you are smart. You are a very very foolish guy! |
Re: She Was Once My Sales Girl But I Want To Date Her by sirdouglas(m): 7:30am On Aug 25, 2017 |
Frankeyy:see me finish?? How do u mean?? Remember that she has worked and known me more than a year now so it's safe to say that she don see me finish ooo or is there something else u are trying to say?? |
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