This is wah.

Give me your mother's no, I want to preach to her

Advise her to be more careful with her phone.

Allow and encourage her to leave if she still wants to.

Nwodosis:
Your Mum and Dad are in what is called Polyamorous marriage! You better allow event to take care of itself, confronting you mother is exposing yourself to fury of a woman who has been in dejection. But guy, you no also try o, evading your mother's privacy.

I'd call it a megagamous marriage

@OP advise for mum to get a stable relationship if she can't fix her marriage.

The relationship she's having with multiple partners is very dangerous, when problem start you will have to carry the burden.

She is no longer a young lady, her runs is limited.

Post pics of said MILF and let's see how we can be of service

PaperLace:
1. Your dad is/has been a chronic, irresponsible, unrepentant and insensitive cheat.
2.He has subjected the innocent woman to all sorts of emotional and physical abuse, even from third parties (his side chicks).
2b. All for no fault of hers.
3. He is currently with one of his side chicks.
4. Their sex life is dead.
5. Mummy is beautiful and fit _halleluyah somebody!!!
6. Mummy is independent and strong.
7. Mummy wanted to leave the marriage, you told her not to.
8. Now, mummy is moving on with her life (albeit wrongly) and you're not happy.


What kind of son are you bikonu? You don't want her to leave the marriage, you don't want her to move on. What do you want? Disrespecting her vows is NO-NO, so _ allow her leave. She should have one steady partner and not multiple, that's the only thing you should be advising her on (If at all you should advise her).

Did it ever occur to you, that just like so many married women, with community horsebands, your mum was waiting for her kids to grow within a complete family system(as society demands) before divorcing? You still decided to stop her.

This is why it's good for women to be independent and remain physically appealing. All that "who will want you after 3kids" threat, na for women wey no know wassup.

Soldier come, soldier go _barracks go remain.
This na open marriage Season1.

Honestly, if it was my mum (which she also went through same, but my old man later came to his senses before they got older), I would have given this same advice because I understand what the woman went through.

@op, just caution your mum to stick to one partner because she also needs to have a life and feel loved as a human being.

That marriage is long overdue for divorce

OP, free your mom abeg. If one of your father's side chick come fight am? She is in her fifties, those young girls will beat her up. I blame you. What type of son don't want her mother's happiness? You could not stand up to your father but you want to confront your mother? Don't you know she stayed in the marriage for her kids to get older, now you are 34 you are still behaving like an anumanu. She is a bitter woman and if one of your dad's side chick beat her to death or harm her, her blood will be on your head.
You clearly hav daddy issues, still want your dad to one day come back and meet her and have a happy family. That ship has sailed.
My friend and his brothers sef went to their house and packed their mom's stuff when they have had enough of their dad's bullshit, they carry their mom out of the place.
Like someone asked: What type of a son are you? Tufiakwa.

Picture of the nude or else adonbiliv this story

E be like say youe head no correct .. Allow mumcy be a beg at 31 ,face your family and allow the both of them be .. Your family is more important to you ,take care of your wife and your 2kids

You are a stupid child why should u come here to expose ur mum. You can talk things over with her instead of exposing her here. Re u sure she is ur real mother?

Yelabechi:
I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute.

I'm laughing out louder here ...

Your daddy is Igboro

Keep snooping around your mother 's phone and don't mind your business.

ceeroh:
Pictures of the nudes or.....

You're gross

Just advice her to be careful,that path she is heading to could make her everybody's toy.......that path ain't good to ride on.

I feel the pains your mom has been going through
not easy to cope with such irresponsible man.
but den..not good for her to be having different affairs outside..

thesicilian:

If the above bolded part is true, then she has done nothing wrong by wanting to find happiness again. I'll suggest you leave her alone, focus on your own family and don't be like your dad.

So sex na happiness!

When your father was flirting around you were not feeling disgusting, but when your mom start her own, disgusting now fell on you

Is like you are not serious

Abeg allow the woman enjoy herself what is good for bulus is also good for balas

It is OK for your dad to cheat and won't find it disgusting but your mom does the same you find it so.

O.p, in all sincerity, you are not a good son.

Put yourself her shoes..how would you feel when your husband neglects you emotionally and physically? Goes to meet another woman for a month while you're there at home feeling unwanted? Gives you disgrace?

she might be suffering from self esteem as a result of your father's action, Perhaps also be depressed. Her actions are just desperate measures of being happy.

She needs counseling not this your childish and unreasonable yeye attitude. You're only a child not her God. Mtchewwwww.

so you saw your mum's nude ..

don't mind me.

it's quite unfortunate but just keep praying for your kid so it won't return back to them

You no even shame to bring your family issues here......your mum on that matter

People can realise later in life that they've fallen out of love with the person they married. I mean, Your mom endured till you were grown up. . .I just personally think you should be helping her get a divorce. F*ck what people say. She has been lonely, sexually starved, and unhappy for a long time. And now she's flirting with men that have made her feel young, beautiful and loved again. I don't think you should've been snooping around your mom's phone in the first place- a phone is a personal item. But now that you've seen it you should do the needful. If what worries you is promiscuity then you can try to advise her to stick to one partner. She'll certainly listen to you after you helped her be free of the burden of marriage to a man she has no love for. That's just what I think. She doesn't deserve to live the rest of her days in misery and loneliness. She has tried na, haba.

Advice her to choose One and Practice safe sex.


Your dad obviously lost her by doing stuff to her over the years so..But she's staying back because you keep calming her down..

When a Good lady has gone bad, she's gone forever.



Let her choose just a partner for intimacy so it'll be decent enough.

AnonyNymous:
You're gross

And you're net

Leave your mummy alone dude.

At her age she is still playing runs may God deliver this old woman.

Ashawo house...
Confirmed MILF tins.
Hope ur mom's boobs are still standing?

Leave your mother alone. Don't wait to be in her shoes before you understand. Just advice her to play safe and not throw her money and nude pictures to men who will turn around to blackmail her.

Yelabechi:
I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute.

Mind your biz, she is not a minor part of her decision is you and see how you turned out. Why can't some mumu just leave private stuff to be private. if I were your mum and see this shit, I will sue your frigging fucking ass.

Besides all you have is phone chat.

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