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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by babythug(f): 7:19pm On Oct 18, 2017
zaynie:
I'm also using this opportunity to call upon our hanging boot mamas, please bless us with that which you do not need anymore.
Nothing is too small....
Abeg kiss



Babythug
Ozycy
Modath


If I dinor call your name, know that twins is coming your way next cycle. If you want to weave it, just mention me and weave it on Mama's Helping Corner this Sunday kiss

Just have my hands full till next week but I will read up and buzz you asap

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 18, 2017
What can I use to cure my baby who is having serious ila to all her body especially her neck, ampit,and thigh. Thanks.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 10:53pm On Oct 18, 2017
Chanbaby:



grin grin. And her baby is 2years+ and very very slim
Clear case of "Physician heal thyself"
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 11:02pm On Oct 18, 2017
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CC zaynie
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 11:31pm On Oct 18, 2017
realdentist:
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Unless there are genuine and honest ones available.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by winningbt: 4:15am On Oct 19, 2017
please mamas I'm new here my lo isn't latching well and I'm finding it difficult to feed him since I plan to exclusively Breastfeed him please this is getting to me cos he makes him cry alot and in laws are not making it easy on me like I'm the one that has the wrong type of Breast, please help this ftm from getting depressed
he is 6 days old today, I'm expressing the little I can for him.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 5:39am On Oct 19, 2017
Congrats Mama. First of all you need to be calm, you getting worked up plus baby crying will not allow you achieve what you want so i suggest you try when baby isn't too hungry. Also make sure he takes the breast up to the areola (the black part) not just sucking on the nipple. Try YouTube videos, they might help as well. Also Google "tongue tie" see if you can find a video of what it looks like, or when you go to the hospital anytime this week (I see you have a boy so circumcision) ask the nurses to check for you, it sometimes affects their latch. Are your nipples out or inverted? If it's inside you can use a breast pump to bring it out

Until it works keep expressing. It's important baby is fed. There's nothing wrong with your breast, don't mind anybody that says so. Focus on your baby

All the best

winningbt:
please mamas I'm new here my lo isn't latching well and I'm finding it difficult to feed him since I plan to exclusively Breastfeed him please this is getting to me cos he makes him cry alot and in laws are not making it easy on me like I'm the one that has the wrong type of Breast, please help this ftm from getting depressed
he is 6 days old today, I'm expressing the little I can for him.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by feddy27: 6:34am On Oct 19, 2017
winningbt:
please mamas I'm new here my lo isn't latching well and I'm finding it difficult to feed him since I plan to exclusively Breastfeed him please this is getting to me cos he makes him cry alot and in laws are not making it easy on me like I'm the one that has the wrong type of Breast, please help this ftm from getting depressed
he is 6 days old today, I'm expressing the little I can for him.

Sorry dear. The first few days of breastfeeding can be very difficult! Before you breastfeed,
1. Get a pillow and prop him up so he can be in a comfortable position
2. Have a bottle of water next to you, be drinking while breastfeeding
3. Breastfeed at regular intervals, don't wait for him to be hungry before bringing him to the breast
4. Take oats, pap, tea to increase breast milk production
5. You also have to relax cos stress causes breast milk not to flow properly
6. Having done all these, if you ain't getting your desired result, don't starve your child! Supplement with formula. Giving a baby formula does not make you less of a mother! Ignore whatever comments anyone will make at you

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by winningbt: 7:05am On Oct 19, 2017
hunniesuzie:
Congrats Mama. First of all you need to be calm, you getting worked up plus baby crying will not allow you achieve what you want so i suggest you try when baby isn't too hungry. Also make sure he takes the breast up to the areola (the black part) not just sucking on the nipple. Try YouTube videos, they might help as well. Also Google "tongue tie" see if you can find a video of what it looks like, or when you go to the hospital anytime this week (I see you have a boy so circumcision) ask the nurses to check for you, it sometimes affects their latch. Are your nipples out or inverted? If it's inside you can use a breast pump to bring it out

Until it works keep expressing. It's important baby is fed. There's nothing wrong with your breast, don't mind anybody that says so. Focus on your baby

All the best

thanks mama I will work on your advice I'm grateful
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by winningbt: 7:08am On Oct 19, 2017
feddy27:


Sorry dear. The first few days of breastfeeding can be very difficult! Before you breastfeed,
1. Get a pillow and prop him up so he can be in a comfortable position
2. Have a bottle of water next to you, be drinking while breastfeeding
3. Breastfeed at regular intervals, don't wait for him to be hungry before bringing him to the breast
4. Take oats, pap, tea to increase breast milk production
5. You also have to relax cos stress causes breast milk not to flow properly
6. Having done all these, if you ain't getting your desired result, don't starve your child! Supplement with formula. Giving a baby formula does not make you less of a mother! Ignore whatever comments anyone will make at you
thanks so much mama,i will work on your advice I'm grateful

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 19, 2017
Orente21:
Today is my birthday. Pls celebrate with me
Happy birthday in arrears twinny Maama.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Orente21(f): 7:49am On Oct 19, 2017
Benignasweety:
Happy birthday in arrears twinny Maama.
Tanx dear. Aw is Zizi? I appreciate u all man's. My cake is comin soon
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 8:25am On Oct 19, 2017
Liftedhands:
The two I've tried on naira land aint trusted! The data flew like water poured into a basket angry bought 1gig for 700 naira and it finished withing a week.

Whilst same data size bought directly from the network provider lasted much longer. Its best to buy directly IMO.

Unless there are genuine and honest ones available.
thanks sis
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Taymi: 8:33am On Oct 19, 2017
winningbt:
please mamas I'm new here my lo isn't latching well and I'm finding it difficult to feed him since I plan to exclusively Breastfeed him please this is getting to me cos he makes him cry alot and in laws are not making it easy on me like I'm the one that has the wrong type of Breast, please help this ftm from getting depressed
he is 6 days old today, I'm expressing the little I can for him.

Relax mummy. Don't pay attention to what anyone thinks. I experienced same when I had my baby (though not up to 6 days), took aloooooooot of pap, make it watery not thick, drink it like water after every meal (drink while is hot) . Also there's this pap hubby told someone to do for Me, the red pap + soya +something,can't even remember. But the normal pap will do jare.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Spylord48: 8:45am On Oct 19, 2017
Hi parents in the house.My sister little baby girl of A month and few days doesn't allow anybody to carry her.She always feel uncomfortable and cry when anybody apart from the mother carry her.Worst still is that I don't think she has started even seeing well. What could be the cause of this?
I thought kids start rejecting people as from 6months up when they start seeing well
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 8:46am On Oct 19, 2017
jazzyjazz

how r u?
u v bn MIA
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Fyngal1(f): 9:11am On Oct 19, 2017
GoodMum:


I sent you a pm, pls respond accordingly

done.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Spylord48: 10:13am On Oct 19, 2017
Spylord48:
Hi parents in the house.My sister little baby girl of A month and few days doesn't allow anybody to carry her.She always feel uncomfortable and cry when anybody apart from the mother carry her.Worst still is that I don't think she has started even seeing well. What could be the cause of this?
I thought kids start rejecting people as from 6months up when they start seeing well
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by zaynie(f): 10:20am On Oct 19, 2017
realdentist:
Please trusted data reseller needed.
CC zaynie



Me I don't know o....
Perhaps you could tender this at the Mama's Helping Corner this Sunday.
With a little description of what the business entails and the ups and downs involved.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by zaynie(f): 10:28am On Oct 19, 2017
[quote author=Spylord48 post=61564298][/quote]


Most babies can see as early as a day old o.
No try them. cheesy

Perhaps she's always with her mom and you're not always home.
You have to familiarize yourself with her. Babies love fun so be funny.
Tickle her and play with her even in her mother's arms. Before time she'll start stretching hands to you too.
Make funny gooey sounds till you get one that makes her giggle.
Give her a pet name or use a name that only you call her ,that way she identifies the name with you and that makes you special. Use a sing-song voice to call the name.
Feed her, if she's exclusively breastfed, let the mom express some milk in a bottle and feed her with it. They're attached to the moms for nothing but food and familiarity. Were you present and active during the pregnancy, babies can hear even in the tummy and I'll tell you this when they're born they react warmly to familiar voices like their dads or siblings. Except if the presence of the dad used to make the mom anxious, scared or jittery or if daddy's voice was always hard, then if she hears you speak she'll withdraw or cower or cry.


A little bit of patience and she'll want to play with other people.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Spylord48: 10:33am On Oct 19, 2017
zaynie:



Most babies can see as early as a day old o.
No try them. cheesy

Perhaps she's always with her mom and you're not always home.
You have to familiarize yourself with her. Babies love fun so be funny.
Tickle her and play with her even in her mother's arms. Before time she'll start stretching hands to you too.
Make funny gooey sounds till you get one that makes her giggle.
Give her a pet name or use a name that only you call her ,that way she identifies the name with you and that makes you special. Use a sing-song voice to call the name.
Feed her, if she's exclusively breastfed, let the mom express some milk in a bottle and feed her with it. They're attached to the moms for nothing but food and familiarity. Were you present and active during the pregnancy, babies can hear even in the tummy and I'll tell you this when they're born they react warmly to familiar voices like their dads or siblings. Except if the presence of the dad used to make the mom anxious, scared or jittery or if daddy's voice was always hard, then if she hears you speak she'll withdraw or cower or cry.


A little bit of patience and she'll want to play with other people.

yes.. even my mum sef.. she doesn't even allow her to touch her not to talk of carry her before she will open her mouth and cry.
she is only comfortable when my sister carry her and she can't b carrying her around every time Na.she has to do chores too
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by zaynie(f): 10:52am On Oct 19, 2017
Spylord48:


yes.. even my mum sef.. she doesn't even allow her to touch her not to talk of carry her before she will open her mouth and cry.
she is only comfortable when my sister carry her and she can't b carrying her around every time Na.she has to do chores too


Lol@ open her mouth and cry cheesy
Tell mommy to identify with her somehow.
Like backing. If mommy back her a lot and she enjoys it, she's going to see mommy as a comfort zone.
Or warm baths.
But if she sees mommy as the ones that does things that makes her cry like gives her bitter things or collects her from her mom, she's going to have a bad vibe with her.


My first child just didn't like my mom cos everytime I was at her house I would drop him and not look back, so whenever he saw my mom, he would cry and cry till we figured it out. So we adjusted, I hung around where he would see that I was still around and as he grew older I spoke to him if I needed to step out.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Spylord48: 10:56am On Oct 19, 2017
zaynie:



Lol@ open her mouth and cry cheesy
Tell mommy to identify with her somehow.
Like backing. If mommy back her a lot and she enjoys it, she's going to see mommy as a comfort zone.
Or warm baths.
But if she sees mommy as the ones that does things that makes her cry like gives her bitter things or collects her from her mom, she's going to have a bad vibe with her.


My first child just didn't like my mom cos everytime I was at her house I would drop him and not look back, so whenever he saw my mom, he would cry and cry till we figured it out. So we adjusted, I hung around where he would see that I was still around and as he grew older I spoke to him if I needed to step out.

thanks so much

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by winningbt: 12:05pm On Oct 19, 2017
Taymi:


Relax mummy. Don't pay attention to what anyone thinks. I experienced same when I had my baby (though not up to 6 days), took aloooooooot of pap, make it watery not thick, drink it like water after every meal (drink while is hot) . Also there's this pap hubby told someone to do for Me, the red pap + soya +something,can't even remember. But the normal pap will do jare.
okay ma'am thanks
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by kidco: 12:20pm On Oct 19, 2017
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So hurry up and get a chance for a free stuffed animal with purchase of 12 plus books
2 Benin Mamas need two more mamas to pear with
Enugu or Anambra new to pair
Gbagada has already purchased and cud still pair

Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by kidco: 12:41pm On Oct 19, 2017
GoodMum:


I sent you a pm, pls respond accordingly

Bonanza of free teddy bear \ stuffed animals ends tonight
Mama who have less that 4 k to spend should try and merge with other mamas in same zone so as to cut cost
Greeting to you all Sabi Mamas

Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 2:05pm On Oct 19, 2017
Happy Birthday to u. Many joyous years ahead. ]Today is my birthday. Pls celebrate with me[/quote]
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ahnie: 3:11pm On Oct 19, 2017
floxy2020:
What can I use to cure my baby who is having serious ila to all her body especially her neck, ampit,and thigh. Thanks.

Onion peel...boil it alongside her bathing water,let it cool down to your minimal level,bathe baby with it,after bathing don't rub the baby cream.do it repeatedly for a week.and the nla go vanish.

Bueno
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by temmytayur(f): 4:55pm On Oct 19, 2017
[quote author=ahnie post=61573555]

Onion peel...boil it alongside her bathing water,let it cool down to your minimal level,bathe baby with it,after bathing don't rub the baby cream.do it repeatedly for a week.and the nla go vanish.

Bueno

abeg which one be ila(okro) ?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 5:10pm On Oct 19, 2017
enque:
jazzyjazz

how r u?
u v bn MIA
I'm fine dear. Just under the weather
Thanks for checking on me
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 5:32pm On Oct 19, 2017
She means eela

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by queensnow: 6:05pm On Oct 19, 2017
maami we gentle oo been busy lately howz is u and famz? Thanks for checkup bless u smiley
hunniesuzie:
Iyalagbo you bin dey scarce, howz baby boy?

Btw where's Giddyperson?

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