DOUBLEWAHALA:
I don't know if is the earphone that I put on while reading your post or you lack composure




please what is your bizness in this family circle
and don't tell me that your going to claim a custody

what will be your case is is the child doing fine where he/she is

jdluv:
firstly that child deserve his mother's presence secondly i wantto believe the mother was forcedto go there though we have not spoken to her butthe last timewe spoke she told me she had gotten a form for her hnd programme. That woman kept saying she wanta better life for the lady but with what i read about how ladies are treated in that place i fear for the girl. What i am tryg to do is to stop this woman from her bad actions that keep affectin the children

DOUBLEWAHALA:
I don't know if is the earphone that I put on while reading your post or you lack composure




please what is your bizness in this family circle
and don't tell me that your going to claim a custody

what will be your case is is the child doing fine where he/she is

DOUBLEWAHALA:

are you part of the woman's family if not who are you

sexymoma:
You say!! what her business, why are Nigerians like this, this is why we won't grow, i don't think you saw that part where she wrote his "uncle" and you are here typing what's his business.

DOUBLEWAHALA:

I don't blame you you also sounds like a woman you are



people are looking for less mouth to feed you are looking for another mouth to feed



the child is doin well where she is

DOUBLEWAHALA:

I don't blame you you also sounds like a woman you are



people are looking for less mouth to feed you are looking for another mouth to feed



the child is doin well where she is

sexymoma:
babe advice your uncle to go to the wedding... person nor go do my duty oo when i still dey alive.
make your uncle carray hefty bouncers go there, anybody wey wan do werey, omo chop im nose.
craze dey oo.. show dem.. u know what she would have told his daught about the man.

DOUBLEWAHALA:

I don't blame you you also sounds like a woman you are



people are looking for less mouth to feed you are looking for another mouth to feed



the child is doin well where she is

jdluv:
God bless you my brother just call that he gave the same advice but my uncle said he wantto settle the matter before the d-day so he wouldnt end up spoilin the special day for his daughter and he wont give wrong impression to the in-lawsand give them something they can use to mock his daughter later in future

sexymoma:
babe if dem see hefty bouncers for the man back... her step father will be maintain his serenity cos his instinct will tell him, he is about to claim something that isn't his... ok now is the lady ready to settle the grudge.. i mean the mother.

jdluv:
if You mean the bride's motheri dont think she is lookin for peace in anyway. she likes trouble. you know those kindof trouble makin women

Marvel1206:

Smh, are you the abductor? She has every right to be worried about the girl's welfare and the fact that she left unnoticed is enough to cause apprehension. Who knows if she was really sent to Saudi Arabia.

Please if you have not eaten today, go and drink garri

Marvel1206:

Smh, are you the abductor? She has every right to be worried about the girl's welfare and the fact that she left unnoticed is enough to cause apprehension. Who knows if she was really sent to Saudi Arabia.

Please if you have not eaten today, go and drink garri

jdluv:
i see you get my point. She cant give us a line with which we can reach the lady that travelled. Plusthe fact that she is witha new husbandwe are suspectin ritual things

Brownish24:
Arrest her then

jdluv:
thinkin of that but we got no strong evidence.

lovelygurl:
I don't get it

Truth is nobody can force a 22 year old girl to move to Saudi Arabia. She didn't just walk into that country. It must have been planned for months or at least weeks. The daughter also must have known, I mean she probably had to get some documents etc before travelling. Besides she's 22 and not dumb. She knew what she was doing and did not tell her fiancee about it.

There's nothing you can do, she's a grown woman

Just like there's nothing you can do about her older sister. If she wants her dad to come, she'd have asked him to. Or she already has a feeling he is not coming.

The relationship between dad and daughters is so flawed. Where was he even he was growing up. Sure he and his wife are divorced but he is still the father of the kids. Why didn't he build up a close relationship to them? Welfare? Pfffft. There's more into being a dad.

Well, they are grown up now and there's no fighting or whatsoever you can do because they are now ADULTS. I'm pretty sure they are aware of whatever they are doing

jdluv:
i am a cousin tothe lady in question and she stayed with me until early this year when i discovered she was pregnant

prestigiouslady:



Same thing I thought, if your uncle was really "there" for her growing up as you've claimed, then she should be able to open to her father, she's 22 not dumb.
@op
Her father can't just come now to "save" the day for her.
The woman insisting her new husband will be the bride's father has her reason, maybe your uncle lied to you or didn't bring you up to speed on certain things..
Being a father goes beyond just donating sperm and sending in occasional money for upkeep.

People aren't entirely truthful when it comes to marriage/divorce/ separation, everyone wants to be the saint and paint the other partner black.

If she says she doesn't want him to be there, he shouldn't be there.

If HE HAD REALLY fulfilled his FATHERLY obligations, the woman will acknowledge his presence as the FATHER of the bride

jdluv:
God bless you my brother just call that he gave the same advice but my uncle said he wantto settle the matter before the d-day so he wouldnt end up spoilin the special day for his daughter and he wont give wrong impression to the in-lawsand give them something they can use to mock his daughter later in future

jdluv:
i see you get my point. She cant give us a line with which we can reach the lady that travelled. Plusthe fact that she is witha new husbandwe are suspectin ritual things

prestigiouslady:


Did you ask her to leave??

eyinjuege:


Please are you sure your uncle has a good relationship with his children?
Even the one getting married wouldn't have agreed for another man to give her hand out in marriage on that day. Who is sponsoring the wedding in the first place?
What has the one getting married told her father or she doesn't talk to her father?
Even the one that supposedly went to Saudi would have told her father when she was going if he had a good relationship with her, or that doesn't sound normal to You?



How new is the new husband? I'm sure she's being married to the new husband more than 10 years So that's no new anything.

jdluv:
No she was trough with her program but wheni got to know about the pregnancy she wasnt free like beforeso she went home for her IT