There are some traits some guys exhibit these days which ladies find repulsive. Though, some guys engage in such act
without knowing it's wrong, while others just feel it's a norm. I've come up with a list, if you're a guy and you fall under
this category, please desist from it and try to mend your ways

1. THE GUYS WHO HIDE UNDER THE CLOAK OF NICE GUYS

An incident happened few days ago, when I went to a restaurant to get a decent meal. As the lady was attending to me,
a guy sashayed in with his friend and the following conversation ensued:

Guy: hello, how are you?

Me: i'm fine, thank you.

Guy:you're pretty.

Me: thank you.

Guy:what's your name?

Me: Bami

(As I was about paying for my meal he cuts in)

Guy: don't worry, I will pick up the bill.

I smiled because I knew what he was getting at, so I politely declined and thanked him for his kind gesture. He insisted
and then I asked him why he was hell bent on paying for my meal. Then he said something shocking.

Guy:you're a beautiful girl, you should not be paying for your meal while I'm here.

I gazed at him surprisingly, if he had known the kind of person I was, he wouldn't have uttered that statement.
Apparently, he had tried that with other girls in past. Then I heard his friend whispering to him to make sure he gets my
mobile number. I knew that was what he was up to in the first place, but I kept my calm and offered my money to the
attendant the second time. He told her not to collect the money from me, insisting that he was going to pay. Then I lost
my cool, this guy was already creating a scene, he snatched the money from the attendant and shoved it into my
shopping bag that was with me. I shouted at him to stop embarrassing me and I went outside to pay to the madam, but
this guy still followed me and even suggested that he was going to drop me at home with his car. After much drama, I
paid the madam, and of course I didn't give him my number.

Ok guys, I get it, you want act like mister nice guy,like the one I just described up there just to impress a new girl you
just met. Trust me, I understand. But there should be a boundary. How can you just offer to pick up the bill of a girl
you just met because you think she's pretty, isn't that shallow? Please this is really embarrassing ok? So far the girl
didn't ask you for help, please respect yourself and keep your money to yourself. It's not even as if you want to pay the
money genuinely, it's because of the lady's contact you want to get, so why not just be upfront about it instead of hiding
under the cloak of 'Mr Nice Guy'? Trust me guys, most ladies find this disgusting, so please drop it.

2. THE ONES WHO INVITES GIRLS TO THEIR CRIBS ON FIRST DATES

Really guys? Like this is really bad please. You don't just expect a girl to come to your crib on a first date. I mean
courtesy demands that a first date should always be in a public place, so why will you invite a girl to your crib giving
silly excuses like 'you're a very private person and you don't like hanging out' please this is really wrong and outright
rude ok? The kind of society we live in doesn't even encourage that. What if you're a ritualist or a rapist? The girl would
always get blamed for visiting a guy she knows nothing about in the first place. So if you know you have nothing up your
sleeves, never suggest your place as the venue of a first date.

Side note to the ladies please:never go to a guy's place for a first date. There's a new trick out now,in fact it's an old
trick where some guys lace the drinks of their female guests just to have their way with them. Please protect yourself.
If you're not comfortable with the venue of the date, tell him about it and suggest a place where you guys can talk. If
he's not cool with this and insist on you coming to his crib instead, drop him like he's hot, he's obviously a douche bag.

3. THE BORING GUYS

Ever wonder why some girls always reply your messages late or at times just ignore? Well it's because they find you
boring. You can't keep asking the same questions over and over again and even type in abbreviation and expect a girl
to take you serious. Some guys can't even maintain an intellectually stimulating conversation, it's that bad. So how
exactly do you expect the girl to find you thrilling? And for the love of God, please stop typing in abbreviations. You're
lettered ain't you? So start acting as such. I'm a serious sapiosexual, and I always find guys with these traits as shallow.
I see philosophical conversations as pre-intimacy. So guys, work on your vocabulary and improve your conversation skills.
Make love to the girl's mind with intelligent words.

4. THE BRAGGARTS

Ok, I get it. Your father is a billionaire and your mother is the younger sister of Otedola, trust me I understand! But don't
go around rubbing it on people's faces. The annoying one is when a guy approaches a lady and the next thing he utters
is 'baby I want to take care of you' . Did she ask for your help? Or does she look like she's suffering? Please you need
to change the mentality that ,the only way through a girl's heart is money and start working on your personality.
Personality works for me any time any day over looks or any other thing. Make her fall for your personality, not your
account balance. Don't impress her with your wealth, so what happens when you go broke and she leaves you ? It's
because you've painted a false image of yourself, and that was what she was interested in,in the first place.

5. THE GROPERS

I hope you know it's disgusting when you touch a girl who is not your partner suggestively while having a conversion
with her right?. Please keep your hands to yourself next time. It is totally rude when you keep doing that ok? I used to
make my hair at a male hairstylist's place , but this guy can never keep his hands to himself, there was a day I shouted
at him and brushed his hands off angrily )after warning him several times to stop touching me. That was the end of my
visits to his salon. So next time you're having a conversation with a girl, please keep your hands to yourself instead of
touching her suggestively and tapping current.

6. THE ONES WHO CALLS EVERY GIRL THEY'VE JUST MET DIFFERENT PET NAMES

Please, if you've just met a girl, don't go around calling her different pet names, i'm sure I don't have to spell it out.
Just address her by her name. Most girls find this irritating when a guy they've just met is constantly reeling out
different pet names to address them. Please stop it, it is very disgusting.

Ladies in the house, what do you think?

www.simplybami..com

Aunty please don't be angry but please will you come to my house? I want you to teach me how to read the Bible

Some other people like Mariga sell their shoes to raise money in order to have sex in brothels, girls don't like that habit

ur no 1 is useless....so because he's meeting her for the first time,he shouldn't pay her bills abi?? Is it ur money

I'm really sorry If someone av hurt u and what abt d girl dat is paying 4 a guy meal so dat. I can collect his number ; so is nt only guy dat do all wat u said lady were doing It 2, like wat dey were saying dat wat a man can do a lady can do beta

After reading through all i can say is one word
BEAUTIFUL!!!

samyfreshsmooth:
After reading through all i can say is one word

BEAUTIFUL!!!

Thank you Sam. To read other beautiful articles, just click on my link.

Boring guys? Didnt know the role of entertainment fell on me. If I am boring then lets see you being fun and interesting.

@number 3
na guy wey no get work go dey send messages to random strange girls for social media and go dey wait for reply wey no go come

Truth be told dah Boring guys category is baseless. For me how interesting the chat is depends on how you respond.
Me: Hy how are you
Girl: Ok
Me: How was your day
Girl: Ok.

You can’t reply like dis and expect me to turn to clown for you so chat will be interesting. Dah girl must be an unfortunate fellow.

Simplybami:
There are some traits some guys exhibit these days which ladies find repulsive. Though, some guys engage in such act
without knowing it's wrong, while others just feel it's a norm. I've come up with a list, if you're a guy and you fall under
this category, please desist from it and try to mend your ways

1. THE GUYS WHO HIDE UNDER THE CLOAK OF NICE GUYS

An incident happened few days ago, when I went to a restaurant to get a decent meal. As the lady was attending to me,
a guy sashayed in with his friend and the following conversation ensued:

Guy: hello, how are you?

Me: i'm fine, thank you.

Guy:you're pretty.

Me: thank you.

Guy:what's your name?

Me: Bami

(As I was about paying for my meal he cuts in)

Guy: don't worry, I will pick up the bill.

I smiled because I knew what he was getting at, so I politely declined and thanked him for his kind gesture. He insisted
and then I asked him why he was hell bent on paying for my meal. Then he said something shocking.

Guy:you're a beautiful girl, you should not be paying for your meal while I'm here.

I gazed at him surprisingly, if he had known the kind of person I was, he wouldn't have uttered that statement.
Apparently, he had tried that with other girls in past. Then I heard his friend whispering to him to make sure he gets my
mobile number. I knew that was what he was up to in the first place, but I kept my calm and offered my money to the
attendant the second time. He told her not to collect the money from me, insisting that he was going to pay. Then I lost
my cool, this guy was already creating a scene, he snatched the money from the attendant and shoved it into my
shopping bag that was with me. I shouted at him to stop embarrassing me and I went outside to pay to the madam, but
this guy still followed me and even suggested that he was going to drop me at home with his car. After much drama, I
paid the madam, and of course I didn't give him my number.

Ok guys, I get it, you want act like mister nice guy,like the one I just described up there just to impress a new girl you
just met. Trust me, I understand. But there should be a boundary. How can you just offer to pick up the bill of a girl
you just met because you think she's pretty, isn't that shallow? Please this is really embarrassing ok? So far the girl
didn't ask you for help, please respect yourself and keep your money to yourself. It's not even as if you want to pay the
money genuinely, it's because of the lady's contact you want to get, so why not just be upfront about it instead of hiding
under the cloak of 'Mr Nice Guy'? Trust me guys, most ladies find this disgusting, so please drop it.

2. THE ONES WHO INVITES GIRLS TO THEIR CRIBS ON FIRST DATES

Really guys? Like this is really bad please. You don't just expect a girl to come to your crib on a first date. I mean
courtesy demands that a first date should always be in a public place, so why will you invite a girl to your crib giving
silly excuses like 'you're a very private person and you don't like hanging out' please this is really wrong and outright
rude ok? The kind of society we live in doesn't even encourage that. What if you're a ritualist or a rapist? The girl would
always get blamed for visiting a guy she knows nothing about in the first place. So if you know you have nothing up your
sleeves, never suggest your place as the venue of a first date.

Side note to the ladies please:never go to a guy's place for a first date. There's a new trick out now,in fact it's an old
trick where some guys lace the drinks of their female guests just to have their way with them. Please protect yourself.
If you're not comfortable with the venue of the date, tell him about it and suggest a place where you guys can talk. If
he's not cool with this and insist on you coming to his crib instead, drop him like he's hot, he's obviously a douche bag.

3. THE BORING GUYS

Ever wonder why some girls always reply your messages late or at times just ignore? Well it's because they find you
boring. You can't keep asking the same questions over and over again and even type in abbreviation and expect a girl
to take you serious. Some guys can't even maintain an intellectually stimulating conversation, it's that bad. So how
exactly do you expect the girl to find you thrilling? And for the love of God, please stop typing in abbreviations. You're
lettered ain't you? So start acting as such. I'm a serious sapiosexual, and I always find guys with these traits as shallow.
I see philosophical conversations as pre-intimacy. So guys, work on your vocabulary and improve your conversation skills.
Make love to the girl's mind with intelligent words.

4. THE BRAGGARTS

Ok, I get it. Your father is a billionaire and your mother is the younger sister of Otedola, trust me I understand! But don't
go around rubbing it on people's faces. The annoying one is when a guy approaches a lady and the next thing he utters
is 'baby I want to take care of you' . Did she ask for your help? Or does she look like she's suffering? Please you need
to change the mentality that ,the only way through a girl's heart is money and start working on your personality.
Personality works for me any time any day over looks or any other thing. Make her fall for your personality, not your
account balance. Don't impress her with your wealth, so what happens when you go broke and she leaves you ? It's
because you've painted a false image of yourself, and that was what she was interested in,in the first place.

5. THE GROPERS

I hope you know it's disgusting when you touch a girl who is not your partner suggestively while having a conversion
with her right?. Please keep your hands to yourself next time. It is totally rude when you keep doing that ok? I used to
make my hair at a male hairstylist's place , but this guy can never keep his hands to himself, there was a day I shouted
at him and brushed his hands off angrily )after warning him several times to stop touching me. That was the end of my
visits to his salon. So next time you're having a conversation with a girl, please keep your hands to yourself instead of
touching her suggestively and tapping current.

6. THE ONES WHO CALLS EVERY GIRL THEY'VE JUST MET DIFFERENT PET NAMES

Please, if you've just met a girl, don't go around calling her different pet names, i'm sure I don't have to spell it out.
Just address her by her name. Most girls find this irritating when a guy they've just met is constantly reeling out
different pet names to address them. Please stop it, it is very disgusting.

Ladies in the house, what do you think?

www.simplybami..com

Welcome to nairaland.

you are so right... especially 5 &6. a guy you just met will be calling you baby, it irritates me.

Hustle hard so that a chic is proud enough to take a picture of when u kiss her, if you are poor no chic would be proud to kiss you and tell. I should kiss another chic this evening if you stalk hard enough you will notice when I post her this evening on my diary

Marigs:


Bloody paedophile!

Number 1: OP just say the guys isn't handsome enough for you, he took your rejection personally and probably wanted to embarrass you.


Number 2: Guys do that cos they have already set the tone with the lady about what's going to go down. Sometimes a lady would be hot and won't need all that preintimacy crap before getting laid, a guy who is direct to the lady who is hot hits the jackpot.

Number 3:Jesus Christ, must we lick your feet and turn to Ali baba before you consider us worthy of your interest, I bet once a guy is extremely handsome like maimana indimi fiancé, you won't think he's boring, that leads me to 4

Number 4: What works for you won't for others, obviously guys know thats the easiest way to get laid and ladies. brag that you even made dangote who he is today and ladies would believe you...you've made made it so easy.

Number 5: I only approve when you have consent, I no want court case or SARS Abeg.

Number 6: I thought that was being romantic?

Kikikik
NUMBER 3 though lol
It’s true though ... those ones that drain ur energy same question everyday

‘Have you eaten ‘

No muda Fuka I’m here waiting for u to ask me before I eat boring ass dudes

NUMBER 6
Example of fukboyz that what they do so they don’t mix up names... they give a universal name ...

Babe ... baby ... sweetie ,,,,, sweetheart ... etc

We dont even know what to do to please ladies again sef, if u see a lady now and u wanna get closer, is the first thing not to collect her digits? Why do u put phone digits on applications isnt it for feedback? If a guy doesnt pay for ur food u say he's stingy... If he pays u'll complain, how do we make interesting conversations when every lady is naturally a snub... Dey'll be like am busy! Combing der hair oh.... Ah... Lets kuku be looking at u girls sef...

Lalas247:
Kikikik
NUMBER 3 though lol
It’s true though ... those ones that drain ur energy same question everyday

‘Have you eaten ‘

No muda Fuka I’m here waiting for u to ask me before I eat boring ass dudes

NUMBER 6
Example of fukboyz that what they do so they don’t mix up names... they give a universal name ...

Babe ... baby ... sweetie ,,,,, sweetheart ... etc

Lol,it's very annoying.