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Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 9:43pm On Jan 26, 2018
As a young growing boy i remember having similar conversations with my friends, we usually remarked to ourselves how a woman you have never seen before could walk up to you anywhere and accuse you of raping her and people would believe.

we all know this to be true.

It is your words against hers and who do you think they would believe?
We grew up with this fear knowing fully well that it was a huge possibility.

Then, rape was a serious matter. women didn't bank on this seeming victim's power, rape accusations were reserved for actual cases.
Today. we are seeing a dangerous change, the rape weapon is becoming overused and this i argue will affect women negatively

The recent trends of popular culture and cultivating a form of victim's culture for women is something women should thread carefully with or it is literally going to blow up in their faces.
Once a woman accuses a man of rape he is guilty by default. this is the next possible assumption.

So many men have been destroyed by this, so many careers marred by this and many serving jail terms even though innocent.
This article is inspired by the recent higgy hagga on going between a taxify driver and an actress.
I watched the video, i gave as much consideration to each side as much as i can.

This wasn't a rape case and anyone who watches that video and judges with an objective mind must see this.
Rape accusation was the weapon.
None the less i am not here to discuss this incident, twitter is doing much of that already.

I am here to address this overly popular victim's culture women are cultivating and the negative implications it will have on women everywhere. With the number of false accusations flying around, the number of innocent men marred by these false accusation and a seeming utilization of the rape victim card for personal clap backs will have severe negative consequences on the women folk.

A time will come when no one will believe a rape accusation from a woman owing to the fact that many are coming to terms that many women use this as a weapon just to get back at a man.

This will be very unfortunate as it will be unfair to actual rape victims.

Someone isn't guilty simply because you said so.

We should objectively investigate these matters because serious issues must be met with equally serious objectivity.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by yorex2011: 9:48pm On Jan 26, 2018
This is the world we live in

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 10:06pm On Jan 26, 2018
I know ur reason 4 ur article but hv u ever put in consideration if they never lied? Hv u?? No!! Case closed!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by femolacqua(m): 10:07pm On Jan 26, 2018
You have a point there.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:08pm On Jan 26, 2018
Nice write up.I wonder why some women would do such if they are found guilty of such they should pay for it.The fact still remains that women have been victims of rape and some of them do not have the opportunity to speak up on such abuses because society discourages such and shame them instead of comforting them.Rapists should be dealt with and their victims should get justice.Rape is still a disease in our society which really needs a cure.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:08pm On Jan 26, 2018
yorex2011:
This is the world we live in

It is getting ridiculous.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:09pm On Jan 26, 2018
Shugavee:
I know ur reason 4 ur article but hv u ever put in consideration if they never lied? Hv u?? No!! Case closed!!

If no woman ever lied of rape?

Tons of them
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:12pm On Jan 26, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Nice write up.I wonder why some women would do such if they are found guilty of such they should pay for it.The fact still remains that women have been victims of rape and some of them do not have the opportunity to speak up on such abuses.Rapists should be dealt with and their victims should get justice.Rape is still a disease in our society which really needs a cure.

I totally agree. Rapists should serve jail terms and if any woman accuses someone falsely (putting them at risk of this jail term) if proven false, the woman should serve equal prison terms.

You don't get to play with someone's future like that

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:15pm On Jan 26, 2018
johnydon22:


I totally agree. Rapists should serve jail terms and if any woman accuses someone falsely (putting them at risk of this jail term) if proven false, the woman should serve equal prison terms.

You don't get to play with someone's future like that
I concur.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by yorex2011: 10:26pm On Jan 26, 2018
While we think about these things, one should realize in a court of law, its mostly never about the truth... But about who has a better lawyer and can prove his/her case.

There are also tons of real rape cases where the perpetrators got away because they had better lawyers or had some sort of influence. While this shouldn't deter anyone, we should look at things from every point of view.

Whether we like it or not, we just have to accept the fact that these things will happen.

People will get molested, whether male or female and people will also get falsely accused.

So on a lighter note, if a lady forces herself on a man without his consent or under some sort of drug induced scenario, and gets pregnant. Is the man responsible? grin
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 10:47pm On Jan 26, 2018
johnydon22:


If no woman ever lied of rape?

Tons of them
but did all So why indicate that the once u know abt r lies
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by kodded(m): 10:51pm On Jan 26, 2018

all this one no concern me at all undecided undecided undecided















abeg when is abumayang coming to arsenal embarassed embarassed
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:57pm On Jan 26, 2018
Shugavee:
but did all So why indicate that the once u know abt r lies

Read the OP again.. This time slowly
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:57pm On Jan 26, 2018
kodded:


all this one no concern me at all undecided undecided undecided




abeg when is abumayang coming to arsenal embarassed embarassed


No it wouldn't until you are accused...
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:58pm On Jan 26, 2018
yorex2011:
While we think about these things, one should realize in a court of law, its mostly never about the truth... But about who has a better lawyer and can prove his/her case.

There are also tons of real rape cases where the perpetrators got away because they had better lawyers or had some sort of influence. While this shouldn't deter anyone, we should look at things from every point of view.

Whether we like it or not, we just have to accept the fact that these things will happen.

People will get molested, whether male or female and people will also get falsely accused.

So on a lighter note, if a lady forces herself on a man without his consent or under some sort of drug induced scenario, and gets pregnant. Is the man responsible? grin



A lady raping a man isn't rape though just so you know.. It's not counted
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 11:09pm On Jan 26, 2018
johnydon22:


Read the OP again.. This time slowly
i dont hv time 4 that!! U indirectly said, people were acusing ur friends out no where 4 rape!!! How did u know it was out of no where!! How r u sure they didnt do it!!
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 11:14pm On Jan 26, 2018
Shugavee:
i dont hv time 4 that!! U indirectly said, people were acusing ur friends out no where 4 rape!!! How did u know it was out of no where!! How r u sure they didnt do it!!

Clearly you can't read.. This is a result of hasty need to reply leading to vague and misconception of a story .. Read again if you still think this then come back

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 8:52am On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
I know ur reason 4 ur article but hv u ever put in consideration if they never lied? Hv u?? No!! Case closed!!
If they never lied, we should see the evidence. If there's no evidence, then there's NO CASE.

Rape is a serious crime, not any form of joke. You can't be allowed to ruin another person with word of mouth. That would be utterly barbaric. You must prove the allegation against him.

The one who rapes and the one who uses it as a weapon to destroy lives are both animals and worthless bastards. Very disgusting beasts.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:20am On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
If they never lied, we should see the evidence. If there's no evidence, then there's NO CASE.

Rape is a serious crime, not any form of joke. You can't be allowed to ruin another person with word of mouth. That would be utterly barbaric. You must prove the allegation against him.

The one who rapes and the one who uses it as a weapon to destroy lives are both animals and worthless bastards. Very disgusting beasts.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by debolayinka(m): 9:53am On Jan 27, 2018
The worst thing to do as a man is to quarrel with a woman who already hates you in her heart. She'll surely make sure you lay your hands on her, and once that is done, it becomes an evidence against you.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 10:36am On Jan 27, 2018
debolayinka:
The worst thing to do as a man is to quarrel with a woman who already hates you in her heart. She'll surely make sure you lay your hands on her, and once that is done, it becomes an evidence against you.

many use rape accusation as a weapon against a man.


A good number of girls trying not to appear cheap or something would tell a new boy friend they never had sex before, that they lost their virginity through one fictitious rape encounter ly that
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 11:14am On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
If they never lied, we should see the evidence. If there's no evidence, then there's NO CASE.

Rape is a serious crime, not any form of joke. You can't be allowed to ruin another person with word of mouth. That would be utterly barbaric. You must prove the allegation against him.

The one who rapes and the one who uses it as a weapon to destroy lives are both animals and worthless bastards. Very disgusting beasts.
so all rape cases with out evidence are lies? Because there are witnesses When rapist perform right Where is the evidence coming from??
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 11:36am On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
so all rape cases with out evidence are lies? Because there are witnesses When rapist perform right Where is the evidence coming from??
Lol. Are you an illiterate? Don't you know how the justice system works?

So, if I accuse you of committing a crime, and there's no proof, you should be apprehended, charged, convicted and jailed based on my words alone? What if I'm lying?
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by adepeter2027(m): 11:43am On Jan 27, 2018
Shugavee:
so all rape cases with out evidence are lies? Because there are witnesses When rapist perform right Where is the evidence coming from??
Gosh

Did you go to school at all?

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by adepeter2027(m): 11:44am On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
Lol. Are you an illiterate? Don't you know how the justice system works?

So, if I accuse you of committing a crime, and there's no proof, you should be apprehended, charged, convicted and jailed based on my words alone? What if I'm lying?
God is watching naw
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:
As a young growing boy i remember having similar conversations with my friends, we usually remarked to ourselves how a woman you have never seen before could walk up to you anywhere and accuse you of raping her and people would believe.

we all know this to be true.

It is your words against hers and who do you think they would believe?
We grew up with this fear knowing fully well that it was a huge possibility.

Then, rape was a serious matter. women didn't bank on this seeming victim's power, rape accusations were reserved for actual cases.
Today. we are seeing a dangerous change, the rape weapon is becoming overused and this i argue will affect women negatively

The recent trends of popular culture and cultivating a form of victim's culture for women is something women should thread carefully with or it is literally going to blow up in their faces.
Once a woman accuses a man of rape he is guilty by default. this is the next possible assumption.

So many men have been destroyed by this, so many careers marred by this and many serving jail terms even though innocent.
This article is inspired by the recent higgy hagga on going between a taxify driver and an actress.
I watched the video, i gave as much consideration to each side as much as i can.

This wasn't a rape case and anyone who watches that video and judges with an objective mind must see this.
Rape accusation was the weapon.
None the less i am not here to discuss this incident, twitter is doing much of that already.

I am here to address this overly popular victim's culture women are cultivating and the negative implications it will have on women everywhere. With the number of false accusations flying around, the number of innocent men marred by these false accusation and a seeming utilization of the rape victim card for personal clap backs will have severe negative consequences on the women folk.

A time will come when no one will believe a rape accusation from a woman owing to the fact that many are coming to terms that many women use this as a weapon just to get back at a man.

This will be very unfortunate as it will be unfair to actual rape victims.

Someone isn't guilty simply because you said so.

We should objectively investigate these matters because serious issues must be met with equally serious objectivity.

before this your epistle nobody believes rape victims in this country it's either she's lying, her dress is short or she asked for it. so before this fapson girl's case rape has always been difficult to prove.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Tozara(m): 12:06pm On Jan 27, 2018
Proudgorgeousga:


before this your epistle nobody believes rape victims in this country it's either she's lying, her dress is short or she asked for it. so before this fapson girl's case rape has always been difficult to prove.

We recognize this reality and it's really disgusting. Victim-blaming by beasts and all that. But people can't be convicted without proof. That's why the penalty for rape should be made more severe, measures put in place to prevent its frequent occurrence and also make it easier to nab culprits. The penalty for falsely accusing people should be made as severe as that of rape.

But how are we to handle the situation of a society that doesn't work? That's the tragedy.

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by johnydon22(m): 12:20pm On Jan 27, 2018
Proudgorgeousga:


before this your epistle nobody believes rape victims in this country it's either she's lying, her dress is short or she asked for it. so before this fapson girl's case rape has always been difficult to prove.


Nobody believes rape victims and giving reasons for her rape is a contradiction.

If people blame the victims of rape then they believe they were raped if they don't believe they were raped why would they give reasons why they were raped.

Chose your words carefully. Make premises with consistent points..

Its either they believe rape victims were actually raped or they don't

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jan 27, 2018
johnydon22:


Nobody believes rape victims and giving reasons for her rape is a contradiction.

If people blame the victims of rape then they believe they were raped if they don't believe they were raped why would they give reasons why they were raped.

Chose your words carefully. Make premises with consistent points..

Its either they believe rape victims were actually raped or they don't

They give reasons why whatever occurred shouldn't be considered rape.


back to the example you cited in your post you are trying to imply that the lady saying the taxify driver tired to rape her was deliberately lying. well if a man drives me to an unknown location and tries to dragged me out the first thing that would come to my mind is that he wants to rape me.

I agree they may have both misunderstood each other's action but I don't believe she simply made the story up.
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 1:53pm On Jan 27, 2018
adepeter2027:

Gosh

Did you go to school at all?
No!! Satisfied??
Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Shugavee(f): 1:57pm On Jan 27, 2018
Tozara:
Lol. Are you an illiterate? Don't you know how the justice system works?

So, if I accuse you of committing a crime, and there's no proof, you should be apprehended, charged, convicted and jailed based on my words alone? What if I'm lying?
rape cases are most times her words over mine thats why rapist hv the guts to continue cause there will surely be questions lingering if she was lying n the rapist will act on that!!! Combined with the stigma that goes with it 4 d lady!!! Just few cases evidences are seen!! So are u implying the once with out evidence are lies Oh please!!

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Re: Women Should Be Careful With The Rape Card by Daeylar(f): 3:27pm On Jan 27, 2018
Proudgorgeousga:


before this your epistle nobody believes rape victims in this country it's either she's lying, her dress is short or she asked for it. so before this fapson girl's case rape has always been difficult to prove.


I'm surprised too. The way he said it as if anybody believes rape victims in the first place or takes them seriously? They even start attacking the victim, why did you go here, why did you wear this, stupid asinine questions that make me feel like slapping hell out of them

A time is coming? Which time? Time we are already living in?

A woman or man who says he or she was raped isn't believed and in some cases is even insulted,

Is it not the same victim blaming Nigeria again?


Let everybody tell their story, provide evidence, go to court,
If the guy actually raped the girl then he goes to jail,
It should be taken seriously, any one found guilty should go to jail, I also recommend castration,

If the girl is lying she goes to jail, by the time many fools that will want to try it see the number of people in jail for false rape accusations they'll think twice and also the Man's name must be cleared.


Rape is not a joke nor something to be thrown around when it's not true.

My solution.


And finally, a time should never ever come whereby no one should believe rape accusations. What!!!?

Why is it that any thing stupid some women do is used as ammo to try and attack all women?, What kind of threat is that? No one will believe any woman? undecided

If it's you men they attack with this kind of nonsense, you all will rush to type it's not all men, remember your father and all the rubbish,

Mtchewww, you men feel so special in this country,

Instead of addressing the problem of rape and false accusations of rape and looking for solutions, you're giving ridiculous threats, trash.

Whether you believe or not is not needed, all you need to do is make sure the case is taken to court and make sure the truth comes out,
Whoever is lying should be punished, either the man or woman,

Not sitting there trying to take laws into your own hands, typing ridiculous threats like "it will get to a time no one will believe rape accusations from women".

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