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Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 2:57pm On Feb 08, 2018
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I want to know if Christian and Muslim guys/girls can date atheists. I have an atheist friend, he is also a nairalander, and most times when we discuss about relationships, he will always ask me: if you are a lady, can you date me?

So can you date an atheist guy/lady?
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 3:07pm On Feb 08, 2018
yes I can

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Feb 08, 2018
Not all atheists are sound. Look before you leap

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:12pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:
yes I can

Great. This is commendable. But most atheists always want to enforce their belief on people. I have one who is always ridiculing the Christian faith. One of the reasons I think most ladies won't take that option

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:13pm On Feb 08, 2018
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Not all atheists are sound. Look before you leap
Sure. From my experience, most of them don't want to stick to their beliefs. They want to ridicule yours and play with it. So how can a theist handle such?

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 3:13pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:


Great. This is commendable. But most atheists always want to enforce their belief on people. I have one who is always ridiculing the Christian faith. One of the reasons I think most ladies won't take that option
I can if only he would agree to let me keep practicing my faith and beliefs and also not to enforce his faith and beliefs on the kids we good to go
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:

Sure. From my experience, most of them don't want to stick to their beliefs. They want to ridicule yours and play with it. So how can a theist handle such?

Its best to understand the reason why he/she is an atheist, there is always a reason.

Try and talk to him/her, if he is trying to ridicule other beliefs or just plainly attacking theists, then he is not a true atheist, that kind of person is only angry at other religions out of frustration, dissapointments or past sad experience. That's a ticking time bomb.

On the other hand, if an atheist can discuss with you with open mind i.e. like a philosopher. Then that is still safe, it means such person can flip to a theist with the right reasons.

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:22pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

I can if only he would agree to let me keep practicing my faith and beliefs and also not to enforce his faith and beliefs on the kids we good to go
I understand you.
I don't know if you have had a first hand dealing with them.

Most of them if not all of them will always want to ridicule your religion

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 3:24pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:

I understand you.
I don't know if you have had a first hand dealing with them.

Most of them if not all of them will always want to ridicule your religion
I've met lots of them and I'm even friends with few they tried to shake my faith one time but now I know how to ignore them
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:25pm On Feb 08, 2018
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Its best to understand the reason why he/she is an atheist, there is always a reason.

Try and talk to him/her, if he is trying to ridicule other beliefs or just plainly attacking theists, then he is not a true atheist, that kind of person is only angry at other religions out of frustration, dissapointments or past sad experience. That's a ticking time bomb.

On the other hand, if an atheist can discuss with you with open mind i.e. like a philosopher. Then that is still safe, it means such person can flip to a theist with the right reasons.
I have lived with one and he remains a close friend. A nairalander too. He still calls himself Man of God in an attempt to ridicule your religion. When he wants to talk, he addresses himself as a child of God. All is just a shadow of the truth.

Most of them do this, at least from experience

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:27pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

I've met lots of them and I'm even friends with few they tried to shake my faith one time but now I know how to ignore them

Lol, they do that alot
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 3:29pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:

Lol, they do that alot
As in ehn they will even ask u question ur senior pastor cannot answer

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Asbaba(m): 3:39pm On Feb 08, 2018
yes I can... it's not a big deal anyway.
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:44pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

As in ehn they will even ask u question ur senior pastor cannot answer
grin grin grin
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:47pm On Feb 08, 2018
Asbaba:
yes I can... it's not a big deal anyway.
Your reasons sir?
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Asbaba(m): 3:54pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:

Your reasons sir?

bcuz my religion forbid not such a thing.. and if I can revert her, I'll get d highest reward from the Almighty...
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Feb 08, 2018
mrphysics:

I have lived with one and he remains a close friend. A nairalander too. He still calls himself Man of God in an attempt to ridicule your religion. When he wants to talk, he addresses himself as a child of God. All is just a shadow of the truth.

Most of them do this, at least from experience

Yes, most of them but not all. I know someone who won't abuse or ridicule your religion. That's the owner of this forum, Seun

Trust me, there are frustrated atheist and there are intellectual atheists.
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mrphysics(m): 3:59pm On Feb 08, 2018
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Yes, most of them but not all. I know someone who won't abuse or ridicule your religion. That's the owner of this forum, Seun

Trust me, there are frustrated atheist and there are intellectual atheists.

Sure, seun threads carefully on this forum. You never can tell how he responds to the subject offline
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

I can if only he would agree to let me keep practicing my faith and beliefs and also not to enforce his faith and beliefs on the kids we good to go

The only way he will allow that is if you are not an extremist.
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 08, 2018
Atheist on nairaland and Nigeria are more of AntiChrist because they only target Christianity. They don't target Islam or other religions


Antichrist literally means “against Christ” and is variously defined as “adversary of Christ” or “opponent of Christ” and as a title or proper name for a specific individual who opposes and claims to be Christ

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 4:17pm On Feb 08, 2018
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The only way he will allow that is if you are not an extremist.
No I'm not there are certain things I believe and don't believe in especially from the scriptures
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 08, 2018
Oh yes! Some of them are liberal/ free thinkers We go gel well well

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Feb 08, 2018
No I can't, why should I date an atheist, am I mad?
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by FriendofGod: 6:04pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

I can if only he would agree to let me keep practicing my faith and beliefs and also not to enforce his faith and beliefs on the kids we good to go

What if he doesn't allow you too to enforce your faith and beliefs on the kids cheesy
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by FriendofGod: 6:05pm On Feb 08, 2018
As for me, I can date an atheist. Many Christians see me as an atheist anyway because I am constantly calling out the false teachers they call pastors. cheesy

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Plolly(f): 6:07pm On Feb 08, 2018
FriendofGod:


What if he doesn't allow you too to enforce your faith and beliefs on the kids cheesy
then I won't force it on them they have a right to decide for themselves

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Feb 08, 2018
Determination of equivalent conductivity of weak electrolytes at infinite dilution.
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by FriendofGod: 7:53pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

then I won't force it on them they have a right to decide for themselves

You are not being truthful and you know it cheesy

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Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by Kobicove(m): 9:03pm On Feb 08, 2018
Yes I can
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by mikejj(m): 9:06pm On Feb 08, 2018
and na dem pretend to sabi bible pass
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by ibietela2(m): 9:17pm On Feb 08, 2018
Plolly:

I can if only he would agree to let me keep practicing my faith and beliefs and also not to enforce his faith and beliefs on the kids we good to go

I promise
Re: Can You Date An Atheist? by EOOJ(m): 9:21pm On Feb 08, 2018
For now e go hard oooi kos i never find my footing in d faith i believe in.... there is always a but though grin

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