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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:03pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:funny but i dont get you here |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by XhosaNostra(f): 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja: Meaning, let's leave it at that. Not going further. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:05pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:oh. soldiers lol stop the salute!! |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:I get what you are saying. But the fact (according to the myth) still remains that he saw & fell in love with "someone" that was up to his standards even though he didn't know that person doesn't exist. His falling in love with another person is in contrast to your earlier statement that narcissists love only themselves. Do you get my drift? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:18pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:wasnt that image in the water himself? isnt loving yourself loving your own attributes and traits?even though seeing them in your reflection unknowing? if you love yourself you love your eyes, mouth and face, and if the same exact copy comes you'll love it. this is even dealt with in ANOTHER version of the legend that says Narcissus had a twin sister whom he loved who was his exact copy but who died earlier. i kid you not!. run over to wikipedia you'll see it.... |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 5:26pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:Hmmmm....ok. I will check it out later. I'm not satisfied though |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:29pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:you want more? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Yet your reference is a female. Almost like you were trying to deny the obvious. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:35pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Gungnir:people just cant understand a man who worships himself and not women. thats why they have to come up with these terms and concepts to try to explain the source of his indifference. one minute he loves himself, the next moment he needs people's attention..lol its hillarious i tell you.. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by XhosaNostra(f): 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Gungnir: My "reference" is female because that's how you choose to interpret it. Ego stroking is synonymous with men. And yes, a good percentage of Narcissists are men. In Cluster B disorders, females dominate in BPD & Histrionic (the biggest attention seeker of the group), while men are often Narcissists or Psychopaths. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 5:37pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:Uh huh! But still on this topic. My argument is that he didn't know he was his reflection. So he found "someone else" worthy of his love. But let me leave it here. I'm a silent follower of your posts. But only when they are not about bashing and degrading of women (except it calls for it) |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja: I actually agree with her definition of a Narcissist. I also understand what you are driving at, but what you are driving at is not really a narcissist. At least as defined and expantiated by Wikipedia. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 5:44pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Okay. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:44pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:i appreciate the silent following.but rest easy the Cheaters&Losers thread will maybe be the last time i bash women. i really dont enjoy it. anyways the Miseducations will wind down within a few posts coz im sure i've covered almost all aspects of man/woman relationships. maybe 4 or 5 more posts and the syllabus ends.... as for this topic i understand.we just gona leave it at that for now. maybe another time we can get better understanding. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 5:50pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Gungnir:her definition boils down to insecurity and defines a woman MORE than it will ever define anything else. go read the legend skip the wikipedia explanations then tell me how YOU translate that story. coz we all have a brain and are qualified before God to use it and not depend on others |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by XhosaNostra(f): 5:57pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja: Who are you talking about here? What does correcting you from misleading people by feeding them the wrong information have to do with insecurity? Seems you're the one with issues here. What you described here is NOT Narcissism, as per the psychological term or diagnosis. Face it! IDK what it is but it sounds more like a condition called Asshole-itis. Keep believing in fairytales.
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 6:04pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:Thank God you don't enjoy the bashing. Good to hear that Ok...I will be waiting to see the remaining miseducations. Meanwhile, can I get the link to the cheaters/losers thread. Sounds intriguing |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 6:05pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:you found me believing them. no worries there. if im wrong make a counter post, no stress. noone is stopping you. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 6:08pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:it will piss you off. but just tap my name, go to my profile page and see all my topics.its top most |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 6:09pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:Lol...seeing is believing Modified: you were wrong. I'm not pissed. I'm grossed out & sickened! |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Sis, I think Nassisscus was a narcissist too. The plot probably focused on his self love and how it destroyed him, but a deep evaluation review his narcissistic traits , The ladies gave him the attention he needed. The proposals, praises etc stroke his ego which made him love himself more. If we were told about his background, we would have known more but then if you look deeper into his story you will realise he was a true definition of narcissism 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by XhosaNostra(f): 6:15pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Thank you. Very well put. You're correct. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:You are welcome. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 6:33pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:and how is this different from how any other avarege guy would react? how is this reaction so shocking it can be called a Personality Disorder? lol hilarious!!! |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 6:43pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Unbuja After reading your write up, i had to agree with this post. But i do get what you are saying in exact reference to the character. You using.the term narcissism is what seemed out of place. I skimmed through the post so i skipped the background info on the character itself. However, i still think the character or anyone like that character is sick or has some sort of disorder. Especially since its premised on its antagonism to the female folks. It seems too readily to point out that it is not concerned or influenced by the female folk or what they think of it. Somehow, i feel its actually being influenced by the female folk by not wanting to be seen as being influenced by the opinion of the female folk or concern by them without actually knowing or being in denial of the knowledge. An healthy individual won't seem to.concerned for the negative influences of the female folk, and acknowledge the positivity their influence or the influence of one can be upon its life. If shouldn't be so, defeats the idea of a healthy family to raise a healthy human psychologically be it male or female. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by XhosaNostra(f): 6:44pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja: The difference between normal behaviour & a sick one is that, it must have a negative impact or hinder how one relates with other people. In other words, be destructive or OTT. We're all narcissistic in some way, but real narcissists create havoc by dabbling in criminal behaviours to get what they want etc. They're known to use people & then discard them once they've gotten what they wanted from them. Discarding after use, is one of their signature moves. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 6:45pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
ubunja:Lol! Now it is crystal clear you don't understand your very own thread. Here I am pointing out to XhosaNostra what made Narsisus fit perfectly as a narcissist.And now you are making jest? Sigh! According to Wikipedia, A narcissist needs attention, he feeds on people stroking his ego, something you didn't point out in your write but I did. The attention ladies gave him was all he needed but here you are Mr Ubunja disagreeing to that. Lol. I don't even understand you anymore., 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 6:51pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
RuthDaniels:He didn't point it out cos according to him, narcissists don't need attention from anyone. Which was the mistake XhosaNostra was trying to correct in the first place. 2 Likes |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 6:55pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:then if we are all narcissistic in some way why make it a special personality disorder?? the fact that its usually a male issue and here you are as women struggling to understand it means you will still fail to deal with a real life narcissist coz you dont even know him.. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 7:01pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:if a Narcissist needs attention from anyone how does that make him different or any special from a needy Nice Guy who lives for women's approval? how will that make him different from a woman? isnt that what all women are like? yet we dont call them narcissists but insecure. but insecure is definitely NOT what a narcissist is. how does Narcissus rejecting all women as not worthy of his love make him insecure thats the most hard to get MoFo right there.... 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 7:01pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissJoy29:Oh! I see... Then it's safe to say I educated the educator . Lol. If only he will just accept that no one knows it all. Thanks for helping me to understand him |
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