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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by pocohantas(f): 8:42pm On Aug 24, 2018
Pataricatering:
but it’s not bad to have a slave submitting to the man sha ?

Babe, you suppose know I am all for mutual respect.
I even supported her in the first thread, though the way she said "guess whose knees didn't touch the ground?" was a red flag.

She should quit the social media rants.
If this arrangement is okay for her and her husband, they should keep it to themselves. The more she rants on SM, the more people feed her husband ideas. We know that would have negative impact on them. That said, she sounds like a rebel.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Boss13: 8:42pm On Aug 24, 2018
The success of her marriage will depend on the tolerance level and compromise from the husband.
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Sonamjs: 8:43pm On Aug 24, 2018
AryaSand:


I don't even have issues with the kneeling cause the man might love her so much and decide to overlook somethings but bragging about it on Social Media is Horrible and Unfair to that man. I don't even know him and I feel bad for him already how much more being related to him.

Exactly imagine his brothers, sisters, Aunts or even grand parents.
She really needs to stop as in the future someone might throw it in her face
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by pocohantas(f): 8:45pm On Aug 24, 2018
AryaSand:


I don't even have issues with the kneeling cause the man might love her so much and decide to overlook somethings but bragging about it on Social Media is Horrible and Unfair to that man. I don't even know him and I feel bad for him already how much more being related to him.

JuanDeDios, she echoed my thoughts. It is not about not kneeling, that doesn't emasculate the man, but her social media bragging is arrant nonsense. Like she is trying to prove a point.

Cc: LivingFree wink

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by mimicue(f): 8:49pm On Aug 24, 2018
She’s obviously a spoilt girl , I pity the man that married such a lady ..

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 8:53pm On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:
Honestly, this girl must be very troublesome and arrogant.
Daddy issues?

What next? She'll say she won't take up her husband's name.

Or she isn't going to move into his house, THEY BOUGHT A NEW HOME/HOUSE.

At first I thought she was a bit normal, but right now, I can only pity the young man that's her husband.

It is bad to have a wife [or spouse] who thinks she is in competition with you. It is even worse when you have a WIFE, who goes about running her mouth on cyberspace, telling the world that she makes the rules as she goes.

Chai! This girl will soon collect the guy's prick [which would be only thing left of his manhood] and keep in her fireproof box. O ma se o!

I honestly wasn't expecting this from you, babe grin

Daddy issues because she didn't kneel down for him? Collecting prick shocked
It's not that serious, many other cultures and people don't kneel or walk down Isles to get married, so what she did isn't out of the world. It's personal preference and it no way reflects the person or their worth.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by SAMBARRY: 8:57pm On Aug 24, 2018
See how all of them are spitting fire up and down grin

Enjoying the fury tongue
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by SAMBARRY: 9:00pm On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:


JuanDeDios, she echoed my thoughts. It is not about not kneeling, that doesn't emasculate the man, but her social media bragging is arrant nonsense. Like she is trying to prove a point.

Cc: LivingFree wink
but she said her husband and in-laws are cool with it so why are you angry on behalf of a groom that is not angry


I'm sure by now he must have spread her thighs wide and put his meat inside her something while you are here banging your keypads angrily. Broda calm down for Jesus o

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by SAMBARRY: 9:02pm On Aug 24, 2018
asawanathegreat:
If their family like am wetin con concern naija people inside this mata now? Abeg make una mind una business and allow them enjoy their marriage jor.
exactly
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by safarigirl(f): 9:09pm On Aug 24, 2018
LivingFree:


I honestly wasn't expecting this from you, babe grin

Daddy issues because she didn't kneel down for him? Collecting prick shocked
It's not that serious, many other cultures and people don't kneel or walk down Isles to get married, so what she did isn't out of the world. It's personal preference and it no way reflects the person or their worth.
she is not following many other cultures. There is a laid down culture. If she has issues with the culture that requires her to get on her knees, then she should not get married in that culture, she can opt for the many other cultures that don't require her to get on her knees


The fact that anyone can even refer to that sham she had as a traditional wedding is beyond me. Wedding that held in Canada. This girl is just one of those diaspora Nigerians that know nothing but what their parents told them of culture, that is why she can run her mouth on Twitter like a brat

The only thing traditional about her wedding was the asoebi she wore, every other thing was an aberration.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Dfinex(f): 9:12pm On Aug 24, 2018
Shukazu:


ENDURANCE won't do

the man needs "long-suffering"

Lol...
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by safarigirl(f): 9:12pm On Aug 24, 2018
SAMBARRY:
but she said her husband and in-laws are cool with it so why are you angry on behalf of a groom that is not angry


I'm sure by now he must have spread her thighs wide and put his meat inside her something while you are here banging your keypads angrily. Broda calm down for Jesus o
she did not need to come and announce anything on Twitter

That is the issue most have with it, it is not so much what she and her husband agreed to, but the fact that she is using her husband's obvious understanding nature to score brownie points with a bunch of bitter, man-hating feminists. If she is so much aga8nst such things, she shouldn't have bothered getting married

Anyway, after all her brag, she go still kneel down suck the man cassava and the feminists will think they have a member.......she is a waste of feminism

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by tintingz(m): 9:13pm On Aug 24, 2018
Lol, why are people condemning the lady just because she didn't kneel down? Does kneeling down change the economy or bring food to the table?

Nigeria my country. grin

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:
[s]Honestly, this girl must be very troublesome and arrogant.
Daddy issues?

What next? She'll say she won't take up her husband's name.

Or she isn't going to move into his house, THEY BOUGHT A NEW HOME/HOUSE.

At first I thought she was a bit normal, but right now, I can only pity the young man that's her husband.

It is bad to have a wife [or spouse] who thinks she is in competition with you. It is even worse when you have a WIFE, who goes about running her mouth on cyberspace, telling the world that she makes the rules as she goes.

Chai! This girl will soon collect the guy's prick [which would be only thing left of his manhood] and keep in her fireproof box. O ma se o![/s]


....Stockholm syndrome.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by tintingz(m): 9:16pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
she did not need to come and announce anything on Twitter

That is the issue most have with it, it is not so much what she and her husband agreed to, but the fact that she is using her husband's obvious understanding nature to score brownie points with a bunch of bitter, man-hating feminists. If she is so much aga8nst such things, she shouldn't have bothered getting married

Anyway, after all her brag, she go still kneel down suck the man cassava and the feminists will think they have a member.......she is a waste of feminism
@bolded, Why can't she announce it on social media, is there any law against it, are you the one to tell her what to post on social media?

The rest of your post are irrelevant.

You ignore freedom of speech/expression.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 24, 2018
When ever the issue of "feminism" is brought up, the men will always want to beat themselves up. It's always the perfect time for them to bring up the Bible passage that says that wives should be "submissive" to their husbands but neglecting the part that says "husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church".These same men will form "amnesia patients" when it comes to God's commandment that specifically says "thou shall not commit adultery".It's always the perfect time for them to raise their silly placards shouting "men are polygamous in nature,it's a man's word and blah blah"....mad people everywhere

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
[s]she did not need to come and announce anything on Twitter

That is the issue most have with it, it is not so much what she and her husband agreed to, but the fact that she is using her husband's obvious understanding nature to score brownie points with a bunch of bitter, man-hating feminists. If she is so much aga8nst such things, she shouldn't have bothered getting married

Anyway, after all her brag, she go still kneel down suck the man cassava and the feminists will think they have a member.......she is a waste of feminism[/s]
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 24, 2018
In a bid to impress nairaland sex starved males -some females are making a mockery of womanhood on this thread by ridiculing a fellow woman because of the cause she stands for.

It's obvious that many ladies who commented on this thread are suffering from "Stockholm syndrome" .

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by safarigirl(f): 9:22pm On Aug 24, 2018
tintingz:
@bolded, Why can't she announce it on social media, is there any law against it, are you the one to tell her what to post on social media?

The rest of your post are irrelevant.

You ignore freedom of speech.
i know that comprehension is a problem in Nigeria.

I said, she did not NEED. Her announcement of her denigration of a longstanding tradition was NEEDLESS because whether people slate her or not, it would have added nothing really.

However, she has amassed for herself more cursing than praising. She has made a mockery of herself and her husband and her marriage as a whole and I k ow some of you will try to tell us that none of that matters in the world of feminists, but she has also made a mockery of feminism because feminism is not about who is kneeling down or who isn't in a marrigae

If a man lowered himself on one knee to ask your hand in marriage, where is the insult to your person if you lower yourself as part of marriage rites? Is it not a knee for a knee? Why are you people turning feminism to a fight against the same men that have played vital roles in feminism?

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:24pm On Aug 24, 2018
Nairaland will not kill me.

Everyone has a right to choose what works for them al lot of judgmental people on this forum.
If the husband and wife are not complaining who are outsiders to think that they have an opinion in their lives?

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:26pm On Aug 24, 2018
LivingFree:


I honestly wasn't expecting this from you, babe grin

Daddy issues because she didn't kneel down for him? Collecting prick shocked
It's not that serious, many other cultures and people don't kneel or walk down Isles to get married, so what she did isn't out of the world. It's personal preference and it no way reflects the person or their worth.


Don't be surprised . Most females on nairaland can be ridiculous at times.

Whether she posts it on twitter or not, whether she kneels or not is not a reason to say all these nonsense to her.


May God bless you.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 24, 2018
enemyofprogress:
Oduduwa must banish the two of them from our land

Fishing for likes, are we? wink
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by OBAGADAFFI: 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2018
She shouldn't have Traditional marriage at all.

How many Indians, Japanese and Koreans do you see talking down on their cultures because of marriage.

She should go for White wedding to save herself this stress.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:


Babe, you suppose know I am all for mutual respect.
I even supported her in the first thread, though the way she said "guess whose knees didn't touch the ground?" was a red flag.

She should quit the social media rants.
If this arrangement is okay for her and her husband, they should keep it to themselves. The more she rants on SM, the more people feed her husband ideas. We know that would have negative impact on them. That said, she sounds like a rebel.

She does not only sound like a rebel, she is one and what rebels do is to provoke. There is no better place to do so than on social media. You people can rant as much as you want after the ranting but she got what she wanted all the way. wink

This is how people become presidents these days. grin

@bold

That's the line that caught my interest in the first place. cheesy Everything else was but moderately entertaining. wink

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:31pm On Aug 24, 2018
SAMBARRY:
but she said her husband and in-laws are cool with it so why are you angry on behalf of a groom that is not angry


I'm sure by now he must have spread her thighs wide and put his meat inside her something while you are here banging your keypads angrily. Broda calm down for Jesus o

Don't waste your time on these people.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by pocohantas(f): 9:34pm On Aug 24, 2018
Mindfulness:


She does not only sound like a rebel, she is one and what rebels do is to provoke. There is no better place to do so than on social media. You people can rant as much as you want after the ranting but she got what she wanted all the way. wink This is how people become presidents these days. grin


LOL! I should have known. I expect more from her though, looks like she isn't done with us... cheesy

@bold

That's the line that caught my interest in the first place. Everything else was but moderately entertaining.

Yea, that line struck me too. It isn't always about what you say, but how you say it. Anyway, I should have minded my business.
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:38pm On Aug 24, 2018
pocohantas:


LOL! I should have known. I expect more from her though, looks like she isn't done with us... cheesy

Don't expect and you won't be disappointed. But yeah, I kinda hope she isn't. Cheers!
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Lionofdjungle: 9:39pm On Aug 24, 2018
I know this lady will prefer women on top position in bed grin The only thing that can make me like this feminist lady is if she volunteers to be the bread winner and at the same time, impregnate herself. Nonsense! embarassed

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by tintingz(m): 9:41pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
i know that comprehension is a problem in Nigeria.

I said, she did not NEED. Her announcement of her denigration of a longstanding tradition was NEEDLESS because whether people slate her or not, it would have added nothing really.

However, she has amassed for herself more cursing than praising. She has made a mockery of herself and her husband and her marriage as a whole and I k ow some of you will try to tell us that none of that matters in the world of feminists, but she has also made a mockery of feminism because feminism is not about who is kneeling down or who isn't in a marrigae

If a man lowered himself on one knee to ask your hand in marriage, where is the insult to your person if you lower yourself as part of marriage rites? Is it not a knee for a knee? Why are you people turning feminism to a fight against the same men that have played vital roles in feminism?
All these are irrelevant, it's more like you're pulling strawman.

There's already a consensual agreement between her and the family, she has every right to announce whatever she wants, does feminism have rules and regulations? Is it an organized group? I'm not a feminist, but I'm a Secular-libral person, even if there is no consensus between her and the family, she still has the right to announce it. I can come out on social media and said bride price is meaningless and I'm not practicing it, do I need any approval from anyone? Whatever happens between me and my family is my problem not anyone else.

it's not under criminal offense.

criticism is allowed but insisting she has no need to announce it is irrelevant

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by nazablossom(f): 9:44pm On Aug 24, 2018
The last time I checked, marriage is not by force. She can as well stay single.

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Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Ericsdm55(m): 9:49pm On Aug 24, 2018
Na wetin wey no go hia from this crazy world sef.
Re: "My Mom Walked Me Down The Aisle" - Lady Who Avoided Kneeling At Her Wedding by Nobody: 9:51pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
i know that comprehension is a problem in Nigeria.

I said, she did not NEED. Her announcement of her denigration of a longstanding tradition was NEEDLESS because whether people slate her or not, it would have added nothing really.

However, she has amassed for herself more cursing than praising. She has made a mockery of herself and her husband and her marriage as a whole and I k ow some of you will try to tell us that none of that matters in the world of feminists, but she has also made a mockery of feminism because feminism is not about who is kneeling down or who isn't in a marrigae

If a man lowered himself on one knee to ask your hand in marriage, where is the insult to your person if you lower yourself as part of marriage rites? Is it not a knee for a knee? Why are you people turning feminism to a fight against the same men that have played vital roles in feminism?



You know what darling, it is not about the feedback from others, though praise feels better than criticism, it is about you and you at the end of EVERY day. She is true to herself against all possible odds and does what she feels she wants to do, many people do what others tell them to.

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