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Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nobody: 8:29pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Hanseel1:I don't understand |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nobody: 8:36pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
ThatIjawBoy: It is hard to understand my questions when 'one' is rooted in the toxic sobriquet of dominance. —Hanseel |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nobody: 8:44pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Hanseel1:I still don't get you, where was I being dominant? |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by backnbeta(f): 9:02pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
ThatIjawBoy:You are right though...they may need to go outside the main building to do their business |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 10:51pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Why do I think this thread is fake? |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by KadunaMafia: 12:03am On Aug 29, 2018 |
post=70672880:which memoried Continue lying 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by cococandy(f): 2:40am On Aug 29, 2018 |
You should not get married to someone you can’t send on an errand. There’s no “man of the house” when it comes to doing what your wife wants. You have to do it. unless it’s an unreasonable errand. Like some people make up stories about waking up at 2 am when they are pregnant and they send their husbands to go from Lagos to Abuja to buy them something they are craving. Those are stories obviously. But a good husband has to be ready to get sent to buy stuff, pick up stuff, clean the house etc. all the miscellaneous stuff that makes the home go round. And before y’all get on my case, I also get sent on errands by him and I do it wholeheartedly. With much joy and happiness. It takes two. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Elnino4ladies: 5:31am On Aug 29, 2018 |
I hate errands.... |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 5:36am On Aug 29, 2018 |
AutoC: When i found out about this research, i stopped helping out in the kitchen ooo. She complain tire, i no mind am. After all, i mow the lawn, fix broken things,paint the baby's room, assemble baby toys and other manly tasks... But i still dey buy baby milk at Kroger on my way from work at night. 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 10:00am On Aug 29, 2018 |
otipoju: And do you have more sex? |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 3:54pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
bukatyne: Why not? ...from the word go. I made it clear that both men and women love sex to similar degree and it should never be used as a weapon of control. ...if you dont give me once or twice, is okay if you are not in tbe mood or going through mood swings... but if you deliberately withold as a form of punishment or reward....i will go out and take care of myself and i wont hide it from you. 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 3:57pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
otipoju: My question is 'do you guys have more sex since you stopped helping in the kitchen and she complains bitterly about it?' 2 Likes |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 4:00pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
bukatyne: Our sex lives remains the same. And she has stopped complaining and accepted her fate...and of course i occassionaly do the dishes...if she is not at home. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 4:05pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
otipoju: I see. So the stoppage added no value contrary to the study's position. Anyways, you just proved the theory that men change after marriage true for her. Oga, look for what works for you and wife (not only in the kitchen) and stick to it. What is obtainable where a study is done does not necessarily hold true elsewhere. 5 Likes |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by AutoC: 6:16am On Aug 30, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Nothing is wrong with me bobo, let’s stop copying everything western. Be the man of your house, provide, protect and stop doing like chicken and pussy men. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 10:41am On Aug 30, 2018 |
bukatyne: Madame. I have heard you. Marriage is very very different from" boyfriend and girlfriend". I have not complained to you or anyone but i will always make adapt new knowledge in a way that enhances my marriage. The research says when a male begins to share too much traditional female domestic chores with the female, she begins to see him less as manly even though she appreciates the help. I have adapted this info after seeing signs of this trend myself and stuck to masculine chores. If i am going to help out, definitely not when she is there to see me fo it. ....what is your ish with that? |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 11:46am On Aug 30, 2018 |
otipoju: My ish ke? Let's move on. Your marriage, your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by cococandy(f): 1:17pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
The research is wrong BTW but I know you want to believe it because it suits what you already have in mind. If I’m less tired because I’m getting help from my husband, the more likely I am to want to have sex with him. But believe what you want even though you can’t see evidence of it working in your marriage otipoju: |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 8:34pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
cococandy: I help with feeding the baby. Changing diapers, taking her to daycare. I do dishes when she is not around, i mow the kawn every two weeks, take out trash , do my own laundry, drive us to church. So its not that i dont help out at all with chores.That will be inhumane. But cooking food in the house is not and can not be my responsibility and i am not interested in helping with that. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 8:34pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
bukatyne: Thank you Sis. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by bukatyne(f): 9:05pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
otipoju: You are welcome |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nobody: 10:13pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
cococandy: I get angry when you guys call it “help” ,which help? How is he helping you because he's doing house chores and also cook? Cooking is the responsibility of both partners. 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nobody: 10:15pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
otipoju: Because you won't eat the food abi? if you weren't married who'd have been cooking for you? You don't sound like a married individual at all. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by otipoju(m): 11:13pm On Aug 30, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Yes i am not married. I have just been dreaming for 3 years now. On a more serious note. Not everyone is crazy about food. I am the kind of guy that does not think about food until around 4pm in the afternoon. I dont know how to cook well, have no love for cooking at all. However my wife is a wonderful cook and she loves to see me speak in tounges,pray and complement her food and say a big thank you to her in the other room in appreciation. I have never complained about her cooking and if i come home and find nothing to eat. I go downstairs, find something in the fridge to chew on or just drink garri and go and do something else. 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by cococandy(f): 5:10am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Okay otipoju: |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by cococandy(f): 5:11am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Anything you do to make the family life easier even if it’s traditionally your primary responsibility, is still a form of help. That’s where I’m coming from Hanseel1: 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Nostradamus: 11:14am On Nov 17, 2018 |
AutoC:typical nigerian.always judging others with their short-sightedness,who tell you say those guys up there are "chicken men"?they might even be richer and manly than you.na your type believe every moniker you see on nairaland is lesser and inferior to you.i'd do such for my 'yellow-pawpaw' wife when i finally settle down(after i don retire from this player lifestyle).but i doubt those guys up there are real,i feel they are just lying.i don't trust my fellow naija men to be so romantic,the only true naija guy i know that can actually do all the above is my very humble sef. |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by Ishilove: 7:55pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
backnbeta:Don't mind them. Twitter lies 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by DonTim1: 6:46am On Nov 18, 2018 |
Just now, we both lying on the bed Her:honey, places hand on me Me : hun hun Her : please turn on the fan Me : Did she know what I was reading about? Stands up, turns fan on Her : thank you There you go, no biggie, we are for each other, nothing special to think of. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by frozen70(f): 10:28pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
hopeforcharles: Thanks for the acknowledgement dear Only few understands women and those that understand their complex nature are having peace of mind with them But those that don't want to understand and are feeling cocky are the one's they are dealing with 1 Like |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by frozen70(f): 10:29pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
1stNumeroUno: Exactly |
Re: Married Nigerian Men Share How Their Wives Send Them "Message Like House Boy" by frozen70(f): 10:31pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Kharol1234: We get angry because our work load is affecting our emotions |
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