As a woman that just got married to a man who is the bread winner of his family-extended family and he wants to bring in one of his siblings to live with you all in the house. Who would you prefer, sister or brother-in-law

i wouldnt really prefer any of them but just to answer the question, i'll go for brother-in-law, women cost to much trouble

Brother-in-law Rhod? and u tryna make me understand tis becos da gurlz make too much trouble? c'mon sell some other stuff. That one cant be sold

when a lady from your husbands family comes into your house, she normally gets jealous and stuffs like that and i certainly can't take any nonsense from my fellow lady because she certainly musnt expect me to be doin all the stuffs whiles she strecthes her lazy bones i would certainly go for the male because if he doesnt do any work, no probs afterall men hardly do anything concerning house chores

@rhodalyn assuming the brother-inlaw is more handsome
than your hubby and also is matured will still go for the guy
than the lady, u no what cud happen

no other thing in trousers can make me cheat on the man i've vowed to love for the rest of my life

thats the good spirit i feel u girl

Please non of them I don't need a spy in my house.
A man that would pee allover my toilet sit.
Or a woman that . Hm I think i will be able to handle a woman better.

hmmm i would go for the brother-in law

Rhodalyn:

no other thing in trousers can make me cheat on the man i've vowed to love for the rest of my life

Either one, it wouldn't bother me at all.

In the yoruba culture it is not advisable, because relatives of your husband expect you to treat them with the same (excessive) level respect that the husbands get. If one of them is living with you, it will be simply unbearable. Never ever make that mistake if you are married to a Yoruba man who still follows Yoruba culture.

None of them! No inlaws or outlaws.

chy:

thats the good spirit i feel u girl

na wahhhh@babymine, I feel u gurl with da no inlaws or outlawz cuz they alwayz gonna come up with " this is my brother's house and they won't go and get married", it depends sha, some are alwayz nice but still dunno sha, probably the girl

The truth is dat you can't really predict your brother or sister inlaws till u live with them. N God help you if they are the wicked type.

wicked type? what of if the are a bad influence on your kids or don't seem to reason rationally?

babymine:

None of them! No inlaws or outlaws.

I echo babymine!!None of them! No inlaws or outlaws.
sis or bro? mine or his.
Vist yes
live-in NO way!!

Choose the most respectful one! Both men & women are capable of disrespect so chose the one w/ manners.

i'll choose none, we'll render assistance to them without them living with us.
its better to be safe than sorry

well i have only one question, how many of them did i say that i promise to live with you till death do us part, if none then get lost, i love my wife even i have a problem sharing her with our daugther you come dey talk of my brother or her sister, i beg, i was not there all the years that they had her to themselves so now that i have her am not sharing. to come for hoils fine anything after that no, not even my mum,

@4real
Word up, thats a 4real word

dats 4real

All of u girls just hav2b carefull.Na so e dey start o.Ehen! Pride. If the husband wants it,den let it.Just free ur mind.Been friendly is the best.

@4real
You made me smile and reconsider my opinoin/statement. A rare feat. You're a man of the real world, but remember, you are a man. The world is different for a woman. She is more likely to (have to) go along and make the best of it, rather than protest and invite scorn. But I liked your words. Now, how old is your pikin?

the truth of the matter is that for a woman to be comfortable in the man's house, she must learn to tolerate brothers-in-law and sisters in-law; that way peace wld take its course. As for me o, l can live with any of them; even invite them when they seem to be afar; establish a peaceful atmosphere in a way that they cant do without me.

tolerant is like doing the tango
you both have to want, then exersice it.
what if the person is not in for your game?

diyobdw:

tolerant is like doing the tango
you both have to want, then exersice it.
what if the person is not in for your game?

u are right

i prefer brother-in-law, siter in-law wat a headache

chinani:

@4real
You made me smile and reconsider my opinoin/statement. A rare feat. You're a man of the real world, but remember, you are a man. The world is different for a woman. She is more likely to (have to) go along and make the best of it, rather than protest and invite scorn. But I liked your words. Now, how old is your pikin?

well am happy that i could change one persons mind, well my kid is 8 and well i think that you and your partner would both have to agree and stand for each other on the issue

Are they coming to live as house-helps or wut?

Grizzly:

Are they coming to live as house-helps or wut?

House help? That way, you'd swap dirty floors for wahala ooooooooo!

ah ah aha ahaha ahahahah ah

If they come, it's going be just for a short term visit.