Yes

Many would say yes with their reasons but remember marriage is like a battle you don't fight alone. Families (mother father etc) matters alot
I know a friend who ignored his family wish not to marry A certain lady, now the lady (his wife) and her family is battling him. My nigga dies in pain cos he couldn't involve his family cos they fore warned him not to marry the wife

enemyofprogress:
No I can't, becurse my parents burned me and I can't go against the witches

You have got to be kidneying me

enemyofprogress:
No I can't, becurse my parents burned me and I can't go against the witches

Interesting (

since I know my parent love for me is undiluted, and they are aware they can't marry me either. surely what they wished for me is the very best, so I will listen to them provided their verdict did not exceed and contradict
the limit God has granted to them.

I can do anything I want against my parent's wish

For parents to be against one's marriage, there must be some things which they have seen and because "love is blind" you can't see them

When such cases comes up, have a pep talk with them to a certain why they are objecting to it

But if the intending couples go ahead, once there are any problems in that marriage, they will accuse the parents that stood against it

It's better to go into marriage with their blessings than going ahead without their permission

They gave birth to you and they knows alot

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Definition of terms: Married, against, parents, wish?

it only matters to those who has parents, let me come and be going

I am in China
my answer is yes, I can get married against my parent's wish

Yes of course, you can go against your parent's decision but do not come calling when the marriage crashes. Africans tend to hurriedly borrow craps from European and will not follow through.

As a woman, I cannot get married against my parents' wish.
If I were a man, Yes. I can

spiceadole:
As a woman, I cannot get married against my parents' wish.
If I were a man, Yes. I can

My dear even as a man it is not safe.
After God na ones parents.
One must need there blessings!!

Duru1:
Yes of course, you can go against your parent's decision but do not come calling when the marriage crashes. Africans tend to hurriedly borrow craps from European and will not follow through.

You dey mind them.
Why is there so much divorce issues today?
Many just follow there wish and small the thing crashes

haba.....
yes I will do it a million times

Why should a parent interfere in the marital choice of their child?

That's trespassing.

Just give ur advice if you have reservations.

They should bear any consequences of indiscretion on their part alone.

enemyofprogress:
No I can't, becurse my parents burned me and I can't go against their witches

correct,ur head dey thr.

Actually faced with such issue..the girls parent want her to marry from her tribe..she keeps giving m hope..but I don't think she wud go against her parent wish..its just confusing sometimes

djon78:


You dey mind them.
Why is there so much divorce issues today?
Many just follow there wish and small the thing crashes

My friend rejected my friend wife to be and help him to get another girl from a good family, the married ended at 8 months.

enemyofprogress:
No I can't, becurse my parents burned me and I can't go against their witches

Yeah, since they burned u, na ashes u 4b by nw. kikikikh

Don't marry until you secure the consent of your parents .Who will collect your bride price if you don't secure their consent ?

Our parent know more than us
Talk sensible than us
Think different than us
See than us.
But they can't predict tomorrow they can only analyse bad ones among many ones.
Decision is ours to make because we are the one to choose Life Partner Not Them...

donbachi:
sorry,there is no experience in marriage.as you keep your bed,so you lye on it.

There is experience in marriage bro.

Yes of course.

If you must oppose my marriage or spouse, then you must give me genuine reasons. I do not have any issue taking advices but African parents don't know where to draw the line.
Most parents want to decide for their kids out of Selfish interest

Here in Africa, we uphold our parents opinion more than ours ; making us stooges, it's not so in the west. At 18, people are adults, they make decision for themselves, yet their country is doing well.

Another set of people we shelve our opinion for theirs is our religious leaders. we've been made to believe that if our parents and pastor don't approve a thing, then it shouldn't be done. LIES !!! If mark zukerberg, Tiger Woods, Larry page, Paul Allen, Bill Gates were born of African parents, they won't be where they are today. Their parents would have chosen something else for them. Too much sentiments in Africa in the name of respect

Parents have blessed marriages than still hit the rock or the couples living in bitterness.

African youths, Heaven won't fall on us if we make our choices

donbachi:
sure i do.like i just did.marry ur choice not parents choice.

I like your straight-to-the-point responses to that guy.

What would you say is the recipe for peaceful yet effective leadership as a Man in marriage?

You answer for the GODS too

WinningEleven:
Question for the gods

@sircrabo....

Well said!

Omoluabi9:
I like your straight-to-the-point responses to that guy.

What would you say is the recipe for peaceful yet effective leadership as a Man in marriage?

comminicate well with her,play your financial role to the best of ur knowlege,don't kill trust,be sincere,shout when necessary but with love,put ur family first,see ur marriage as a reality show,cook if u can atimes and always give listening ears...it helps.nobody is a superhuman.

Life is lived forward and understood backwards.

Parents will soon leave this world to their internal home... Then you will be left with your fate! Marry who you think is right for you... Remember marriage is for forever!